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johnnygan:
yes yes i agree, its juz that i'm getting started. i need to wipe this thread off totally

Carry go, notin do u 

Moonstone:
Ah ahn. . . if gifts are a determining factor in a relationship, it's purely business now!

glad we on the same page 

davidylan:
thank God for some maturity on this thread.

lol 

michelin89:
@ all

What is wrong in wanting gifts since she also buys them for him?

What is he giving that she is not giving?

Grief, stress, frustration, heart-ache  . . . . the list goes on

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=210695.msg3259159#msg3259159 date=1230004205]@MSMAMASITA
It is either you are his bootycall or he just isn't used to buying gifts even though from the evidence you are giving here  tends to point to the former i think you should use your head here[/quote]its simply Booty Call. When a guy likes a woman, even if he's a stingy bastard; he will get her something even tho its just once!!!

johnnygan:
i really don't know how to bring pestilence to this thread and errone wit it. any bright ideas please?

ranting madness?

Moonstone:
That she is not happy with no gift-giving.
If he refuses, let her get to steppin'
If he accepts, let them be happy.

Oh my Gosh . . . this is like having a buisness review; '' if you don't start rewarding me for my bedroom gymnastics I will have to look elsewhere for more proficient options''

you got screwed?

Moonstone:
TALK TO HIM! Ah ahn!

about what?

KarmaMod:
What part of Stop Buying Gifts don't you get?

OP = Original Poster aka YOU/your winch friend

I go die oooooooo

MSMAMASITA:
i appreciate your honesty.
i figured if it was only about sex there would be no long talks.

That's called Booty call with special needs

MSMAMASITA:
I'm wondering how i should approach the christmas thing, should i just buy a gift and see if he gives me one and then if he does not have the conversation or tell him its overr?

what are my next steps?

next steps . . .  AWAY FROM HIM!!! walk in a different direction, use the money to buy yourself some handkerchiefs and perfume.

tRoOE:
Why don't you ask your girlfriend/lovers to lock their thighs around your neck, because the is the only one to prove if what you claimed is true

Lmfao . . Just wat was going thru ma mind Lol

davidylan:
Because i like to be frank with you . . . as soon as you made this comment - he does give me a lot of time, but it seems to be only about sex when we are together . . . it changed the whole dynamic.
I can't speak for all naija men but when a dude loves you he wants to do stuff with you not just sex.

and it took this long for this point to be made?

@ poster

Booty call?

johnnygan:
[b]which naija guy fit go I'm babe place with roses early in mornings all in the name of Romanticism,
if u bi naija guy and i catch u during the act, I'll whoop ya head for sure.[/b]Girls simply asks for too much quite frankly

Stereotypical Naija man! Not all men think like you.

Adam Brody:
@naja haje

Let me break the chain down for you: Follow the blue pill and see through the maze if you can:

Guy is a Lover of women>>> Guy Appreciates Women>>>Guy Loves Girlfriend>>>>Guy  Hopes to Fall madly in Love with Girlfriend>>>Guy Plans to marry Girlfriend>>>Guy thanks god for making him happy with girlfriend >>>>> Girlfriend gives Guy the middle finger>>>>Girlfriend Dumps Guy>>>>>Girlfriend makes Guy lose interest in Love>>>>>Girlfriend makes Guy really hate love and what it stands for>>>>>>>>>>>>>Guy is pissed with Women>>>>>>>>>>>>Guy plans to vent his anger on any chick>>>>>>>>>>>Guy derives pleasure in making a chick suffer like him>>>>>>>>>>>Guy is intoxicated with the joy derived from dumping chicks>>>>>>>>>Guy is happy whenever he dumps chicks>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Guy sees Women as objects of sex alone and nothing more>>>>>>>>>>>Guy doesnt respect any chick except during sex>>>>>>>>>Guy in short doesnt give 2 fu***cks about women anymore! >>>>>>Guy doesnt give a f***k about god anymore 

Get the message?

Yes there is more . . . follow the red pill . . . . and see through the haze if you can

Guy is a bundle of nerves . . . . Guy had no true friends . . . .Guy developed manity complex . . . . Guy is very lonely but hates to admit it . . . .  Guy perfects his evil facade . . .  Guy is secretly waiting and hoping for his 'knight in shining armour' . . . . . 

