Metrixnews: Men of Special Anti Robbery Squad led by their Commander in Abia, SP Obioguru Johnbull on Sunday killed two kidnap suspects at their hideout in Ekeakpara, Osisioma LGA of Abia State
ABN TV gathered that while other suspects are fleeing for their live, two were gunned down by the police operatives.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3NhRU9T6hhQ Those rescued during the operation include Michael Maduchukwu (M) age 39yrs kidnapped on 31/01/2020 at Ariaria Junction by St. Mary, Aba, Emeka Emenyeonu (m) age 38yrs kidnapped on the 01/02/2020 at Asa Umudim, Aba and Mercy Akuka (F) age 30yrs kidnapped on 01/02/2020 at Umudim Aba.
There was no casualty recorded on the side of the police officers.
Richdad50: Everything goes for you as though you don't have a mind of your own. Congratulating every Meghan and harry up and down. Be critical for once.
I just had a traditional wedding earlier this month. I'm not based in Nigeria. I provided all the finances for the wedding before I arrived Lagos. Everything listed to be bought for the wedding I provided all. To my surprise wedding that was suppose to take place in a hall had to take place in a cramped sitting room. No food, no drinks, no DJ etc. What did they use the funds for? I don't know. I asked questions and no answers given. To be fair to her family members, I didn't give money directly to her parents or siblings. I gave the funds to my wife to be.
Surprisingly on the day of the small wedding, her uncle was accusing me of not providing money to organize the wedding properly. My heart sank. I look in the direction of my wife to be and couldn't believe what just came out of her uncle's mouth. Whereas I provided money for everything. The wedding prayers went ahead and we were joined together.
After the dry wedding ceremony I began to ask questions but my new wife couldn't give me explanation. Fast forward to last week I was looking for money I kept in my drawer and couldn't find it. I decided to just keep quiet and watch. I set another trap. I had some US Dollars in my wallet and exposed the money for her to see. I went to the shower and lo and behold my new wife removed the dollars from my wallet. I got dressed after shower and we went outside to go somewhere together as my driver was in the car waiting. As we were going, I opened my wallet and saw the dollars gone. I blew a whistle right there and she denied it. I asked driver to return home. I had my parent and siblings at home on that day but I can bet my life on them. I told them what's going on. My new wife was all over the place and shaken. I refused to talk to her. I confided in my mother and explained how I set the trap for my wife. Surprisingly my wife started making moves. She planted the money all over the place which I saw as she was doing. I pretended I didn't see her. I refused to talk to her. All of a sudden she confronted me and attacked me that I suspected her to be the one who stole my money. She started saying she stoop so low to allow herself to be ridiculed in the presence of my family. I confronted her with evidence and she began crying and blaming devil. She has done series of money infractions that I couldn't list here. She fights me for money on daily basis since we got married. No money ever enough.
This is a woman that I gave a car to already and spent so much on to be comfortable. I just bought her another car to be given to her on her birthday. On the day she stole the dollars I had just given her 100,000 naira pocket money for the week. She's been crying and begging for two days saying it won't happen again. She has refused to eat.
Here is the bombshell I just confirmed she's now three weeks pregnant. I can't trust my life with her at this juncture. I'm leaning towards divorce. I'm too scared to be with her. She's too greedy.
Sad story, very common with abroad based guys and marrying ladies under see and marry.
The gospel truth is u are the CBN(central bank for her), Then, she is the ATM to either her family, the match maker or her love-vendor.
A friend who got in a similar mess, still cries till today. Even his wife aren't aware of most of his investments. No man lives happily with a wife u can't trust with your finances and investments.
Fix your problems man. Many women out there, but few wives.
My humble self and my entire family will forever be grateful to Almighty God for His blessings and love upon us. His love has been countless and He will forever be APPRECIATED!!!. Allah, I am truly thankful for this home that You have provide for my beloved wife Alhaja Aishat Ajoke Akinsanya , Allah, for it is Your home. So, I ask for Your blessing on it
Almighty God, we humbly beseech Thee to bless the owner and tenant, sanctify this house and all who dwell therein and everything else in it. Amen"
This is coming just a week after he announced that his other wife, Temitope Adunni Akinsanya, had acquired a new house.
All of a sudden, Mc oluomo and his wives are acquiring houses. smh, for lagos funds.
Davash222: Sentiments aside, Zulum is the only sensible APC member. He’s an icon to emulate.
Being a professor is different from people struggling to defend their waec results.
Education makes the difference.
The guy is well schooled... If u allow school clean u, u will have a liberal mind.... And u will see the mess. illiterate politicians are doing with the masses and gullible followers.
In the middle of the night today, I tried to look for duvet to cover up my son on bed. I decided to check my wife wardrobe.
I saw a pack of mycoten in the wardrobe. She already slept this time. So I had to chill till this morning to ask her questions.
