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SavageResponse:
7 f**king years just dating?!

3 of that was long distance. And for the remaining 4, she refused to go beyond anything bf/gf.

ChildOfDoom:
Currently in the midst of lowlives like me in a bet9ja shop, talking about our misfortunes and laughing to our misfortunes. If bet9ja was to give awards to the most miserable youths via their platform, I would be in top 10 on the list. Don't pity me again. Some of us are lost while others are making a way for themselves. Maybe I should stop working and block any means of seeing money till I restore my mental sanity. Hmm. But my mum is at a breaking point. She wouldn't feed me regularly or provide my needs. What other option do I have?

You think these ones laughing with you are your friends and have given up on their lives? One day - like play, like play - you won't see them again. They don go leave you, because they've snapped the smallest opportunity that came their way.

You are your own problem. Even if someone gives you 10 million naira today, the money will finish in a short while, and you'll be back where you started.

ChildOfDoom:
Back from a bet9ja shop after playing bet9ja virtual. I lost 4500 naira I convinced the ss 3 students in the school i work to save with me. I just couldn't stand thinking of my pending debts with no way to settle them. The money I was keeping for them was the only way I could think of solving the pertubing problems I had. I owe the woman that sells close to my school about 7000 naira. My director's remaining debt is 28,500. I was tired of working without pay. I needed a way out. Until a good job or breakthrough comes, I may never change. This is my fate. I am doomed for life. For now, my addiction to bet9ja virtual is stronger than my will to stop it. I was foolish not to have played a bet slip of about 500 and save the rest for the students or for upkeep.

Your self-pity seems to be drowning you faster than the gambling.

Do you think life is hard for you now? Hmm! You never see anything. Take a trip to the nearest general hospital (No one will stop you from entering) and visit the wards there. You will see people that have been lying down for months; people that have not seen outside for over a year; people that can't walk; grown men and women wearing nappies and drinking akamu; people that don't have the hand you take for granted; people that are blind and don't even remember what TV looks like again; people that were abandoned in the hospital, etc. You will even see children (some of whom are even younger than 5) with sever deformity and hopeless complications.

Do you know what these people will give to be where you are now? Do you know what they will give to have what you have? You are not suffering. You think you have problems but you don't. You think you are at the point of no return, but you're not there yet. When you get to that point, ehn, your eye will open. The self pity will disappear, and you'll start doing your best to live, but it'll already be too late.

1.) Stop pitying yourself. You have not suffered in this life.
2.) If money enter your hand, you will have an unbearable urge to bet. So use that money to buy something you can't spend but can sell later - like credit.
3.) Crawl back to God and pray.

To be continued...

Passionate888:
Make Chelsea no cut my ticket o

Bro sorry ooo

Chaiiiiii

What is it ooooooo

Walcott why

invinzible1:
Because you see doesn't mean others don't see. Every average squad, SOU, have been pressing them since their lead, obviously I don't except you to be truthful

Sou pressing Chelsea doesn't make the club an average club, na. Even almighty Bayern was given a run for their money by Sevilla of all clubs.

Lampard, make sub naaaa ah ahn!

Where are these Southhampton people getting their energy from?

Chai! See chance

Goal! Fine goal from Werner

Panel, panel, everyday, panel.

This people aren't taking the public serious yet.

How can you call the reports fake news while soliciting for people with verified claims to come forward?

This government and lies are like 1 and 2.

Justed:
Hi guys, I need advice on this. I love one girl in my working place. I hv been giving the girl green light like making advances but the girl doesn't show same. She will not call or chat me up until I call her or chat her up first. She doesn't seems to give me attention. Is it that she doesn't want me or she is in relationship

How can you fall in love with someone that hasn't given you any attention?

Whatever her reason may be, it is clear that she doesn't want you. Continuing to make advances at her not only demeans you in her eyes, but it may also make her despise working there because of you.

Free the babe.

Where do I start? My mumu was too much.

1.) She argued hotly that there was nothing wrong "hanging out" with her many male friends, even if it's in their houses.

2.) She once asked me for permission to sleep with another dude.

3.) When her ex broke up with her, he warned me that she wasn't to be trusted.

She ended up cheating on me with more people than I could count. After wasting 7 years with her, I learned that the key to exiting toxic relationships is to love yourself and remember your worth, else you're finished!

UzomaBabangida:
My pussy is smelling terrible, it has fishy smells...
My boyfriend is really mad at me, I don't know what to do... please help me

You might be suffering from an infection.

Rainbowpill:
If a guy asks for pictures, can you send a selfie picture of you in a bra to him since this isn't exactly nude.

