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Mine took me over three months. I already lost hope before she finally agreed to be with me. I was her first man. We had a very good relationship anyway. Tall and very pretty looking babe.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]I keep asking myself, “Will I ever meet someone”

I’m currently not seeing anyone and I keep wondering if I will ever settle down.

I’m currently working on my Masters degree and will be completing my program this year…

And I can’t wait to see what the future holds…[/color]

Hehehe. Do you really want to get married?

iLegendd:
Have you ever seen me send card to someone who requests? No. I don't. I send only when I make the decision, not when someone requests or trigger me to. I'm stingy. My "Okay, Sir," reply is sarcasm when I'm angry.

If you see me replying someone with "Sir," know that I'm 70% upset, but suppressing my anger with humility.

Well, it's okay if you aren't able to do that. Tx anyway.

iLegendd:
Okay, Sir.

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Pls write the number down. I will remove it soon.

iLegendd:
No

Send me a call card plz.

iLegendd:
Because I'm gay. Nothing to ginger.

Are you giving out money?

asunaobi:
I see it differently! Eagles will play under pressure at home. Black stars now believe they can beat these Eagles anyway. They will play to die in Nigeria , trust me.

Nigeria is also home to the Black Stars. These can go either way now. But I pray Nigeria wins because our players at the moment are more experienced to represent Africa in the World cup.

Playing under pressure is part of the game. There are things I don't want to say here because Ghanaians might be reading this.

Bukolaberry:
I expect something better than the last Afcon, performance it seems our darling super eagle aren't ready for the world cup, how possible is it for you to win ghana at home with this poor performance, due to the situation of the country I risk my last card to buy fuel for this match in order to ease the tension, infact I no fit explain how I dey feel now.

Sis, relax. Things will change and Nigeria would qualify. Do you want to be Senegal, Mali or Cameroon, who lost today?

Explorers:
Na this plan we won carry go world cup.

Look at the Camerounians now, what do you think they might be thinking? They're already out of the world cup. It'll take a near miracle to defeat Algeria in Algiers next Tuesday.

asunaobi:
I see it differently! Eagles will play under pressure at home. Black stars now believe they can beat these Eagles anyway. They will play to die in Nigeria , trust me.

Nigeria is also home to the Black Stars. These can go either way now. But I pray Nigeria wins because our players at the moment are more experienced to represent Africa in the World cup.

We'll surely win on Tuesday. Trust me. But do not expect sexy football.

Our game plan was not to lose in Ghana. At least get a draw and finish them up in Abuja.

As you can see, Senegal lost against Egypt and it will be difficult for them in Dakar.

DryMouth:
Lol!
The guy is a real niggar!

Send me location and date of the wedding make i go present am with very chilled red wine.

Am sure you did worse to guys when "time" was still on your side. Now you dey find emotional support for nairaland at your old age.

Hahahaha. That could be true.

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

You'll get married soon. Trust me.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Nah now you succeeded in deceiving yourself..Nat..some space is needed..

Has a lady ever called you 'gay' because you turned her request to lodge in a hotel so both of you can spend a quality time together? Most of you are so desperate that is why you aren't getting quality women.

Even the lady up there knew I'm not desperate. She's only trying to make me become a better man. Girls like that can love to the core.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
It doesn't matter..she's not interested in the conversation..pls get out..

Aww. Being jealous here is very bad. Do you even know who you are talking to? Someone who dated a very pretty actress on Nollywood and had to leave the beautiful damsel in tatters because I was travelling from one place to another

I've had my own share of women and that is why sex is nothing to me anymore.

The girl you talked about here, I do not really like her. If not, I would have pmmed her. Just had a simple conversation with her here because somehow she threw me off balance in some of the things she said to me and made me laugh. I fancy people with sense of humor a lot.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
You are still stalking this lady huh..get outta this thread now..
Very lousy boy..

Was that message directed to you? Stay out of trouble. You nonentity!

Herbworks:
You may lose her if you don’t sex her cos it seems you see her like a wife material and you’re trying to keep her

You will be heartbroken when you allow another guy to be d.cking someone you’re keeping

Hahahahaha. I am not a wussy.

Herculex03:
When a female is interested in you and chooses you
There is a window of opportunity like a specific time period to act on that interest

Okay, thanks.

ubunja:
the money you'll get from her WITHOUT SEX is going to be LESSER THAN the money you'll get from her AFTER SEX. Sex creates the emotional connection that will make her give you more.

Hahahaha. Don't spoil me.

Calibrator:
I personally find it a waste of time advising people who are in your present circumstance because breakfast is the only way you will/can learn but let me touch this particular point.


"Never ever refute or object if a girl you find attractive call you her boyfriend in a private conversation, rather you should tell her that since you are now occupying the position, you will very much like to enjoy the accompanying privileges"



Breakfast is sacrosanct for you in this case regardless

Hahaha.

Rosement:

Where r u from?

