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Rachel98:
I'm not cheating on him. I'm having been faithful. He knows me well.

I'm just fed up.

You aren't faithful to him.

Again, stop cheating on him with so many guys. That guy is very smart.

Nadaken:
you open champagne anyhow he go loose taste as perishable good

Toto no be perishable goods, he don get body counts before you and would continue after you

That's not true. He loves the woman but only wants to be sure about her.

Beebah2000:
I am not ready for another heartbreak

What did you do to the guy? Tell me the truth.

Ttjj:
Coz most of the girls out there are not what you think they are

Many have aborted their intestines and womb and may never get pregnant men need to be safe coz it’s investment

Forget about love. You will get tired of the marriage in no time when kids are not forthcoming And the man must have spent his life savings dating the girl paying her bills and also marrying her.


That is called investment without return

Exactly. You sounded like an Alpha man. In my last relationship, I got tired of the girl and had to leave her like a shot.

Brocode1:
I've noticed a certain trend and I'm in need of explanation. Why do most men these days impregnate women before marrying them? During our days it used to be an abomination but nowadays it seems it's so rampant. I need honest contributions to this thread. Thank you.

Because it is vitally important. What most girls do these days only God can save us.

seguno2:
Elected/allowed by us Nigerians, or by foreigners and aliens

I did not case a vote for anyone. Nigeria's problem is its government and lots of countries do know that.

seguno2:
Not at all.

We Nigerians have cursed our country all by ourselves with little or no help from anyone.

Is that not a more precise narrative ??

Blame your highly corrupt government.

LostMyZeal:
You've said it all sir

It's called training of the mind

We men have been enslaved and bound to shackles because of sex

A man that can control his conji will be a very dangerous man

That shiiit solves like 80 percent of our Wahala as men.

You're very enlightened, I must say

Thank you.

LostMyZeal:

You're wickiid sha

Remove sex from your mind and you will get to understand that women are nothing.

LostMyZeal:
Oh, so you think there's a difference between Naija girls who use different social platforms?!

Like a Nairaland girl is different from Instagram and Twitter girls

LOL. Women we get easily but unfortunately, OP was sending money to, hoping to get sex in return.

A lady is even angry with me because I don't pick her calls and did not also allow her to come see me. I said this to her: Stay in your father's house and stop waka waka about.

I will let you come see me when I'm less busy.

OP, sorry. Better luck next time. You are a wussy.

Nice pictures. Nigeria's cursed!

Things that men have used and became tired but some stupid men out there would be craving for.

babyboo4life:
In regard to the post I made earlier https://www.nairaland.com/6848382/elder-brothers-babe-attitude



My brother wanted to meet her one day and she refused, so my brother told her if he doesn't see her that night, she should forget that they ever met and not bother seeing him again unless on repayment of the debt she was owing my brother.

She requested for the deadline and also said that it is a small money. The deadline is tomorrow and she said she can't make it but will pay as soon as she has the money.

I told my brother if he can leave the money and forget about her but he refused. Because I think trying to collect the money may lead him to getting attached again. The money is 30k, if you're in his position, are you going to forfeit the money, knowing quite well that the girl requested for the money on borrow basis.

Note: He has spent double of that on her, just that this was borrowed specifically.

Bitches aren't royal and that is why I don't give money to women. Let him just forget about it and move on with his life.

Mercychen:
Girls, in as much as it's ok to give guys green light, it is not right to propose marriage to a man. No matter how the love is shacking you.

Please stop acting like desperados.
Stop! Stop! Stop!!!

Hehehehe.

SurvivorM:
Lol I actually asked a guy out before, I like going for what i like but some men mentality is that if you ask them out they have the upper hand in some kind of twisted way and try to use you.
Well long sorry short I dump his ass before he could say jack.
I love myself so much to tolerate bullshit.
In other new somebody should bless me this Christmas

LOL.

It's time to learn once again. OP, please ride on.

Absolutely not.

proxillin:
So much fun at the wedding. I noticed something. And this is not the first time.

The Bride was just an average looking lady. I don't want to sound rude by saying she is ugly. Despite the heavy makeup, she is still what she is.

But the story is, all her entourage, best lady, bridal train were beautiful straight girls. Her friends are so gorgeous. I kuku mingled with 3 of them exchanged whatsapp numbers. And they are telling me they are single.

I keep asking, why are guys always marrying these average looking girls? Who marries these beauty queens? They are always friends of brides.

Or is it me not getting the gist?

Those pretty ones are hoes. So, just forget about them. Experience is the teacher anyway.

Enugu is a nice place with lots of pretty girls. I enjoyed a lot of cool babes there before.

Lord, please forgive me.

Toluwanise247:
Bro is a lie if you like suck her everyday if woman go cheat she go cheat. Na blood

Yeah sure. You're right.

LivingTribunal:
They had a real good time while the water was pumping..

Bad boy

Hahahahaha. Your story is so funny. You have a girlfriend other guys enjoy too. Good for all of you.

OP, your game is not tight.

Sex starvation? What a very poor English.

solasoulmusic:
The area you choose to settle is the kind of fruit you will deliver …good soil loyal friends families love and influence in the next generation don’t be fooled by hype I love Greece beautiful skyline dazzling water views perfect location for movies or videos but I noticed it was quiet the town over spent for the Olympics so economy is just bouncing back.

The worlds unity can help provide needed economic stimulus to all nations so that brother you see came back with something his life, his experience and by Gods Grace renewed hope.. no place like home Nna but come with ideas on how to develop and improve life for all of us living here.

You’ll lose everything if you choose to take it by force

Return to Nigeria and develop what? Forget about the country for it is already gone.

North Cyprus? It's all over.

instinct57vm:
Something is not necessarily fishy, but then if something is fishy. She will find out. She missed the opportunity of asking the guy important questions before going to bleep him for three days. I wonder what they were discussing for TWO weeks prior to their meeting. I have dropped my my advice on one of her comments and wished her good luck

Hahahahaha. You're so funny. How did you know she went to bed with the guy? Anyways, you guys know a lot better than me.

egorov:
Moph21 is upon us people

Nice.

ngoziwrites:
I just want to know what he has in mind. I stated it in my post that a year is fine. Even two years, if needs be. But I only prefer within a year... So does he even have it in mind yet.

The truth of the matter is he is not ready yet for you. A man who is ready will discuss his plans with the lady that he is in love with. You need a side guy. Get yourself one in case of necessity.

Are you a cool chick? Who knows, maybe I can introduce you to my friend. He's a very nice guy, handsome and from well-to-do family.

LadyD22:
When Satan sees that you're becoming desperate to settle down , he will package his favorite cousin for you , I am in no place to advice you or say anything , but I think you shouldn't really rush it , marriage is a serious thing , two months is too short , and about him doing well , you've not heard of ppl forging things and even identities ?
For him to avoid taking you to his place , it might be he doesn't trust you , he's married or his living condition is not something to brag about ,

For him to ask you that question , it feels like he's trying to discourage you from getting any ideas , ( which has already happened).
I think you should ask him first , no matter how hard it is , you should do it now and get it over with , its better you know your place now , than for you to put all your eggs in one basket thinking you found yourself a boat.
The idea of settling down early sounds nice but don't let it tempt you into desperation , and find yourself in the wrong hands , peace of mind over everything
Good luck

Exactly. I totally agree with you. If a man doesn't take you to his house, it means something is fishy.

OP, it is unlikely that the guy would marry you.