What's the limit of what you can send to a guy?

This should depend on the nature of their relationship, no? Some just met and do it, and others have been together for long but can't send nothing.

Tladybukky:
Sis, just give him sometime, he might be going through some hard phase that he really wants to keep to himself for awhile.

Its well, keep praying for him

Terrible advice. Can't you see the mental strain it's having on the girl? Is her own wellbeing not of value?

On topic: You have to move on, and that'll take a little time because you seem to have fallen for him already.

You have your own life to live, a confidence to nurture, a career wanting your full attention, and a family that'll need your support soon - so make up your mind to free the guy. There are many others better than him out there, who will treat you right.

My advice: Block him on all fronts and move on. When you've almost escaped, he'll come back, and if you allow him back in, then my condolences in advance.

Abouwaza:
Bro she was online and she just gave me her number barely 10 mins before then and moreover I'm not feeling entilted I just felt like a girl I'm going to pay is now using me to catch cruise that' was what caused the outburst

Nothing like that, bro. It was night time - the matter was something you can continue discussing the next day. Haba.

Also, just because you plan to pay person no mean say you go dey talk to them anyhow na. They're humans, too, na.

Humility is cheap. If the girl ends up liking you, she might even hook up with you, and you won't have to pay again. That'll never happen if you're forming gra gra because small bar dey your pocket.

August 2020.

It took me almost 10 months to make my first one, and I'm on track to make my 2nd in less than half the time.

No, I'm not a fraudster. It took 2 years of patience, dedication, self-motivation, prayer, and hardwork to get here. Nothing good is ever easy - physically or mentally.

Back then, I was broke, and a lot of people left, thinking I'll always amount to nothing. My degree, nysc certs, and self-pity weren't doing nothing for me, so I had to step up.

Never give up. There are so many things to do in life, and if you love what you do, you'll do it well and won't even know when the money starts coming in. Goodluck!

Abouwaza:
There's this girl I met on tinder and we decided to make out this weekend

We had a very cool and fun conversation on the site
But as soon as we got on WhatsApp to share pics and all that boom!! The mentality stepped in straight up
.so as a bad guy wey no get time sef see bashing wey I give her, she couple one time
. screenshot of our conversation below

Which one is "I'm blocking you if you don't reply soon" at 1.42am at night? Because she be olosho, make she no sleep? You're also talking as if you're feeding her already, when all you've done is chat.

You're lucky, sef. Other girls would have blocked you the instant they wake up and see that rubbish.

dometome:
sorry I did not vote.
BTW in the 2016 election cycle, these fake news media houses have Hillary very high polling numbers and still, she lost. USA today is NOT a Trump supporter media house, they are as leftist as any lame stream media house, in fact in this poll, they initially omitted Pence, and put Biden instead. It was Senator Cruz that tweeted it, showing how the hate they have for 45 makes them omit Pence. Other Americans began calling them out before they then redid the polls, but still Pence won.
Neither CNN, ABC nor Nothing But Crap did any poll. In house American poll, maybe they did that in your rectum. Go and sit down. I identify myself as a Biafran. See you on November 3.

An ndigbo brother that keeps dodging obvious points (Twitter Poll ), claiming incessantly that he knows what he's talking about when he clearly doesn't. Sad

Polls in 2016 were not mostly wrong. Hilary was projected to win 3.3%+ more national votes than Trump, and guess what, she won 2.1% more votes than he did - a popular vote victory, but the electoral college cost her.

Pollsters failed to take into account the large number of undecided voters, who made their choices late to vote for Trump, and white kids without college degrees were greatly unrepresented.

All of that ain't happening this year. Heck, voting has already started. 10 million+ Americans have already voted; only a tiny number of Americans are undecided voters this year, unlike 2016; and Trump has more haters now than Hilary ever did.

But, no need for long talk. We'll see Nov 3rd.

dometome:
USA today is a left leaning media house. It doesn't say anything good about Trump. But their readers said Pence won, where did Clinton News Network conduct their own poll? Twitter is where everything happens. The same Communist News Network that said that Ivorian people don't know what chocolate tastes like, as I watched it, in my hand was a bar of chocolate made in Ivory coast, Mambo brand to be precise.
And I cannot remember saying anything about Fox news

I have gone to vote on that USA Today Twitter poll. Even you voted there, as though you'd be able to vote in that election. That's what Twitter polls are - inaccurate.

CNN, MSNBC, ABC, and other reputable networks actually put calls through to registered American voters to conduct their polls. That's the difference between a Twitter Poll and an actual in-house American poll. Say "USA Today" as many times as you want - it doesn't change the fact that you brought a Twitter poll here.

