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People have been dieing even before Jesus Christ was born. Reconcile men to God by teaching and showing love not all these messages of doom

Uprightness100:
Crazy jam there! Condolences to the Dead.

These are kind of Scenes that will be all over the Nations of the world, one of these days when JESUS appears in the sky to Rapture his Children out of here.

It's gonna be Worldwide Commotions, as pilots and those in vehicles who are Saved and washed in the Blood of JESUS will mysteriously disappear from their vehicles and planes.

Try and check my first comment. I told him what he did was to stamp and continue the chain he detests so much. If he's not careful he will carry the same hate and hurt to his immediate family to be. And bro please change that notion. If we're to suffer for the sins we've committed then why ask for forgiveness in the first place?

sunkoye:
I have told him earlier than when he ask for forgiveness from God and his mother...he will definitely be forgiven but won't escape the rod of God at his back. He will be forgiven but will also be punished.

Without purnishment anyone could just commit terrible blunder at any convinient time knowing that saying only Sorry would make him escape Judgement. So when he tell his story, he will include how he was wiped so that people can learn that you don't cross line any how.

Am shaking... seriously!!!

I'm not encouraging him. He said he felt bad there's no sense pulling down a man who has discovered his own fault himself. Have you ever found yourself in ops shoes? Or you were fortunate to find yourself in an all loving family? If it's the former then advise him how you coped that will be a solution to his problems instead of compounding it

sunkoye:
very convenient.... How many times have your parents provoked you and how many times have you reacted violently? Don't encourage what is bad. Christianity frowns at such at all levels cos their are spiritual consequences to it. It's also safe to say African culture sees this as a taboo. And morally humanity does condone such behavior.

It amazes me you're not holding governors in your region accountable but always hating on a man that left the corridors of power as far back as 2007. That's 15 years ago. If he's what u claimed he is, your people won't flock Lagos all in the name of doing business.

Frigga13:
The worship of money is the very reason for enslavement by a druggie on his tribe
.. same reason they mine skulls and survive on scam.

Enjoy.

Meanwhile Tinubu will have to spend 26 bullion van before Saturday.. and he’s spending it while his people dey yimu am for back

Tinubu should always personilize this kind statement

Or he mention weda those humans wey Dey sleep for empty belly on a daily for Yoruba land follow a.m. loot Yoruba resources .. even as a god

And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Ephesians 4:6.
It is easier to judge in situations we've never found ourselves. Yeah he made a grievous mistake and the most important thing is that he is sober. If you believe every act done would come to hurt in the future then I'm scared what you're practicing is karma and not Christianity quote author=sunkoye post=111327961] ohhh how convenient of you to explain this situation away.....give out one single reason you don't kick your own mother's head daily?[/quote]

Bro that's bad. Try and apologize and do all your best to reconcile with her even if it's goin to be from distance at first. You won't understand until she's late. No matter how bad she is there will be something special you'd miss about her when she's gone.
These parents we complain about are also a product of hurt and hate which has made them become what they are presently. When you observe things that are not right in your parents please don't go confrontational with them. Learn from their mistakes and correct that in your life. What you did out of anger is to bring a continuation to that very thing u detest. Please yield to this advice abeg

Moz22:
Actually typing this with a heavy heart and so much disgust for what I've done.. wish I had handled the situation better.

My father is the best man I could ever wish for and if I had another chance to pick a dad again in my next life, I'll pick a richer version of him but my mom?? Sigh!

However growing up with them was so stressful in every way u can think of.. my dad was the meek type, soft spoken and slow to react but my mom would always complain about everything, she fights everything and everyone.. never afraid of any form of confrontation, she would complain about my hairstyle, she would check if I sagged my trousers.. she monitored me extremely and always nagged about it.. I'm this typa guy who is well cultured, I wouldn't say I got that from home training tho cos I do not drink, smoke nor womanize... And I think it's d joy of every parent to have child like me, I basically had no friends visiting me then and even up till now. I've got trust issues that's why I don't keep friends.. my mom made my youthful days hell for me, I didn't really enjoy it.. times I spent with her were miserable as she would shout everyday, quarrel even over phone conversations that you would think the person she's fighting with was right in front of her.. and some times I even pity my dad whenever she starts with him. I developed some sorta hatred for her

Lately I've been spending more time with them cos of our last born just so I could keep an eye on him and we stayed close too.. and the way she treats him makes me wonder if she was the one gave birth to him, if I was away when she was pregnant for him and delivered.. I would have argued that she was his mother. There were times that I had to pass the night there and her voice or rants would be what will wake me up very early in the morning just as it used to be when I used to be there...

