Arlington:

crossed it getting ready for another one i am just taking it one day at a time. i am dying to hear yours let us keep on praying and fingers crossed.

lt is well dear

Arlington:

My peace, have they replied you yet?

still counting with symptoms (fake or real ) l believe its for real.  As l said before, last time, l got BFP when l was due for the next period, then even my blood pg test said negative till my next period.
how about you, hv u crossed your 2ww?

l guess ur question is for venus

bodyache probably because of too much manual labor

You see ur period 11 to 16 days(luteal phase) after ovulation.

Giving the above, your should be having ur ovulation btw day 7 to day 10 of each circle,couting from the first day of ur period.

VENUSS:

If i had a job, nd v my own money tins wuld b a lot easier.am so confused about my infertily situatn. In a couple of months 2yrs wedn anversry nd no hope. No pregnancy no miscariage,God i tink am to young 2 pass tro dis

My sister calm down, l feel your pains.  l was two years last May.  We just have to believe that theres nothing God cannot do.  l will advice that u try as much as possible to get something doing, that will take your mind off it a bit, cuz when u are idle, your mind will be occupied with it.    Do the ones u can, and live the rest for God.  The bible say the Barren shall keep house and become a joyful mother of CHILDREN.  This is our inheritance in the Lord and it shall come to pass.

Arlington, my sister l understand all those symptom tricks , still crossing my fingers - the prophesy shall speak forth this time around, and my (our)  joy shall be full

lf its a friendly reminder as u called it,l dont think theres need to copy or blind copy ur boss. To me it actually seems u are reporting them, if not why not CC instead of using BCC.

Thx my people. dont even want the headache, thats why l refuse to test for now, lets nature take its cause!

@Arlington

Still counting days!!! _{have missed it, pray its for good}


ls Salty taste in the mouth, the same as Metallic Taste?

Good, but they should sign it into law

skanmy:

@ arogbowei,try Lagos Island maternity.Its a specialist centre of excellence for gyne and maternity cases( someone told me).I recall i was born there as well.And Fashola too(check his blog),very soon your baby will soon join our old babies club in jesus name .For that place,na only smart babies dem they born.A trial will surely convince you.Wishing you the very best

my colleague is patronising them, still no luck!

my dear am not in a hurry to test. the last time l didnt show until l missed the 2nd period. will have to wait till then.

Arlington

Where your reply come waka go now , have read it shaa from your profile post.

Thats good then, some pple tend to exagerate about CM.

@Aladuni . Hope you are taking clomid with doctors supervision.

@ all,

my doctor gave me one fertility drug that supposed to make me release quality eggs (dont know the name oo - ^{very unfortunate)}. l notice that this cycle, when l supposed to ovulate, l somehow felt it, but didnt notice cervical mucus but somehow wetness. Does absence of CM really indicate non-ovulation? l have researched online, some pple say they got pg without visible CM.

ChichiAda welcome to the forum

Wow!!! the job functions they subject you to seem really like that of an ice assistant as u said.

1. Yes the work of a PA is purely administrative in nature. In a very small office, you may work as an office assistant, front desk, secretary/PA (as seems in ur case). In a very organised office, they supposed to have an office assistant, departmental secretaries. Seems u are the only administative assistant they have in the office. If your coy doesnt have office assistant request for one.


2. In an organised office, he supposed to have a department secretary or an office assistant, who should be responsible for that. But in the absence of that, you just have to do it for the sake of the job. Get a water flasks, everying morning boil water and put there, he can use without distubing u.

3. This is purely office assistant job. They should get one, they cant call u PA still have u do that. lf u have office assisant, hè/she will report to you, so u still answer query if she fails to do the right thing.

4. lf the meeting in ur office, its ur duty to get the tea ready. You can delegate ur office assisant to do that.


Pls dont quit ur job, winners dont quit and quitters dont win. As u said, u are still an undergraduate, you are there to gather experience, after ur education, l beleive u will get a job that will place u where u rightly belong.

Make urself happy and enjoy ur job the best u can, afterall doing those things, does not take anything from you!

@ All

My brother went for Military Training at Kadua for the past 3months and nobody have heard from him. His phone is no going thru and he hasnt called anybody. Pls does anybody any info on this. We are worried, but pple keep saying that all is well, that they could have seized their phones. We dont even know if the training is over. How long does such trainings last?

hahaha l heard it too plus using your legs to ride bicycle to fasten the swimming process   May God hear our prayers.   l am in my 2weeks wait.  Wishing myself plenty Baby Dust and u too

Arlington:

hello my peace,
I had my last miscarriage in March and i saw my period in July.It takes a while for your body to get back to Normal.
Have your doctors run tests to see if everything is ok ?Arrgh i hate the fake symptoms it can make one crazy it is funny how these things happen when you want a baby.
Blessed are the women who just get pregnant have healthy babies without knowing what God has done for them.
May we never ever again cast our fruits before the harvest time again.

