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DaddyRochie1642:
A man is created to be naturally polygamous, the sooner you accept that fact, the better. As long as he's carrying out and discharging his responsibilities in the family.

The mode of some cheating is heartbreaking.
Y was he denying if it's a good thing?

Jashub:
Believe this at your own peril

are u kidding?
I learnt a lot from people story here that is y l posted mine..

Or should I say cheating recovery,
I met my husband during our service year and we got married 4 years after.
We have 2 children together.he is loving and caring and that was what attracted me.he used to tell me about his past,how he is now a one way man.l believed him and give him all my life to him.
He is the first man l HV ever loved and HV any sexual relationship with so not experienced at all.
Keeping myself for my husband was my policy growing up,doing right is d way I'm wired.
After our wedding he got a job outside Lagos and that is how cheating game started without my knowledge.
After my first baby,it was infection v infection and l wasn't even suspecting him and it went on like that till l had an ectopic pregnancy tryin for thethird baby.
I nearly lost mylife but God saved,

How l found out?
Hmm the first time .l collected his phone to do something,l now saw msg from one girl when l confronted him he denied for months.that was in 2009 he even showed one his friends and they said that msg doesn't mean anything after months of serious dragging,l forgot about everything thing.

Fast forward to 2020 Sept 6th my whole life changed.l don't go through his phone in suspicion since l married him and that was my greatest undoing.l check what l want to check and drop it but that evening l don't know how l was directed to his inbx.

l could not believe my eyes.l nearly quench through out d night my body changed.l could not eat for 3 day straight.if l didn't see all that l would not believe he could do all that.

The same girl he denied having anything doing with is the woman he is having sex with @ least twice in a week and sometimes 3* in a week.
U may ask how? He comes home wkends so from mon- Saturday night.so the woman enjoy him and the have more time without interference because his wife is naive.

I have been having dream about dragging him with women but he kept denying.until his cup got filled up big time.

He was and still remorseful and had swore with everything in this life but that doesn't stop me from freaking out most time.

I find it hard to truly move on bc the betrayal was just too much( don't want to go deep)
Contemplated leaving but my sister and others are begging me.

I believe he is not cheating remorselessly again at least 50% sure.

_Before he can never come within the week if l beg him he will complain of hold up but now he comes Wednesdays.
_ He goes extra mile to make me happy
_ Now l ask for anything l want - no pity
_since he stopped all those nonsense life My God blessed him with a good job.

Is very bad to be cheating on ur spouse especially loving,loyal ones.
He said he was just having fun.( Really?)

The woman is 31 years old and l asked is a 31 years old woman Neva reach to be a wife and mother instead of being a side chick?.

Sleeping with a married man might prevent and distract you from getting ur own.
Pity urself naw.

Or should I say cheating recovery,
I met my husband during our service year and we got married 4 years after.
We have 2 children together.he is loving and caring and that was what attracted me.he used to tell me about his past,how he is now a one way man.l believed him and give him all my life to him.
He is the first man l HV ever loved and HV any sexual relationship with so not experienced at all.
Keeping myself for my husband was my policy growing up,doing right is d way I'm wired.
After our wedding he got a job outside Lagos and that is how cheating game started without my knowledge.
After my first baby,it was infection v infection and l wasn't even suspecting him and it went on like that till l had an ectopic pregnancy tryin for thethird baby.
I nearly lost mylife but God saved,

How l found out?
Hmm the first time .l collected his phone to do something,l now saw msg from one girl when l confronted him he denied for months.that was in 2009 he even showed one his friends and they said that msg doesn't mean anything after months of serious dragging,l forgot about everything thing.

Fast forward to 2020 Sept 6th my whole life changed.l don't go through his phone in suspicion since l married him and that was my greatest undoing.l check what l want to check and drop it but that evening l don't know how l was directed to his inbx.

l could not believe my eyes.l nearly quench through out d night my body changed.l could not eat for 3 day straight.if l didn't see all that l would not believe he could do all that.

The same girl he denied having anything doing with is the woman he is having sex with @ least twice in a week and sometimes 3* in a week.
U may ask how? He comes home wkends so from mon- Saturday night.so the woman enjoy him and the have more time without interference because his wife is naive.

I have been having dream about dragging him with women but he kept denying.until his cup got filled up big time.

He was and still remorseful and had swore with everything in this life but that doesn't stop me from freaking out most time.

I find it hard to truly move on bc the betrayal was just too much( don't want to go deep)
Contemplated leaving but my sister and others are begging me.

I believe he is not cheating remorselessly again at least 50% sure.

_Before he can never come within the week if l beg him he will complain of hold up but now he comes Wednesdays.
_ He goes extra mile to make me happy
_ Now l ask for anything l want - no pity
_since he stopped all those nonsense life My God blessed him with a good job.

Akwamkpuruamu:
Relax, when we get to the bridge, there must be a way out. Remember this is Africa and I am entitled to polygamy, culturally

ok then

Akwamkpuruamu:
Its been a nice one all along but I de pray make thunder no fire me while on top of the sidechick

one day ur wife will catch u.
And u will not like d outcome.
Cheating is very bad especially when you have a loyal wife.
It will break her down and might not forgive you.

cococandy:
Nigerian men keep saying married women don’t know how to keep in shape.
But 70 percent of you are pregnant without due date.
At least the women have a reasonable excuse, their bodies were making humans.
What’s y’all’s excuse biko?

Choi
Haba mallama!!
I no fit laf o..

