abiop:

Thanks Ifunaya et all for your prayers even though I'm typing this with tears rolling down my cheeks. I can't bear the psychological trauma my wife is going through. OH GOD, where is thy face

The joy of the waiting is that you are going to give birth to Isaac, Samuel, John the baptist (if you are a xtian, you know the circumstances surrounding their births and their life histories)  God can never allow you to wait this long and at last give you a naughty person as a child!  Wait joyfully, because Faithful is He that promised, He will SURELY bring it to pass!  His word CAN NEVER change in your time!  IT IS WELL

@Kokodee
glad to hear from you. Congratulatins on your MPA, l did the entrance exam then, but was not among successful candidates. Decided to do CIPM (personnel mgt) certification, passed the last exam in March, will be doing another this August and the the final by Feb next year. l intend going for MBA at Olabisi Onabanjo by next year after my Feb Exams, that were l had my first degree, l believe competition wont be much there. Congratulations on ur big belle. Am asking God to bless me so that l will have time for my career. sometimes this TTC whala slows me down.

VENUSS:

oh my GOD dis is great, congrgats to arlington,stages nd odas.

girlie, where have you been?

My update

CD  37
(if centri is paribus l suppose see am today, but since centri refused to be paribus this month, nothing nothing for now )  l dont understand ooo.  Have been having  little  brown spotting only when l wipe (sorry tmi) since last week. dont tell me its implantation bleeding , l dont think l ovulated, yes l know its possible to ovulate without knowing, but this cycle to me is up side down!

@Arlington
Congratulation for your morning sickness, that what u have been asking for

you wont have made a scene out of the msg. if you never wanted her wahala, you shd have quietly deleted the msg without her knowing. l think u created this problem for urself.

end justifies the means.  go eagles shaa

@Arlington
Arite l wont go self med. l think ur post is having a problem spam filter.

@Arlington
your post is not showing, but well explained.
Can one take baby aspirin without doctor's prescription?

@ yemmight
God bless you! My boss is being a little difficult. l asked those questions, becuase he wants to know where all those were spelt out in the Law Labour. However, l have bought insurance and pension act, labour and workman compensation act books. l saw theone u recommended on the book shelf, its still 12k. l will try and get it too.

Thank you onces again!

Arlington:

Hello my people of TTC ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh My God has DONE IT AGAIN OHHHH I AM PREGNANT!!!!
And i will remain pregnant and bear this child in Jesus name . I already knew but had confirmation last week that it is a viable pregnancy. God just take me and place me in the center of your palm oh.
My first Testimony is that i have gone longer than i have ever gone with my other pregnancies, i have seen the heartbeat of the baby and it is still early but i saw the baby.

The funny part to all this is that all other times my doctor has been putting me on claimed and injections and etc this time he told me no clomid that he wants to see what my own eggs can do on there own and viola i am here. My doctor wants me to take promiturim for a longer period of time and has put me on one baby aspirin a day just in case i have any blood clots that can cause my baby not to get enough blood supply.
i have done and is still doing a lot of prayers. I would love to post the picture of my scan but I think it is still early i guess with the second scan i will post the picture.
So today i am pregnant and i will enjoy this moment i know fear creeps in once in a while but i will remain positive will keep everyone updated!!!!!
Please join me in prayers .

l shouted for joy in the office that my colleague was like are you ok! Infact l am so happy for you. This is a sign of many good news to come in this forum. Congratulations!!! He that did it is more than able to keep it till delivery day. Congratultions and enjoy ur pregancy!!!

@Arlington
l am fine dear. how TTC go dey go?

My update
CD 30
DPO ? (to the best of my knowledge l have not ovulated)

me l dont know this cycle ooo. l am no longer bloated and gassy, l feel great now.

@ AratOluda

how are you doing? Hope the pains from the blighted ovum is no much? Mine was terrible because l was almost 8weeks before l found out l was even pregnant. They suggested D&C, but thank God l refused and had a natural miscarriage. Thank God yours didnt get to that stage. Hope you are ok now shaa, IT IS WELL!

@ AratOluda

l feel your pains!

Take heart, thats exactly what happened to me February this year, got a positive today and next day bleeding and l lost the baby.

l have heard that some pple are very delicate, that if they conceive and still baby dance, it affects the preg and causes miscarriage. since l found out that i might be in that group, after 2 -3 days of ovulation, l stay away from Sex, giving it time to settle incase l may have conceived.

However, console yourself with the fact that you are Fruitful and not Barren! lt will happen again!

my update


CD 23
DPO (supposed to O on CD 21 but didnt, and there is no sign of it for now)

l have been very bloated. This cycle is very unusual. Dont really know what is going on. However, time shall tell.

Ejadamen:

@ my peace I don't know it o! never bothered cos the period is so irregular and I just do not understand the calculation. Meaning I actually do not know when I ovulate

Now I am confused,thot my period came but only saw drops for like 4 days,was that a period

Has it always been like that, or after your miscarriage?

However, take the 4days drops as your period and start counting from there. normally period comes 10-16 days after ovulation.  so whenever u see your period count back 'say 14 days' to give you an idea of the window periods you ovulated.  From that you have in mind the CD you usually ovulate.  e.g (myself)  l have 37day cycle, and l see my period 16 after O, meaning l O on day 21.  sometimes the folicle  stages changes, but it gives me idea of the likely days l shouldnt miss to Baby dance. 

l advice that you do a HVS test to rule out infection.