I used to think that as people grow old, they become calmer but that isn't the case with my mom, she's more violent... She lost her twin sis last year March and I sincerely hoped that would change atleast but iro nio... Her other sisters aren't even speaking to her at the moment. My dad was a musician.. old age won't allow him continue doing music, coincidentally I picked up that barton.. been doing the same music(live musician) all my life but my mom has always been against it.. she was never happy whenever I carry my dad's guitar to rehearse or whenever I bring a piano home.. it was always war...

Been there since last weekend cos of the poor electricity in my area.. we have had power for about 7 days now.. Had gone for a studio session, only to return in d evening and I was greeted with shouting over a very trivial issue, I was so angry that I responded to every of her verbal insults.. and then she hit me and I reciprocated which I felt so bad about almost immediately.. she dragged me by my clothes shouting that I must kill her again, by that time.. my anger had subdued and all I had on my mind was to leave the house immediately. She threatened to arrest me.. She tore my shirt and I managed to pull away from her.. and left without picking my stuffs. All my life, I have never raised up my hands to hit a woman talkless of my mom.. I don't even beat kids when they do wrong, I hate to see tears..

I know it's a disgraceful thing to do. I've got no excuse for what I've done whatsoever. I even avoid confrontations with my own gender sef cos I know what I'm capable of. I'm always quick to say the word sorry just to avoid prolonged issues. I had been offline since it happened, just came here to drop this and I know how much insults I'm gonna get here anyway but we learn everyday and will surely pick the ones that will make me a better person.. no one's perfect

Pls ignore my typo errors abeg

That's not worship. He worked towards it. Sponsoring elections for people in different states is not a day job.
Every facet of life has one person everyone look up to. In the christian community they all rever Adeboye. And it's not just in Nigeria. Every country has that one person that's influential politically. Take a look at the bush family. American's are stupid as well I guess.
Someone raised this particular issue when I was on campus and my response to him was your father was scared of his life when this tinubu of a guy risked everything. Shade Ojo was living in ibadan directly opposite coca cola then during Abachas regime. These guys laboured and it will be sheer foolishness to condemn when you have no input in this particular field

Frigga13:
Yea how people wey call themselves Sophisticators go Dey worship criminal druggie.. and chose him as a role model for Their children ..
But condem Escobar and Anini..

Yea
Yoruba made a human god and worship him .. just like biblical Israel in desert

And telling you guys the truth dey pain .. but that’s the reality

Otherwise how Tinubu go grab 90% of Yoruba politicians intellects , Professors Doctors and learned tribe in his pocket ..
and this people will abuse the hell of any human .. that tries to wake them

Yes boss it's going to take a long time but at the end of it all it will be recorded these guys did their best to protect their territory.

EmptyGarden:
The way I see it, if it's happening on your turf, then you've lost already. Whenever this ends, it'll take Ukraine a really long time to recover.

Yes he's right. That's why an Igbo mam would name himself Prince of Lagos. Why not prince of Owerri.

nedekid:
"Part of us"?
Funny man.

I chided you because you reacted to the thread out of hatred for Lagos state. A place almost everybody in your region sees as a safe haven. In argument learn how to stay within the premise of the subject matter. Your comment to thread shows how half educated you're. A project was launched by a state government for public schools to reduce out of school children on the streets you jumped on the thread uploading a picture of a private school and you even had to emphasize on the whites in the school. That alone gave you out. Whites have been schooling in ibadan since the 90s let alone Lagos state. For you to pride in such shows how backward you're. So leaving a comment on nairaland while doing so many things at the same time warrants me to proof read? I never knew it's a literature review or PhD thesis. Take it or leave it you messed up with your comment on the comprehensive school project. It's either you lack simple comprehension or you allowed hatred to paint you as being ignorant. These guys are far ahead of you. You even used IGR as an excuse for your failure. I never knew Lagos and Anambra have the same population and the same annual expenditure. You're the big illiterate here bro. Your comment reeks of ignorance and foolishness. IGR doesn't fall from the sky it's determined by conscious effort and planning from the state government which includes providing an enabling environment for business to thrive. If your father's have done the same thing their mates in Lagos did, your people won't be running away from your state to Lagos before they can set up a business and maximize profit. What you wanted to say up there is revenue allocation I suppose. But if it's actually IGR you have in your mind then you're the illiterate here. Even in your home movies a guy must leave the east for Lagos before a success story line is made. Respect to reasonable easterners tho. You can help out in modifying my comment by paragraphing and all necessary things while I go ahead with productive things. Scholar