ProphetJeroboam:
Imo you should seal the deal asap to avoid regrets. I’ve been in this position a lot than I can remember. I meet a lady, i get her attached and wanting to talk to me all the time, I convince myself “why rush, you’ve got her hooked, take your time besides you’re so busy and you’ve got so much to do and getting laid is not a problem, she’s a phone call away” I flake on dates with said girl, play too hard to get and the result is always the same, attraction dies down but I don’t give af, it’s unto the next right? Except some nights, you’ll lay awake at night and regret this. Women love dynamic, one direction gets boring and you know how fast she fell for you, she can fall twice as fast for some other nigga while you’re still thinking she’s in the bag. You know that feeling when you think, the sex is within grasps so why rush? Kill it. Put some excitement in, she’ll chase you even more when she has tasted that magic dïck. You’ll understand better when the heart emojis dry up and the “heyyyyyyyy” becomes “heyyy” then “hey” then “Hi” then you guys just view each other statuses.

Thanks a lot for your advice.

Rosement:
I mean you should continue having toxic relationships and looking for ladies that will be interested in chasing you. It is a good act, at least it has some advantages, you probably have a lot of kids, thou they might be from different mothers.

Hahahahahahaha.

You're so funny.

Did you just conclude like that?

You made me laugh.

Rosement:
Why are you giving me this details? If you need my advice I will advice you to keep up the act.

What do you mean?

sajmark:
She will find someone who wants to have sex with her, and trust me they are many...
She's not yours and she never will be, even if you put a ring on her.

LMAO. Stop being jealous, man. Go get yours.

Rosement:
Are you thinking you are Jeff Bezos? If a responsible lady is not in love with you she will not crave your attention even if money is dripping on your head. Your own kind of relationship might be unhealthy and toxic but not mine. As for me, I want true commitment, I want a peaceful and healthy marriage. I am a faithful lady so I deserve a faithful guy. I wouldn't allow my future kids to suffer by making reckless decisions. I would even prefer to be unmarried for the rest of life than to start a toxic relationship. Real ladies are looking for a home not a fling.

My own kind of relationship might be toxic and unhealthy? Hahaha. Seems you've got a sense of humour.

Well, when it comes to women, I always take myself as the price. And any lady who wants me would have to prove why she wants me. Sex is not important to me.

iamphenomenal:
The Sniper Mentality -
Waiting patiently for the 'perfect' time and place to take that one shot at that ONE target

Some guys don't really understand that. Once you plant a seed into the heart of a woman is yours and yours forever.

Smartb0y:
Oh boy, the oneitis in you is strong.
You're already in love.

As I wise fella once said, never advise a man who's in love

Hahaha. Not really. I told my guys yesterday that girl is my baby, they were astonished and began to hail me.

sajmark:
Use protection during sex and make sure the sex is good, do anything else and the attraction is gone.

I am good on bed but right now, I don't wanna have sex with her yet. Her dad already knew me though.

Smartb0y:
She's not yours, it's just your turn

She's mine. I am the one who is delaying everything. Babe told me on the phone that I can have her but I am not rushing it. Her dad for sure would give me cover. I know I would finally sleep with her but sex is never on my mind. Money is more important to me than sex.

Rosement:
Most guys act desperate when they are chasing a lady. My boyfriend approached me in a mature manner, he did not say you are so beautiful, I love you hair, I love your shape, I love this, I love that. I did not even know he was interested in me, I could have refused if he asked me out straight away. I met him during a program, he told me that he has been seen me for a while, he chatted with me a bit and asked me for my phone number. After he collected my number, he did not bother me with calls, we just usually bump into each other during the program. Though he was nice but I did not notice he had feelings for me because I was use to people being nice to me. He stays in USA, after the program has ended and he was about leaving Nigeria, he called me and told me about his feelings.

Oh nice! Clap for yourself. You might have gotten a nice guy but good girls don't always fall deeply in love with nice guys. Women would always prefer bad guys like us to good guys.

Bad boys in the sense that, someone who keeps their emotions unstable. Guys who make them go gaga. And guys, who keep these chicks waiting for so long.

For sure, I can't be desperate when it comes to women. Do you know why? Because every pretty lady has flaws. And that is why I like to delay everything. Until you begin to scream for not calling you, then I would realise you crave for my attention and I would decide if I'm gonna give it to you or not.

ubunja:
ask and we'll answer where possible

Okay, thanks, champ.

Late Last year, I met a very pretty young lady whose dad is a politician. We swapped digits. Called her a few times after three months of meeting her and never called her again because my mind was preoccupied with something else.

Just last weekend, she called me and we talked about 15 minutes and she was very upset with me probably because I haven't been calling her often. She said how could I live without even calling her a single day? How could I be happy without talking to my girlfriend? I told her she is not yet my girlfriend. She then asked me, when are we gonna meet again? Because she can't wait any longer. I told her on the phone next month and she said no, next month is so long. That she wants us to meet very soon. Then I said okay, next week. In a week time. She then asked me to kiss her on the phone but I refused. She then said she's going to come over the same day I would return and also said lots of fun stuff. And I felt like a hero.

Honestly, I do not want to have sex with this pretty damsel now. It's something I would have to think about later.

The question now is; would I lose this girl to another man if I do not act fast?