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BlackRexDeus:
The Coronavirus phony scam created to depopulate the believers in God.

And you expect someone to take you seriously

A disgrace of a club, Man Utd now trails liverpool by 9 points!

Chiwetalu1:
Please go through and comment to help a brother...its a long read sha



Earlier this year I decided to start a relationship with a casual friend (a girl). She accepted my proposal although not without giving me much headache sha


So we started, having known alot about our past and in a bid to get the best out of what we have, we gave it all. Shared all our deepest secrets to each other - although I don't have any past still trailing me, my pasts (relationships) where gone and are very far from me. Same with her except for one.


He is a very trusted family friend of hers. Currently a seminarian for almost a decade and has a good chance of being a priest but still does fling with her until I came into the picture. Was a member of the mums prayer group and have been very close to the family for long.


She has been having this affair with the said guy without the knowledge of anyone around but a very close sis, I happen to be the second person to know. So this dude still has assess to her home and she to his home (although both of them don't spend much time with family again but occasionally come around).


MY FEARS

*They really really had a lot in the past, even as a seminarian, he indirectly made her end relationships, she claims to be over him but I usually see it as a conscious denial.
*When she's home and the guy is around, they get to meet- he even made advances at her sometime ago.
* My girl once told me she will want the want the guy (as a priest) to officiate our wedding.
* All about him is seriously threatening my religious life as a Catholic. Each time I see a Seminarian I will be like "hypocrite, this might be the guy who did this with my girlfriend". Imagine what this will be when he eventually becomes a priest.
**the talk plenty sha


WHAT I ASKED FOR

When she told all about him around March or April this year. I insisted on her completely cutting communication with him, but she vehemently refused then, somehow I accepted. I also wanted to know the said guy in person somehow (even if it's through Facebook since I wasn't close), but she still refused. I decided to give her time since we barely started. We've been good since then and things are going well. And I thought we've gotten over that.


Some days ago I stumbled upon a post on her Facebook wall over a sensitive topic. A guy who share a lot of similarities with this ex of her commented on it, using just a sentence to my explain my girls position on that topic. I concluded it's him. So i casually approached my girl - even with a plea not to get offended by what we will be talking about - that I have seen the guy shes been hiding from me. She said I was wrong about my assumptions, and later asked why I was bent on knowing this guy.

My people, I've spent since Monday trying to explain why i think it's important I know him, if not now but sooner considering how far we ( my girl and I) are going and cos we aren't in the same location. But she has totally refused insisting that she only did me a favour by letting me in on it and will not go further not even in future. She even threatened that we should walk away from the relationship if I insisted on knowing the guy.


So i kept asking myself...am I really asking for too much or is it right I know this person??

Some people are lucky, especially those who get to see clear red flags like these before going into a relationship.

I have written a bit about my own experience here. My ex used to think that it wasn't a big deal to go out with guys and visit their homes even. I thought I could change that, and I really liked her.

I think you already know that this girl is in love with that ex, but for some weird reason, you still want to enter into a relationship with her.

You see all those fears, they'll come through. Bro, I ended up wasting 7 years of my life, and it still didn't work out. Common sense is already out of the discussion, seeing as your girl is adamant on maintaining some kind of contact with that guy. She can't let him go, and you know this.

Bros, for your own sanity - and for the sake of not wasting your life as many in your situation ended up doing - run! Break up with her and run! Don't ever ignore red flags or hope they'll go away.

Detective Fash did not see that one o

kiddkash:
have you checked my profile

I just did! No vex

Hatrick Rashford!!!!

5 - 0!!!!

They cancelled goal no 5

kiddkash:
wouldn't be a win without a penalty

Na wa 4 una, o. But that was a clear penalty.

4 - 0!!!

This Mendy is good.

He's turning out to be one of the most consistent keepers in the Epl

Probabl3:
There's a girl I always tutor she is just tempting. I am 24 and she is 17. I told her mother I can't continue with the tutoring.
She begged since the girl was improving. So I decided to look for more students.
The bad thing is that it is only one boy and six girls presently and their parents said I should go their houses individually. Some do meet. The bad thing is that two of the girls have been giving me green Light and Konji don kill me since I don't have a girlfriend. The two are 16 and 17.
So if I date any of them and dick either one, am I a paedophile. The girls look matured.

