₦airaland Forum

Shibaraba:
This is why I fear 9 to 5 jobs. I've been on phone with my guy since he learnt that ejigbo branch has closed. Man is scared. He just wedded ni o. So glad I didn't give one slot away to one snake. If everything goes south he'll be getting a better job with juicier pay.

Bottom line. Always have a contingency plan. Life can dribble o

Chief, you got any extra slots? Let me benefit from you please. I'm sick and tired of looking for a job.

In as much as this is a very welcome gesture, why scrap short distances? What's the point? You are just indirectly increasing fares and you guys are not bold enough to say it. Nigerians are on their own, really!

piamily:
I have noticed men especially African men loose interest when a lady becomes interested in them even just a bit.I really don’t get it.

Do men expect women to hate them even when the men love the women? Cos I don’t understand if it should be mutual or not

Your views please

I don't know whoever brought up this thwarted view and some men too pride in it. Some women use it to act really defiant and emotionless even though they like the guy. Now dear op, I think it's just immature and silly for a guy to act as such. I feel it's only a guy that has had his way(sex or money or whatever) with a lady that wld do such. If you love a lady and she shows interest keep going.. Never stop even after marriage.

SangoOlukosoOba:
"If"

Nigeria would have been in a confused state.

They would have used the pandemic as an excuse to siphon what's left in our treasury.

GEJ's government was a "looting for all" and lawlessness.

If not not for the intervention of the Almighty God, GEJ and his cronies would have ruined the present and future of Nigeria.

But we still must be grateful to God almighty to have made our years of pains , turn into joy via the emancipation of His Excellence President Mohammadu Buhari (GCFR)

Sit down, grab a drink and ask yourself "am I normal?"
P.S: I won't reply you nor read your reply.

adekola02:
if u know of real online surveys, pay-per-click, read mails, captcha, fill forms or freelances etc sites that pays. maybe directly to nigeria here through paypal, payoneer or anyother form of e-payment or we have to make use of vpn and other tunnelling apps that actually pays please drop and let all of us rob mind together

Hi. Did you eventually get any useful link? Please do share with me please.

Cc: dominique

baralatie:
Erectile dysfunction (impotence)

Also called: ED and impotence

Occurs when a man can't get or keep an erection firm enough for sexual intercourse.

Alright. Thanks for the heads-up

Hello all. I know this is not the right section to post this but I know I will catch people's attention here. Please I need to know how to use cash app in Nigeria and obtain a cash app account. Thanks in anticipation.
I have a SM page where I do adverts and clients from foreign countries do ask if I have cashapp. This has made me lose a lot of offers. Please help oo.

baralatie:
do not give him any aphrodisiac.
your husband got you pregnant means that he does not have any erectile dysfunction.
rather he is not or he is holding back since you are pregnant. if so,it is his mind set as it surrounds having intercourse with a pregnant wife.
just relax

Erectile dysfunction is different from being impotent

bukiemore:
One plus 7 pro for Adrianhillz

How much is this one plus please?

sparta:
Hi landers
Am an attractive lady of 26 and i get a lot of attention from so called "men". I have equaly been attracted to a couple too. The problem however is that I have never met one who dosent mind waiting till marriage to have sex. They all bolt the moment they know am a v and i aint ready for sex. It really hurts because i used to have a lot of respect for the male folks, most of my friends are even guys. I dont know what to do coz   am not ready to go into a relationship involving sex. Is it a crime to be a v and to want to wait till marriage? Am sincerly asking, Are all guys like that? Am even beginning to get scared, will i ever get a man of my own.
Pls help me, am realy discouraged and getting hateful of men.

Hi Sparta. Sorry to hear that you feel this way. Most guys always want sex in a relationship. However, not all guys are like that. Just hold on to your celibacy till marriage. You will definitely meet someone who can wait for you. I have been in relationships without sex and I didn't cheat either. Everything doesn't revolve around sex. There is more to life than sex. Do not change your resolve because you want to please a man with sex only if you are ready to. Stay strong.
Modified :
Oh lol! This post is soooo old! Sparta please let us know how it eventually turned out

Auladimeji:
How does it feels like to be listening to one music for 4 weeks let alone 25 years

No offence but this makes no sense. Do you realize his wife has also been with him all along? "Listening to his music all along?" yet she didn't look for a new one to listen to! Y'all should stop saying these kinda comparisons. As the man is 'eating the same food' for years after marriage, so also is the woman. If he decides to go and 'change taste', then she has every right to do same.

