₦airaland Forum

bros, na wetin now? i am a true nigerian, get deep roots in the niger delta, was born in lagos, grew up in abuja, get long history for north, had small tiny for enugu, i come back to the west for some time, i don try, i get the right to claim any where as long as the chic dey down with the thing 

Ibime:
lol. . . . na2day is Hausa, Yoruba, Urhobo, Isoko, Igbo, Ijaw . . . . . depending on where the chick is from, e go blend.

brains, u wish u got one

thank u ooo, they complain when he is domineering and complain when he is not. they just can't make up their minds on what they want in this life. if u love him, why not teach him how to be the man you want him to be. 


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5jOj1IfBCy4   

please click the link i gave u and listen to the man's pleads, listen to what society has told him that he has to be, then learn how to take him from society controlled to ur control only.

StephenP:
And if he isn't, he's too weak and not "manly".

Please let her go ahead.

i think ur problem is english or at least the word "knowledge" i dont have to go back and front with so i will leave this case.

LOL

ow11:
Mbre!!

a ke siim e Gamine doki e?

Kalabari Tuwo!! kele kele ye

we are not saying the same thing. someone giving u a gift is different from someone telling u how the gift works, if the same person gives u a gift and tells u how it works is all fine and good but how u intend applying that knowledge of how the gift works in totally up to u. and i am not claiming to be a virgin i am only saying if others are, leave them alone to be who they are period.

jennykadri:
r we not saying d same thing?sex is a gift from God but how we go about it is entirely diff,adam and eve went through theirs in their own way,wtout God telling them what to do

@prince

how far naa,i dey oooooo,no mind all them holier than thou people here

one statement,

God gives knowledge to man, rightful application of that knowledge is up to man.

jennykadri:
@na2day

is it also God that gave those people that have sex wt animals the knowledge to have sex with them?

abeg u no get tori

i 2nd that bro

[quote author=Okija_juju link=topic=179863.msg2905406#msg2905406 date=1223373260]If your boyfriend has hung out with women like you all his life, then I wouldnt blame him for thinkin all women are dumb.  [/quote]

dude, she is in the usa not london, no pour sand sand for my garri ooo

Ibime:
Not at all. . . . . .she is Okrika. . . . Okrika dialect is extremely unique amongst the Ijaws. . . . we are the only ones who greet with I dan loku. . . . .Tatase, Idani?. . . . Omoge and I are resident Okrikans on Nairaland. . . .  which town in Okrika are you from?. . . . . I'm from Ogan-Ama.

girl, dont listen to him, me and u are 2 ijaws that are close to each other and we are one people, so lets get acquainted

wishing u same

nalijah07:
**Double sigh**

Have a good day na2day

@ jennykadri

God has nothing to do with sex or ur knowledge of sex? well at least i now know where u are coming from

there is this movie, i cant really remember the name but this dude slept with a girl and she immediately jump up and said i am pregnant, the guy in shock asked her, are u sure? she replied, i got 7 kids, i think i know what i'm talking about the girl don get u below the belt bro

playah P:
THIS IS HILARIOUS BUT IS IT POSSIBLE TO HAVE SEX WITH A GIRL TODAY AND SHE GETS PREGNANT THE NEXT DAY??

i have a few questions and i need honest answers. do u have a boy friend? are u willing to expose urself to w hat might happen? how long are u looking at staying? are ur friends likely going to come spend u the night with u? do u have pets? what is ur occupation and where do u work? are u a party girl? etc

adelarin:
abeg, nairalanders. i need a place to stay on the island. nothing fancy, a room would do. can anyone help.
if you live alone on the island and you have a spare room to let out. pleasse,

this is really sicken, all these half truths these girls post here to bash nigerian guys. it is not by force oooo, u dont have to be with a nigerian. this is america, u got various options, use them and stop crying crocodile tears for us. nigerian men this, nigerian men that, haba! una ney dey tire?

FlyAway15:
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Please somebody tell me!!Why do nigerian men feel like they know more than all women!?!?!?  I am so confused!!!!  I was giving my african kings another chance and still I end up in the same situation!!!!  African men in america are insecure?  Why do they have to be so dominating all the time? 

If he calls my name, he wanted me to answer him sounding "nicer" or more happy
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If I knew more about something, he didn't like me to talk about it

but he always wanted to teach me about something he would know!

AAAAAAARRRGGGG!

@ Gamine

girl, i am loving that pic on ur profile

the God of that time is still the God of this time, so i dont see ur point. humans generally, when we fail in standards, rather accepting that we failed, we like to drag others down to where we are so that we wont feel that bad(misery truly loves company ). its ok to fail as long as u learn from it but to make ur failed state as the acceptable requirement is just self deception. God who called the the bed of married couples holy is not stupid, so to imply that 2 virgins can enjoy their sex life is just arrant nonsense. by the way, most girls that loose the virginity to a particular guy end up regretting the decision, especially if they meet someone truly special, they wish they gave that virginity to that person, so if i have failed, i shouldnt point to others and say, hey look at me, i am the standard. people wonder why a lot of folks dont want to become christians no more, when the so called christians profess these kind of beliefs, what do u expect?

jennykadri:
r u comparing that time to this time?

ha, thats more like kalabari. so are u in the usa? if yes, where at? i live in dallas, would be nice to meet a kalabari girl in the usa

Tatase:
my mom is ijaw so I'm half. I don't speak Ijaw too well, I talk like a baby in it. But I don't really recognize any of the dialects anyone has spoken here. Samples of my Ijaw (with dodgy spelling) for those trying to learn:

Tamuno: God
Ibi: Good
I dan loku: How are you?
An loku oforie/Ibi me: I'm fine
I we ri so: Leave me alone
Bo: Come
Sebo: Bring it
So: Go
O fo rie: It's not there
Fikiri: Hurry
Baweria: Good night

hey, how about u guys make a reality show, u will make alot of money, call it the "insured couple"

JazzyJ:
guys plz. need d advice cmg. like d oda nyt when he left me at home n told me he wanted to go bak to his apartment, i later found out he left because his frenz were throwing a party. n he nvr told me he was goin fr d party. what m i to feel. i stopped controling him n see, he hides things fr me. n worst still, when eva i go dwn stairs to cook, he searches my fon, reads my text n even uses my fon to call those names he nvr saw before. i don't know it is reali making me confused!!! help!!!

adam and eve where virgins and they came out alright.

