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Still more humane than they deserve.

A random white guy and his black bitch came to Nigeria to have their egos massaged.

Disturbing

Meektunz:
I agree with you, I think I'm a weak man that's why she has been doing some things.

Talk to your family. Lean on them for support. Apologise for cutting them off for a bitch and beg them for their support.

You already acknowledged that you are someone that is susceptible to intimidation. So you need backup and support.

Talk to your family.

Meektunz:
they are two bro.... I swear I'm sending her out of my house tomorrow.

When you kick her out tomorrow. Lock your doors the take the other 2 to your parents or siblings' house. Explain everything to them.

If you have the money, do DNA tests ASAP. If you don't, save up and do it. You want confirmation as soon as possible.

If anyone accuses you of breaking up your family. Explain to them that they are an idiot because your cheating wife blew up the family for a strange man's diick. You are just making the best of a HORRIBLE situation.

Homeboiy:
Support the kids from a distance at the moment

Support what?

Isn't it OBVIOUS that the wife neither respects or loves him?

The ONLY reason she's still with him is because of his financial support.

Sending her packing then supporting her with money is REINFORCING bad behaviour. Encouraging her to Bleep around on his dime.

ZERO support for ANYBODY.

Meektunz:
her family said nobody is giving me any of the kids... That it's either they stay in my house with the mother or the would leave with the mother. They are not up to 5years, the one that is my own.

NOBODY can take your child away. Legally or illegally.


STOP TALKING TO HER FAMILY.

They threaten you and you sound scared. Don't entertain them. Don't let them intimidate you.

Apart from the bastard, how many other kids does she claim is yours?

Meektunz:
brotherly, exactly what I told her family members today, I told them I'm not sure I'm the father of the remaining children then one of her sister said I am very heartless, that why will I deny my kids just because of this situation? Bro, I'm still shedding tears right now seriously, you know why?

I remember when she gave birth to the bastard, I was cashles then that to pay for hospital bill was an issue, I had to treck the whole of Abuja going from one place to another begging people I know, God..... If you know how I suffered just because of that child.

The second part is why paternity fraud is such a DIABOLICAL thing.

Imagine the pain and suffering you endured for another man's child. The emotional cost is UNIMAGINABLE.

What's even worse is that you probably had to run crazy and unreasonable errands to satisfy her "cravings" while she was pregnant with her bastard.

Back to her sister:

STOP talking to her and other members of her family. Accusing you of heartlessness is an attempt to gaslight you.

Not wanting to be saddled with raising bastards is heartless but fucking another man and making you raise his kids is not a big deal

Like I said, you married into a family of DEMONS.

Keep the rest of the kids with you. Save up for DNA tests. DISQUALIFY anyone that fails like BB Naija and send them to their mother.

Women RARELY cheat once. Cheating for them is a going concern. Chances are not all the remaining kids are yours.

MEANTIME, stop being a gentleman with her family. Don't let anyone of them talk to you ANYHOW. You have suffered the ULTIMATE disrespect from the one you call your wife. Put a STOP to further disrespect from any one of them.

Anyone calls you name like "heartless", you call them a witch for telling you to TOLERATE a bastard in your house.

FIRE FOR FIRE is the game now.

By the way, talk to your family. Let them know what is happening. You will need their support to get through the betrayal and heartbreak.

This guy does NOT know what's going on.

A girl ABRUPTLY decided that the relationship is over because of distance that was NEVER an issue before.

OP cried and begged her NOT to leave him and she agreed. But she still INSISTED on putting the relationship on pause.



OP, there is a NEW diick in the picture. And your girl wants GUILT-FREE dicking.

OP is the wet dream of the average Nigerian girl. They get to Bleep whoever they want while locking down a lover boy that'd catch a grenade for them.

Meektunz:
I'm sending her out of my house by tomorrow... I've already told her to prepare her things.

Great.

Meantime, BLOCK all her family so that NONE of them manipulates you into letting her stay in your place.

Call members of your family IN FRONT of her and explain everything to them LOUDLY. Tell them you are sending her away TOMORROW. That way they can SHAME you if you decide to back down.

By the way, DON'T let her leave with kids that you think sre your own. Just her and her bastard.

Save up for DNA tests for the rest. You can do them one at a time. She may tell you they are yours BUT you obviously can't believe anything she says.

Meektunz:
I appreciate your inputs, but right now how can i answer people when asked after her and the children that's the big one?

The truth!

I sent her packing when I discovered she bleeped another man and made me raise a bastard for several years.

It's not a stain on you. It's a stain on her. Nobody will blame you for kicking her out. Most people will even admire your BACKBONE.

Meektunz:
right now, my neighbours do not know about it but what if they are aware how do i live with it?