Haa, if l had know this before, l wont have been so stressed as l was when my period refused to show up. l never knew it could take that long, l spent alot in hospital. Trust some doctors, he made me believe something was wrong but could not really see anything, thank God it later came.

My Colleague in the office, had similar thing, her doctor did family planning for her to correct the stuff, till now close to 2years the period still doesnt run. lt runs when shes carrying the IUD, if she removes it, it stops.

Have you heard about this 21 days tip? A friend told me that if a woman gets to age 30, that ovulation changes to day 21 instead of day 14 (However, ovulation depends on the length of the cycle) and preferably position is reentry, which deposits sperm straight to the womb. l dont know how truth it is ooo, but that was what l did and conceive for the first time in life.

The Bible says, we shall never caste our young, or be barren in the Land.

thanks, but who dey post letters these days again!

Morning - A cup of chocolate, and Water Water

Lunch - White rice with Fried plantain and fish

Ask ur Account Officer

Ask ur Account Officer

Arlington, u are right, but l found out that the more l think of it the more l get fake pregancy symptoms when am about to see my period.   So l think we just have to stop the stress of thinking, though it impossible to be completely forgotten as u said.


How long did it take u to get your period after each of your miscarriages?  l have my first miscarriage in April and got my first  in August.

Sorry l made a mistake in the name its Chartered Institute of Administration (CIA) to became a Chartered Administrator

l search for it and got this https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-73830.0.html click and read more about it

l should think every coy pay transport allowance. Blue chips coys are in the island, thats the 'koko' with better pay

l see Institute of Chartered Secretaries and Administrators of Nigeria (ICSAN) as more of COMPANY SECRETARY stuff than ADMIN SECRETARY.  For me, it favours lawyers than admin secretary like us (personal opinion), however, admin secretaries are doing it.  The CBAN, u wan become banker?  lf you are in the industry thats good.  For the IAAP that should be for every one of us, may not likely create another niche for us, but consolidate our existing profession.

Your proposed course of study is cool,  But there is this charterd Institute of Administrators of Nigeria school at Badagry, Lagos.  Incase u want to become a chartered administrator, combined with your Pgd in your proposed course of study, that will be sellable in the labor market.

FunmyKemmy:


I would like to go for my Post graduate studies. I need ideas/suggestions from good people of this forum especially those who have been there and done that. I have HND (Secretarial Studies). Mail to ayokemi2003@yahoo.com.

Thank you.

What area of study do u want ur Pgd? l usually like professional courses instead of following the crowd. l have not been there anyway, but applied for Masters with Unilag in 2008, but didnt get admission.


l wish u all the best!

Apart from good companies with structured pay pattern e.g banks. 90% percent of private companies in mainland pay peanuts as salary,  Island pay better salary, thats where u have high calibre of companies, but if care is not taken u spend all on transportation fare.  Having worked on the two sides, l prefer Mainland (because l live in maindland), lf  l can get a good offer like what l have now -  l doubt if l can see that on the mainland though.  Therefore Island all the way, not minding the stress!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11

The best is to forget about it, one day it will come naturally. l am there, l know its not easy to forget it, but thats the sure way to go about it.

Thank you my good people. l will go for the HR. Still about to submit the form, a member of this forum promised to help me out with the signing of the Sponsor Column of the form, thats what is delaying my application.

@obijack

If they answer you, kindly get in touch with me. Maybe we will arrange to attend same tutorial centre. As par the pay, my coy is really trying maybe because of the industry.

@Chy
Thanks for all ur input.

l need serious career advice.

l have a desire for a career change to Personnel. l work as Sec/Admin Exec in my office with good pay, and dont have the mind of job change for now. My boss just called me that he wants me to also function as IT support staff. l must confess apart from the normal IT skill of a Secretary, l dont know any other thing.


Do you guys advice me to still pursue the career in personnel, or start an IT training to help me function well in the new job? What area of IT do l go for training to really work well as an IT support staff of a company. l am just confused.

at All,

l need serious career advice.

As posted earlier, l have a desire for a career change to Personnel. l work as Sec/Admin Exec in my office with good pay, and dont have the mind of job change for now. My boss just called me that he wants me to also function as IT support staff. l must confess apart from the normal IT skill of a Secretary, l dont know any other thing.


Do you guys advice me to still pursue the career in personnel, or start an IT training to help me function well in the new job? What area of IT do l go for training to really work well as an IT support staff of a company. l am just confused.

Dont know if sharing my personal experience will relax ur mind.

l had miscarriage April 29, 2009, got my first period August 20, 2009.