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Tinapa is open and business has commenced so its open to the public,

The catch is that only halve is operational now, the otherhalf is still under construction but the open halve is more than big enough to fill ur tourist enquiries

why is this string growing

thought he said he has already "Fasheed the gal"

She can go pick up Tantalizer with her own cash or anoda "Maga's" cash.

Good ridance to bad rubbish,

The problem i see here SERIOUSLY, is a girl that wants to flush her happiness down the gutter.

The thoughts that you are even considering to spend the rest of you life with someone that doesnt respect you?? _{he actually calls you B**ch, w***e and what have you is totally incomprehensible to me}

I am pretty sure he hits you, you just didnt want to put that in here.

Galfriend, don't have the notion that you can "change him" ok 'because you can't, no 1 can except he makes that change contiously._{why do gals think that they can ever change guys}

LEAVE now that you still have your head intact,

You gal is seeing anoda man and you know about it AND you still choose to remain
'cos of love
Thats crap men, a broken heart neva kills, just make's you stronger and wiser ok.

Be a man and WALK!!!!!

Bro,
its cool. i'm sure that she's still in school sha, anyway i just hope that her parents
wont object to it oh_{her dad might think she's to young to get married}

Don't fret it though, things will work out fine.

Daystar boy.

Congrats oh, Thank God for you. it is well.

My advise, tell your friend to free the boyfriend, ok

They both messed up but hers is worse off 'cos she's the gal_{call me a chuvanist,}

sorry sha.

Dont do it, its completely wrong, if you still value ur friendship(with ur gal pal that is)

Anyway, its a more intense scenario with guyz, i have withnessed a death occurence over

this kinda situation.

DONT DO IT,

(wed123)

A lot of those advicing you to confess have either never been in this sitaution or are underestimating the seriousness of the issue.

Here's what you may not know: the fastest/most guaranteed way to end your relationship or marraige to a guy is to "confess" to infidelity. Trust me. And like someone said earlier on, we (men) are never quite able to handle this - "nice" or "bad" guy - it cuts across.

O.k, let's just say 1 out of a million guys would live with this. But this odd guy will most likely be sufering from some kind of complex or is "living" with the sitaution just so he can have a defence for misbehaving in the future.

"For real. we are not built for this things_{even the bible says so}

About confessing, i cannot advise that move AT ALL, Men never go past it.


Sadak,

I'm really very happy 4 you and the way you were able to work it out with your wife. its an enviable move

WHAT?

are u 4 real he really bruised your lipd with his ,

or with his fist

is his lips made of lead?

People, people, people.

Sinserely,i wanna apologise on behalf of "pain" ok, he had a disfunctional childhood_{me thinks his folks molested him as a kid,}

so his idea abt the female folk is faulty, i also think he withnessed alot of "female bashing" during this same period too.

Just surf thru various topics on nairaland and you will see his "landmark" attention seeking trail.

He's a lengendary loser._{"Pain"___not beef bro___straight up truth}

Bolargeez,

Listen, it will only show how childish you are is u leave her based on this.

If you dont know, know now, 1 out of every 12 gals in Nija have

had to go thru that horiffic experience_{i still cant fanthom guyz that do this,}

most of the females i have been with( either in long or short relationships) told me there various

incidents,

Personally, my heart always went out to them and i cry inside which i was a personal friend to "Doctor who"
where we can travel back and forth into time and i can personally handle these asswipes myself just b4 they comit the act.


Bolargeez, look at it this way, if your younger sista(if you have one, if you don't pretend ) whom you love oh so much

you most probably have to personally give her date a "clean bill" b4 she see's them, returns home crying,

and when you inquire about the course of her sorrow, she tells you that her BF left her because he could handle the truth

about the long past rape incident, hhmmm, truthfully, how would you feel?

Dude,

Posting this advert here sound to me like its something else u have in mind and definitely not a "modeling job"

if Cosmo is coming to Nija(which i seriously doubt), there are tons of agencies i.e. Beth modeling that i 4 one believe

that they would align with for pro models but, well, u might just be real_{i'm no female model so i cant tell}

don't mind me_{i'm just horsing around,}

Easybabe, its really not funny oh.

i know that d picture u have on ur profile anit you but if u wanna, have dinner with me sometime,

leave me a message on my IM, ok

Cheers

Seriously,

No chic wants a no strings attached date??