Your neighbours know. You married a WHOORE who shares her pussy like cabin biscuits at a kid's birthday. She's DEFINITELY shared it to some of your neighbours.

Also, you need to forget what people will say or think. And do the right thing by CHASING the WHOORE out of your house.

Your people-pleasing personality is why your wife and her family have ganged up against you. She has enployed her family to put pressure on you while you are ISOLATED because you want to keep her secret.

SCATTER EVERYWHERE!

Tell your family. They may insult you at first but they'll support you since they saw her TRUE COLOURS before you ever did. And you need ALL fhe support you can get.

Back to the neighbours you are worried:

What do you think will make them ridicule and laugh at you MORE?

Being a man who chased out a whoore IMMEDIATELY you discovered her infidelity?

Or

Being a man who continued to live with a WHOORE and her bastard after discovering her infidelity?

The first commands respect and sympathy. The second evokes disrespect and disgust.

Choose WISELY!

OBVIOUSLY you married into the wrong family.

The way the sister dismissed you and made it sound like cheating is not a big deal is a telltale sign that the family is a shitty one.

Imagine telling someone to adopt and take care of a BASTARD that resulted from your wife fucking another man while married to you.

BLOCK that sister for her stupidity. BLOCK the rest of her family as a matter of principle.

It is time to start respecting YOURSELF. No one in her family respects you. And that includes the one you call your wife.

Tell me she is NO LONGER in your house.

Meektunz:
can you imagine one of her sister calling me this evening to tell me, it's fine if I don't want all the children, that they are capable of taking care of all the children but I should allow them finish this term. She even went further to say, there are people who adopted children and are taking care of them and that nobody is perfect.

BLOCK her.

Meektunz:
please sir, can I talk to you privately? Please....

No. Talk here.

There is NOTHING to be embarrassed about. You'll get more opinion and support here.

Meektunz:
imagine that are telling me to allow the children finish this term before I chase her out of the house.

NEVER negotiate with infidels.

Imagine sharing your personal space with someone who BETRAYED you in the worst way possible. Every time you enter your own house, you'll feel you're being STABBED in the heart with a flaming sword.

You NEED to kick her and her bastard out of your house THIS night.

Don't let her or anyone tell you to "take the high road", "be a bigger man", "be reasonable" or to "think of the children".

She wasn't thinking of any of that when she GOBBLED strange dick until she got pregnant. The. lied to you for almost a DECADE.

Right now, you need to be VICIOUS and SELFISH.

You don't respect yourself and peole don't respect you. That's why they can look you in the eyes and suggest that you continue to live with a CHEAT and a LIAR.

KICK HER OUT TONIGHT!

Anybody who thinks yiu are wrong can take her in.

A woman calls you to come and you ran to her. Told you to zip her up and you did it sheepishly.

Guy, you are a HOUSEBOY MATERIAL. You will get used WORSE than tissue papers.

Deal with your timidity.

To do that:

1. Dress better ALWAYS.

2. Get better shoes.

3. Improve your grooming.

4. Say NO more often.

5. Exercise MORE.

Don't try to be politically correct, it's FEAR WOMEN. Only a woman could MARRY someone that she hates, Bleep around on him and still talk trash about him in public while enjoying his money.

I will ALWAYS say this:

It takes a FOOL to marry a woman that is not a virgin. It takes a BIGGER fool to marry a NONVIRGIN 30+ woman.

Smart men NEVER marry nowadays. Society is broken and promiscuity is rampant.

Any man who chooses to marry MUST choose his bride from a range of 18 to 23 year old VIRGINS.

Meektunz, read these books:

1. The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar.
2. No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover.

Start TODAY!

You spoke to her siblings? What did you expect?

That they'll tell you their sister is an EVIL WHOORE?

No, siree! Family comes first. Even when they are a piece of shiit.

YOUR MOVE:

First of all, STOP crying like a little bitch. You married a WHOORE, deal with it. Part of it is your fault for NOT seeing the multitude of red flags she was wrapped it. Majority of it is she's just a WHOORE. Nothing you could have done.

NEXT, stop talking to her family. They will NEVER blame your wife for being a WHOORE. They already know. They probably laughed at you when you came to prostrate to marry the family WHOORE in the first place.

Nothing you can say will turn them against your wife. You're just publicising the fact that she made you a cuck. Setting yourself up for MORE ridicule and embarrassment.

NEXT, get a DNA test for any OTHER kid the WHOORE claims is yours. Ascertain paternity.

FINALLY, stop acting helpless. Get the bitch out of your house if she's still there. Keep the kids that ACTUALLY belongs to you. Kick her and her bastard(s) out.

If you live in her house, take your kids and get out.

