tushgirl:
Good day all,
I met a guy around February,initailly someone gave him my bbm pin so we were chatting but I wasn't into him then(because I haven't seen him then),i would always ignore him or reply sometimes....i. Began to feel something for him toward April ending so the chat and calls were regular...we started dating and the relationship was going on smoothly,we met and I fell in love immediately...my feelings for him was so strong,i told him him I felt and he told me same too.

We were suppose to meet last week but he suddenly text me and told me about a meeting he was to attend so I accused him going to see other girls and not the said meeting.
I told him my mind,how I felt he is a womaniser,i said many things but I never insulted him,i later called and apologise even when I know he might have been with another girl that weekend....i have been begging this guy since Friday,he said he had heard bit he refused to ping or call me
I'm not exaggerating but I get admires everyday..i have someone seeking for my hand in marriage,a very comfortable person.

Nb:This guy don't have much,but I still don't c care.

Pls talk sense into my head,insult me,i want to forget about him totally.



Mods help a sister out.
Your own na play, u just suddenly started accusing him without facts na wa

acxlers2014:
My experience buttresses the point that human nature is such that they look out for self first. I met, dated, proposed and did introduction with a lady in her thirties with the anticipation to marry her three months after that. Well I was charged up and ready to go and I was excited about the whole thing. She came over to my station in one of these northern states and she left after few weeks. I had thought everything was fine when I saw her off to the airport. Well a week after her attitude became funny, she started by asking for a postponement on the wedding, then she became very aggressive and later on she barred my numbers and started acting funny. Before I knew what was happening she started insulting me and saying different things about my capabilities as a man. Well by the grace of God I am a doctor in A government hospital and I own a flourishing practice in my domicile. Sadly no matter how much I tried she never seemed to be ready to come back. Well at a point in the deterioration of our relationship she returned my rings engagement and wedding bands and all the gifts I had given her
She was interviewed by her pastor, my pastor, my folks and she reiterated that she was not coming back. I did not relent even after all these but I had even a stronger resolve to carry on with the whole process. I thought it was a moment of temporary set back that maybe she may come through. How wrong was I. Several texts afterwards. She came out with a bold statement " MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AS I HAVE MOVED ON WITH MINE". IT hurt but is didn't matter to me. Then the deal breaker.......... she sends me conversations between her and a guy who was chiking her via whatsapp and was professing his love to her and she was tripping. With the caption " I WOULD RATHER MOVE ON WITH THIS GUY, HE IS A BETTER MAN TO YOU". She calls up my folks and tell them that I should stay off her back as well as my siblings. That was the CLOSURE I needed and I must say it was a tough call.

As for her family, they supported their own.
Lessons learnt.
The truth is when it is gone don't fight it, just move
on.

Never put your eggs in one basket, the concept of a side chick for every guy is valid, it is for your sanity, little wonder our fathers always seemed to have one

Old women, middle aged women, girls and baby girls are all the same their psyche is way different maybe it has something to do with hormones.

Never stick to an opinionated women, you can't be so silly to think feminism can work in our society

Beautiful women always feel they have an option.

Lastly never compromise your hustle for a woman.

mohince:
My fiance and i have been together for two years now….I dont understand why but she will just go to bed without saying anything while we are chatting No goodnight, bye bye, swtdreams, i love you, nothing nothing ...... When she dint reply in time that's when i realized she has sleeping, at that moment when i called her to say goodnight she doesnt pick the call.... All she will do the next day is saying sorry that "the sleep snatch me away". Am not happy, it seems the love is in the verge of collapsing.... this hurts my feeling because it makes me feel like I am not wort it for her to say it and do it…
i need help
Cc lalasticlala

Bbsharon:


Heaven yes

CHamBerz:
Please,I need Advice.
I'm a guy from Imo State,Nigeria. I have a good girlfriend;she is good in a lot of things but keeping our sercets from her best friend is the issue I'm having with her. She talks a lot to that her so called best friend that I was surprise her girlfriend knows most of my password(even that of my ATM). Seriously,I was shocked when she(her best friend told me the code when we were arguing). Can u imagine that her bf knows how,when I have s*x with my girl.etc.
Really,this freakin me out.I have tried my best to change her,but to no avail. Now,I have change alot@I now hide alot from her and its caused a lot of damage to the relationship(I really don't want us to break). She now thinks I don't trust her....
Please,I need advice because I'm confussed.

Europija:
Dear people,my ex Nigerian boyfriend called me and i didnt pick coz was not able...Later i called but he didnt pick n he didnt call again.He was treating me very bad while we were together n using me and he left me coz i cant give him documents for staying forever in Europe....I gave to him all my life n i did so much for him...but this is first time i didnt call him for 2 months....What does he want now with this his callP.S.About him u have more on my other threads..

fleeky:
I have been dating this guy for almost a month now,he has not said "I love u" to me. I visited today,got home and called him to notify that i'm home,he missed the call,but called later and we spoke alittle,i saad i'll chat him up later, afyer about 30mins i chatted him up,he hasnt responded,i called twice cos i'm wondering wats happening,he didnt pick, i dont want to suapect him,but my naughty mind is wondering if he could be chilling with another gal,lol..I dunno if it's right to suspect him,as i'm already becoming uncomfortable.
I'm confused, please advice me on what to do.

donkizzydaboss:
It happened last year november,it wasn't planned anyway,was playing game and at the same time was chatting my "ex"one thing led to the other,we started sexchatting,the chat really got into her that she requested we meet that very thurday for bleeping..she met later than schedule,she was rushing me to get things startd but i wantd to take time with the pre-intimacy,at last we got unclad,was about 2 penetrate her when her phone rang,she didn't pick the call,all she told me was to stop and she got dressd..afterward,shestarted avoiding we both meeting until i broke up early this year with her.............note:when it happened she was my gf,then we broke up afterward

Bbsharon:



We both know you mean otherwise

DONMAYOR19:
thank u fashola the minister of darkness.