Brendaniel:
I have been working from home for the past 3 years, I keep thanking God for giving me such, It was 3 years ago I found out the strength of the Nigerian ID and passport online, you might not know this, but your ID and passport and as a Nigerian is stronger than most Arab countries, even some of them you envy, what I do isn't freelancing and it's purely legit...

Can you please enlighten me?

CEONAIJATUBE:
Since I Was Born, No Man Has Ever Approached Me Before. I Fell Like Ending My Life – 22years old lady

No Man Has Ever Approached Me
A young lady of 22-year-old has taken to a popular relationship blog to lament that she has never been asked out by any man in her entire life.

I am 22 and no guys ever approach me (not even creepy or old guys approach me). My aunt came to visit me and told me that I need to start dating and finding someone since I have never had a bf before. She asked me if anyone has asked me out yet and I told her that no men ever approach me and she got shocked and surprised. Yea I don’t understand either………?

People tell me many times that I have a very young looking face but should that stop men from approaching me?

I don’t know what to do about my nonexistent dating life. I feel like I am pretty much am about to be forever alone even though I am not ugly and I don’t have any physical defects. I am not going to approach a guy so please don’t tell me that is what I need to do. i just want all of this to end, I might just end it all.

See her full nasty pictures:-
https://nasonaija.xyz/2020/03/30/since-my-birth-no-man-has-ever-approached-me-22yrs-old-girl/

Lol with this kinda boobs? This moniker must be a scammer.

The truth is, it's plain silly for people to be dropping their account numbers online without caution. It can be used if such scammer has an insider in the bank. They get your personal details including your bvn from the bank and that's all they need to perpetrate whatever crime they choose to. They could indirectly reach otu to you to get more info or work remwith the account if you ignorantly fall prey. Some could even do a sim swap(for a sim that isn't passworded so to say) for the sim card connected to the account and they get full control of it.
But then it doesn't make sense for a scammer to go through all that trouble for someone begging for money online. Scam is evil, online begging is bad. Greediness is the mother of them all.
By the way, those referred to as money mules are also called pickers. They are accomplices.

Anneka101:
This is getting real. This one our weather is no longer helping us fight this virus I can authoritatively sat this is Covid 19 S plus.


The Chinese just upgraded this shit.

I feel the virus is mutating and adapting to our genes.

donstan18:
Traditionally, a man is the chief sponsor of any wedding ceremony while the woman supports in a way she can. Reason, it's expected a man goes into marriage when financially stable and ready.

Allocating 50% to her passed a message that you'll be a type of husband who will be after the statistics of the wife's earning and spending. You sure wouldn't have done what you did if you hadn't any knowledge of her earning, you acted because you know her earning and that's a red flag for Nigerian ladies, because they don't like dragging and equal responsibilities in a home.

You don't go direct when you want a woman to contribute financially to something. You go Tactically[Not imposing, but asking how and where she can take care of, she'll choose, no matter the percentage of her choice, you lock up, keep the planning going, pretend like you are cool and then sketch out a personal plan of how to act worried and restless before her, she'll wanna know the problem, act like you wanna hide it from her, she'll be worried and pissed that you are hiding things from her, then you'll come up with a story and open up that you are facing financial crisis and don't know how to sort some things out concerning the wedding, she'll willingly help with pity without seeing you as a stingy or mean person]

No be everything dem dey form mancho, you go dey use your head.

You've spent on traditional wedding and for that not to be a total waste, kindly go and meet her, reason with her and go tactical, not directly with authority.

Happy married life in advance!

Thank God men like us that reason this way are still plenty God bless you for this post. Ladies when handled properly will agree to whatever you bring to them. Don't be doing "I am the man" all the time.

EgunMogaji2:
The crash wasn’t due to weather but may have contributed to the lack of emergency landing.

Eye witness reported a struggling aircraft, weird sputtering noise, low height.

The Sikorsky S-76B is a corporate aircraft and would have state of the art avionics to handle visibility.

Exactly my thought. I watched the video and the pilot totally lost control of the copter...It was just spiralling downwards. The pilot shld have perhaps aimed for a soft emergency landing. God rest their souls.

Dupalmer:
Few years back my ex fiance had told me that she they'd be having a Christian camping program the coming week. I was almost fooled but what gave her away was my laptop that she was using to watch movies before the battery drained out.

