l mean Dr. Balogun's thread.

oluomoadebayo:

It depends on your choice,mytv is better for family use because if you don't pay you will still get some free tv to watch.

Thats why l like it too.

Am Dec 17 too.

when a guy is afraid of commitment he is not worth wasting ur previous time with. Again age is not on ur side. He is still a baby, look for a MAN!

at GEW

Seconded!

What happens if things didnot change? 

Again, you are 31 almost 32, he is 32, the possibility of him running after younger girls is there, unless he is too disciplined.  Most men of 32 years prefer younger women of say 28, (especially my igbo brothers, yorubas dont care about age, but if u both are igbo think about this age stuff - _{abeg nobody shd attack me ooo})

ask ur question in medical forum, docs there will answer u.

kathyekiti:

@mypeace
How did the scan show PID? Did you have any symptoms?

Thanks doc.

Accordn to the lab report, the scan showed a little fluid. And he said the fluid means presence of infection, so adviced me for the test l did, and they culture from HVS candida and E.coli from urine. l never had any symptom except back ache, but since my medication , the back ache have vanised.

posakosa:


Think about this for a minute: What will he do if you stop giving him any money ? both to him and his family ? Will he still claim to love you ?

Let him fend for himself,

Just do this. You said u have financed some business and he failed. if he cant secure a job, why is he flopping in biz too?

l was in this kind of situation about 8 years ago, l had to breakup after 6years when l could no longer find peace! lnstead of getting exciting about our getting married, l was afraid of uncertaintity. Mine didnt see anything wrong in collecting money from me. He even had the gut to tell me one day TO BEAR MY CROSS (hahaha the crossing of taking care him)

Baby follow ur mind, if you have inner peace go ahead, but if not, move on. The bible says when he gives a gift He doesnot add sorrow. lf this gift is making u sorrowful, its not worth it, it could be PITY.

Alternatively, you said u want to finance another business for him, do it first and see him perform and atleast stand to fend for himself before u go ahead!

Thats why l say love is overated!
Thank God his case is  not that of womaniser.   You said u love him, if actually u do, u have to TOLERATE his imperfections. After 5 years of ur marriage, u supposed to have learned his likes and dislikes.  Concentrate on doing and saying things to make him happy and also in loving yourself and baby. Stop looking for faults, no one can love u more than urself.  All u owe urself is happiness and dont crave it from anybody.  He case is not too bad, just that he is attached to his family.  l believe if u stop making him the centre of your happiness, u will find happiness naturally.  Stop watching too much love movies and books, they are not real!

the way u posted this.

makahagirl:

i guess you know when your inlove when you
fall head over heals over somone, when you think about them day and night,
when you get butterflys thinking about that one person, when you feel that you
cant stay away from them, when you see them it dame near breaks your heart,
seeing your unborn children in their eyes, just having this feeling deep down that
cant go away, about that one person you cant get out of your mind and
smiling everytime your around them.
Oopps, sorry im going on and on,
im just a helpless romantic

l feel you!!  Thats my thinking when l was single, thank God l didnt marry with that thinking.  When u get married l know u will differentiate infatuation, lust from PURE LOVE.

lannre:

love is a phenomenon,from personal experience Its working right here in my matrimonial home. Some married men might have experience such too, Now I believe my wife is the most precious woman in the world. A worthy wife to envy. She is more than a jewel,  true wife, best lady for any desiring husband. (I only tell her this in a pragamtic ways).  Back to the topic,Love transcends beyond words,and all the theories we read in the book,I believe love has an inherent pull that is beyond us. No one can say how much he/she will love or hate in future. things change. Life has taught me that "you can be the change you hate so much" love differs from infatuations,we see newly married who separate on wedding eve,we see friends who celebrates 20 years of "happy married life" God is all knowing. for me I am enjoying and loving my woman than yester years thought. I really love her so much,we both dont believe it. Our son (in the profile) now add to the passion with his attitudes.  Wish the poster the best

You are talking brother.  Thats it love comes later.  l am a witness too.

Unseen:

@MyPeace
If you know what is good for you, better forget Mytv. They have nothing to offer. Dstv family package is incomparable to Mytv yet the same 2500. Or rather go for Ctl, they have hot channels now with all the leagues included for just 2650 but you have to be in the east.

Are u or have u used mytv?

Hi Doc,

pls l have not seen my period since my misscarriage in april 29. l did scan and it showed PID, did HVS and Urinanalysis, infection was cultured, l am taking my drugs. pls what do l do to get my period back.

ezinne1212:

Yeah, love is overrated

You are right.
Some pple think when u are shaking over a guy/lady, when u think without ur head , then means u are in love.