Communist News Network? I thought it was Clinton News Network? I'm not sure where you're watching your news, o. This ajangbadi political reasoning might be why Trump called your country a shithole country.

dometome:
I showed you different media organizations, even USA today that is left leaning. You brought the chief fake news media organization. Clinton News Network. Hahahahaha. Try again.

Tah! You showed me a Twitter poll. How many of those following the page actually live in the US? You even voted as if it'll matter in their election.

Fyi, CNN is older and has more credibility than Faux News and USA Today combined.

dometome:
you are entitled to your own opinion but not your own facts

Alt-right sites and inaccurate Twitter polls where everyone - including those outside US - can vote on? Rofl.

Sit down, son!

dometome:
you are entitled to your own opinion but not your own facts. Pence clearly won the debate. By a long margin.

Since it goes both ways, that's your opinion, na, abi?

dometome:
I wonder how he dodged questions, while he is the one who always said to the moderator, thank you for the question but I have to get back to what she ( kamalala) said earlier, we saw him do that several times. In fact the moderator said to Pence " thank you Mr vice president" many many times, to cut him short, but he kept on "sparking" because he had a lot more to say. Any ways, I quote Pence, " you are entitled to your opinion, but you are not entitled to your own facts". He said it twice to Kamalala, during that debate. As for Corona, after Kamalala, said what they will do about corona, Pence said something about plagiarism, that was a uppercut. Pence SMOKED her alive.

You've just admitted that Pence used his time to repeat his few lines of attack, and that he repeatedly spoke outside his time - something Trump did, as well. The latter is against the debate rules.

"You are entitled to your own opinions, but you're not entitled to your own facts" is an advice best reserved for Trump, who specializes in 'Alternative Facts' (Lies ).

Pence said "plagiarism" and that's an uppercut? Rofl I don't think you watched the debate. That fly made more of an impact in the debate than Pence did.

dometome:
the usual CNN lies that DRats attack trump with. The question of packing the court, was very revealing, she then said that there are no gay people in the Scourt, she was dodging that question and Pence repeated it till she spilled the beans. All these points you mentioned above are the usual nonsense we hear from DRats. Come up with something new.

What brought CNN into this, biko? I was right; it seems you really didn't watch the debate.

Pence dodged more questions than Harris did. In fact, he spent most of his time for new questions going back to the previous few topics he could attack Kamala on. Kamala had ammo on every topic asked, and she eviscerated Pence.

Pence is a smooth debater - I won't lie. But, still, it stands to reason that incumbents would have more to defend than challengers, as incumbents are already in power. Pence would make a fine Potus, if you asked me, but his political career has been strained by the slimy worm that is Donald Trump. Now - and in the future - Pence will always have to defend his role in the terrible tenure of the Donald Trump presidency.

Donald Trump has covid, but he refused to stay in the hospital. The Gop senators are now refusing to get tested so that they aren't forced to quarantine. These people are ready to place their lives on the line to win, because they know that jail awaits them if Democrats win the WH and Senate. Some GOP senators are already trying to distance themselves from Trump, but it's already too late.

Also, CNN is over a decade older than Fox.

dometome:
I don't think you watched the debate. Harris was on the defense most of the time. She is the one trying to defend the indefensible. Pence was as cool and hard as a block of ice.

What did Pence attack her on? Her previous support of the Green New Deal, her stance on packing the court, and her track record as AG of CA.

Pence, on the other hand, had a lot to defend: his administration's bungling of Covid - a taskforce he heads; the super-spreader WH event; Trump's many deranged comments; Trump's shady dealings and tax returns; Trump's refusal to condemn white supremacy, and his "Stand back and stand by" comment; GOP's push to confirm ACB; Trump's refusal to commit to a peaceful transfer of power; Roe v Wade; potential loss of pre-existing conditions for 23million Americans... Should I go on?

mainetrix:
! what were watching? Your tv or your thumbnail..

You lost your temper and violated rule 2. If you don't know who Mike Pence is, you should have just said so.

mainetrix:
! what were watching? Your tv or your thumbnail..

Isn't that a question you should answer? Do you even know who Mike Pence is?

Harris eviscerated the poor man.

Pence is an outstanding debater, but trying to defend the indefensible caused him the debate.

Timiofak:
If telling a citizen to do there Constitutional duty, means desperate, then seems you don't know the meaning of desperate

Wannabe ajegunle Republicans are worse than the real deal. Don't waste your breath.