₦airaland Forum

spoilt:
Trust me its not worth it getting b itch slapped for some pottage.

it is a small price to pay i can assure u

Ms Diva:
I don't understand why you'd marry a woman you don't like JUST to get papers to go to a foreign country and do some menial job. He's not worth it, you should find someone else.

u willfully missed the part she was not into him until he went "abroad" and by the way, who let u back on NL?

Pweety4me:
_{I'm coming just be patient & wait 4 me naw. . .}

ok ooo, waitiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnngggggggggggggggggggggg!

Pweety4me:
_{2bad my father will not accept u. . .}

why?

spoilt:
Ive been known to b itch slap guys that asked me that question in college. 

lucky me, i have been b itch slapped by so many girls it is now 2nd nature

Pweety4me:
_{dis is just a commercial 4 ya a way of u attracting other gurls. .} .

no oooo, this is me dying for u ooo

Pweety4me:
_{Haha!awww dat's sweet. . .}

so are u coming?

spoilt:
Naija guys are just looking for their next meal.
All day long they go around asking what you cooked today as if you have nothing better to do than to cook and await their arrival. Its annoying. Back in the day I had people arrive at my door salivating and ready to dig in while I made other plans to be elsewhere. I just left them hanging high and dry.

not to sound redundant ooo but what did u cook today?

Pweety4me:
_{is that wat u want?we'll dat could lead 2 sin and i don't want dat on a sunday morning i mean we don't want dat do we right?}

we will put a bible between us

Pweety4me:
_{O my gosh paleeeeez!}

u dont want ppl to know about our eternal love?

Pweety4me:
_{y r u ashamed of your religion?}

nope, i am a christian, why u asked?

Pweety4me:
_{Ok lay down now i wanna see u sleep. . .}

are u sleeping next to me?

Pweety4me:
_{wetin do your eye?twitch}?

u kissed it

Abekeade08:
chei, You are making sense for the first time in your life and responding to a topic in a matured way Abeg keep it up.

u take NL way too seriously

Pweety4me:
_{Hisssssssssssssssssssssssssssss}

why now?

Pweety4me:
_{Hehe yes i know. . .hm mm}

Pweety4me:
_{Nawa see over rehearsed poetry abeg jo. . .}

this is no poetry, this is real love. every step i take remains me that i journey into the unknown, the only assurance i have is u, u are my compass, the thought of u gives me hope for tomorrow

Pweety4me:
_{^Hehe oh be quiet there. . .*adds powder 2 her cheeks*}

why will i keep quiet? u sparkle ur beauty right into my eyes and i fall in love all over again

Pweety4me:
_{Hmmm na u talk am ooo na2day talk am. . .}

just saying

Pweety4me:
_{^na2day r u a muslim or xtian?}

it depends on the girl i am talking to

Pweety4me:
@OP so wat advise do u want us 2 give u ehn?

she wants u to tell her she is not a gold digger, that it is ok to break another person's relationship as long as she gets what she wants and most importantly that the dude didnt just play her for a fool last christmas

lovemoi2:
^^^
zombie

right! like if i give u the ring today u wont take it faster than lightning can strike

Pweety4me:
^ *Burps* Huh realli?

dont worry, u are still number one above all other number ones

lovemoi2:
^^^^
all u said was just crap

apparently u cant answer my question

ebonyik:
There's this guy i'm already falling for. We used to be hi friends b4 he travelled broad. Now he's married to a whitey n has a daughter. said he did it just to settle over there. When he came back last yr dec, we started dating.we talk every day. Rite now i'm so into him. Don't know want to do. I don't wanna loose him. I know he cares about me also.

rotflmao! u r joking right?

olugirl:
Do relationships really work?  I cant believe it's me ALWAYS meeting the wrong men.

I am not a bad person, not ugly (not necessarily miss world), not a bad girl (tho not an angel). I go to church,

like all d usual things girls like, but still homely, well brought up but being very unlucky with men, especially Nigerian men.

the last one just told me that he thought he would prefer a casual relationship, cos i said he never picks my calls. Yet kept begging me after i broke it off, obvious;y wnats to eat his cake and have it!

I have tried dating outside Nigerian men and while it was a great relationship, didnt think there was that click btwn us.

I am not one to generalise but just find Nigerian men (the ones ve met in London) to usually be liars, cheats and not truthful to what they say at the start.

