chccho:

Its funny how this just happened to me last month and I am just getting over it after some weeks
Mehnnn, Ghosting dey pain oooo!! Especially when u know u did everything right and were doing your best to tick all the right boxes then Boom!!! Somebody just disappears nafter getting so emotionally attached, going out on dates, spending money and probably falling in love that thing cuts like a knife!!
In my case we could talk from now till forever, never got tired of each other, connected on the same wave length, liked each other, went out on dates and i was beginning to tell myself "e be like say i don find wife oo! If we can work it out I go just propose!!! Hmmn!!!
I noticed something about some ladies, some can easily be carried away by the most trivial things. Most times when a lady ghosts u, there's a very high tendency she's already talking to someone else and carried away by rubbish but they don't realize it until it blows up.
If u were genuinely interested and vested in someone and had great plans for the person and the person ghosts u, just take it, ITS FOR YOUR GOOD!! it's gonna hurt for a while but u gotta move.. The wrong person has to go for the right person to step in.
One day they will look back and regret, u will also look back and be glad they ghosted u..
Shalom

Sorry about your recent "breakfast in bed". Before the real ghosting started, there were certain red flags you noticed but chose to ignore because you thought you were in love. Not all will regret they ghosted someone though. Take it from me.
All the ladies I have ghosted so far showed little signs of what was to come if I decided to ignore the warnings and not use my head and be one step ahead.
All of them got pained because, in their quest to start their silly weighing of options between Guy A, B and C, I don "Japa" before they even realise, and in turn, I beat them to their own game.

Once again, take heart, bro. But in reality, you don't need a heart when dealing with these funny broads.

KingEarnest:
Ubunja is a great man.

Yes, he is.
I wonder where he is now though.

To some, he is a hero. To a few, he is a Misogynistic maniac but to all, he is a Legend!

My last 3 relationship/situationship I ghosted them all. I don't need to be told before I can read their intentions.
One tried it and came back to beg. I asked her, "If Bobo didn't break your heart, would you have thought about coming back?". She was all about the lies and shii- Telling me she was with another guy while thinking about me and it was obvious she wasn't over me, that's why the other Bobo broke things off with her.

The next one stood me up when I had already made plans for our dinner date. She didn't even call to apologize. I just deleted her number straight and cut communication. She called and called, sent me multiple texts. I just replied her with "I am busy, I'll talk to you later".

The one that just ended this year, I was noticing some funny tones and behaviours when we talk on phone. She hardly replied my texts, always telling me about guys wooing her just to fill her ego-meter and trying to make me feel jealous. I just shook my head and smiled to myself. I just went "Willy-Willy" mode on her. She got the message after calling me a few times and I was cold in my replies. Told me she missed me, wanna hear my voice and I was like "Oh, really? OK, you've heard it,are you OK now?".

I learnt to smell their BS from a mile away and take off before they even realise I'm gone. They most times come back if they notice that you don't really give a damn.
I'm not a redpiller but I learnt a thing or two from Ubunja

My own really helped my mother's business a lot. While still an undergraduate, we moved to a new neighborhood, my mom started a frozen food business. Sales were average when she started but when I started coming around to help out, the female patronage increased significantly. Most young ladies and women would ignore other sellers and come straight to my mom's. Many would try to start up conversations to stay a little while.
My mom teased me about it one day, and I told her to start paying me as her 'Sales Rep'.
During my Youth Service, my boss' wife was so fond of me, her beautiful daughter as well but she warned me not to go near her daughter. Every month end, she'd send her daughter to bring me food stuff.
I have had many encounters(sexual) I can't share her but I wish most females notice my craft and patronize me for my works not my looks.

Vinnie2000:


Your face show, your shoe shine is NOT a Warri or Benin slang, plz.

It is owned by Artiste D'Banj.

He created it when he was a judge in MTN project fame.

Oh, my bad!
First time I heard it was from a warri guy, so I just concluded. Apologies to my Warri people o.

Kudos to D'Banj but 👎👎. That one no just follow

Jeffyblaq:

I once came back from a long trip last year.. Decided to take a walk one cool evening..

An electrician I met was like, oga yuh face show, yuh shoe shine.. Where as I was on slip-on.. 😔

Was just looking at him🙄
Got to find out wat it meant later dat day..

No fvcks given anyway☹️

Lmao 🤣🤣

But for real, this is the only Bini or Warri slang that I give thumbs down

kunleiky:
Guitar o
I even just bought one now, and I want to learn how to play it

Nice one, sir. I just love the Acoustic or Spanish guitar because of Antonio Banderas and Spanish flamenco music and dance.
But I'm left-handed - The person I was learning from was finding it difficult trying to teach me.

I really want Guchi to win. I like how smallish she is and she sings well. Funny, I just watched the "Speedometer" video this morning.
I also like Benzema, Scatter my head and more.

I'm a bit of a narcissist, but I do it to put my woman In check. From experience, if a woman knows you are head-over-heels for her, she starts to misbehave. So a little mix of narcissism with love keeps her stable.
I'll purposely flirt with another woman and when she gets angry, I just play my little narcissistic card to mess with her head. So far, it has worked for me

"Your face show, your shoe shine".
Till this very moment, it makes no sense to me, no matter how you explain it to me.

millionboi2:
how are you sure he would have made it like ndidi

That's why life is a risk. Sometimes all our plans are in A and we will do everything to make it work.

