Trust is earned, not given out. The few days you guys intend to spend together will speak volume. Be sure to utilize the moment in the best way possible. Goodluck!

You don't choose who you fall in love with, people! That damn thing just comes on us whenever it chooses. And that's why we sometimes fall for the wrong ones!

1. I'm signle because, Relationship wise, I'm still not matured enough. Forget the age.

2. I don't have what it takes to be in one.

3. I have bunch of unserious girls around me. Girls who rather prefer the FWB stufs than to being tied to a relationship.

4. I'm still single because I don't even know what to expect when I get into a relationship right now.

5. I'm yet single because I'm not exactly h'orny right now.

6. I'm single only by choice (8

Yes, of course it's possible. You only need to find her.
It takes a lot of talking through, you both need to agree to it as what you both want for the relationship. It becomes less difficult, and less of an issue if you both from the onset have it down as a laid down principle or a blueprint for the relationship.
I've been fortunate in the past with girls like this, but, again, it doesn't guarantee anything. The sex abstainance doesn't guarantee a stable relationship or a lasting one. Having that sort of relationship, you need a whole lot more than that.
Goodluck!

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Phew!


I'm sure I didn't sleep.
I'm not too certain, but I'm sure I was awake 95p of the time.

Thanks all you guys. Thanks for the comments and tips. You guys rock! It was fun.

The movie is great too, atleast, the parts I could grasp when I was 100p awake. So, ya'll head to the cinema to see it too.

On if the date was a success? I wouldn't know. With women, one never knows it all, you know.

Id.... Yeah, we good!

I'm still awake!

Tickets bought:

Thor 2.
5:40pm.

On my way to pick her up. Haven't had a second of rest all day. Anyway sha, what would be, would be...

Two hours, thirty minutes to my date time and I'm still at work. And seriously contemplating of sleeping .

I have entered one chance today.

And I can't just call off the date . I may not get another chance if I dare miss this oppurtunity.

Chewing gums doesn't help either. I've once tried it, it didn't work. I have also tried the "minding my phone syndrom", that's another easy way for me to reach wonderland in record speed. Facing a big screen generally does that to me .

But today o, this date o, I must go ni

I'l be going on a date later this evening with a girl I very, very much fancy. And going to the cinema to see a movie is supposed to be the pinacle of our outing.
The problem is, I have big issues with going to one. I've only ever been to the cinema on 3 occasions. And on the three occassions, I dozed off in less than 15 minutes only to wake up after the movie had ended. On those three occassions, I went with a close friend, so the fact that I slept off on her wasn't much of a big deal to her. The scenario is different this time around as this is a girl I'm so so interested in and dozing off on her (which I'm almost certain I'l do) is not a great way to kick off.

How do I go about this please? How do I stay awake the whole freaking two hours or more? Exactly what do I do?
Do I just cancel it on the pretence that I was too tired from today's work?
Biko, how do I not mess up myself with this girl I'm trying so hard to impress?

If I could comfortably doze off watching the Die Hard triology by Bruce Willis with all the actions, guns and explosions failing to keep me awake, what other movie would keep me wide eyed the whole hours??

I need honest and sincere tips please. Help a brother here!

fashrola: mykejones is that u? Lol bad guy......but make Ondo pay the state allowee nah abi e don enter voicemail ni? I have not even heard abt last batches before us been paid....so my hope for the money don die kpata kpata till i see alert on my fone one day

Lolz! How much is it sef? Heard you guys will be paid 55k. Na somethin sha. For this kin dry times...lolz! That BBA thread don free you? You were part of the peeps that pissed me off with that thread. I been tire for you o

evagolden: nysc is over but the state i served has refused to pay me. I m new in nairaland and i want to lay my complaints, wch i hope would get to the front page, pls hw do i do that. Where am i supposed to lay such complaints. Somebody pls help me out. Am a batch b corps member nd i served in osun state.

Batch B, as in, our batch that passed out a little while ago? Chilax. As far as I know, this things take time.
Ondo state where I served, it takes about 4-5-6 months before the pay materialises. The batch before us haven't gotten theirs too.

I'l advice you give it some few more time before creating a thread on this issue.

How are ya'll doing? Shygirl, you good too, I suppose?

Hi.
Thanks for your prompt response. I have sent the details to your email.

Am a bit desperate here, as evident in my post, so I'l be checking on the hour, every hour. I'l be waiting, please.