Love comes later, initially l can call it LIKE or ATTTRACTION, but as ur true character unfolds within the marriage, you begin to understand each other better, tolerate and forgive easily, then u call it love.

Most times infatuation, lust are called LOVE, thats why we have divorce cases, unhappy homes all over the place.

Love is reality and not an abstract thing - sometimes u hear sentences like ' l just love her'. To me Love is Character! and you can never know ur partner until you are living with him or her.

There is True Love but it comes later!!

twinstaiye:

MYTV does not have RIGHTS to show english premiership live. Even if they connect to station that show premiership, fact is they dont have rights to show it, less they be arrrested for infringements of rights.
But they do have Arsenal TV, Manchester City TV, Everton TV and i think Chelsea Tv which relays those matches through the listed respective TV. The best thing you can do is to subscribe to HITV, which has the 80% right to show english premiership in Nigeria.

Bros seems u know more about Mytvafrica, am about subscribing to them, could you tell me about it, does it work well, someone was discouraging me that its not common in najia and may not work properl. pls gv me your view on them. am not kin about the sport aspect. tx

All,

Beware!

Doctor,

Sorry for your loss, take heart!

walakolobo:

@Poster


Do you think everyone comes from a poor background? That question is an affront and assault to my parents who worked hard to make sure they provide all i need for me as a child.

jumb and pass!

ifyalways:

I did not hawk but used to go help my granny sell Crayfish and dried fish at her stall at the mkt.
@My peace and darfur,whats "odubiri ofuchie"?

its puff puff.

pres-elect:

hauwa cool down. one day when i was 8yrs old, i was hawking [i]odobiri ofuchie[/i] one lady bought all my stuff and paid me less, she asked me to come inside and collect the remaining money but i had to call my aunt who went and took the money. what did a lady want from an 8 yr old. by 7pm? she had the money in her purse, i saw it. but she wont give me. i even offered to give her my friend toshman for sex but she wont accept. she insisted she wants me


so women also misbehaved

Are u sure u really hawked odobiri ofuchie and amu mbekwe!!!  lol u are taking me back to those days

onlyu:

I have been finding it difficult coping with my job.
Pls i need your advice. The work load is too much but the management does not want to understsand. I do make mistakes because of the load and management sees as incompetence. What do i do?

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my dear l hv been there l can understand you. one thing u shd understand is that 'what is worth doing is worth doing well' Do one thing at a time and ensure its thorough before jumping to another. Organise ur work in the order of priority and start from that order. lf you have office assistant, there are some minor jobs she can help u do, why u cross check before passing to ur boss. lt all depends on ur kind of job shaa. lf l may ask whats the nature of ur job?

1. For three months.
2. Your basic salary plus housing allowance, others are subtracted
3. You resume the normal time and close one hr early
4. Yes, we have medical insurance (we use unic insurance), and we are under the maternity option for the married female only.
5. Not sure how its done, but dont think its a problem here.
6. Not sure of it.

How far on this?? lts four years now!

for my darlyn elder sister, who passed away on 10/3/2008. still seems like a dream!! sure will shall meet to part no more!

Veragar:

hi able secretaries/PAs, still waiting for an answer to the difference between the of confidential secretary and Administrative Secretary.

Same secretarial function.  The only difference to me  is that a confidential Sec is mostly attached to a Snr boss, sometimes can be called the PA.  As the name implies, the level of information available to you is more to that of an Admin Sec (in an organised coy though). Admin Sec is a Pool Secretary attached to the the Admin Dept, though u still get a boss, but a general sec in that dept to attend to their secretarial needs.

you never miss oo, u can start ur own.

@van der jo

Gentlelady gave the best advice in my opinion here.

She can do it if she wants to cut her cloth according to her material. Saving N2,500 out of the N25,000 each much is not a hard work. Many people are earning below that amount and still do something for themselves. She can cut that from the money she gives to her bf. The bf shoudnt dependend on her for his monthly pocket money, his parents should bear that responsibility for now, knowing that shes not well paid, unless shes doing 'big girl' stuff.

Fretting will not help the situation. Go to clinic for blood work.

Kevostica:

Doc thank you for good job well done. Pls i have being battling with staph aerus for somes years with low sperm count and poor erection as a result.The antibiotes i have taken at the intervals does not react with the bacteria. Mosttimes show +++ but does not work when administered except oflozacin.Pls doc what do i do to get out of this infection as my wedding is coming very near.Can i infect my wife by kissing and unprotected sex?

Ask your question in Sexual Health forum on this health section. There is a specialist on that forum for this kind of question.