At my wits end, dying of boredom, feel very sad and sorry for myself, maybe become a lesbian (lol)

--sighs-- must i rescue all of u? oya come, i will be your bf then we will marry after 1 month. u r my angel, all these kisses just for u 

Onyema1:
Hey guys, am in a kind of confusion about my lady friend.  We have been friends since our university days, almost 7 years.  Just ordinary friends not a relationship.  We share ideas together and we kind of have the same goal in life, career wise.  She is intelligent, beautiful and well behaved and represents my dream wife, and deep down in my mind, I love her, but I was finding it  difficult to let her know about my feelings for her, partly because I know that I am not yet ready to get down, and do not even have enough money to maintain the relationship then.  In fact, we never discussed any thing man and woman, our  discussions are purely academic and career.  But every one in her family know me as her friend, to the extent that her parents send money to her in yankee through my account.  Incidentally, I relocated to yankee for graduate studies.  My feeling for her became so strong that I could no longer hold it back, and truly, I have no relationship because I resolved that  I will wait until the right time to let her know how I feel, and that if she does not feel the same way, I could then move on.  On that faithful day, I asked her to tell me about her relationship status.  She then informed me that she had been in a relationship in Nigeria but she broke up two weeks before the day we were talking, because she doesn't share the same career goal and view about life with her former boy friend.  I asked her if she loved the guy, she said that the guy was nice but that their views were poles apart.  I then told her my own story about how I have been waiting for her and what I feel about her, and then asked her for a relationship.  She expressed her surprises about my disclosure and asked me to give her some time to think about it and get back to me.  It's about six months now, she has not gotten back to me, but we are still very close, we talk on phone every day, and I send her gifts and render other financial assistance.  A month ago, I decided to remind her about my pending proposal, she requested for some more time and told me that she knows that I am waiting for her, and asked that we give it more time.

Now my worries are that I do not know what she might come out with. I love every thing about her, if she accepts today, I will propose tomorrow.  I am 32 and I want to start planning my marriage after my graduate studies in an ivy league in May this year. Time is not on my side, and I do not want to put pressure on her.  I could wait as long as she wants but I want to be sure of what I am waiting for.  She likes when I call her, but she has not showed me any sign of feeling the same way I feel about her. My tentative view is that since we have known each other for so long, it seems to me that she is taking too much time to decide. I have decided to start withdrawing gradually and not to think so much about her again in case she comes out with a negative or no response. For one week I refused to call her, she tried to reach me but I ignored it. But I could not just pretend for so long, I she has taken over part of me, I called her today and we spoke.

My good people candidly evaluate my situation and advice me. I cant fathom what she is thinking about me. But I would really like to get into a relationship pretty soon.

I am sorry about the length of my story.

in the name of Jesus be delivered from whatever has possessed u and be free from that girl. did u say 32? my guy, any girl wey hang u for 6months at this stage no want u. just call her and say since u just want to thank her for response to ur request and if she ask u what response, u tell her the null response which in ur dictionary means no, so u will like u guys to remain as friends while u investigate other options. c'est fini

ElRazur:
Lately, I have been wondering the need for a marriage. While I am not trying to ask if marraige is necessary, I am more or less asking the real reasons people go for it. Yeah there are things like personal choice, been happy etc. But are there any other reasons as to why people take the jump? I am of the belief that it is more or less down to us trying to do what is accepted as the norm, or have been instilled into us. Thoughts?

they told us to do it, i dont ask questions, i just do what i was told; i am therefore a true soldier to the marriage cause

SEFAGO:
Is that you on your profile? Man seems my baby is keeping fit . Thats good, _{most Nigerian women dont know what a gym is}

Well I am not contributing. I noticed that Oyinda provided some zimbabwe guy's link- well I wouldn't be surprised if someone in another forum provides NL Romance section as proof that Nigerian men hate Nigerian women and vice versa

i read the same link and like ur reply, i thot it was a total waste of cyberspace for the dude's reply just like most NL girls replies on this thread

FL Gators:
[color=teal]Actually that was a compliment.

There are some you just wonder. . . .

And stop this loff talk.[/color]

my friend, go and clean ur room!

lovemoi2:
africans and weird generalization
what the hell

are nigerian men cheats?

SEFAGO:
So y'all are still here? This got boring for me quick lol

Man u guys just dey waste cyberspace.

to say the least my brother