So, this morning when I asked her, she said it was her mum that gave her bla bla bla.. I saw a piece of paper prescribing that cream for her in that same bag I found the cream.
I googled the uses of mycoten and I found out it was nothing serious because it is use for yeast infection and vagina odour. My wife dont have vagina odour and I understand yeast infection can be gotten from toilet or could be infection of body skin that spread or so.
I actually know she lied about her mummy giving her. But what baffles me is that I got a whatsapp message from her when she was coming from my son school..
She wrote that I nag a lot. That I should give her space. That u think she can't cope without me. She said she will look for work to take care of our son.She said we have been together for six years and I don't even trust her a bit. She said I think she can't leave without her. She didn't even address the issue of allegation of infidelity I threw against her(i deliberately did that #.I replied her I can't give her space in my own house and if she is fed up, she can pack her bags and go to her parent house. I told her if my son is infected or if I am infected , I am going to kill her and hand over myself to police. Immediately she blocked me on whatsapp and I did same. After an hour, she unblocked me.
Could she have been sleeping around her? Or are there any other uses of mycoten I don't know?
In my mind though, the cream I find is not really something to worry about but the message I got and her reaction is what I don't understand.
Calm down bro. Be bold and cinfident with your wife.
Make her comfortable, she will always be open to u, Even she will be the one to tell you she needs the cream, she has problems to handle. All this things na maturity and understanding.
Your anger has gotten the better part of u. You have to clean up the mess and appease her.
If u make her remember say cheating deh, oga u are gone.
Pet and erase those anger burning in her now before its too late.
Make her comfortable and confident, and watch her tell u everything u try to know. A married man, your wife should be your best friend.
You guys don't open up to each other, that's y she couldn't tell u she had toilet infection. you both should work on your insecurities especially you.
She really needs your advice pls.b4 now she wanted to do law but help check anything she can do with the above result. Regards.
These are purely arts subjects with few exceptions.
Courses she can apply for.... 1. Government and public administration. 2. public administration. 3. history and international relations.
She can still re-sit for another exam to target literature. Nowadays rushing to get degree isn't a priority, rather studying something u can actually become independent if need arises.
Again, get her learn a skill.
tailoring, baking, events planning, make up artist etc are all good skills very necessary in our modern day training of girl child while pursuing some degrees.
GamalNasser: So you believe that fat man can restore water supply in a state in just one week ...that water board repair had been one of the fulcrum points of Ihedioha govt , I am sure Ihedioha contractors just happen to finish their job on time
Exactly, as an Imolite, I can comfortably tell u that was one of the contracts Emeka awarded earlier.
Most people falsely misconstrue Alpha males to be irresponsible men filled with arrogance and are disrespectful towards women. They misconstrue Alpha males with with cocky males.
Many also misconstrue guys that are body builders with nice physique to be alpha males. Some misconstrue wealthy and fierce looking men as alpha males. Some even misconstrue womanizers, famous or people of high status to be alpha males. While some alpha males may belong to the aforementioned groups, not all those groups are alpha males.
Who Is An Alpha Male? An Alpha male is the real man. He is a man's man and a warrior. He is very confident and a stand-up guy. Irrespective of what you call him, he is a leader. He is the guy others look up to for motivation, inspiration, and often with a hint of jealousy. He is a man that knows what he wants, confident of himself and can't be tossed around. The alpha male knows his power as a man and doesn't use it as tool for oppression. He can't be manipulated by women, and this makes him attracted to women. He's the kind of man every woman want. The Alpha male is mentally and emotionally strong but kind. He is very Confident, yet humble, he assertive, yet gentle at times. He is very powerful, yet calm and tempered. He has self worth yet doesn't proud! He is the kind of man every man should be. He is the kind of man that every woman crave for and hold in high esteem.
Who Is A Beta Male? Beta males are men that always seek to fit in. They are the typical human pleasers with little or no opinion. Beta males in relationship and marriages are the typical Mr Nice Guys that always bury their thought, desire and want so as not to offend their partners. They are typical followers that always seek to blend with the society. They are not stand alone guys as they are easily manipulated. Because of these traits, Beta males are often disrespected and controlled by their partners, the society, their church, families etcetera.
ALPHA MALES VS BETA MALES
1. In Relationship Alpha males go for who and what they want, and are men with standards. When their partners err, they are not afraid to speak their mind, address the problem and speak up when the boundaries they set are crossed. They inform their partners on the effect of their ill informed, they tell their partners the consequences on the relationship and take action to ensure that the partner falls in line. Alpha males don't seek conflicts but are not afraid to tackle conflict head on. They are active and not passive
But Beta males don't have any standard nor boundaries that they hold sacred. They would rather endure and die in silence when their partners err because they are afraid of causing conflict in their relationship. The ones that speak up do so in form of a plea or nag. They are passive men that live with burden in their heart in their bid to maintain peace that they never get.
