₦airaland Forum

hilltop007:
My final year project supervisor called me to summarize my research work of 2 years for publication. He sent me a copy of one of his ex-student work that he published. It was only his ex student who did the work with guidance from my supervisor, but the published paper has two authors; my supervisor (main author) and his ex student. Only my supervisor's contact was also in the paper.

I strongly believe that's what he will also do with mine. Should I give him the go ahead? If I don't publish it, it will probably rot. Or is there a way for me to publish it myself?

This a side hustle for most lecturers in the federal institutions..

They usual publish the work on international journals to earn in foreign currency.

It is a normal....in my case I did a hard and soft copy for him...

mariahAngel:
Tukwasa ya dehydration. Hehehehehehehehrhehe

Ike gwuru o..

O nwere my relative na ebu kari fasting n'isi...O nwere church ya..Mgbe o wula followers ya na akpo ya mummy ha...Gi ihu ya, ya atagara gba cha uka n'anya...

Nwaanyi for that matter o...Kwesiri i di uto n'anya.

mariahAngel:
Mbanu na.
As at then, I didn't even understand why she was that way. It was later she told me...and she has repeated that same story about a million times.



On point.



It was more for herself than for you. K'obi lo ya.




After the first, the "special feeling" fades. Ya e shie ha.


I wakwaranu anya!
I bidobehu ebido, gi ga paliri nwaanyi.

Hehehehe that repeat eeh.. ndi otu mpa m..

One story you will hear it 100times.

True.

Lol, at first ujo ji kwa m o, based on if this man pay me surprise visit, I go enter hostel be that..Because that was the condition given before I was allowed to stay alone off-campus.

Ha si m nzuzu o, ha chuba m school hostel.

And mpa m ma Anambra ofuma..So but after first semester ahu ga hu m ihu at all..

Na only holidays I dey return home.

M lowa, mma m ga eshi ju ebe o wula na nri.. Ď

mariahAngel:
You're asking?

By aguru na..

Onye aguru ji aka, na ahu kari double double..

MufasaLion:
It's not about feminism. Some things are choice. Are you saying it's a must a lady should marry or have children?

In our age modernisation and western influence eating deeper, anything is possible..But the worst decision is the one that brings regret and had I know at last...

In all, I think something deeper must have caused one to have some uncommon mindset.

MufasaLion:
Lol

Keep your fingers crossed. You'd be amazed to know there are some Nigerian ladies that ain't interested in marriage. Some ain't even interested in having children.

Smh...

In your rightfully thinking mind Will you love to be with a lady with such mindset? Be honest

Not interested in marriage, not interested in having kids...they should turn to reverend sisters in the Catholic convent na..So we can see road clearly for good feminine ladies..

Iyaebe:
So funny, cele na church?

He is the CEO of celestial church.

Just like pastor chris is to christ embassy.

As you believed in Christ embassy..

So also do cele members believe in cele.

Come to equity with clean hands...

mariahAngel:
Delusions as a result of too much fasting.

Lmaoo..

So fasting messes one's psychology?

Iyaebe:
I don't snap nude pictures, what for? It's like you have a sextape from the way you are sounding

It is rare to blackmail a man with sex tape..Especially an African man except if he is married and the act was done when he is married...If na single guy, the blackmail will make him a bigger guy sef..

Sex tape hits hard on women, and funny enough, women are the ones that record sef especially those snapchat freaks.

Iyaebe:
I can never be caught with number 1. The way I see myself I know I can never succumb to blackmail and whoever that tries such with me will eventually regret it especially if I go silent and mute over it

So you don't have your nudes in your gallery?

I know during uni day some ladies, it is rare to go though their cell phone without them snapping semi-nude or almost nude pics of themselves..

For the fun of it and not necessarily for business..

As for sex tape those that recorded themselves did for fun, until it entered wrong hands..


Blackmail can come in different forms.

Iyaebe:
He's an exception

Double standard abii...continue..

mariahAngel:
Na so!
Ha gaa a gwa unu a gwa, unu o ga a mata?
I’m just telling you from a female perspective, ka I buru ya n’obi. Maka adi ama-ama.



E chetala’m mgbe nwanne’m nke ishi bara school.
My mum saw him off to the bus park, stood there till they loaded, and the bus was out of sight.
Gi hu ya eshi ahu ehn, chai! Ya dichaa weak.
She just came home and went straight to bed. Ebere m mere ya eshi ahu.



Ngwanu.

Oooh!!!..

Hehehehe gi na ele ya gi na-achi nu that day abii?
Mothers feel a deeper connection with their sons...especially ndi first and last.

Mgbe gawara awka for school, mine was moody for a long time..Even to office gwuru ya ike...Mgbe ufodu o ji akpo from office

Throughout 1st semester no day passes without her calling..

Oru mpa m wu i sendiri m airtime..Bia kwanu mu ewere ya na-akpo mma m na enyi m nwaanyi

Nani matric m ka both of them biara..