Yes, i believe that there issomething like an ugly body,

Personally, the two must follow,

SaurceKid,

I think i am gona stick with you on this one, my lips are

cheers

My guess is that gals are presumptous, why becos the Auto assume that we (Guyz)

Just cannot but say yes 2 "Buddy"_{we are not all D'banj you know,}

Get it ok, sometime, WE DON'T WANT. PERIOD,

Galfriend,

My sinsere advice is that you guyz just have a sit down and run down your options,

Believe me, its a shitty situation, i was in something like that that ran 4 abt 9yrs,

I am a christian/she was not, the scares of that breakup will die with me, things got so bad that we almost agreed to have a love child so we could be ethernaly bound 4 life,

Hear the words of experience, "Its a TIME BOMB waiting to explode" and believe me, it always explodes

its very hard, but 4 your own say, u need to work at it and END IT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

cheers

Been ther done that 4 over 4 years_{i worked there wiuth a mutinational FMCG},

And personally, i think that they are as regular as all other Nija Gals from other parts of Nija,

but if you ask me, i think "Akwa Ibom" gals (Especially Ikot Abasi gals) are prolific as regards the , ehm, ehm,

mind thoughs of this topic starter,

Cheers

smoking chic, none smoking chic,

Same difference, but hooking up with a smoking gal on a wild night at night club/bar

is really hot, _{please 4give my perversion}

People, People,

Take it easy ok, believe me when i say that, nothing can be acheived here with by force.

@topic. you need to plead and try to reason with your folks to trust your jugdement on this your wife to be,

that she can have kids. its an uphill task but you can do it. Try running it through your Dad first to get

his buy-in as he can help buttress your resolve.

Also, ALWAYS, ALWAYS inform and communicate with your wuife to be so that she 2 can be fully abreast on minute by minute

proceedings. if she truelly love you and want to sinserely spend the rest of her life with you, she will understand and

follow through accordingly,

best of luck man

Its really sad how some individual seek attention by every means possible,

Pain, i "Really" feel your pain, i wont be surprised to find out that you had a disfuctional childhood,

i followed your trail of replies today and i can safely conclude that your attention seeking plan is obviously pathetic,

all you did was spit crap {not 2 surprised there though 'because with the power of your chronically abuse - Negative mind} everywhere

you made a comment,

sorry bro, i really advise that you seek professional help. it will do you alot of good._{This aint beef ,  so don't sweat it,}

Guyz, guyz, guyz,

lets put an end to this foolishness, xtian and finantially stable my ass,

please, 4get this gal and concentrate your online time on some1 serious abeg

Shakara,

This your chain is running long oh, lol,

I kinda like tolumi ( the ilorin gal) she's very frank,

Shakara, try the picture thingy, it will definitely go a long way to help speed up
the process,

Yimiton,

The choice is yours. Bahamas is a cool vacation spot ( been there, done that, ) but

i have no plans in that direction. Truth be told,i just looking to have fun here in Nija( Lagos particularly)

believe me, if you have the cash to burn,you will find fun in Lagos.

If this works 4 u, holla back,

Meanwhile------ hope you fit the bill 'cos i aint spending a dime on any none CREAM babe.


(Sick and tired of playing , Mr nice guy)

Men,

See the long trail of replies flowing on, i neva though that Nairalanders were such Party pple.
its cool to know though. meanwhile, everyone wants a party but no ones talking of where the "Naira"
to host the event will come from. Booking a club(me thinks this should be the most ideal place to host this event)
in lagos for a private party would definitely cost you some, (believe me i know) especially on a friday night.

What about the drinks?, Small chops?,

U know thw works, it would be lovely if the creators of the site handle this event as regards recieving countributions from those who can afford or even willing to donate some cash,

what do you guys think

Some1 should please put this guy( sorry man) in a stray Jacket,

Bobo-james, if your "marriage" is so unhappy why dont you leave it first b4 chasing this

unknown bolumi gal
Huh??

Think about it, maybe, just maybe, she avoiding you 'cos of the fact that you are married,

Think about it,

Up Bendel, sorry Delta,

Full blooded Urhobo man( Dad Ughelli- Mum Agabara)

Urhobo wa doooooooooooooooo

Yaahhhhh,