2. Gentlemen Vs Mr Nice Guys Alpha males are polite, nice to others, respectful but respects themselves and aren't doormat; Alpha male will never allow anyone treat him like second fiddle no matter what. An Alpha male priories his own well-being, irrespective, he genuinely care about the needs of the people in his life and want the best for others. He does this not do this for validation, to gain attention or to be praised by people around him, he simply does it because it is the right thing to do. When an Alpha male doesn't agree with you, he tells you.
Beta males on the other hand may be nice, courteous etc, but they don't prioritise themselves. They are doormat, Yes-man. They are nice because they need the validation and they agree to a fault because they want to maintain the "Mr Nice Guy" tag.
3. Beta Males Are Bitchy, Alpha males Accepts or Change A Situation: Alpha males takes responsibility for their lives. Once anything happens in their lives, an Alpha male seeks to do something about it. If an Alpha male finds his partner with another man, he takes action- whether to breakup with her or any other action. An Alpha male makes decision for himself; whether relationship, career or whatever.
But Beta males always look at someone to pass blame on. They don't take responsibility, they bitch over it. A Beta male will find his partner in an unpleasant situation with another man, he runs to his pastor, family or social media to bitch about it... Seeking their help to take action because "he doesn't want to act irrationally". He's a weak man! Simple!!!
4. Genuine Connection Vs validation An Alpha male always seek genuine connection and friendship with their partners and people around them. They have no time for fake relationship. Alpha males don't seek anybody's validation to feel good. They are true to themselves.
Beta males are pretenders. They desire validation of their partners, friends and society to feel good about themselves. They are fake towards themselves and others around them because they suppress their true feelings for external validation.
5. Alpha males trust themselves to make decisions for their lives, Beta males follow popular opinion.
An alpha male may consult others before making decision, he evaluates the response he gets, and compare with what he had always wanted to do. If he still believe that his desires is the best for him ahead of popular opinion, he follows his mind, makes his decision and swim or sink with it without blaming others.
Beta males consults with people, he may or may not evaluate responses, but he follows popular opinion even if it doesn't tally what he really wants because of his conformist character. He is always ready to blame others should his decision not turn out the way he wishes.
I will stop here!
I remain TonyeBarcanista
Tonye nice post, but I think being Alpha male should be natural.
[quote author= post=86190019]Hypocrite, Shut Up and hustle!
Abeg, Hustle oooo, Make people no turn your teeth to opener for family meeting, like....... 'Uncle Racoon, opener no dey for here, help us to open dis 2 crates of 7 Up with your teeth nah, it's only 48 bottles pere!!'
Hustle ooooo[/quote]Will u keep kwayet, Asslicker extraordinary.... It's a taboo for u to call someone hypocrite because that's your middle name.
fernandoc: Abia state should tow the part of other universities who will not allow an outsider come and tarnish the image of their school all because he was appointed vice chancellor .
Anybody from any state can become a vice chancellor of a federal university.
Nothing like following foot step of other universities.. unless u aren't informed.
Immediate past VC of unizik is an mbaise man.
MOuAU VCs are always in the news with harassing of females, from edoga to this current one.
The problem is moral decadence in the University..
Akposkool: Court Sentences Maryam Sanda To Death For Killing Husband | Sahara Reporters
Sanda had on November 19, 2017 stabbed her husband to death following an allegation of infidelity against him after seeing a text message on his phone.
Yuneehk: I've always thought our effirin/nchanwu are Basil leaves. Scent leaves should be different but Google keeps saying they're same. Biko which is which?
Scent leaf is a general name we tagged nchanwu(igbo).
It is in the family of basil. Some people also address it as basil.
Again Nigerian curry leave is also called lemon basil.
To be sure, research on Ocimum gratissimum and Lemon Basil.
garfield1: Did you read the op's 2nd write up? Apc in kano deliberately failed jibrin,yako is moving to apc
Dude quit all this party shit... U know am not pro -APC, but I felt for jilbrin, he is a fine honorable member who speak the truth and follows his mind.
Anyway the people ruling today, will one day become stooge/retirees like obj, IBB and co.
Party politics has messed up our Nigeria, we should support good individuals and shun party rada rada.
nadesh: Diane and Mercy gum together. Elo was seated beside sir Dee taking pictures. Dialo is sailing . Offline love is the best, Merike was almost wrecked until they took their shiit offline.
Nadesh Wats going on with Merike?.. We are contributing money for asoebi and canopy o..
We Are still deliberating on colour of the day o, whether na Arena green or diary room red o
Politics › Re: US, Nigeria Sign Agreement On Abacha Loot Return by Munzy14(m): 2:23pm On Feb 04, 2020
[/quote]Will u keep kwayet, Asslicker extraordinary.... It's a taboo for u to call someone hypocrite because that's your middle name.