Onwehu any of my siblings ha gara matric ya..

Mpa m bia ya si o ga na a pay mu surprise visit, if I like make i carry woman , na o ga egide m...lmao..
I fear for year1 o...but year2 anya emeheee..

Iyaebe:
Are these men truly men of God?They are so materialistic,flashy and wealth conscious.I wonder if this is what Christ lived for.Humans should reach out to God directly and not through any medium(men of God) because there's no barrier between God and anyone and He needs no medium to seek him.Be wise.

Even pastor Chris...

MufasaLion:
I wouldn't say Baby Mama because they are known to end up as single moms unlike a partner that's gonna be with you (most times forever), just that you both ain't legally married. Even Oprah Winfrey ain't married but she's got a partner since 1986 and they are still together.

Partner is even recognised in law.

You know you shouldn't be in Nigeria with this mindset?

Just start the partner first, and watch her register with CWO meeting the moment she drops your offspring...Then, u will ask her to call her people and inquire about dowry...Even your mom go support her to your surprise...

Toks2008:
You are very right. Thanks for the correction... Well noted.

Sometimes we think deeper, before we talk.

You didn't factor in differences in upbringing, cultural,religious views And side stepping of burdens when you said that.

Marriage is a different case from normal bf-gf knacking.

Who will gladly pick a naija used car over a direct tokunbo?

It is a choice of going with lesser burden.

That is what you will see in a single mom vs cool headed babe.

But then, character is the spice.

MufasaLion:
I can have a partner without being married to her.

Baby mama?

Most married men today hard the same opinion sha...but when water pass garri, they are walking down the aisle.

MufasaLion:


It's still a risk irrespective of whatever.

So u prefer single till death?

mariahAngel:
Of course, she will. Mana mgbe ufodu, ndi umu nwoke luhaala nwaanyi ohuru, they get carried away.
Remember that mothers also love attention from their children. Not just their husbands.
Gi choo ka obi añuri na a kpa ha mgbe owula, that short call will go a long way.





O ditu mma otu ahu sha.


My mum would say Buhari e bughariala Naijiria.



Werekwa ya nwayo. Owudikwa nani gi nwe onwe gi.


Ndidi.

Hahaha...okwaya?

Mana o wu hu nwoke n'ile o..

Yes the call does a lot...In my 100level...My call logs everyday wu, My gf then, na mma m...Mpa m wu twice in a month..

At a time if my phone rings mgbe ahu , my friends will say my mom ma owu my babe name... ike gwuru o.

E ji m ya nwaayo o...Private time wunu oge m ji a piko uche business and solutions, plus cool time with wify na...

O di ka mgbe m gara getaway na..

MufasaLion:
I do see people that gets married as a very high risk takers.

It is not, when you are with the right person, everyday seems to be a vacation.

If this story is true, OP is with the wrong person..And thats y you see things like this on news..

If she was honest, things like this won't come up.

If I never see a lady whose bride price was paid on Saturday, and she still dey go dey bleep school bf on monday..Like babe finish me and enjoy everything as someone else has paid for wholesale.., I for no belief somethings i read..E dey happen..

As for my future wife, we go dey hold body even before, and after wedding ceremony..
If choose and love up, I don love up...I no dey like rough play..

A babe is not my girl friend if we are not romantically in love...Abeg na mental and physical connection i subscribed to...I no kill person.

mediclife1987:
The ashawo I carry yesterday just piss for bed.

Come see as pesin dey swim for inside piss this morning.

Shayo naa bastard I swear.

She suck my prick outside for 2am come dey jump on top am. Na so me sef stand from chair, bend her down wellwell cone faya am wellwell from back.

Lmao.. Ashawo faya faya...

Keep fayaring you will soon create your own thread..

MufasaLion:
That marriage thing is tricky and women are so deceitful more than men.

In everything you do with woman, keep it straight forward...so if mess up comes, you can tackle it without sentiments and mercy.

If OP is straightforward, any action he takes, won't affect his conscience.

MufasaLion:
If that man should forgive her it means he's really forgiving. I don't forgive.

Exactly...Marriage built on lies and seriously deceit won't last.

He can never trust the woman..Worst thing that can happen to couples, lack of trust at this early stage.

I rather she is open from day1... no need telling lies that will be open later.

Smartb0y:
Hahaha women!!!
@op,she gave you gonorrhea as your wedding gift

This is hilarious...

Una dey talk here o

Chai Ronaldo in the mud...


Rebellion don start for that team...

This is not ordinary.

mariahAngel:
Mma gi nu.

I ma na she's used to you guys giving her attention, so o ndi nwunye nwa who wouldn't feel threatened by that ga amashi ya.

Lol..She will definitely respect the boundaries...


Wife is different from mma...They two have their special places in the heart of everyman.


E ji m a tasuru ya ma ya mee m ihe ndi mma na..
Maka na i bido n'oge control wa ya, o ga eme m luo Nwaanyi o ga ahu awuru ha nsogbu..