If you must cry, cry in SECRET. Don't cry to her family. Don't cry to your family. Don't cry to your friends.

However, tell your family that they were right about the WHOORE. Let them chew her out and counteract her siblings' support.

Also, let your MUTUAL CHURCH friends know that you've kicked out the bitch for fucking around. But don't offer it up UNLESS they ask you about her.

Whatever you do, don't let the bittch see you sweat.

ALSO for fuuucks' sake, STOP referring to a roaming vagina as "my wife".

Most men find women with tattoos absolutely REPULSIVE.

A quick research reveals the reason:

A CLEAR skin that is free of blemish is a sign of health and fertility in women. Men have evolved to look out for this. It's hardwired into them.

A tattoo is a HUGE blemish. It gets worse when you realize that it was done willingly. It makes it seem like they are hiding something.

The end result is that girls with tattoos look SICK, unhealthy and BARREN to men.

Most nen find them UNATTRACTIVE. Personally, I think ALL non-celebrities with tattoos are DUMB!

Find your way to a HOSPITAL.

Medical consultation is EXTREMELY cheap in Nigeria. Especially in government-owned hospitals.

No one can know what's wrong with you from just the symptoms you described. There are tests to run.

Plus even if someone knows EXACTLY what is wrong with you because they had a similar experience, drugs that worked for them may NOT work for you.

Best thing you can do is find some time and money to visit a hospital.

This is what Military Dictatorship is all about. It's not about what idiots in Nigeria fantasize about.

It's the forceful acquisition of ANYTHING and ANYONE without consequence. They'll behave anyhow and take anything they want.

If a General wants your wife. She's a general's wife now. And if you so much as grunt in disapproval, they'll gun you down. And laugh about it too.

Military Dictatorship is a BAD idea. Especially in Africa where EXTREME wickedness is follow-come.

4 kids??

Your thought process is VALID. But your analogy did not hit home.

For instance, your implied that rejection is the ultimate expression of the father's displeasure with his son.

But that's not it. No, siree!

The christian God will grant you immortality JUST so he can watch you burn FOREVER and ever. But he loves you UNCONDITIONALLY.

Let's NUKE Benue and be done with it.

Seems to be EXTREMELY useless.

Herdsmen and bandits line up to kill them like people lining up to collect palliatives. Now they are killing each other and destroying their communities.

Yet the government think the MOST pressing issue is to construct a brewery in the state.

Time to nuke this state.

Single mothers are POISON. Every single one of them. No exception!

They are HORRENDOUSLY entitled. And expect you to take care of them and their kids while NEVER having an opinion on how they raise said kids.

Your cousin is still NOT smart.

Relocating a 36-year old Nigerian woman who is bitter and jaded to a gynocentric first world country.

He will learn a PAINFUL lesson. It's just a mtter of time.

They got married just a year ago. So that's still new and that's why the lady and her family seem to be full of gratitude.

I mean someone that's been used and abused and then REJECTED by men in Nigeria is who he chose to cherish and pedestalize.

The lady has probably given up already when your cousin came to her rescue on his white steed.

Give it 2 more years and come back with an update.

Forget that, let me give you the update:

1. The lady would have gotten a job.

2. Contempt will enter.

3. Disrespect will flow like River Naija.

4. The family will disappear.

5. Most importantly, she'll start fucking other people INSIDE the man's house.

6. Your cousin will eventually catch with a strange dick inside her.

7. He get hurt and raise his voice at her.

8. At which point she'll call the police to throw OUT of his own house.

9. She'll accuse your cousin of domestic violence and get a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) against him.

10.She'll initiate divorce and take HALF his wealth and resources including his retirement settlement and the equity on his house if she doesn't get the house outright.

11. Your cousin will see the "What have you done for us?" side of her family.

Unless he got a prenup which I'm 90% sure he didn't.

If not for the INNOCENT people that'd end up as casualties, I'd say more power to them.

Cultists are LAZY COWARDS who hide behind a group rather than fight their own battles man to man.

Makes me laugh when they come on social media to hail themselves as "strongman". Strongman, my ass!

GREEDY thief!

#1.6M for this 22-year old GARBAGE.

Also what is "Nothing to fix" doing in the post when there is gear problems and leakages?

Name the bank.

Don't be part of those people who conceal the identity of criminals.

It's illegal and the CBN will know how to handle them.

This one is quoting constitution when there's a potential $750M loan to be embezzled.

"Na constitution we go chop"

StOla:
If I was the US, government, we will not even waste any diplomacy on his foolish matter.

He should go and defend himself on the theft accusation.

I swear.

Going into enemy territory for a booty call is about the dumbest thing I've seen all year.

You have FOUR kids and a wife depending on you to succeed.

That's all the motivation you need.