Murphyenemuwe:
We've been working on a research in improving systems of education in Nigeria. You can Google RISE project online. And I must admit it's a very good development from Lagos state government. This particular project launched has never be conceived in Anambra let alone implementing such thing. Tribalism shouldn't blind your sense of reasoning. To make matter worse u had to post a private school in Anambra with white kids. Where whites have been schooling in ibadan for years, let alone outskirts of Lagos like lakue even ogun state. I'm not a Yoruba man but I can't just stomach it when people become bitter because another state with different tribe take a bolder step on any sector. Please prove me wrong by providing providing evidences this is happening in Anambra. It's very obvious you never took time to read the article cos of the hatred in u. A project was launched to curtail the ever increase of out of school children ( students in public school) you're bringing up a picture of a private school in Anambra. I know so many igbos in my family and around me they are wise so I will put a tag of ignorance on u and not generalize it to the whole Igbo race. And please never ever in your life compare Anambra to Lagos. It's like comparing a 2yr old girl to a matured woman. They are both females but levels different. Check my name I'm not a Yoruba man. I have to state that because I know tribal idiots are always on this forum to masturbate on news like this and any dissecting opinion makes you think everyone that is not supporting u is from the other tribe. Quit being silly u can't achieve much in life if you have this kind of mindset.

Bro get the bigger picture. Putin is just using NATO as an excuse for this invasion. His ultimate goal is to restore the former USSR. He's not planning to stop at Ukraine. In due time he will extend to other countries if he succeeds in Ukraine. Which I don't think it's possible owing to Russia's economy

JOemmy:
Ukraine have agreed to russia's demands of not joining NATO so why is bloodthirsty Putin still ordering his troops to continue the bombing of Ukrainian cities? The west and the UN should intervene if Putin don't stop the bombardment millions of innocent people are already misplaced and suffering many are already dead.

We've been working on a research in improving systems of education in Nigeria. You can Google RISE project online. And I must admit it's a very good development from Lagos state government. This particular project launched has never be conceived in Anambra let alone implementing such thing. Tribalism shouldn't blind your sense of reasoning. To make matter worse u had to post a private school in Anambra with white kids. Where whites have been schooling in ibadan for years, let alone outskirts of Lagos like lakue even ogun state. I'm not a Yoruba man but I can't just stomach it when people become bitter because another state with different tribe take a bolder step on any sector. Please prove me wrong by providing providing evidences this is happening in Anambra. It's very obvious you never took time to read the article cos of the hatred in u. A project was launched to curtail the ever increase of out of school children ( students in public school) you're bringing up a picture of a private school in Anambra. I know so many igbos in my family and around me they are wise so I will put a tag of ignorance on u and not generalize it to the whole Igbo race. And please never ever in your life compare Anambra to Lagos. It's like comparing a 2yr old girl to a matured woman. They are both females but levels different. Check my name I'm not a Yoruba man. I have to state that because I know tribal idiots are always on this forum to masturbate on news like this and any dissecting opinion makes you think everyone that is not supporting u is from the other tribe. Quit being silly u can't achieve much in life if you have this kind of mindset.

obiekunie01:
what is the meaning of the bold?

you are igbo and so

Besides, when last did you even visit igbo land??

Are you even aware that those school in the pics are not even up to the level of schools in southeast?

