Aladunni:

lmao

@ ally, whats it about the fresh fish thingy?

Nothing special about the fresh fish ooo, l know u are interested in any available tip

Arlington:

@Mypeace better branch the market after work and buy some fresh cat fish or something and buy a Hot love CD the work is not yet over till tommorow i beg I have list of CD's oh if you are looking for love songs.

infact it is not over. You need to see me begging DH to dance the dance ooo. He is practically doing shakara this time around. l just de dey very careful make l no annoy him ooo ,so he wont refuse to do .

@Ejadamen
Sorry dear l never met to scare you.  lt is well.

@labella12
conception is better, but he using d ordinary, if he sees the word conception he will refuse to take. 

@all
Further update to my Monday update
For sure my ovulation came yesterday(thats exactly 10 days after the last pill of the clomid).  l thank God for that.

DPO 1

@ AratOluda
Calm down it will come.  l was worried shaa the first time, it still came naturally then.  The second MC l was told that Vitex helps to balance the hormone, l made online inquiry about it andl took it immediately after the MC and my period returned immediately. (Pls l am not prescribing - _{but l used gnld food supplement that contains vitex called Female Herbal Complex})

Arlington
Congratulation, l would have predicted twins for u a boy and a girl.  abeg take care of that boy, l am having a beautiful girl for him.

@Delphilia and Echala
A friend of mine had blocked tubes too.  she went to a hospital in india and got it cleared, just returned about 3weeks ago.  l believe there is hope.

@Ejadamen
Are you sure you are not having PCOS.  Pls google it for more info.

My Update
CD 19 (from the period cycle)
CD 14 (From clomid cycle)
Felt l ovulated yesterday, but not really very sure, will keep on baby dancing till end of the month.


Where are stages and luvly?

~Sissy~:

i have heard the YAM theory too.

its not the usual yam, but wild yam, igbos call it ONA.

Arlington.
    drastic situation needs drastic action.  Used the preseed for the first time yesterday, it was great with it!! 

@Aladunni

if you are buying only Zinc, buy chelated zinc, read that the body absorbs it better than ordinary zinc.

However, l prefer it in a mutivitamins because l read that excess of one vitamin can cause a deficiency in another (excess zinc causes copper deficiency)

l buy WELL MAN for my hubby from MEDPLU it costs N1500, a tablet a day (a pack contains 30 tablets)

@all,
thank you for ur concerns. l am still on the look out for the ovulation. l am not using any O' predictor. l usually have O' pains whenever am O'ing. However, we have planned and scheduled BD every other day throughout this month to make sure l dont miss it. l will start using my preseed tomorrow being day4 from the last day of the clomid. For the first time we have a BD tabletime , very funny

@Aladunni, l mean that there is no problem with u, that everything is working well.

@labella12, l bought preseed fertility friendly intimate moisturizer.

@ masido, congratulations!

@ all,
l finish the five day clomid pill on saturday, l learnt l would ovulate 5-9 days after the clomid. still on the lookout for ovulation.

l wont worry about that. l think its normal for somepple to spot few days to real period. However, you won't count the spotting day(s) as a start of ur cycle. l believe all is well with you.

@Aladunni
l meant that I bought one and they still have one left on the shelf. so hurry before another person buys the remaining one.

just came back from their store. bought it at 3k. i made inquiry the have only one left on the shelf

@Aladunni

MedPlus is at Keffi street, Awolowo Road, Ikoyi. l will be going there now to buy.

Aladunni:

Updates: CD - 21, DPO - 11. @mypeace, pls where are you buying dis preseed stuff. And how much do you get it. Take care

One of us here bought at Med Plus at the Inland. l have been there to make inquiry, they still have it in stock. its 3k. l have not bought for now, but before friday l will create time to go there.

Thank you my people. lt was really disappointing!! l thank God for His grace.

CD 4.

will be using clomid and try preseed this cycle.
l want to be sure of ovulation with God on my side l pray it works in my favour

Thank you my dear people. lt was really disappointing! Thank God for His grace.


My update
CD 4.

l will be taking clomid and trying preseed this cycle.

l feel my period coming now

PRD:

SOS Call Please!!!

Coincidentally while looking for a PA, my wife who is an educationist has been invited to write a test for a PA position to the head of a leading private educational institution.

What kind of test should she be looking at? Is it just the normal verbal and quantitative reasoning? Is there a brand name kind of test she could try online?
The test is tomorrow morning so, you quickest view will be appreciated.

Regards

l have written test on Gmat questions followed by verbal interview
l have also written test on office management and organisational behaviour questions, followed by interview
l dont think there is a unique test for PAs, and l am not aware of any online test.

She should know who a PA is. The duties and qualities of a PA. Most of oral interviews come in a case study. She would be asked what she would do under such condition. The first pages of this forum will be of a little help to her. wishing her all the best!

l want to Thank God for making every little effort l take to yield plenty increase.

l want to thank my friend Ann who made me further my education, after secondary l believe there was no hope to continue because of financial constraint, but she believed that with God nothing is imposible.  l am what l am today because of her push!

l thank my late sister Olivia, for her encouragement by providing me with basic necessities of life, and stood by me during the time of my studies.

l thank my elder brother, for paying my first year school fees, even when all my friends had paid and exam was about to start, l thought all hopes were lost.

l thank my husband for allowing me to be the best l can be in my career.

Acidosis:

If you can't get a Job, then create one and make yourself the CEO. Even the bank might need your service someday.

easier said than done!

