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Easylion3569:
My girlfriend last saw her menstration last month, its been 30 days and 4 day since she last saw it.. So i was wondering why, and i had to visit a chemist who gave me a pregnancy test tools called 'accuracy'..
he told me how to use it, and what the various line display means.
so i called my girl and told her to urinate small on a small cup, followed the instructions and two thick red line showed..
and the chemist said two line is positive..
i'm still schooling i don't kno what to do now.

everything i have worked for, how i have planned my future is now trying to fade away.
i cant even hold my tears

Lmao...

If you can feed and cohabit with her, if you can uncloth her and collect your Ifeoma.. Then you can take care of the baby in her...

So no shaking.

endsarrrs:
Buhari governance is better than Jonathan governance

Ashi gba kwa ihe ojor!!!...

bukatyne:
@bold:

I wish

The rate divorced people re-marry should tell you that it would be around for a looooong time.

It might just become a caricature of the real thing.

Hmmmm!!!

Hopefully, because the attack on marriage is becoming something else...Yet every Saturday people say I do.

Rahkman:
Boil ur hand for inside hot water make e soft

Lol...

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mariahAngel:
You even had to ask?
Between them, I don't know who loves Nigerian movies the most.

Hahahahahaa....things that makes them happy...

Freestainworld:
You are 21 eating the food meant for the people in 40s, you are ma abeg

Mafo

Truvelisback:
Yep, but not all.

Good...It can never be all.

mariahAngel:
My parents have always loved watching reality shows together.
Their favourite is the GUS though.

That's cute...

Yes they watch GuS too right from the earlier seasons sef when chidi mokeme was the instructor sef...

Do they watch nollywood movies as well? Maka nke a wu their main main african magic ha ejihu ya egwuriegwu at all..I like seeing them watch and analyse and compare to real life situations...

O nwere a type of lady you will like, mpa m ga asi eeh i shila m udi nwaanyi i ga alu nu...

Terrier99:
This guy will kill Maria o

Or the man...I pity them..


Priest way be strong NBM.

mariahAngel:
Does he watch the show?

On sundays just highlights...I influenced them to give it a try to help them unwind in the evening...This was in 2018 during double wahala...

It was difficult to..But las las they succumbed to the influence..so mgbe o wula o na ebido I will just sub them for the duration so the don't get to complain..


Mma m wu onye na follow ya well...last one favorite ya wu saskay na white...

Ihe angel ja afu ya zii...Maka otu o shi agba ara uto..

My parents wu ndi guy...and o wu influence anyi sha...O wuhu ndi mpa na mma wu umu ha na atu ujo even to sit in the sitting room with them..lol

Growing up all our friends used to come to our house every sunday to watch movie..ulo anyi ji awu cinema..

Around my secondary school days...

Truvelisback:
Did u just say millions of marriages that are doing well? lol. Why do we now have so many single mothers and single fathers?

Because of soo many factors bothering on deceit like the man who found out the sister had 4kids...If they had a kid together, he will still leave and automatically the sister becomes a single mom.

Another factor is lack of sacrifice...Marriage is a place you keep making sacrifice till it gets better..

It is a place of give and take...You love a lady, she gives you and your kids care...and manage the home in addition to little things she bring to table as support..If one partner brings cunny cunny acts e no go work.

A married friend came yesterday to make purchase for his wife's shop...In our conversation, he said he has used a huge percentage of his salary this month to load his wife shop...I laughed and asked him If the wife carries everything to another man house, he said no.. I asked him, why are you complaining he started laughing..I told him guy you are lucky you have an educated woman who has giving you 3kids and is eager to do small business to support you...some ladies will be inside watching telemundo and wait for when your salary will drop..


He said it's true and he thank God for his wife..lol

We play too much in this world sha.

mariahAngel:
Haahaahaahaahaahhaahhaahhaahhaa

Your dad is so cool!

Lol...si gi ogwara m ihe ahu eeh, ike agwu m...

He said it and moved on..

Mstchwwwww...pot and kettle fighting a wok...

Truvelisback:
Bro, i can relate. I know a man who was madly in love with a lady in my former church. This lady acted like an innocent virgin to this bro until after marriage that bro later found out this lady had already had four children in the village before coming to Lagos. Bro, had no choice but continued the marriage. Note: They did white wedding.

That was a union of a cool guy with a lady hiding major issues..it cannever work...Because one partner came to equity with dirty hands.

In that your former church, we still have married people living happily ever after na.

Truvelisback:
from observation.

What we see or read are the bad ones...


Millions of it marriages that are doing well don't make it to this place or news dailies...Because all is well..

You can't let few bad eggs in basket of eggs spoil the love and nutritional value of egg.

mariahAngel:
There's usually this strong negative vibe and competition among them. To outdo each other.
Like the one between Mercy and Tacha. And it spreads to their fans.
If you like/love one, you automatically dislike/hate the other.



OK.

The competition is a mindset thing that is already there prior to their entry into the house...You must come with it in addition to manipulations.

Well, the people's view of them is almost same as in nollywood of today...

Girls...akwula..

Guys...coded G-boys.

Just few make a decent partners in marriage.

Very few.

I remember during Ike and mercy time, m bia ma si ha nwere ike Ilu o...otu eshi, mpa m anu ya chiwa...Si m so ara gbawa ike ya para onye di ka mercy palatara ndi nwe ya na owu onye o ga-alu ka Nwaanyi ya..

You know okwu ndi mpa di omimi...

