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there she goes again. what made u judge the man? do u know if he is living in bondage with the white woman and he cant freely express himself to her for fear of being arrested and deported? sometimes u women bring ur own damnation u just like to shoot from the hip

nalijah07:
I guess you can't judge unless you are in the situation.

It just seems tha no one wins (wives or kids) except the husband.

WORD! ! !

skipo87:
u should forgive people because thats the only way 4wd,,,nt that it would hurt them if u forgive them,

why am i not surprised at ur answer. very convenient of u to forget the fact that the husband gave her a choice and she went for the riches and what made u think she hasnt been having side line shows her self? girl plssssssssssssssssssssssss! always wanting to hang a brother 

nalijah07:
@ Na2day -  Actually, yes that is what I want to hear. At least then I will know that the Naija wife has feelings.

@ ayomifull - And all this time, the wife is not expected to be receiving pleasure from anyone else while the husband is in Germany??
Wow imagine the wife pretending to be the sister whilst knowing that the german wife and the husband are partaking of bedmatics in OUR marital home?

@ sista - Yes, it does seem hard to get answers to this question - Thanks to ayomiful for her story.

we can already tell from ur eyes

Easybaby:
am not a virgin

i dont know how to tell u this dude, but that is gay tendencies. a guy snuggled another dude? thats just flat out wrong!

farotika:
My wife and I usually sleep snuggled and sometimes in spooning position. She kind of like it and I love it too.

I think I should also tell u this story: I once had a girl that loved to snuggle real tight. We continued sleeping in this position for about 3 mths that the relationship lasted. Later, a friend of mine came to pay me a visit and as usaul we slept together on my bed. The next day, my friend called me and told me he could not sleep because I nearly crushed him.

So, beware!

i have sacrificed all just for u baby, u r my one and only, my true born african queen, rest ur head on my chest and be gone in those wild pleasurable dreams and yes dreams do come to pass

ThoniaSlim:
lol, don't worry it's good to dream. But this definitely one dream that ain't gona happen.

now is that the guy's fault? is it not the same excuse we give to sex workers? na condition make crayfish bend 

ayomifull:
I knew of one that happened in Nigeria some years back, the guy and his wife could barely afford the basic neccesities of lif, hardship was their second name and then somehow somehow the guy found his way to Germany. On getting there he realised its not that easy and could face deportation if caught so he married a German.
After a while he informed the Nigerian wife he was coming home and sent a jeep and enough money for her to get a decent accomodation, furnish it, put the kids in private school and do one or two things, he then went home and explained exactly the situation to his wife and apologised.
He asked the wife 2 questions and promised to do whateveer she says, she asked if she would take it in good faith, accept the marriage to the German and keep it away form the German wife and they will forever never lack anything money can buy or should he leave the German and stay back and they can continue the poverty where they stopped. The poor woman felt bad but accepted to have him married to the German (probably thinking of her new 'rich' status as against hawking goods before the guy travelled)
The guy brought the German wife later and the wife pretended to be his sister all through their stay.

bitch slap the second wife i guess. is that not what u want to hear?

nalijah07:
I see that no one can answer my question.

What does the Naija wife do when the husband returns with his current wife for visits? How does she respond to the wife?

why? are u shy? there is nothing to fear in telling people all the sweet nonsense we tell each other remember u told me that without me, u wouldnt be able to live a 1min longer. u know our love is meant to last for ever

Akinagirl:
Lol. Thiona, let him dream, it might be his only chance at a real g/f. lol jk

na wetin bi ur own, abi u dey jealous my beautiful woman because na she get the original star shine shine bobo?

so what is wrong with being a virgin guy/girl, non virgins still have to learn their new partners, how they like things and what kinda rhythm works well with them. i still dont get ur point

ThoniaSlim:
i agree about the way she framed her question. but still doesn't change the fact i wouldn't wana be stuck with a virgin guy.

i was referring to the poster but since u butt in i will tell u this, the fact someone isnt a virgin is not a right to frame ur question the way she did

ThoniaSlim:
nope, i would rather stick to the experienced guy.

u want to deny our blossoming relationship?

ThoniaSlim:
huh?

how i sleep? dont know for sure, i only get to notice if i wake up with any kind of pain. usually i sleep on the first thing my body touches after a tiring day at work

yup! u found me

ThoniaSlim:
awww, that's so sad. well i guess its all part of experience in life.

i broke up with my ex cus of his nonchalant attitude, guess he stopped caring and so i couldn't put up with it any longer. moreover i wasn't in love with him, he was just a rebound. but am glad i finally found someone I've come to love so much n who loves me back.

are u feeling guilty or what? if someone has taken it from u dont discourage others

Tranngirls:
What do u think will happen if two virgins get married? I think
that is a good question for all the nairaland ladies that want
to remain a virgin before marriage. If you believe that your
husband to be should not be a virgin that who should he have
slept with a prostitute or a girl that will not be a virgin when
she gets married you decide.

@ nalijah07

this girl, u sha like controversy, abi naija men don show u? this is on both sexes, explain the same for naija babes in italy, usa, uk etc. some will tell u na condition make crayfish bend. money, sex, fame makes people do and undo.

i am sure there are nigerian girls that date AA men and there is nothing wrong with that but in reality, there are more AA women that date Nigerians/Africans than there are Nigerian girls/African girls that date AA men. the reason is not far fetched, women generally look for security in every department of life and if u have lived in most AA communities, no offense, most of the guys don't live up to expectation.

tRoOE:
[size=13pt]Have dated AA men before doing my high school years, but the truth is I don't see a bright future with an AA man, I love my Naija Men , even though they can be annoying[/size]

this is 4 u sweetie

u welcome maxwell as per what is going through mccain's mind, damage control!

maxell:
na2day,

Thanks so much for posting those links.

I played the thing twice and couldn't stop laughing.

Nice job typing it out. It's more fun watching her response on video though.

I wonder why she didn't also tell us about magnetism and the three states of matter

I wonder what is going through John McCain's mind right now

she no dey fear face?

gabrywyl:
Your woman bash you up abi?

as e dey take u 5bn light years to reply, i no get ur time. beta save ur money do beta thing than to waste am on cybercafe just to show ur stupidity.

tkb417:
who be this? who born u?
hehehehe, wetin be this bollocks wey u type?
proper sugomu wey wan feel funky!!!
u don chop?

LOL good one dear

Gamine:
I think Tina Fey should have been elected instead.

She is definately smarter than Palin