₦airaland Forum

BREYZ:
Otele Oshiomole

DatAbujaBoy:
Ikee Otele

Mariangeles:
In some families, it can be really extreme, while others are mild

Mariangeles:
Yes na

ibkayee:
Can't see myself giving an apology that isn't warranted just to keep peace

ibkayee:
Sometimes I compare whatever's happened to the grand scheme of life and things that are worse, and then suddenly I can't be bothered to 'flare-up' lol

It's not necessarily a perfect method and it's also very situation-dependent but I've found it useful at times

Mariangeles:
For your inner mind...

ibkayee:
If you mean apologizing just for the sake of keeping the peace, even if you genuinely aren't in the wrong, is this healthy? Do you think there are other healthier ways to pacify the situation?

Stargurl20:
How do one control one's mouth or better still one's anger as well as ignore unpleasants things being said to one without voicing out, even when one is very angry? I need urgent response please...

bukatyne:
Like I said in that other thread, the discussion of when to leave without a pressing need to do so is a lower income/poor man question.

If your parents can comfortably house you with a bit of privacy, stay put and leverage on their housing as much as possible to build wealth.

Some people have saved their rents while at home and moved from their parents' home to their own home.

Only ensure that while at your parents', you pick some bills as a sign of maturity and responsibility:

I am sure that when you get to a certain age, your parents will acknowledge you have relationships and give you the needed space if you are not changing partners like underwears.

No sensible parent would stop a young man/lady of 24/25 years from a weekend getaway at a lover's place or hotel if you have established the relationship at home and you have proven to be responsible especially sexually.

Neither would they stop you for a late night hang out once in a while with friends.

Obviously coming back home drunk the first time might tell them you are not mature enough to handle such privileges going forward.

nazablossom:
Finally

nazablossom:
Don't mind me. It's good that she's learning. I wish you guys the best.
Do and call us Abeg, I wan wear ashebi

nazablossom:
in fact you are the main daughter of the soil .

You pass me Abeg.
You must be missing a lot since you don't reside in Nigeria.
I just bought my akwu in the market today,na ofe akwu get me tomorrow

I will send yours through amazon when I finish cooking

nazablossom:
Dump your babe and look for anambra girl , your taste bud will never remain the same, o bu so achara ka I ga na eri

squash47:
you're a nice person...I wish all girls can be like you.

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Please allow him to keep doing it for him, he will love u more for it.

blazer90707:
IT seems you like a lot of native foods oo. I guess you and bae would just strike a balance . You would cook all the native soups and special special delicacies while she would cook the normal ones she knows

nazablossom:
No wonder, you don't have an option.

I'm waiting for season 5 .

nazablossom:
I am aware of these as well.You know your condiments well. You must be a good cook .

blazer90707:
Please oo ofe akwu is not Banga. They are two different soups with only one thing in common, the palm fruit used. Ingredients used in cooking is very different.

sassysure:
Ogiri is never made from locust beans so the @op dont actually know what she is saying.
Gosh, igbo people here dey fall my hand.
U guys will just accept anything without cross checking.
This is castor seed used in making ogiri igbo. Anambra call it ùgba.

nazablossom:
My friend, longtime.

We don't use ogiri isi in ofe akwu, we use Okpei.
We use ogiri isi in ofe onugbu,oha,abacha,ukwa while Okpei is for ogbono,ofe akwu ,egwusi ,yam porridge.

They are so different, and have their purposes

ursullalinda:
I use it only in Ofe akwu......didn't know it can be used in other soups......Then use the main ogiri for ofe ede and Abacha......thou it's not compulsory for ofe akwu.

Pavore9:
No, still outside. Ndi ne chem kari kwa!

Alwaysachick:
I'm a very sensible person and appreciate his care for me, but how do I deal with someone who doesn't want you to contest his opinions even when they are harsh or wrong.

Ain't doing zodiacs again sorry, lol

Mariangeles:
Gossip girl
Cc Munzy14

Mariangeles:
Really? I swear, I didn't know



You?

Alwaysachick:
Even when its obvious he is being in considerate. What happened today? He told me to go change my laptop battery today. He wanted me to leave my house by 4pm to Ikeja. My house to Ikeja is like 2hrs journey. I tried to pacify him that I will go first thing in the morning but he insisted and started bringing up other talks.