When I later made use of the laptop at work, She had logged onto her Facebook account but was unable to sign out before the battery drained. I passively went through her wall and chats and noticed that the supposed camping date was a ploy to have a free weekend with a guy who she'd been communicating with online.

The guyman is based in Germany. He had already spent close to 2 weeks in Nigeria since he came back and was ready to travel back to Germany but scheduled being with my Girlfriend for the weekend.

I foiled the "camping", I sent a friend request to the guyman with a message, he promptly accepted and we started communicating. Luckily he's not a woman wrapper. I told him my history with the girl and how she's trying to play the two of us. We agreed to meet and our meeting sparked a wonderful friendship and trust that is still in existence till today. For me I was done with the relationship. Though it really pained me but I needed proof.

We agreed to play along. He invited her to where he was lodging. I had wanted her to pass the night in my place but she said it will ruin her program that she and her fellow campers would take off to Camp of Faith in Okigwe before noon. I "bidded" her farewell for the camping programme. She even called me to tell me that they were taking off and 3 hours later she called to say that they had arrived. She sounded so convincing that you wouldn't believe that she's not in the same city with me. The more she lied the more I am ending the relationship in my mind.

Well I kept tabs with my guy. They had agreed she'd would come over to his hotel at 6pm. I was at the bar of the same hotel trying so hard not to get drunk. My guy chatted me up around 7.40pm signaling me. I went and knocked, behold my fiance opened the door she was wearing her finest nightie, without bra, flaunting her fine legs and hour glass shape. My pain was nothing compared to her shock.

In summary she lost the both of us. She tried everything possible to get us back while blaming the devil.

Trust them at your own peril.

WhaT happened between 6pm and 7:40pm?

Muzikluva:
Hi guys... Please is it advisable to invest in PAMM under forexlogger or fxtm? Which is better

please I need an answer?

Hi guys... Please is it advisable to invest in PAMM under forexlogger or fxtm? Which is better

Jewessgratitude:
Na wa o. Some women sha..cos hubby is away for only 2wks, she can't hold body? Hmm..

Just send your cousin away before he lands you in trouble. As for the woman, dont go giving her attitude before she feels threatened and tries to eliminate you.

Sensible! Very sharp comment

peterincredible:
this same thing happened to me last year feb then i was a corper serving during the election period i told her to come the first time she agreed then she stood me up she no come hmmm i saw here during cds the following thursday asked her why dat it is disrespectfull and i dont lyk it she appologised and we rescheduled the following week i called her that morning on the day she was suppose to come she said she will start preparing then i started cleaning my room told my roomate to disappear or i will break his head he laughed and went to the next room, so i started cooking usually i dont add much salt and use only one maggi when i cook cause i have mild high blood pressure bcause of her i cooked and put the normal salt and just make the jollof ricr look good and tasty and and even spray perfume for the room thinking say na beta person i invite come ooo then boom time was 5pm this girl neva come or even called hmm so i called her then she told me she was ill i just laff cut the call then immediately i deleted her no, i saw her the next day during all this political waker when copers dey do during election period na i politician called all corpers in that local govt to a hotel for some sharing of money oo na so i see this same girl that said was ill talking to some of my guys i just went to dem greet my guys, greet her smiling then left, guess what? her concience start judging her she came to me to start a conversation we talked for a while then i left her giving her a boring reason to go she neva saw my call since that day and anytime i see her i will just greet from afar and go without chatting her up hmm then she called me a month time telling me i dont call her anymore infact that got me angry but i maintained and then later she sent me text on watsapp immediately the text entered my phone i blocked her then she new we not on the same page again since then wherever she sees me she will complain peter wetin i do you i will just laff and tell her nothing jare then give her a boring reason to excuse myself and since that time she has been the one trying to spark a conversation but guy i am very hot headed and will neva ever tollerate a disrespectfull woman even if am broke and my wife or gf tries to be bitchy bcause of one boring reason i will just let her know am the man and am ready to walk away any fucking time when u let them know that and u always smile it will leave them confuse neva eva chase a women even when she threatings to leave she might be testing u to know ure strenght and most of it all a girl can never love a man she takes for granted or disrespects so when a girl act that way always smile when u see her to keep her confuse then cut her offff u hear me cut her offff and as for the gurl she always be the one to come to me but i gave her a very long space even the day i we where both passing out she called me i looked at her then smile a bit turn and left she was expecting me to come to her to talk but i didnt that shows strength neva let a girl disrepect u when she does just leave her most time it she will be the one chasing as i read ure post i just laff cause i remembered what i did to her i can see the look on her face anytime i gave her a quick answer and excuse myself she looks rejected i neva even taught i was that wicked the dating world is very beautifulll but only the men who dont give a Bleep and show strenght wins i just cant stop laughing sha thanks for remembering me about that wierd girl

Mr, you need to put more strength in your grammar please. No pun intended.