Thank you. Sorry for the inconvienence this might cause.

Hoyeenz:
Still analyzing my questionnaires.

Oh! Pharmaceutical sciences use questionnaires too? Quite strange! All the best though!

Almost complete now? Or completed. Which one?

Hi. It's Michael.
I signified interest in your programme at one point in time, and i subsequently paid. It's been close to two months now. I also sent you a text message about a month ago, pleading with you to please, bring down my blog and remove me from this programme, and am yet to get any reply from you.
Please, I want the blog closed today. I beg of you. I've not gained a dime in the programme, and sincerly, am not bothered. I just want my name removed from this programe, that's all.
A google search of my name takes one to a blog that says I've made millions so others can make too. Please, am not comfortable with that.

I await your kind response, thank you.

Have some fun with this, guys!

Talk to your brother. If there was anyone you needed talk to at the moment, he sure is the fellow.

This isn't the normal everyday cheating-spouse-relationships we are all familiar with, this is 'bloodly' related, and as such, be treated differently.

IF you have to open up to your parents about the discomfort you are having about your brother being too close to your wife, please, do let them know. Am guessing he's also your younger brother, not an elder one, which also helps the situation considerably.

It's obvious why am advocating that your parents be privy to the details, because if this comes out to be true, you'l be fighting on two fronts and you might end up loosing on both fronts.

lol..Loskee, to your teasing question. NO. We ain't the first guys getting NYSC discharge in this forum, but we are surely the guys that gave NYSC a name and a stay on NL.
Common guys, our closeness and the way the threads was manned made Oga Seun create the NYSC section.
We don try jooor!

So, yesterday, I proudly announced to the VP of the school I was commencing my leave immediately. I left the school around 10:30am yesterday, and this morning, I got a querry. An official querry. Wallahi! Not funny!

Hehehe
This guys..well, I have told u sha.

So, I've got an idea, just incase anyone here wants to create a thread for congratulatory messages due us on our POP.

"Pioneer Set(Members), Nairaland's NYSC Family House Passes Out Today"

What do you guys think??

Lol!
Your NYSC three weeks terminal leave starts AFTER the POP.
Our LI paid us a surprise visit at our PPA on monday, we then told him of our plan to commence our leave this coming monday. To our amazement, he said the leave starts only after the POP.
He said we went to camp July 2nd, 2012, and since NYSC was a full one year programme, we were supposed to finish July 1st, 2013.
So, do the maths. From june 6th (our POP) to July 1st, you get three weeks. That's your terminal leave my people

Ms_Steph: where r u serving cos we got ours 2day

Yup. It came yesterday evening.
Am in OD

Digressing:
Jogen Klopp was at Mainz for 7 years and won nothing.
See the wonders he's doing at Dortmond now. Let's give DM a chance.

Rooney has served us right, and it's time to bid him farewell.
I don't see him working with David Moyes. Am 100percent certain he'l go. But selling him to a rival is a NO NO!

On a sad note though, I don't see us winning a trophy next year.

I neva see April allawee o.
Shey e hook ni?

bukahands:

Ok met a guy here in Lag with the same name

As in, with the same monika??
He's fake joor! Am the real deal

bukahands:

Bro which state are u in ?

OD

It's barely 40 days to our POP. What a journey it has been.
I have no regrets, none whatsoever. Maybe I would have been more prudent with cash, just maybe. But heck! most of my spendings have been worth it.

I registerd in the State's Business School here. I have my HSE 1, 2 and 3 (QHSE) and some vital knowledge to show for it.

NYSC have been worth the while for me, really.

I hope ya'all have a better story than moi?
Btw, who's staying behind? Who isn't going back home?
Anyone?

mitsaro: Abeg when r we passing out? Can someone pls confirm if it's 6th June?

I think it's 12th.

BJ88:
Yeah,2 mths to go but hey house,i need a job...

It's easy for you guys. Dr., right?

Tgirl4real: Lol.

I remember wella...

did u say MTN was 15k? It was 33k when it first came out, dey were doing buy one get one free. My mum got hers for 18k. Lol

my first fone was Motorola timeport.

btw, was there any home without a 3310 then? Lol

Lol.
My aunt bought (on salary loan then) Nokia 3310 + MTN sim pack for #55k. Lol. She was the first person i saw with a Handset.
The phone is still in her drawer somewhere, "too expensive to give out" she always said.