Teetee777:
Soya beans now 30k/100kg in taraba state

pls how many paint bucket inside?

softRay:
Yes I can work 7am-6pm if the pay is reasonable and I can also assist with other stuffs when not driving and without grudges
I am from Edo State Benin and I am not in Lagos now but I am fully and well ready to relocate

the pay is very good
But m sorry
U didn't meet d requirement
Daz y m sceptical about helping them find someone .

softRay:
Someone please help me with this I am very much interested in learning how to drive a truck, of course going through all the necessary process. I graduated from the University 6years ago and it has not been easy for me. There's no where I haven't searched for job, there's no kind of menial job I haven't done just to make ends meet. I thought of learning a skill but getting the money to do that is always a problem. I am almost getting to the point of giving up. I don't want to go into anything illegal. Please if you can connect me I am hard working and I am ready to give my all I am ready to start as a motor boy and learn gradually from there, I already have good years of driving experience and even have a valid driver's license. My Gmail is rayability@gmail.com and my phone number is 09123248117

can u drive a small company truck and can help out with other stuff when not driving without bitterness?
Can u resume 7am- 6 pm Monday- Saturday?
And ready to be humble?
Are u in Lagos?
And which state are u from?

When u answer then l Wii gv u feed back

[quote author=Jumpjambers post=104251285]pls if there a job openin fora a truck mechanic pls help out

CharisEleos:
It's almost every where prepaid meters are being given out for free and this is a ploy by the PHCN to ensure all arrears owed on the postpaid by consumers are paid up. This they do by deducting 50% on every recharge you make on your prepaid. I guess that's why it now being forced on every house for free.

You should have been more patient. Theyll have gotten to your area and then you'll ask one of them to help you with a personal meter at no cost.

That guy don gbab you.

Those saying it's not free because of the deductions, please note that what is being deducted is the unsettled bills you guys were owing on previous meter. They are not charging you for any installations.
E

ok
We will ask for refund
Thanks

[quote author=donbachi post=103187309]Side chicks done give So many wives tearful nites.
Dat is the reason for So many divorces today.
Cos a woman out of pains laid a cures on them..dat they will never find peace in their own marriages,for making husbands not love them solely

Motirayo2018:
I don't know, but it was given to all our cda, like seven street

ok
Thanks
Asking bc we want to ask for refund

Motirayo2018:
I live at sango, around gasline.

We are giving free prepaid in our area two weeks ago

when did you applied for it?
Some people that got it now applied in 2018

johhbekeboh09:
Where de live?

alagbado

Motirayo2018:
We need assistance on loading prepaid meter .
We are giving free prepaid meter in our area.

But we have been unable to load card on it .

please which area?
M asking bc we paid a NEPA guy #47000 to bring 2 for us since May up till now is story.

Pls which area is that?
M asking bc we paid #47000 to one NEPA guy to give us one

Sleeping with married men is very bad, disrespectful and dangerous, I pity ladies that indulge in it, adultery is one sin I will never commit in my life.

But the OP, a lady that haven't slept with a married man before might also end up with a cheating husband, life is not fair.

not fair at all.

Rapmoney:
Sure, I understand your point of view but I focused on sleeping with married men because I think it carries a matrimonial curse or nemesis.

Same thing for a young man who sleeps with married women because he wants financial or material gratification. Nature cannot be mocked; there's a force of agreement existing when two people come together as husband and wife.

absolutely right

Rapmoney:
There's always a reward for it. Especially, those little girls, mostly between 17 - 23. They will comfortably lick the navels of potbellied grand daddies!

30 something years old women are d worst

shariff84:
ok I will buy goat to agege soon,I received one order to agege. Send me WhatsApp so that I can include ur own 08032777272

ok

shariff84:
Our goats market,any one that want goat and cows for rearing/slaughtering,
don't hesitate to contact me

still interested in getting a goat ,d#15000 type in agege.

Cnach:
Tonto is not a bad woman, she is stubborn though and she has started calming down. And if she love u she can go any length to make u happy. Guy no bad mouth her again o, i don dey warn u now, na my friend Though she no know say i dey exist

you said my mind.

mariahAngel:
The question is have you seen a boss-lady who's a side-chick?

good question..

shariff84:
15k

Mr.sheriff
Pls is it exactly this size?what of transportation to Lagos (agege). M interested.

kingthreat:
Never lose guard. I repeat, Never lose your guard.
If you have a woman you are just meeting, get to know a little more about her before having sex with her. Sex itself is risky.
Also, only deal with women that you know have something to lose. Never deal with a desperate woman. Its because of this reason my married friend chose his pastor's daughter as his side-chic because he knew she won't mess up as she had something to lose.
Anytime you are about to make a transfer, do not do it in the presence of anyone. Criminals are so smart that from watching your finger pattern, they can guess your 4-digit pin. Be careful.
Don't keep your sidechic totally secret, let your trusted guy know about her. Let her know she is known.
Never take a drink or food from a woman you barely know. If you notice you are feeling dizzy or sleepy after taking a drink, act immediately. Get out of there or call a friend to let you know there is trouble.
This won't stop men who want to flirt from flirting. But if you have to do what you got to do, NEVER LET YOUR DGUARDS DOWN

u didn't include respecting d marriage by staying faithful and keeping d vows one made.

FalseProphet1:
I see her getting married before the end of this year to a much younger guy, I see jobless people carrying the matter on their head like firewood, I see her ignoring her haters, I see her young husband getting involved in a sex scandal with a much younger and prettier girl, I see the marriage forging on despite the turbulence.

This I have seen.

u always make me laugh so hard with your prophecy.

shariff84:
December is the best time to buy anything,that's the haversting time.

pls mr.sheriff l am interested in storage when d time comes.

RapLawd:
Not her ex.

My intention was open to her right from the beginning, but I believe she was confused and naive, which she is still is, but I can't do anything about anymore, she's gone and I'm moving on...

She wasn't mine and that's why I lost her.

like ur mind set
Move on.ur best is yet to come..