Are you even aware that schools in the east are so top class they have been winning global awards for the past 15 years??

ogbomoso man! stop claiming igbo. stop pretending to be who you are not.


lest i forget - those white kids are actually in secondary school in oba! grundtvic

Bro my own understanding about the press statement up there is that this man wants to prolong umahis stay in office for the meantime umahi gets back a favourable ruling from appeal court and the Apex court. It's a game to me by APC. If he was serious about this he would have joined inec and pdp to this case which he didn't. Note he's requesting for stay of execution on the initial high Court ruling sacking umahi. It's a game. Our politicians are so smart just that they don't use their smartness for the good of the citizens they only use their smartness just to gain/stay in power

Kingnelson9:
This is one of the many reasons why members of a political party are not united.
If this man was a loyal to his party as he claims ,I see no reason why he should say all these because he should focus more on making his party member retain his seat and not to replace him.

Oga quote that section to back what you said earlier. He don burst u

Lexusgs430:
No point pushing this any further......... I cannot help you anymore.......

Guy you're irredeemable. He just exposed your ignorance and you stlll dey yarn nonsense. You're shameless

Dawn91:
[s][/s].stop comparing yourself with first world nations. Those nations cam control the apps because they have leverage. Nigeria is a third world undeveloped nation, you have no leverage... When you banned Twitter you still called them to come an negotiate and told them you just want them to pay tax them came.to the public to lie that Twitter called you and promised to open an office in Nigeria ...

Guy go find something do. You too boring with this your one meme

Suspects:
noise!

Ronaldo has been exceptional this season compared to Messi. It's a fact and I don't know why u decided to be ignorant. Na first-class ass licking be this

assholemods:
Lol.. worth ko worth ni! Where is he all these while? Because he woke from his slumber yesterday to score hat trick we will not rest.

You must surely find a way to slide in the name tinubu. Your father who has white set of teeths where has it taken him too

gistmega:
When an old man acts like a child, he get treated as one.
All these old men are still very capable of pissing in their agbada and go for weeks without brushing their teeth only. Someone who cannot stay awake for 4 hours security briefing cannot rule Nigeria.

Buhari, out of his deeply sooted heart deprived the entire country of progress because he hates Igbos. Get this, the Igbos have the resources to power the entire Nigeria for almost two thousand years without power disruption. The two biggest economies in the world still run on coal while the 44th biggest global coal reserve, Nigeria remains in darkness because a man from the North feels hatred for the Igbos.

The coal industry located in Enugu state is shut down, completely non-functional. Our reserve is simply wasting in the earth while we are dying of hunger and poverty. The coal industry was built by the British and it provided for millions of homes. But the Northerners have eyes only for the oil. They have seized all the oil wells and shared them giving some to the westerners. The southerners are left to die. They are called barbaric for fighting for their sustenance, a gift bestowed on them by God. They have neither access to the oil or its sells. They give them peanuts and create enormous land, water and air pollution and land degradation. Houses are flooding and sinking. Their sons cannot even get good job position in these oil companies. If they agitate, they are killed and hushed.

The Abeokuta steel is a treasure in the west. Buhari and worse of all, Osinbajo had only one job in the west, the Abeokuta steel. hat industry would have fed the entire western Africa and killed the production cost for China's imports. Sadly, Buhari and his teams failed.

I have been to many countries and I have never seen a grocer that sells Nigerian beef. Unmatched countries like Sudan, Kenya trade their cow to many countries. Aboki still roam around villages in Nigeria with cows. Where is the brain of the North? Without Politics, Kwankwaso and even Dangote will not be able to sell their goods beyond Chad. The power behind their success is Politics not wits. With all the loots and advantage, the only Nigerians representing Nigerians are from the west, south and east. There is a huge factor still limiting the minds of the Northerners from progress.

Some Muslims get into distracting any Ukraine sympathizers and protesting for Gaza. Palestinians do not know of a country called Nigeria and they don't give a flying hoot about you. They sympathizers of Gaza are the very ones calling for the Niger-Deltans to be killed by bullets and bombs. The very sympathizers of Gaza are the same ones calling for the Biafrans to be killed by bullets and guns. They are accusing you of not sympathizing with Gaza against Israel, while they did not sympathize with Biafrans; they did not sympathize with Niger-Deltans.

Very selfish and evil sets of vile monsters carry a placard of sanctimony and marching on the graves of their

This is not politics but war. Listen to Chelsea fans comments after Norwich game. It's painful as a Chelsea fan but it's needed.

Zonefree:
Enemies everywhere. What has football got to do with politics?