@ Arlington
Dont worry every thing will work out for your good!

My update
l still dey as l dey l am taking my time this time around so l dont get false negative as was the case in my first preg, which made me became careless with drugs and lost the baby. The second pg l got positive (with blood test) at 8weeks. So l am waiting either till 8weeks to get a blood test or as recommended by the the Sonographer to get another scan. However l prefer to get a scan this time around. Still cross your fingers that all turns out for my good, or else l would be sooooooooooooo disappointed!!!!

Having tender bossom and bloated. l think its pregnacare that casuing the bloatness, but l have been taking it before this time and never got bloated, dont know why shaa.


Urine PT still says negative, l am not bothered cos its be the usual with other times.

l have got in touch

@Recruit_oo
pls put your email addy l will get back to you immediately.

Aladunni:

Updates: TTC 1; CD 9: Trying nothing this cycle including "no baby dancing"

u are cracking my ribs!!!

Wetin happen? are u on strike?

Ejadamen:

@ mypeace,finger's crossed for you.

Monday update
TTC 1
CD - when is this counted? after the last day of a period or from the first day?
DPO

I just concluded a heavy period The best one since January.

CD is counted from the first day of your period.

l know you receive letters on his behalf, as his secretary you are supposed to open the letters except ones marked confidential, or addressed personally to him.   From there you shd know letter that needs to be replied, or some acquiries that need to be answered.  When u get such docs that need attention, show it to him and request to make a draft for him.

Me oo, l read in my office too, l am also writing the august diet, which level are u writting? Mine is PE1.  But some offices frown at it ooo, if na me as a new person, l wont read when pple will see me, until you master the envrionment better.



do you have the contact of his last secretary? if yes call her for tips, she will know the man better than you, l usually do this.  But if you are comfortable meeting him face to face, you could  arrange for meeting, and  tell him, you wish to be busier than u are now.

@cleversecj

Abeg cool down for Jesus . You are just one month there, he is studing you, calm down, when he gets used to you, he will unfold. l have worked with a boss, who will lock his office and go out with the key, until he got used to me.  However, if you can have access to the former Secretary, she/he will be in a better position to give u some winning tips to manage him.  Nevertheless, he could be among the secretive ones, which means u do what you see to do, and forget those he doesnt want to let out. With the hi-tech phones we have now, some bosses manage their dairies themselves.

In this new era, those TRADITIONAL secretarial roles have phased out, every employee is now a potential secretary, in my office for instance, we dont have any Secretary.  So,  instead of asking him what to do (it will look as if you are redundant) whenever he is too busy to attend a meeting/function, ask if you could attend on his behalf, not every meeting ooo, the ones you know that you could actually represent him, or if he is busy to attend to his client, offer to attend to them and give him feedback.  Or there a letter/report that needs to be written, ask to do a draft for him. lf there is a vacant Admin role, since u are less busy, tell them you will be glad to fill up the gap before they get a replacement.  Before you know it, he will build confidence in you, and you will come back here compaining of work overload

chiscomi:

Hi Katty! tanx 4 your wonderful reply am grateful. but 1tin still borders me, I used 2 have a whitish discharge though i ve gone 4 a test & the result says I ve no candida growth. could it stop me 4rm conceiving? How much is d ovulation kit in Naira

Ovulation Kit is N1500. its available in any good pharmacy store.

my people

l understand your points and l support them.   l dont even expect anybody to collect 40k in lagos for instance.  When you factor in transport, feeding, you will end up working for free.  lf he wants to pay 7,500, thats fine,thats if he finds somebody to collect that.  lf we concretely say 40k, it seems thats the generic salary structure for secretary.  He shd pay whatever he feels like (as long as theres no regulatory body for salary).  Whatever he pays, will be a function of the quality of person and work he gets.  ln my office a cleaner earns 41,750 gross salary per month, so why shd Sec earn 7,500 or 40K

My update.

7days missed period.

l cant do a hpt or blood test because l dont get result this early from past two experiences. Out of curosity, l did a scan, the sonographer said he is not very sure of what he is seeing, but noted a decidual reaction, mass and cycst. To do a repeat test in 4wks time to be sure. Pls cross your fingers for me.

l am only having a bit tender bossom.

long time!!!   another thread is taking my time!

PRD:

Lets be clear, I am not a secretary or a personal assistant.
I am considering employing the service of a PA especially as I commence a new venture in the agricultural sector.

Can anyone give me an estimate salary for a PA.
Based on:
Entry level:
Experience 1 - 3yrs
Experience 3 - 5yrs

I would appreciate your response

Thanks

l think the national minimum wage law says N7,500.  There is no specific amount  attached to any position in the private sector as long as its above the minimum wage and the applicants accepts to collect it, then no wahala.  lt all depends on what you can aford to pay.  Again, salary differs from industry to industry.  What a secretary/PA collects in an oil industry will surely be different from Banking industry and this your Agric industry.
As l said there is no generic salary structure.

l just read your previous posts, as a graduate you would start from intermediate level, so l recommend the one at grange school, ikeja G.R.A.

iyoyoworl:

Pls which of the the study centers would you advise one to register with.
I for one wants to build a career in HR and would like to take the certification exam from the foundation stage.

The centre at Grange School, Ikeja G.R.A is known for excellence, thats where l go. wrote last diet, and will be writing another this August. l recommend it but they dont have foundation classes. they start from intermediate.