Note: follicular Stage can be longer than usual but Luteal phase remains same, except with pregancy.

AratOluda:

@MyPeace

Thank you for the prayers. Will test tomorrow or Saturday. I have not been feeling fine.

Will post the update on Monday and I believe it will be Positive.

another BFP in the corner. l cant wait for the good news!

GenBuhari:

Other sources of unwanted chemic substances entering the bosy could be from:

Make up and lipstick
Traffic pollution

Thx for your contribution.  thats the essence of detox.  l use Gnld supplement called Betaguard for this (_{am not recommending pls})  lt is hard to completely avoid these toxins in the body.


@Ejadamen

Abeg ooo, why dont you know your CD and DPO,  how do you predict O?

@Inpain

lf you can be true to yourself, the ony reason u feel the way u feel is that, he is the only man you have ever had intimacy with. So you wish to have it with another man, to know how it is with another person. Just know that it is almost all the same!

Romeo4real:

Can someone offer the poster advice on the issue he posted about? He did not ask for your opinion, nor did he ask for your judgement. If you cant ans his question, then dont reply to the post.

what are u doing? Also passing judgement and derailing the thread. You for offer the advice or also shdnt have replied. A case of charcoal calling kettle black!

@AratOluda
My prayer goes to you. lf you dont see it by tomorow, means good news ooo, Luteal phase is 10 - 16 days all things being equal. Plenty Baby Dust!!!!!!!!!!

@all,

God will help us oooo, 

my update

TTC       No.1   ( 2micarriages)
CD        16
DPO    - (expecting ovulation on CD21)
Ages   Me 34 DH 43
been trying for 3yrs

Have not really been trying many things, however, l look out for natural fertility enhancers, food, fruits, gnld supplements.


Have not really been myself since after the last period, out of curiosity l took HPT, BFN, however, never tested BFP on HPT that early. Again over the wkend, after BD l started having sharp abdominal pain, that comes and go. Also l am having feeling of fullness, l have not been eating well too because of that. lol, two much complaint (lol)- even luvly and stages never complain like this

Arlington:

Old boy, i get what you are saying hence i said i don't know where you are coming from i cant tell you to keep it but i hope you plan on Marrying this young lady. i am just saying this because as a woman who has been trying for 5 years to have a child i was sad when i saw your topic. as i said and will say again i am not in your shoes, i wish you guys the best of luck.

my dear, thats the world for u!

luvly:

I think i will have 2 buy it.thanks for d info dear.

ur welcome.

Ejadamen:

I think I need to get this folic acid.

yes its recommendend for every woman of childbearing age, whether married or single.

No, even as ttcer l am supposed to be taking them, so l take them

luvly:

@ my peace,i will say amen 2 dat.very soon,we shall have more testimonies.i am yet 2 see a doctor,i havent started taking prenatal vitamins or folic acid.

pls search the net for the importance of folic acid even before u conceive and up to 12weeks of the preg. l am already taking folic acid and prenatals. lf you must see ur Dr before taking anything, you have to hurry pls, folic acid is very very very necessary even before conception.

@luvly

l expect you to have been taking you prenatals or folic acid now. 


As rosejen said and now God has changed her situation, the best option is not to cry for devil, though l have been there, especially the month you believed u did everything right, and maybe u had some symptoms that seems like it has clicked. Now whenever l see my period, l begin to ponder on those things God has done for me, and l tell him that He that did this and that for me,that he is more than able to give me children.  l also tell myself that l dont have control over the situation, so crying cannot do anything rather it will make me look miserable and frustrated.  lt is not easy, but God is still in the business of giving children, there are evidences all around us!  l really thank God that it is not showing on me. Do all u can do and live the rest to the Creator of Live. It is His name thats at stake and not mine, moreover God has his name to protect.  As long as we believe we shall all announce our BFPs in this forum.  Cheers

@ Arlington
Good to see u again!

l love the monday update, that will be lovely!

@Ejadamen

Seeing ur period shows that all is well with you! Dont mind the devil he is fighting a lost battle.

For me ooo, l dont just understand myself. l have been bloated and feeling so uneasy since after my period 10days ago! lf l get a loose cash l fit do a blood test, who says the little bean can be there

rushing to go home now, catch u girls morow!

@stages
you dont need any help, just dey enjoy ur testimony! l heard if u sleep on ur back, the baby might find it difficult breathing.(l dont know if its one of those old wives tales)

@luvly
dear we are doing great, how are u enjoying ur self?

@AratOluda
Thank you very much, l will try and get it. Have u started using it? read online that some pple have burning sensation after using it, hope u are not reacting to it.


@Arlington

Girlie u have disappeared enough, abeg show face.

AratOluda:

@MyPeace

I got it for 3000 naira. It came in a tube with six applicators.

Thank you. l havent seen it b4 except online, so l dont understand the useage, does it mean that tube will last for six times?

AratOluda:

@masido

Thanks alot. I was able to get from Medplus in VI.

how much did you buy it at medplu pls. that place is closer to my office.