The land those brown roofs are sitting on are way expensive than the land his governor's house is sitting on. Ignore that guy. I'm sure he's still sleeping under his parent's roof

Peppysco:
Slum abi? All you gotta do is to price a plot of land in that area and you'll fully understand my angel. Every brown roof you see there is sitting on millions of Naira property valuation

You just schooled that fool. Most houses in his state as old as these ones probably have a thatched roof

Basic123:
Its shows early civilization base on nigerian standards.

The suburb houses built 2000s above have coloured roofs

Proposed to her. Everyone in the family knows her. I dey help based on say na wife to be. It's pathetic

poweredcom:
You helped a girl with 200k for her course omo una de try o

Why did you do that bro that is not a good thing to do to naija girls na , they will still fall ur hand

I don't know why girls defend themselves when It comes to evil. It's disgusting

Lima98:
her reseaon might be different from what you think

Bro take heart. I chop my breakfast this morning. My fiancee never knew I will show up. She swore with her life she's not cohabiting with a guy. I showed up this morning and I saw her changing her clothes. She was shocked to the marrow. I don't know what these girls want. You leave guys who don't have money and when you see a guy that's helping you financially you will still cheat with a guy that has nothing. Imagine coughing out 200k in this buhari regime for her professional course. I made sure I recorded it and I sent the video to all my family members home and abraod. E pain me but we move

Pasima:
I told my girlfriend to post my pics on her Whatsapp profile and she refused to do so, but I post hers telling the world how proud I am to have her.

I was very angry I want to end the Relationship. You see all this Catholics girls na now I fear them wella. Full of games and cheating.

Tinubu a tout?. An executive in Mobil a tout? Internet gives some of you the privilege to insult someone your ancestors can't even lace his shoes

Kriss216:
Lagosians don't want a tout as Governor, yet y'all are under the shackles of Tinubu, a well known tout and drug baron.

What Constitutional power does a vice president has? Answer without emotions please. Probably they should have given ikpeazu right

socialmediaman:
But why Osinbajo? He’s the Vice President of the most failed administration in the history of Nigeria, twice! Is this image laundering to help his presidential ambition?

Maybe we should produce candidate associated with your father. Mention one credible politician in the south west that isn't associated to tinubu. That guy has paid his dues in the field of politics. Stop whining.

iamyemiakins:
Northern cabals will turn Osinbajo to a puppet if he becomes President, Tinubu is just fooling himself.

We (South West) should produce a candidate not associated with Tinubu!

Sis, Do you know naturally love isn't in our dictionary? I know it's not a do or die affair but if we know what it takes to love we all won't be on nairaland forming hard guy. Love is an investment and you know what? The pain from break of trust is more than the pain from death

Rosement:
Why are some ladies fond of disgracing our gender? Is relationship a do or die affair? Are there not guys that were cheated by ladies and they still moved on without cursing harm to the ladies.

Truly Nigerians deserve what they are facing atm. Putting up this shows how stupid you're

festacman:
People get overly emotional and even hypocritical over this issue because a police officer is involved.

1. The Commissioner of Police Odumosu didn't need to give advance information of his coming to the Estate security men because it would be stupid to for him state his movement. Of course, giving such information would require the CP's security details to secure the Estate gate security until he arrives.

2. On arrival at the Estate gate and having PROPERLY identified himself as CP of Lagos State, he ought to have been allowed in immediately. Keeping him at the gate is unnecessarily exposing him to possible attack by criminals. Even a military formation would know better than keep a properly identified CP exposed to danger at its entry point.

3. CP Odumosu didn't need to tell the Estate security men the exact house he was going to before being allowed in. That's a classified information until his details secures the house for his safety.

4. Deliberately tagging the CP's visit as social to denigrate him is pure IGNORANCE because even a 'common' DPO is always listening to his radio equipment and giving directives anywhere he is. The fact is that when not on official leave, a CP is at work everywhere and every time.

5. I doubt if the police singled out that widow for arrest for nothing. She may have jumped into the matter and said unsavoury things. Being a resident in an Estate, I am familiar with some 'radical' busybody residents that would jump into issues without complete knowledge.