Both my grannies never disturbed any of their kids..So she probably learnt from them.

Grand children a guwala ya sha on code...mana o ga chere godi ka buharia buaricha bufere....I have bigger plans to settle them down..tupu ma ebido nke m..So that onye owula ga noro onwe ya no disturbance.

E ji hu m privacy egwuriegwu...And wouldn't want small thing enye wa mu na nwunye m nsogbu..

I was with an elderly man this evening, ya wuru na ya na nwa ya nwaanyi na ekwu na phone..Guy man ji idea ana nwa ya ego..Ndi mpa na umu ha Nwaanyi wu eeh... I can't wait..Sha

Amanda4life:
A WIFE IS A HELPMATE THATS WHAT THE BIBLE SAID, BUT MOST MEN HAVE TURNED THEIR WIVES AS ENEMIES INDIRECTLY, BUT THE AFRICAN WIVE WILL keep COOL UNTIL, SOMETHING HAPPENS, THEN YOU WILL COME TO KNOW THAT AFRICA N WIFE GET SENSE.


MEN NO GET SENSE

Some men grew as boys to become men.

If you loose home training, na carry over for life.

Some of us who grew in the traditional family way, uphold the family virtues...And deep down knows that the wife is a helper for life...And is involved in things like this as a deputy head of house.

The problem is just like we have some men who didn't enjoy real family love nor grew up in a traditional family way, we equally have ladies who miss that aspect and essential part of life..so when the two jam in a union, it takes grace of God to keep them together...If not nothing will work.


Marriage is fun with a lady who uphold family virtues and is a go getter...Give her 100k she knows what to do to bring returns.

Give her 1m as babe hold this, she knows what to do to spin interest with it.

Men who married such women, even leave business coordinating in her hands to focus on bigger bags.

Na some women dey make their husbands relegate them to housewife/ house help...

babyfaceafrica:
why should churches be a family thing? Must family take over? It's a spiritual thing, not physical

It is a business that started as spiritual work.


Wealth acquired through that goes to man on top majorly and his aides.

No matter what, anything you are doing as married man, legit stuffs, carry your wife along...Incase of the unfortunate happens.

mariahAngel:
Ike gwuru.



Tough love.
O nwekwara obi o.
If you want to hurt mum, don’t eat.


Chotakwaranu ya nwunye ahu ya na ya ga ma o, if not ehn...



Ebu’m n’uche gi g’emezu.

Hehehehe onye ga aju nri ya ewute mma m wu di ya.

As for anyi nwa, o gbasara anyi..

O Lee onye I si anyi chotara nwunye?

Amen...

mariahAngel:
Ya nwehala akuko ehn, she won't rest until she has called, then after the whole long gist, she'll say akwa I kpofushiala credit m? Ngwa shitere nu'm credit.
If you listen nsogbu, if you don't nsogbu.







I wonder what it's like for her not having a daughter.
You guys probably made her talk too much.

Hehehe mothers ma nu otu eshi a task umu ha...ezigbote gi zitere ya credit..And na she call o..
Ndi mma nile wucha ofu o.

She is fine with it na...o wu nu natural stuff..lol
But she dey gist us if need be...Owu hu cha onye akuko like that...Mpa m wu her only friend aside us..
Anyi kpasuo ya iwe, ya saa ahu nnuo tea laba...si anyi onye owula choro ihe o ga eshiri rie...
Growing up was fun.
Mana ugbu a, anyi bia ya yowa ka anyi rie nri..
Especially last born..
Onye nkw ahu is living on his own sef..maka errands, ya gbafuo ga choro ulo biri..

But, during festive seasons he spoils her with fun and taking out for shopping ...bribe...lmao

It is fine with her..ya wuru m my dream is first m wuru nwaanyi, ya lekota ndi nwoke abuo ma owu ato..

Mana otu owula chukwu jiri choo..I will love it as well..

The worst thing you can do to yourself as a young lady is talking down on marriage because of what you see or read on social media or for cheap likes on Social media or even, saying just to feel among.

It will bite back when age set in...

Women benefit more in marriage anywhere in the world. They enjoy unconditional love from the husband, down to their children...Even if that of the hubby fades, the kids pick up from their and roll with it till the woman breathe her last air on earth.

All this comes with small sacrifice, you have to be loyal and submissive to hubby...And provide care for the general family.

Unfortunately our generation of young ladies are becoming something else.

A lady in her under 30s will comfortably say is a marriage a must.. Only to start getting worried in later stage..

However you see it, both genders need eachother..For everything.

We all have our sacrifices to make.

Dalil8:
Everything this man toiled for is going down the drain. So sad.

.

This is the Faith of most wealthy men who keep their wives behind while running affairs.

If anything happens, his aides will devour everything he laboured for.

A wife is their for a reason.. Till the kids grow up to takeover.