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Hi Duchess,
I am very confused at this point.
So I got married early July. We have been dating since late 2018 (I have bank transactions and old pictures to prove this, I have chats from far back as 2020 as well). We both live and work in the same city but we haven’t been living together until we got married.
1. How do I prove why we have been living apart?
2. Would bank transactions and old pictures from 2018 and chats from 2020 till date suffice for evidence of continued relationship over the years?
Please advise.

abuhusna1:
Just change your bank address to sane address. It should be good couple with your relationship history

Okay, thank you.

Hi Duchess, thank you for your selfless service.
Now I have a question. I got married to my wife early July, we have been together since 2018(this is not an arrangee Lool). We have every required documents, pictures from 2018-date, call logs, chats, texts and bank transactions as far back as 2018, the invoice I used to purchase our wedding rings, and she has done change of name affidavit, newspaper publication but her admission letter and her passport carries her maiden name. But the thing now is there is no documentation showing proof of same address for the two of us. I was thinking we should do change of name and address on her NIN so we can at least have one proof of same address. But my concern is that her passport and admission letter still carry her maiden name. Would this be an issue? Please advise. Thank you!

Hi Duchess,
1. Please how does walk in work for Biometrics? Can I just pick any day to walk in after submitting my application and paying for visa and ihs? Resumption is very close and myself and my wife need to get our visas asap.
2. Is it immediately after submitting application that UKVI begins to work on it or until after Biometrics? I am asking this because I want to use part of the money in the POF to book flight for both of us (after printing out statement of course and submitting).

Otokitifunmi:
I'll advise you use 1200.

Sighs, thank you.

Please people, what’s the best rate to use for POF now? I want to use 1100. Hope that is safe?

duchess90:
Hello

If the bank is regulated by the CBN it should be fine


2. I am an advocate of doing it yourself(DIY), visa application is very easy, if you get stuck ask questions here. Agents are fond of complicating and messing up people's application

Also there's nothing an agent will do that you can't

Cheers

Thanks a bunch!

Hi duchess, justwise
Please is Suntrust bank an acceptable bank for UKVI? I’d like to know because I am planning on using it this week for my POF. I just got to know of the bank as I didn’t know it before
Also, is it best to apply for visa myself or use an agent? Although myself and my wife have been doing the whole admission process on our own.

HarunaWest:
chai sorry bout your experience. Some people are just bad in this country kowai. Our camp coordinator then was a lady. A good mother. She took care of us like her own and we behaved well through out the experience.

Thanks jare. Our camp coordinator was also a woman oh but

Pillar12:
City almost nicked it at the end


What a chance

Gabriel nah idiot. Thank God sha that they didn’t score that last minute opportunity!

Originalsly:
Hmmm ... kudos to the gallant officers? The car was stopped by the RRS .... means they were all present ... and the robbers all got away?... because they ran in different directions? Are the RRS not armed? ... they need to be investigated especially when no money was recovered. Anyone with a half brain can read between the lines.

Thank you! I wanted to say the same thing but I had to go through all comments first to see if anyone was actually thinking deep. How did they get out of the car and run away right in front of the officers and they let them leave?! Makes no sense.

debbydams:
Dating pool is now a mess right now, a big mess. If you are already married, God has saved you. If you are in a serious relationship with someone who's goin to marry you, you are very luck lucky.

A lot of us are in relationships but single, you think you are dating someone but the person is not even dating you. I think we need to talk about how damaged alot of us are, how materialistic we have become, how sex obsessed most of us are, how selfish?

"I deserve the best" yes you are but while you deserve the best , is your partner getting the best as well?

Our generation is just too selfish.
It is always about 'you'

You want your partner to accept you the way you are but you are a bag of negativity and emotional liability, you are unstable, you are selfish, you don't look inside, you never tell yourself the truth and you want your partner to accept you when you are not even ready to change.

But you want people to change for you but you're not willing to change for them in return. Isn't that selfishness?

No sincerity, No commitment, No honesty, No love, just expectations without reciprocation.

We keep blaming our partners for our mistakes..

There's no day we won't hear about divorce, domestic violence, bf killing gf, gf stabbing bf ,

How long will this continue?

It's tiring

#Lalasticla

I could give you a thousand kisses for this post! Very sensible and it’s actually the sad reality!

ZhanVeera:
If you really want to help people out of your will,, since that's what gives you joy go ahead, f
Financially though,

Sit her down and talk to her soul to soul, find out why she doesn't wants you to help people,, even her own family,, it's quite surprising,
Or else something is wrong with her,,

But the aspect of bringing people to your home to see them through school,,
It's not going to be an easy one and not advisable with the situations of things right now,
It might lead to unnecessary disagreements between the two of you,
So just forget about it,,

Above all you're the head of your house, lead well and she will follow you

Girl, you are smart!

Aonkuuse:
Source: https://salemgists.com/husband-emmanuel-chigozie-beat-his-pregnant-wife-to-dath-in-lagos-photos/

Even in death, she is still so beautiful. So sad she stayed back until this idiot of a husband killed her and her unborn child. Now the first child would become an orphan. I hope the guy will be sentenced to death too. Women/Men in abusive relationships should move on! Run for your life! Rest is perfect peace beautiful lady. May God comfort your family and friends. By the way, those who put her naked in the car are very stupid. They could have covered up both the lady and the baby properly!

HarunaWest:
chai sorry bout your experience. Some people are just bad in this country kowai. Our camp coordinator then was a lady. A good mother. She took care of us like her own and we behaved well through out the experience.