6. This is not the first gated estate that the CP has had cause to visit in Lagos. The truth is this incident was avoidable if only the Estate security was more professional and less power-conscious. Their unprofessional attitude activated power-tussle mode in the OFFICIAL state police force to show their constitutional superiority. The irony in this drama is that when armed criminals show up at the Estate, it is the official state police men that are called in to risk their lives.

7. By the way, is an estate which has individually-owned houses a private property or a community? If Magodo Brooks is NOT owned and rented out by one person as its private owner, is there any difference between this Estate and for example Ajegunle in the eyes of the law?

8. Yes, Nigeria police has many outright criminals as members but it is still the only one we have to enforce law and order and maintain security.

This your English no be here o

Theonlysonofher:
While others are celebrating the new year today I am here sobbing because my marriage is at the verge of breaking.

I loved my wife with all my heart but I don't think I will ever forgive her for what she has done to my mother.

I am the only child of my mother. I have three sisters on my father's side.
I am married with two beautiful daughters. my mother suffered from diabetes, bp and high cholesterol. She is on a special diets strictly no salt or too much sugar.

She came to stay with me because the person who was taking care of her wasn't doing her job properly so I had to bring her to my house so I will be monitoring her health.

I have a house help who prepares all her meals with less salt and she also makes sure she takes her medicines on time without fail.
Everything was fine, my mother is not a troublesome person, she gets on well with my wife and most of the time she is in her room resting.

On the 20th of December my house help had traveled to the village to see her people and she will be back in January 4th so my wife and I have to take care of my mother making sure that her foods is less salty and medicines on time.

Since I am always working so my wife had to take most of the responsibility. It is only for a week and fews days until the house help is back.

She had agreed to take care of my mother during this periods of time and I thought everything was fine but I noticed my mother become distant and tired unlike her and I had no idea that she was actually dying and I have never suspected that my wife was maltreating her.

So Thursday being 30th December I was at work when my wife called and asked me to join her at the hospital because mama had a seizure.

I rushed to the hospital and my mother was in a coma state and I asked her what happened to mama, she said mama woke up that morning complaining about shortage of breath and she told her to go back to bed and rest hoping she will be fine by the time she will wake up.
Only for mama to fall off the ground and started shaking with foam coming out of her mouth.

I was in panicked I couldn't stop praying for my mother to get better and I didn't leave the hospital, my wife went home to take care of the children because she has left them with the neighbour and I had spend all night prayer vigil at my mother's bedside and glory be to God my mother woke up yesterday being 31st but the doctor report was not a good news for me.

Actually my mother was poisoned with salt and guess who did it? My beloved wife couldn't bothered to cook a different meal for my mother, she used to feed her the same meal we ate knowing full well that mama cannot eat the same foods as us because we are salt lovers, especially my wife, she love eating too much salt which I have warned her over and over again because it is also not good for her health.

I confronted her, she said she only fed mama the same meals we ate twice only but according to the doctor it was more than two times.

I am hurt that my wife doesnt love my mother or treat her like her own mother because if she truly loved her like her own mother she would have put her diet on consideration and not allow her to eat the same meal as us. I love her mother and u treat her like my own mother.

It pains me a lot when I remember five years ago when her mother was in coma state and she was staying with her at the hospital, she is her only daughter amongst three boys.

I used to visit them everyday after work, I will bring foods and I have even washed her mother clothes with my own hands, I have done with love because she is my mother. I called my mother in law this morning and I have informed her about what her daughter has done to my mother and she couldn't stop apologising and she is very disappointed with my wife.

But see how she has repaid me by hurting my own mother.

She has apologised to me and to my mother, I have forgave her but I don't think I can stay with her again because one day if I become sick or bedridden she might treat me the same way.

Honestly speaking I am not even at home with her and the kids, I am at my cousin brother's house since yesterday I left the hospital and my mother is still in the hospital because she needs more treatment and hopefully she will recover by next week.

I don't feel like going home today and I don't know when I'll go home but I will always be there for my girls because they are the best thing that ever happened to me.

What other advice would you give me on this situation? What are your thoughts? Thank you for reading all I love this community.

Hmmm God's minister for Justice

petra1:
Shame ! That's what you get when you don't build on the spirit. That's what you get when you dont win the lost . It used to happen in the U.K now Its happening in America. Selling old church to be turned into mosques ,bar or museum . A church that doesn't win souls is dead.