Truvelisback:
How did i poison people's mindset regarding marriage? I did not stop anyone from getting married. However, Let's face it. I'm only saying what Marriages in our time looks like. Many marriages in our time is like hell fire.

How did you come about this your claim?

Sonnobax15:

DSPZ, that's the school I actually attended......I studied civil engineering technology,and that's at the ND level tho......Op may be right,but I do hardly believe such stories....No be today we do dey receive calls from scammers wey dey promise us fake jobs...

Not all of us move with same amount of grace...

From narration, OP was there for people in his study days..

Just few people will understand that the people we met in school, are now the network we have...In addition to few genuine ones we meet here and there..

Being their for people is a coded investment..

They will surely do referrals to you.

My first major gig, was a referal by a neighbour who saw me growing from primary school to uni.

Subsequent cool jobs have been referrals from family, friends etc..

Some Will call you for ideas, when you give, they disappear and use another consultant...Such people will always hide when they see you, till they reedem themselves with a bigger gig.

One played himself recently..Saw him on Saturday shame no gree am pull over and greet as usual..

Coincidentally i saw him again yesterday, shame still hold am..

Heard he is doing the work with another person and the issues arising, shame no gree am call me.


In life, just be good at whatever legit stuff you are doing...

SensualMan1:
Fiction! You must be a good writer. Your motivational books should be a best seller to some lazy azz MFr's. Trash the idea of hating cos some of us earn a whole damn lot but we don't come to a site like NL to show off.

Vibe killer...

Why do you think it is a vibe killer?
Civil engineering, building and architecture are courses that you do and start earning while in the university...It is not a rocket science...As long as you are passionate at what you do and very good at it, you will never run out of cash...

A good work you did is your complimentary card..

mariahAngel:
BamBam na di ya kwanu?
Gedoni na nwuye ya kwanu?

Can you go on the show?

Ndi I kporo aha wunu almost 2% out of 100na..

Check all of them from efe time till date...The fame fades, akwula will take over..


No, I can't..If I wanted to, I would av been auditioning back to black till I succeed...M seti ha la my mind on something, most times I achieve it.

mariahAngel:
All these BBN alumni and their scandal prone nature though.

Lmao...ihe ahu wu gathering of ndi akwula ma ndi nwoke ma ndi Nwaanyi ha.

Years upon years..even with comfort, o le n'ime na alu kwanu di na nwunye..

Ihe mma wu entertainment...oso ha jiri ndu sie pepper soup ka ahu gbasara ha..

Truvelisback:
This is what many marriages is like.

On what scale or say yardstick are you focusing this your argument?

Instead of bringing Ideas on how couples can bring their A games to ensure smooth running of the marital union, you guys keep adding salt to injury by poisoning people's mindset in regards to marriage institution.

With the way you guys talk negative about marriage these days, It may go into extinction before the next century o..

One thing is for sure, you must be open and free minded to enjoy a relationship/marriage.

If you hide things or play cunning, hehehe peace will be far away...na so so lamentations.

SmellySperm:
Dayuuuuum! Polithiefans flexing our oil money, leaving to us 30k N-Power token to use and carry olosho

MufasaLion:
Well, it depends on an individual.

Sure.

mariahAngel:
I bikwara life na school.

Not like bad bad o....Just normal studying and having fun with friends...

I later brought in a childhood friend, ya bia biri with me...when I graduated I left the place for him, ya emecha puwa nyefe ya na aka oyi ya nwaanyi whom he is getting married to next month..

So that apartment birthed LoVe...

I dey use am tease them.

I enjoyed school sha and friends.

eagleonearth:
African bawo? Osun state governor is way younger than the wife. He's just a prominent example among many.

Even akeredolu of Ondo.

UndauntedYOCA:
I do not know of relatable popular Nigerians that I could have used. If I did, I'd surely have used them but I'm sure there are people who are younger than their wives and are living happily.
Don't mislead the OP into thinking it's just marriages where the husband is the older ones that work.

Peter of PSquare is younger than his wife.

But in this OP's case it is a different ball game...That boy should be preparing for Nysc or just on entry level work status if he is not in the business sector...

I wonder what he is looking for in marriage at that age...smh

Well, I took it as one of those comic topics that make FP.

Iyaebe:
Well,let's wait for her response let's not believe all we read on social media

No smoke without fire...

bammo:
Lol..
Maybe.. but honestly, most men would not mess around with a fellow man's wife because they feel each other's pain.. what I don't understand is why single women don't feel the same.

After interactions with some honest ladies and joined with experience so far, I can comfortably tell you a good looking and average married man in this country is a hot cake for some ladies...It is orgasmic.


They will go any length to get you...But in all never forget the woman who has your back and your kids one hundred percent.

Sometimes, I don't blame this men, when wify go read out rules of bedroom engagement, oga will surely feel the vacuum left outside with very willing sisters out there ready.

Iyaebe:
He he na wa ooo

after hailing her as an imaginary rich girl, you realized she was spending a married man's hard earned money....

And even threatening the wife and mother of his kids..smh

Na who know get exposure will be seing most of her type as independent cash babe...tanker.

Enter quilox or rumors or cubana outlets on weekends and see people's father being babied..

But any how e be, life must go on...It is almost impossible for a well to do married man not to fall into temptation nowadays.

School sweet when you have made money...


I can't wait too long to return there...Very fun learning.

skj1377:
Looks like the fundamental motivation is the want for material things. I want new iPhone,I want new cloths every week, I want to travel by first class, I want a good car etc. I forgot to add " I want money". All these increase body count. Less is more

Una go kill me...