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Klass99:
Everything looks easy when you are not the one doing it. But if it were actually that easy, you and wifey wouldn't need the house-helps in the first place would you?

Are you saying every maid who passed through your house was like this? How many kids do you have? My neighbour has 4 kids, all boys, her maids come and go like a revolving door. I don't blame them because the workload in that house is too much.

I once did two weeks baby sitting for a toddler, an energetic 2 year old who sapped my energy like crazy. I was going to bed tired and waking up tired, my work-outs were suspended because I didn't have any energy to work out after dealing with her each day. Thankfully, I hate a messy environment so no matter how drained I was I made certain the house was always clean. There was no way I was going to allow a two year old over-flog and over-swamp me to that point.

It is not about how much you pay them or other perks they enjoy. If the work load surpasses the money, perks and their energy (like my neighbour's case) they will either bounce or start to let things slip through the cracks.

Klass99:
This sounds like a crap load of bullshit! But let me indulge you by saying, you, your wife and Rukky are not alright at all. Your opening sentence and paragraph about a string of useless and lazy househelps, and them being a necessary evil, rubbed me the wrong way.

Were they truly useless and lazy or did you and wifey want to pass the bulk of your parental responsibilities on to them? And when they couldn't cope or were unwilling to work so much for little pay, you saw them as useless and lazy.

Necessary evil, kwa? Dem no send you message to start a family o.

Foodqueen:
Is she blaming you for real or just joking around with it.

Godoverevery:
Na them.

Billionaire wives.

People who don't care if people all over die just for them to make illegal money.

They go to church on Sunday kneeling down before there holy Mary statue and rev father for prayers like saints but continue selling fake products and hard drugs the next day.

Basicend:
For me, he would have been a better president than the current one. Although, he will face a lot of collective sabotage.

So his efforts my not yield much in the end.

Jewessgratitud3:
This is like the fifth time this thing is happening to me. Anytime I eat semo, I begin to feel dizzy. I'm not really a semo person like that but each time I crave it with a particular soup and eat it, this happens.

I made bitter leaf soup and ate eba with it twice, nothing happened. Today because I didn't want the soup to cross over to the new year I decided to eat it with semo this morning and by evening I started feeling dizzy; this is not the first time I'm experiencing this. So I had to go and buy coke now and take. Feeling a bit better.now.

What could be the cause? Anyone experienced it before?

phorget:
Dem say person short;shey make OP add wood for the girl leg make she for tall?🤷‍♂️

Toban855:
what was the cause of the broken marriage?

guobe:
Most guys that their marriages crashed just few months after getting married are psychologically down and feeling the effect of the crashed marriage.
They nolonger act normal again and feeling the effect of what went wrong.
Imagine after spending millions of naira of your life savings to get married and it just crashes in less than 3 months after getting married, it's quite heartbreaking.
There is a particular guy I know whose marriage crashed in 2 months currently the guy is so down that he hardly talks or associate with his peers as before.
Most times you see him walking very fast and I have had to meet him and tell him to take it easy because there is always hope once there is life.
He confided in me that he spent millions getting married and now this has happened.
All in all ,life goes on.

Collinsemegreat:
Hi everyone.

I am 26, had sex for the first time with a prostitute (with condom which I am not sure I wore properly).

I am a no sex before marriage before now has I am not dating ATM.

I need advice from your Christian followers how to reconcile with God as I not trying it again till marriage.

kabanayol9:
If you have been through storms of life and you overcame there is no way pride will enter you.
I am talking from experience though una fit correct me, if two friends are striving to make it, if one finally does, why is it that the one that made it 95% of them forgets the other friend who is still struggling, an helping hand is okay, a situation you yourself had experienced.
No come dey ask me who i don help, i am almost there but still do the little i can afford to help.
Life is vanity, we hold too much to what we can never keep, we all see lessons from life but daily we ignore.
Anyways last last, we will all be successful, timing differs, each day we wake up, there is hope 100%.

Jewessgratitud3:
Batch cooking was necessary yesterday as I didn't want to enter the kitchen today and start stressing myself.

I couldn't eat since morning till this afternoon cos there was no light and I didn't want to turn on the gas and start warming any food cos I don't want to mess the kitchen sink with dirty plates and pots, so I just brought out one of the packs of food straight into the microwave as soon as they brought back the light and dished my beef stew. Ready to devour I thought to share with my well wishes here. join me guys.

No drinks, staying off sugar this season.

Merry Christmas.

Biko I don't see anything simple in this meal. White rice with this kind of stew is always more sumptuous than a lot of nonsense people parade as classy food.

LeonSaab:
no nonsense till elections come round again, then we will see if he will need wike or not.....

ucheuzor1:
Davido is not wearing white though and no one raised a dust. Just have money

Segzy19:
You can't fight the fingers and structure that made you.... Go and ask Ambode....
Don't be an ingrate.... Everyone knows that without Wike, being a governor in Rivers state will always be a dream or wish to you....

Same governorship that people like Magnus Abe, Tonye Cole have laboured to get but failed yet you got it cheaply on a platter through Mike's help, now you are doing as if you worked for it...

Alpharey:
But you should wear what is decent knowing that people are seeing you. Or are you expecting people to start looking the other way anytime they see you.

chaloskyx:
lol fubara is a fool you signed peace accord that gives wike fuul control of your state and tell people there is no price for peace yet the same man is telling people you are responsible for the crisis in rivers after 4 years just get ready to leave as you are done politically