If you knack these small girls now, wetin you go gain? The small reputation you get from your job go disappear, and if any of the kids get belle, e go don be for you.

If the fact that the girls are underage isn't enough to adjust your mind, then just remember say once you knack any of them, there is no going back, o.

Call girls plenty for road if the thing dey hook you too much.

SINGLE4LIFEEE:
guy which kin konji hol you so, open xvideos and solve your problems by yourself

Bros, did he mention sex?

desmond827:
Please I caught her cheating yet she kept denying not until I show all the conversation because i scan her whatapp web on my computer ...and I showed her everything's that she has discussed with the new guy he meet and they both heard s*x onces ..but she's begging me for over 3 weeks that it's was a mistake that such.but to my experience with the chat I saw she's in love with the guy and I feel so sad ..after everything she kept begging me that it was a mistake it won't happen ..today will make it 17 days still begging me ... advise please

Don't fall for it. Once a hoe, always a hoe.

She is not sorry that she cheated; she is sorry that she got caught. You already know that she is in love with the guy. Use this chance and run fast and far!

ajimo54:
I have continued to see many posts on Nairaland on marriage and relationships. Many of these write-ups justify why men should not spend on women they are dating. Anyway, relationship should not be based on selfish purposes. A lady has no right to keep pestering her boyfriend for money in any way. Both of you should bear every cost of your needs. Nevertheless, if your girlfriend is not working and you as a guy is working, you are expected to bear the cost of needs for both of you. If you cannot, don't date her.

In marriage, a man should provide for his family. If the wife is working, both can bear the expenses. Please, as a man, don't marry if u don't have a job. In case of job loss, try and rise to the occasion. You must get another legal means of income. Don't rely on your wife to feed the family. Don't rely on your wife's money! It is wrong to do so! Don't rant on Nairaland that your wife is not giving you support financially! Please, save us these gibberish! Hustle guys. Hustle for your wife and children! A good wife will always support her husband in all spheres. Your attitude to hardwork matters. Please, don't come on this platform to rant again that your wife no dey give u money. Look for more means of income friends and when you make it, don't you ever try to impress your wife. Just provide the necessities and save for raining days.

An unhinged rant that is no way related to the funny thread title.

This one is a massive parasite looking for a host to latch onto. She hasn't even latched onto you completely and is already sucking your blood.

Run!

nwaezeemmanuel:
Sure the lady was comfortable? First penetration without lubricant

Poor girl. She may have haemeroids now.

Available247:
Anytime I abstain from any sexual activity for a period of time i always encounter wet dream i.e ejaculating when sleeping.

Sometimes it can be a sex dream, stressful

dream or wouldn't remember anything at all. They say wet dream is part of puberty, but I'm no longer a child, I'm a full grown adult and wet dream irritates me a lot. Cleaning up my clothes and sheets because of it can be a pain in the neck.



Does anyone here still encounter wet dream after abstaining from sexual act for a long time and does it have any effect on our mental wellbeing

Wet dreams occur when you're sexually aroused during sleep. It can happen to anyone, especially younger people, and is not restricted to only people going through puberty.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Do who are the people against guy marriage. Who are the men hating other men for fucking their fellow men?
Ass fuckers ain't bettert than men fucking men
. They are even worst because the main joke if there but they choosed the homosexual hole because homosexuality is in them. Don't leave your make child alone with a man who leaves the V hole to Bleep the asshole.
Your kids needs pretection against yese crop of guys I'm seeing here.

This reasoning is shitty (pun intended).

While anal isn't my cup of tea -- neither am I speaking up for those interested in it -- trying to link men who enjoy it with girls to guys who enjoy it with their fellow guys is preposterous.

That's like saying ladies who enjoy kissing are gay; after all, both men and women have lips.

