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Rosement:
No

LOL, you crack me up here. Why don't you feel good about it?

Rosement:
Okay

Do you feel good when men are chasing you?

Rosement:
Did you read the post before commenting? Are you saying there is no big deal in a guy lying that he had sexual affairs with me?

I never said that. My keyword here was "chase."

ubunja:
can you modify my name so I don't get a mention everytime someone quotes this

I would like to ask you a few questions.

Rosement:
I met a particular guy when I attended a short course. He was in a relationship with me in his mind, even after he asked me out and I told him we can only be friends. He was bothering me with frequent calls and complaining whenever I did not pick his calls.

I found out after the program ended that he told several people he was in a relationship with him and we are having sexual affairs. A male mate of mine was upset with me because of that but I did not try to prove myself to him. Several people started asking me about the relationship also. When I told him to stop pestering him, he started pestering my brother. He met my brother when my brother visited me during the short course. The guy is a stalker.

He even called my mum and told her he had something very important to discuss with her about her daughter, my mum was about to go and lecture her students that day but she had to wait to listen to his nonsense. I did not introduce him to my mum but he had my mum's number because one day I missed his call and I used my mum's phone to call him back, then I did not know he was a liar.

I unfollowed him on instagram and addressed a warning video to him. He sent me a DM asking me to delete the video and he promised to stop pestering me but he recently followed me back and started liking my pictures.

Not a big deal. Women also chase me.

Stellaify1:
I am really interested in knowing the reason why most guys don't like sleeping over in a ladys house.
Is it a cultural thing or just ego

Not totally safe.

MamiTer:
Hello good people of nairaland, I have a pressing issue and I really need your help.

A couple of years back I broke up with my boyfriend whom I really loved due to distance barriers. Getting over him was difficult for me so I had to go into a relationship with one of my toasters in order to get him off my mind.

I achieved my aim after a couple of months but the current guy was unwilling to let go, I didn't love him and couldn't get myself to love him despite trying to. I know I was selfish and opened up to him but he insisted that I would warm up to him with time and grow to love him.

The relationship was far from perfect, I was in it solely for what I benefited but we weren't compatible and it was from one issue to another. We were always at logger heads all the time. He insults me and my family at any given opportunity and talks down on me using secrets I shared with him as leverage each time we quarrel. He shredded my self-esteem.

He was insecure and attacked my male friends at any given opportunity including my lecturers, he would access my social media accounts and send derogatory message to any male contact he feels is making a pass at me.
All these attitudes made me fed up with him and I decided to breakup for good.

Early this year I met a guy online and somehow we vibed together quickly, we met physically for the first time and it felt like we've known for ages. Everything moved so quickly with this new guy that I started developing serious feelings for him. I was scared because I never knew I would feel something like that again after I broke up with my other ex.

This new guy makes me happy and treats me like a woman, anytime spent with him is always memorable and I don't feel like leaving. The chemistry that we share is super strong and everything seems so perfect.

Now to my issue, this new guy is a fresh graduate and not yet stable, I don't have issues with his financial status because he made me realize a Lady can actually be happy without money being thrown at her. But I'm still scared of going all full into the relationship he might go for service and never come back to me. I don't just want a repeat of my previous relationship that got shattered after my ex relocated.

On the other hand, the other guy is hell bent on getting me back, he's been pleading and sending people to beg me even though I told him I've moved on and has even had sex with the new guy but he still wants me back.

I'm confused and don't know what to do, my heart is with the new guy but the other guy is making things so difficult for me and almost driving me insane. Can I still grow to love him?? Though I've been unable to after almost a year.

Should move on with the new guy?? I've known him for barely two months but it seems I've known him for ages, my feelings are exploding and I can hardly control them which is making me scared.

I'm sorry for the long epistle but I had to let it all out.
Please advice me.

Girl, how old are you?

Botking:
The boded is very wrong from every utmost perspective

They are also very tight.

Botking:
The boded is very wrong from every utmost perspective

I am talking from experience. Aside that, they are very sweet down there.

Rahkman:
Koreans engage in too much plastic surgery if u want to know how real Koreans look like check north Koreans.....below is a Filipina no surgery

Have you enjoyed any before? Forget about the plastic surgery thing, Korean women are the most beautiful women in Asia aside India.

DawnG1:
She is White but Asian

Haha. Chinese aren't white people.

Rahkman:
Too me the best looking Asian women are the phillipinos tho majority of them are scammers

No. Koreans.

Marrying a Chinese is counterproductive. One major problem is identical crisis.

Second is, they do not accept dual citizenship.

Third, they age so fast, especially their women.

nairaman66:
This guy belongs to one weird occultic society. Take this to the bank!

Yes, you're right.

Forget about these pictures. There's no free lunch anywhere.

omolasho:
Good evening house, need your opinion concerning something that just happened to me yesterday.

This is the thing, there is this young lady who happened to be my colleague at work, not the same office though. I can say we had only spoken once.

She walked to my seat posing like she would tell me something in the ear only for her to kiss my cheek with a smile on her face then walked away.

Other people were around but I guess none noticed. It was weird because nobody had boldly flirted on me like she did.

Please i don't want to just jump into escapades with her, rather I want to know the whys behind her action and what I should do.

Thanks you.

That's a green light. She likes you.

Deborah98:
Redpillers will be like come off it jare. Don't fall for her and I'll be asking myself who then are those ones in my dms asking for my number and location. A good number of them are here on Nland forming rubbish. My sweet broda Biko don't think much,if you love her then go ahead and ask her out but don't bring up the kiss of a thing so it won't look like that's what brought you close. Don't be a redpiller online and a simp offline as majority do here

I would like to know who they are.

semid4lyfe:
I banned him for flouting rule 8. Posting false information on Nairaland

Very good.

BOOOMNAIJA:
Goal!

They finally score us

Nigeria 0-1 ivory coast cr

Okay but I'm not happy now. How many minutes to go please?

isan:
Mad man still 0-0 ivory missed a pk

Thank you, my brother.

Jayslyder:
So this billing thing extends to relatives

Yes but the guy isn't smart. Smart guys don't act like that.

HeroHero:
Bro, u be legend. Banging two sisters. I bet u can't lose. If one goes, the other will stay.

Both can go. Talking from experience.

@OP, you are simply a wussy.

Immediately I read "nobody is a saint," I knew it's all over. If you had truly wanted your boyfriend to forgive you, you ought not to have used this phrase on him. This forgive message is not truly from the bottom of your heart. Stop being stupid, gurl.

Awoleesu:
I don't get that part of her washing your clothes...

As in, she entered your room, packed your clothes and landered them or she walks up to you when you're doing your laundry and snatches the task from you?


To my mind, you can't say you want her off and still allowed her to do your laundry!
I think you're just fed up of a date...

No. OP is simply a wussy.