Our state coordinator was a woman but they the camp commandant still threatened us to keep mute with her consent when the DG NYSC was planning to visit so we don’t expose all the bad practices going on. May God help us in this country! Corruption is from the grassroots.

HarunaWest:
15/16

I see…I served in Bayelsa state and the place was a huge mess. No sockets in the hostels, dirty bathrooms, we had to go fetch water from one. Central pump far from the hostel, very very bad food. The day I entered the store room for food after our 3weeks ended ehn, I was shocked! That’s when I knew that govt and nysc officials will never allow NYSC to stop cuz they keep milking the scheme as hard as they can.

HarunaWest:
Well when i camped in Umunna Bende in Abia State, we had excess light, we had excess water. Borehole functioned 24/7. Then getting cash we were charged fairly cos withdrawals was made from ATM point and not POS that is in vogue now. The camp food made absolute sense and the officials were so cool..I really enjoyed my stay in Abia State gaskiya. I intend to visit there soonest when this IPOB madness has subsided.

What year did you serve please??

BeeBeeOoh:
https://thenationonlineng.net/ondo-monarchs-to-tinubu-you-are-next-president/

All the Ondo monarchs, Tinubu and his co-supporters, all of them are going round the bend. Gbogbo won ti ya weyrey!

Prechgold1180:
The Corolla that much emphasis was made on

This is a Camry not a Corolla

sageb:
I mean mathematically proficient or good in calculations and keeping records.
You have to read it again if you don't understand my post about fuel station attendants.

Lol. If you meant analytical and record keeping skills, you could have said it differently. Your post means something different entirely.

sageb:
You did not post your present location so we can compare it with Ibadan for which is better for you.
Fuel station attendants do make money daily aside their salary.
You can ask those that have worked in fuel station before.
If you are the smart type with good numerical ability, go for the fuel station job.
Thereafter you can apply to study in Ibadan poly.
You can even apply to study in the Technical University, Ibadan.
Tech Uni have a scholarship partnership with. Makinde's Government.
Goodluck on your aspiration
"Ise Logun Ise".

What do you mean by “good numerical ability” ?? He should involve himself in fraud while at it?

DispatcherLagos:
She never loved you. Move on and don't take her back when things turn around for you cos it will definitely do.

She did love him. But girls are easily swayed by material things. They get convinced just by comparing themselves to their peers and it is really bad.

@op, forget about her and move on. Keep up the hard work. God bless you!

Ginaz:
his late father was extremely a wise man. the son was already feeling on top of the world even before the death of his father , having thoughts of becoming a BIG BOY through his inheritance.

he would definitely ruined everything to the ground, his head is empty with no sense of how to handle the heavy responsibilities of his late father's legacy.

your friend should even be thankful his father didn't remove him totally from his will. atleast there is hope for him somewhere.

lazy son ! he wants to use his father's properties to form big boy. someone who couldn't stay in school to help his life.

*modified*

you are a bad friend too. for you to even think your friend's father is wicked says a lot about you. birds of the same feather fly together o. don't go and advise that your irresponsible friend to change his wayward life , be there calling his father wicked .

witches of the same coven! big boys kee una there!

If I could send you kisses for this post, I would!

Demigod22:
So my friend have this girlfriend in 100 level, although he just graduated. They have regular and chronic sex. But the girlfriend is always scared of pregnancy.

The problem is that last night they were having sex and the condom burst and he poured everything inside. The girlfriend got angry and left. He advised her to take salt and water, Andrew liver salt, or any gas drink, but she ignored him.

My friend is angry with her because, she is always scared of pregnancy but will never take those things to prevent it, it happened yesterday and she is thinking it will lead to pregnancy. My friend is leaving school on Monday because he has graduated.

Although I have advised him severally to reduce the sex, but the deed has been done already. What is your advice to the girl?

You, ‘your friend’ and the girl, all of una mumu no too much?

We4all:
And why not? Guys on this forum like to generalize about women and that’s okay right? What’s good for the goose is also great for the gander.

Well, I am not part of them. Any gender I see generalizing about the other, I’d definitely talk. Take the L and move on. You should simply not generalize because of the actions of one person, that’s biased.

saphiere:
Nigerian men have gone nuts.

You shouldn’t generalize because of one idiot that committed a crime.

Osagyefo98:
God bless President Buhari.

If not for the arrival of Buhari in 2015 , Goodluck Jonathan and his colony of Industrial looters would have nailed this country Nigeria on a hanging pendulum.


But there is a Sense that the God we worship never sleeps. With collective efforts of Nigerians in 2015 he was booted out as a pariah.

This doesn’t sound like sarcasm so let me say this : ori e ti daru!

Hetty40:
I just got out of the shower

Of what use is this information??

Chimookigwe:
The letter addresses concerns over security of students living off campus. In recent times, some students have been killed in that Agbowo area.
Nothing like bad mannerism in asking am elected official to do his damn job. They are not begging him, he should do the needful.

It’s the manner in which they spoke I referred to. No one is supposed to beg a public officer to do their job. It’s their duty.

banggy:
As far as am concerned

Makinde has failed in terms of Security. If he can't secure Ibadan, the capital of Oyo state then he has truly failed as a person. GSM my foot!!

If I may ask, where do you live?? I want to know so I would know the kind of response to give you because you don’t make inferences from reported instances online if you don’t know anything about the place!

dalass:
They themselves can ask school authority to go to the government to ask him for those things instead of threats

Thank you! They are just dumbfucks! Push it to your school authority and the school can now beckon on the government. The tone is their letter reeks of bad mannerism. They probably forgot that it’s a federal university. Well, I hope the governor gets to hear about their plight and assist them.