**sigh**

nalijah07:
I wasn't pointing fingers, I was just making an observation.

Although I've learned, am I not entitled to an opinion? In my opinion the man comes out the winner. There is nothing malicious in that is there?

@ sistawoman

i wasn't referring to u.


@ nalijah07

i was referring to u. despite the fact that u were given an illustration where there are 2 wrongs but u chose to only focus on the guy's fault, that is not learning, that is pointing fingers.

yup! that was on my mind too

fokochi:
hnmm, just a piece of my church mind, let me put a little of my Nigerian mentality into this, 'on a second thought,eyin guys, is the world drifting to an end after all', and it might be the turn of events sha,

ha! u don't nigerian girls very well i see. let me give u a few tips, go read all the threads on nigerian men or guys in general on this forum and u will find nothing but bashings every where but when a guy raises a point against nigerian girls, the first responses have always been to insult the guy's mom, sisters etc. look, my point is, it takes one to know one, if guys are that offensive, i strongly recommend they become lesbians or buy themselves some toys and shut up. look at the story used to illustrate the point of this thread, i am yet to see someone say, hey the nigerian lady preferred the money so she decided to play along, and the guy did let her know what the deal is, survival is the game baby. i am just sick and tired of all these bull talks, u mean to tell me that all the guys they have met, they never came across one christian guy that is just wonderful to be with? that will be the lie of the century, they have lots of them but what they think of those guys is simple, "he is such a nice guy but we are just friends though". there was this thread about how nigerian girls behave in london, u can't believe how many girls came online to defend those girls, bring issues like, "na paper cause am", or "u just met a few bad ones, i am different" etc, so why aren't those excuses valid for guys?

sistawoman:
@na2day?

I don't think her question was to "bash" Nigerian men but to understand the thinking/thought process of the women.

I know i have often wondered what the wife back home thinks, how she feels, what she confines to her closest friends, how she rationalizes this in her head, how much money or material things it takes to give her comfort at night when her husband is in bed with another woman.

What does the husband tell his wife, how does he feel about his Nigerian wife, are there inner struggles that goes on with these men?

I don't think, or at least hope not, the purpose is to "bash" anyone but to understand, explore and grow in understanding of what both parties go through.

nope, i was wondering if u were

nalijah07:
@ na2day

You are very defensive. Are you in a similar situation?

on a more seriously note, i am not, dont have no woman troubles in my life but i am sick and tired of girls always trying to bash guys without looking at the whole picture thats all.

no

ha! u r on ur own on this fight u want to raise oooo

dragonslay:
So what if my woman cries? Everyone cries.

ur visa is valid for 10 yrs is a good thing

to answer ur questions

1) they will let u know what documents u will need

2) it doesnt matter to them

3) it depends on how long u have stayed in poland, i think u have to be ther at least 6months to be interviewed there. i am not so sure on this one

Ndeedee:
My Good Lord
10 years? Choiiiiiiiiiiiii !!!. (I was thinking they would give about 1 yr or 2 years).
10 years? na DIE be that O.

Guy Na2Day, I have some questions for you.
1- When you went to the embassy, did you have to show bank statements? (if not, what documents did you take with you there to the Embassy?)
2- If a student is still studying in University but wins this lottery and gets the Notification letter, will they still give you the Visa if youre still studying in Nigeria (or like in my case, outside Nigeria)
3- If say I win this thing (asper I applied from Poland) and I win this Visa lottery stuff, will I have to go back to the US embassy in Nigeria (asper say I am claiming elegibility as a Nigerian) but living in Poland, or will I have to go to the US embassy here in Poland for my interview?

Dee

it is a permanent resident visa and it is valid for 10yrs with the option to renew if u so please or just become a citizen

Ndeedee:
Whats up guys,
Congrats to all of you who won the last Visa lottery and got their VISA's.

I want to know, when you got your VISA, , (1)what type of Visa was issued and (2)how long was indicated on the Visa that was given to you.

Dee

WOW! ur logic has broken the wisdom of the ages girl

thando:
wuts cozin the downturn anyway? could it possibly be because theyre about to have a black president and investors r a bit skeptical? what is it?

are u for real? 

cruworld:
plz don't try to misunderstood me what am trying to say is that We nigerian should be greatful to God we are now on the progress line to succeed and beside that am not talking only on the Bank but the entire crises happening including the mortage and employment, If you are not happy about Nigeria that means you are a bastard maybe u belong to the Niger republic Not Federal Republic of Nigeria, despite the fact that there is notin people are still coming from notin to sumtin why don't u stop criticizing the government and think of a way to achieve your success by yourself, take YAHOO boys for example.

i have never fallen under "that anointing" but i have seen alot of folks that do, it kinda makes me uncomfortable

i like zidane's goal in 1998 (Brazil vs France). nice header if u ask me