Get the message?

acidrop:
@poster bcs of that ur yeye story now, something is wrong with the whole nigerian girls. ( hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiisssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss)

abi oooooo ma sista!

men i just pissed maself laughing at this thread . . . . . Poster do you think we are fools?? LOL!!!!!!!

what is Oha in english? e.g like Ugwu is Pumkin leaves in English.

Adam Brody:
lol

And when i called them retards, the house wanted to collapse on me!

Glad to meet someone that knows what these sorry excuse for a man's helper really are!

Thumbs up guy, nicely said!

Adam  . .  seriously what exactly is it? so much venom, bitterness and cynism.

Going from your past threads . . .  i think its a lot more than a bad relationship. At first i thought this was just some 'fun' from you but it seems like this is you for real.

Wetin dey? I am sure you know some naija women whom you like, there are women in your family whom am sure you respect . . . why then will you come out with that statement above? Jokes or not.

4 Play:
The ''phonetics'' Naija girls here dey blow is sufficient to make you want to look elsewhere.

'Phonetics' define wifey material for you?

KarmaMod:
innit?!

Concurer . . . you too? ??

[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=209323.msg3258843#msg3258843 date=1229996013]Oh, hell YEAH! [/quote]

I am loving the natural conrow pic!!!!!!!!!! I had one done before but it was a mohawk. I really loved it.

P.S why don't i eva see mohawks in wedding dresses? I think that will look so cool . . . . tho where will the veil be clipped? lol . . . maybe i'll just use a peacock feather. . . . lol

[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=209323.msg3258771#msg3258771 date=1229993950]Oh my, now that's the most painful part! I ooze with confido, and when I am told it's a mess that gives me concern. [/quote]my little speech was meant for the poster actually . . . . I was the little voice in his soul? get it?


[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=209323.msg3258771#msg3258771 date=1229993950]Whoever, this is, you must be my secret admirer. Just don't cause Karma to choke of grains. [/quote]you really love yourself don't you?

busybein:
and who needs d apology of confused little kids?definitely not me

You are one out of a million . . . . it's not about 'needing' it's about PRINCIPLE.

Its insulting to generalise without fact. The poster needs to understand this

First off . . 8ball, you do not have the right the to generalise. You owe an apology to all Nigerian babes out there for insulting them.

You enjoyed her company, you led her on, she took it too far. . . . . DEAL WITH IT!!!!!!

Unless you are a celebrity no one automatically falls in love with you and begins to obsess and stalk you.

There is a lot more to your story that you are not letting on. Your antics  . .  to be precise.

You have a hand in her temporary madness . . .  you need to stop unconsciously enjoying the attention she's giving you.

[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=209323.msg3258700#msg3258700 date=1229992302]@post,

There is a whisper in your soul. No one else can hear it but you. What does it say?[/quote]it says _{. . . . you're getting bald  . . . . women don't find you attractive anymore . . . . .  your confidence is a hot mess . . . .} LOL!!! don't mind me 

The beach . . . . the sand . . . the water . . . . mmmmmmmmm

[size=24pt]A very Merry Christmas to Y'all[/size]

tkb417:
hmmm, the return of my personal person
nice one

How U DEY!!!? Longest time! I'll buzz ya in a min

Round the way girl ( at first i thot that meant . , . an easy accessible chick . . . . if you know what i mean lol)

A hometown girl with a heart of gold, your look is as real as the friends and family you keep close to you at all times. The rhythm of the streets is your style inspiration, and your look probably reflects what cheesy corporate marketers would label as "urban" and "cutting edge." You just know it as cool. A mix of down-to-earth and diva glam may appeal to you, like these superfly scents.

lol . . . . so true . . . lol!!!!

well its going to be a quiet one for us so I'll be wearing a very raunchy g-string with a lacey get-up for when he comes home. (I wonder what he'll have first . . . . me or the turkey . . . lol!)

I love Shoes.

I am fine making love to them. Have them on my bed. sleep and bathe in them. I love cooking in heels . . . very sexy.

4 inch heels are more my taste. boots or slipons or court style shoes. I love the artistic bold and risque ones as well. Oh God I really love shoes. (u piss me off buy my shoes and I forgive you instantly)

OOOOhhh i love 'em soooo much . . . in fact am going to go put some on now!!!!

Mohawk darling how u been?

My baby love . . . . . I love where he touched me a few hours ago!!!!!!!!!!!!

@topic

Before the wedding date: NO its not a must

Before she goes shopping for wedding dress: YES OF COURSE!!!!!!!