If this doesn't make sense to you, ask yourself --assuming you're straight, because I don't know you in RL, lol -- why you get turned on by a guy's lips and not a lady's lips, then you'll understand why some men like anal sex with ladies but are absolutely disgusted at the thought of rimming their fellow men.

ReluctantAdult:
Send me a DM. I'll let you know. Can't spill it here for your own good.

Na wa for you, o. Small disagreement on NL and you're threatening to hack someone. I hope you know that's against the rules.

Mendy has tried for Chelsea today.

Na wa for Cavani o.

Man Utd should have won this game, but they failed to utilize their chances.

Kyase:
I see man United finishing Chelsea.

2 goals in 5 minutes

I think Chelsea will win or they'll draw

Raydos:
Ansu Fatiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

Barca 2 - 2 Real Madrid

Fati that they have substituted?

AmazonTopaz:
That Hunter Biden's lies have been debunked.
Rudy is in trouble for that Borat movie right now and the FBI is investigating him.
They have nothing on Hunter Biden they are just lying and many American voters don't care about that.If Trump's voters cannot be swayed despite all the tax returns and controversies he has been involved in don't expect Biden's voters or the people who want Trump out to change their mind in 11 days

Then again let us see people have been saying the race will tighten for weeks now and it has not.

That's the problem. People don't trust the media anymore. They can dismiss just about anything by tagging the media company an ally of the radical left. Just because media companies debunk something doesn't mean everyone believes them.

Take CNN for example: it does some pretty outstanding reporting, but it is still widely regarded as an outlet for propaganda (Clinton News Network). The same can be said for Fox News.

Rudy will get his just desserts under a different DOJ - the current one is compromised.

Don't be surprised that events that happen closest to the election have bigger chances of impacting the election itself that events that happened ages ago. The next scandal is capable of pushing voters to switch.

It's lucky for Biden that so many votes have already been cast.

hermesprogidy:
The debates mean nothing. All Biden has to do was hold his own, in fact, that is the most articulate I have seen him. Let's not forget the Republican selling point is that Joe Biden has dementia. Biden is on course to win this election in, landslide.

Biden scored the articulate points in his town hall - the one that replaced the cancelled 2nd debate.

Trump, on the other hand, scored the articulate point in last night's debate because that's the most subdued and down-to-earth he has been for a long time. He raged less and calmly attacked Biden, and this made his attacks stick even more.

After the 1st debate, Trump started to make fewer comments about Biden's mental state. The harsh lesson he learned in the 1st debate was not one he would allow to repeat itself.

Less people watched the 3rd debate, I agree, but even if there weren't anymore voters to be won, a mistake could cause some decided voters to switch sides.

That's why I was not surprised to see Kamala and Biden's campaign rushing to explain that Biden doesn't plan to ban fracking, just its subsidies - and that the transition from oil won't happen now, but very much later on.

AmazonTopaz:
If Trump flops in the remaining days he will still keep losing undecideds many undecideds are breaking for Biden.
At this point I don't see anything changing this race.

Don't be so sure about the undecided part, o. I'll give Trump the lion share of undecided voters, so expect that gap in the polls to narrow before or on election day.

I don't see Biden winning anymore voters at this point. His only play is to maintain as many of his current voters as possible until election day. This will be hard because Rudy and the others are rushing to dig more dirt on Hunter Biden.

But, Biden can still score some points when ACB is confirmed. Democrats have a compelling case against her, and that confirmation is just what's needed to spur his base on. His campaign - and those of other dems running for senate - saw a massive spike in donations after the GOP said they'll replace Ginsburg before Nov 3.

Agbegbaorogboye:
Latinos and Blacks are just like our Eastern brothers here. They hardly vote.
The real target for both should be the middle income workers and labor.
Joe almost got through to them safely till he made that gaffe.
He talked about protecting Obamacare which middle income families would love.
He talked about understanding and even identified himself as growing up in one of such.
That oil talk was just a cold bullet.
Sad
Kamala's already come out to say he isn't gonna stop fracking.
He has also come out to try to mitigate saying he's actually talking about 2050.
Trump just scored another now with the Israeli peace pact with Sudan.
Momentum belongs to Trump in this final two weeks.
Biden's team will be in damage limitation mode

There's still 11 days before Nov 3rd, though - anything can happen. I won't count either candidate out yet.