Cherrybae:
This posts are for the illitracys because no educate persin can sell or gave out his old phone without doesing factory Reset.

I hope they can learnt from this post because alot of them is hear on NL

OP you did well. Very educated thread.
Kudos OP

Lmao.. Are you kidding me?

WuraSerano:
No words of endearments.
No long phone calls.
No flowers.
No nice scents or lingeries.
No treats.
No gifts.

Nothing but demand for sex.
Guys, why are you so unromantic?

My dear, you should say the guys you have been with or met. Not Nigerian men...be specific please.

Nat404:
It's okay. I helped one guy here on Nairaland, he applied for admission to a particular school in the US but they were reluctant to reply his mails and grant him admission. I found out a friend of mine works in that school at the admission department, called him on phone, within 30 minutes, the Yoruba guy got a response and admission.

The guy was so excited and astonished and later thanked me. He's in Chicago now.

Please I sincerely need a scholarship to study in Canada. I am currently on my masters program here. How can you help me please?

Kindheartedd:
I opened a thread sometime ago about my husband's attitude.

I won't just go into details but all I need now is leave, leave him for good.

My plan is to totally leave the state we live now to a different state to start life all over with my kids. I work, I will make sure they have the best. I won't let my family know my whereabouts. Change my phone number and live a new life.

I do not want any one to link me up with him again. I hate him now. I have heard enough, enough of abuse. He's done more damage to me than good. His is proud and ungrateful.

He is owing me a lot of money but I can let go.

I want to teach him a hard lesson by leaving with my kids before he return from work on Monday.

My advice to young ones especially God fearing ones, don't marry a man who is just a casual Christian, who answers on paper 'Christianity' when asked which religion.

He never believed I can move forward, I struggled to raise my status by hard work n prayer, I went to a private uni, he even insulted my dad to my face that he waisted money on my for sending me to private uni, Haa, my ears twingled when he said it all because I was earning about 100k, he was earning way more than me and he'd never give me peace because he earns more. Named me all sorts of names. I saved little n resigned since there was no hope of earning more money where I worked.

When I asked to open a joint account his response was my income was meant for eating not saving. And ridiculously told me to hide my face for trying to measure him to my standard. That we don't earn the same amount and we can't jointly run an account. For days, he shamed me with that.

I boldly took a decision to resign and I almost end it all but I was putting things in place to get the best in life no matter what. Alas, God helped me and now, I'm doing well and my monthly income is daily getting more than his. I painfully went for a training and have decided to get an office and employ more hands because I can no longer handle tasks alone due to work load and he is killing the dream.

I know him, he wants to frustrate me, he knows the sky is not my limit again even, but I want to teach him a lesson that in his next life he will never talk any human being down.

He is getting worst daily by being abusive, I won't know peace if so stay with him. Now he wants to do what I do, so jealous and unsecured.

I live in a recluse due to my work and I have an abusive man, if not for my belief on God maybe I would have taken my life since.

I was abused as a child, I think the best for me now is live alone. Human beings are not worth it, I hate relationships and marriage now, like it's all a scam. I just want to be alone with my innocent kids.

Am just weak, it's going to be a shame, my friendd n family won't like my decision but I want to send a message to this man. He must learn to respect me, called my brain fish brain,? My own father waisted money on me? I will surely break grounds to send him a message.

Am just in pain, am soo so so sad. Once I leave him I will be a celibate for life. I will never allow any man to make me experience abuse again. Never!!!

Dear ma'm, I like that you want to walk away from a toxic and abusive relationship(as you explained it t OK be) before it turns into a murderous one. But then your motive for walking away is very wrong. DO IT FOR THE BETTERMENT OF YOURSELF AND NOT TO PROVE A POINT TO HIM. Live a better life, keep in touch with your parents and take good care of your children. I would personally like to meet you one on one. I wish to know more about this your business and we can work on getting it to the next level.
You can send me a mail or mention as regards this.
But do not forget, your motive should never be because you want to prove a point!