Well, as you can see, he's regretting why he didn't take the bold step at first.

Victor Osimhen put everything he's got out there to succeed, there was no Plan B for him.

Yoighaman:


Your father did you a great favour by taking one of the best decisions of your life for you. Why do you think Davido went back to school despite his fame and fortune? His father also forced him to.

Sorry to meddle in, sir. It's never too late to go to school but football career is very short, with no pension nor gratuity.
Wilfred Ndidi is also going to school while playing professional football for Leicester city. My point is, his father should have allowed him pursue his career in football. Maybe after retirement he can go to school or even do part-time schooling just like Ndidi. Cheerios

A colleague once told me his neighbour used an Immigration officer to smuggle cannabis from Rivers state to Lagos.
Another one borrowed money and refused to pay back. Even threatened to lockup the person.

What a shame. People join the Para-military just to get away with crime and intimidate civilians. Spits

olab059:


Those guys would be like, chai! Why I no kukuma stay for my house.

Another dude in my hostel had it worse. He was still in wooing phase with my female neighbour. He brought his laptop over to her place so they can chill together.

Crazy enough, we later got to find out that the community Vigilante had a hand in it. I saw one of the robbers when they were leaving and described him to another person and he revealed who the guy and crew were.

Mine happened years ago back in school. It was a close one though. Few guys came to my room to watch movies. So I left my place and went to my girl's place to have me some quiet. Of course, she'd travelled and gave me a spare key.
They robbed the guys in my room that night, took their phones and laptops they came to charge.
I was quite mad because they took my gold necklace which was gifted to me by my big bro and Rexona antiperspirant.
They also took someone's rechargeable clipper.

Join a Fraternity(cult). I'd rather join a legal fraternity like the Military or Para-Military.

Steal or Cheat innocent people off their sweat.

Deceive a woman just because I wanna get some.

Talk back to the elderly. Well, only if I'm pushed to the limit.

This is really scary mehn

Swimming is really a life-saving skill one must possess.
I just have to learn how to swim, no more procrastinating

Majesty33:
My brother, you can not stop it if u reside in the western part of Nigeria. Nepotism runs in their blood to the point that, they can employ a mediocre into office due to tribal advantage.

Bro, please, it is a general thing in Nigeria. If you have ever worked in the Federal Civil Service, you'd see how the Northerners favour only theirs, same with a company I worked for back in the day: Owned by an Igbo man, 98% of his staff members are from the SE. The organization where I currently work only favour the people from a particular state in the SS.

Truth is, Nigeria is just too diverse to be united. Nepotism and Corruption should have been our motto.

Looking good even for someone in his 50s.
I just love the military for their discipline. Too bad nepotism, favoritism, politics has killed the country that a common man who has passion for the service can't even get past the exam venue if he doesn't have someone up there in the upper echelon.

Thank you for you service, sir. 👮‍♂️👨‍✈️

I saw these on my colleague's status;

"Stone wey you hold for hand naim be your friend but once you throw am up, e go deny you".

"You no fit wish for wetin you get for house already".

"No matter your societal status and power, rain go still beat you, if e catch you".

"Na too much skills dey make monkey fall from tree".

"Dem no dey use power kill mosquito wey land ontop blockos"

This just popped into my head when I was narrating an experience to my colleague :
"Woman wey wear short skirt no dey jump gutter/ride bicycle".

Sleekfingers:

It won't affect Sanwo olu. Hamzat might lose his seat.

Actually, it will. An ex-governor in Bayelsa state was removed from seat because his deputy falsified a document.
Samwo-Olu should really pray the case favours him, else.....

Egusi and
Ewedu. I grew up in Lagos, so the first time I tasted Amala ati Ewedu. I never looked back.
Finger-licking-damn-good!!
😍😍

Enculer2:


The same people would go to mecca and the same would go to redeemed, winners and deeper life camps. In the end they are evil, wicked, steal and cheat.

My brother, that's why I shake my head when it has anything to do with religion, especially in Africa.
One came to do Thanksgiving in church few days ago. This same person was caught trying to sell a new born baby just last year, 2022. Was apprehended by the police, only to see him walk about as a free man in less than a month.
I wonder how people reason in this part of the world.

Ogene001:

Ahoada are igbo/Igboids

Sorry, but I could care less about his extract. I just corrected the person I quoted.

ChristianMuslim:
Burna boy is not igbo, burna is from delta.. igbo people stop claiming what is not yours

He is from Rivers state, actually. From Ahoada to be precise.

Abdulmumin412:

No

Please, which one am I supposed to download?

Abdulmumin412:

Download yacine tv app

Thank you, very much.
Will try it out.
I hope sey e no dey consume too much data sha

clockwisereport:


Your post reminds me of Always on time by Jarule and Ashanti

Hell yeah.👌 We did a choreography on this song during our end of the year party back in the early Y2Ks.
Omo, I don old o

Does anyone know a very good and reliable app to stream this game?
I can't miss this match for any thing.
Please help a bro out.

Ashanti my crush back in the days with my idol, JaRule.
She's still looking like fine wine though. I'm think I'm ready to date her now. 😍❤️

Cheers to my childhood memories. This game made my grades nosedive in primary school. Of course, my parents had to ban me.
The intro sound always got me feeling so good

I miss those times
😢😢