I think Biden will lose more undecided voters than decided voters, and the number of undecided voters in this election is far less than 2016.

Who knows, we may be in for more October surprises.

AmazonTopaz:
As far as I am concerned Trump lied his way through as usual go and check the fact checkers Trump did nothing out of the ordinary in my opinion.The undecideds at this point are small and will be split either way.
Nothing Trump did was spectacular or helped his numbers just his supporters rambling as usual.
Biden's voters are also very enthusiastic Trump supporters are just a loud minority bunch the enthusiasm to vote Trump out is enough for Biden to win.

The thing about the debate stage is that contestants can lie as many times as they wish during debates. Many Americans that watch the debate will just buy into what they hear without any need for fact-checking.

Trump used this to his advantage. Even though there's more evidence of corruption from him, his family and his administration - he still mention Hunter Biden, the emails, and China enough times to make the average American believe that Joe is corrupt.

There are 2 types of Trump Supporters. The loud ones online aren't to be feared. The 2nd type are the scary ones: the voters who won't admit that they plan to vote for Trump. This group are grossly underrepresented in polls. Pollsters try to get a sense for the number of hidden Trump voters by asking voters who they think their neighbors will vote for, and more say they think that their neighbors will vote for Trump.

Still, I believe Biden will win. I think he's the one being underestimated because people underestimate the number of people that now dislike Trump.

Agbegbaorogboye:
Stop playing at semantics. Many Democrats from oil producing states have distanced themselves from his comments. Not in the least, he himself has come out to clarify he didn't mean it would happen now but that he's planning towards 2050. Every news outlet including CNN have agreed it's a gaffe.
This gaffe is just like Hillary's I tell you. You're threatening people with job losses and you expect them to vote for you? This is funny. You are holed up in ur alternate universe where the hate for Trump the media fed you has not allowed you to be rational.

Indeed. And I believe Biden was on track to secure Pennsylvania, but after yesterday's misspeak, anything can happen.

Biden's voters aren't as enthusiastic as Trump's, and some of them that haven't voted may now be reconsidering because of the oil blunder. But I don't think much will change at this point.

Trump should have more material for a few more attack ads now, and all Biden needs to do is admit that he changed his mind on fracking ages ago. Politicians do 360's all the time - ask Lindsey Graham.

I think Biden scored good points last night with the immigrant community. The plan to pave the way towards citizenship may even appeal to latino voters and some black voters.

AmazonTopaz:
What scam?
Do you even know half of a thing that you are saying at all?
What did Trump offer Americans?what scam the only scam here is Trump and many Americans have realised that.
Biden is very likeable and trying to smear Biden will not work or is not working

I like Biden and hope he wins, but Trump scored some points last night, probably more than Biden did.

The problem with Biden is that he doesn't know how to go about attacking Trump. Trump has had multiple associates jailed, and his administration is the very definition of the "Swamp" he vowed to get rid of.

Trump's voters are fired up, but many of Biden's voters are only voting for him to get rid of Trump.

It'll be a tight race for sure, but I think Biden can still win. The difference between 2016 and now is that Trump is an incumbent - everyone has seen what he is all about. There's nothing new he has to sell to the public; that's why he spent most of the night attacking Biden.

All he had was 1 bullet: Hunter Biden's laptop. Biden had multiple bullets, but he barely fired any.

I think a few undecided minds were swayed last night. If the average American has become more racist under Trump, then Trump will win. However, if there are still Americans that believe in humility and calm, then Biden did brilliantly last night to reach out to them and should sway them over.

This is anyone's race, but I still think Biden will win.

Wow... goal for Man Utd!

Psg will turn on the engine now

Super David De Gea! The guy has already made how many saves, and it's just the 16th minute