₦airaland Forum

seborrhic:
Its safer for a white person to travel through Africa than for an African black to do so.
That is just the bitter truth.
Africans would accommodate,respect and glorify the white person,even in rebel controlled territory,but will see their fellow African embarking on this kind of adventure as just another animal to be maltreated,ill-treated,unaccomodated,raped if it's a female and even murdered.
She should have restricted her adventure to the Western countries.

SeeWahala:
I bought a can of Guiness Extra Stout for N900 yesterday night

I drank 4 cans

How many agbad0rians can do what I did?

verybadmouth:
simply telling them to stay in their country

seborrhic:
I wouldn't call what Tinubu did on his inaugural address as lack of respect.
I would rather call it the action of a mentally unstable human being.
All other things the Sheik said about Tinubu are the the whole truth.
What he also said about the chronic docility of Nigerians is another bitter truth.
If I were a well to do or prominent person in Nigeria that is not directly affected by Tinubu's policies,I would not even bother calling out Tinubu or Nigerians.
If Nigerians despite this unprecedented level of suffering can not come out enmasse to say enough is enough,them you allow them to continue in their suffering.

TimeManager:
Eze ebi n pawa 1 of ebi n pawa kingdom.

-kiss the truth!

Klass99:
The other time you were concerned about finding a serious date/relationship with one of your own (a fellow Naija woman) overseas. You've found one now and you're back again with a different dilemma

You are in the obodo where there's far more advanced technology dealing with fertility matters and the ability for early detection of issues if any. Yet, here you are, asking jamb question, when an honest conversation with healthcare experts and medical tests will help you more than NL.

Some of you will migrate and still carry along your warped African mentality and prejudices that never served you well to your new location, how do you expect to build a new life and thrive if you don't let go of un-helpful beliefs?

Smile4me, I thought you had more sense than this. My post is not meant as an insult but you can do better than bringing this to NL. High five that woman for refusing to have a child out of wedlock, she has a good head on her shoulders, before she ends up being part of the single mother statistics.

Do things right if you mean business. I don't know why at your age you should be looking for more than one child sef. You should be glad if you are able to have even one healthy child, women are not the only ones with fertility issues.

WolfOfWalstreet:
I’m without a job at the moment, a friend recommended a security 30k job with free food once a day . Pls would you advise I go for the job?

Hier:
Nothing stops him from becoming a committed Christian, he has gotten so much already, name it, fame, money, good family, he can devote the rest of his.life to soul winning and spiritual growth and spiritual activities

Nicepoker:
Pls take those kids for DNA testing. Those kids are not yours

Nebes:
I now understand why part of the story offended you. Let me paint a brief picture for you.
Their work is to keep the house clean. They are not involved in the children's care, feeding or cooking major meals. We ( me, wifey and kids) all leave the house 7:30am (school runs) and return 5pm on a good day. Biko how stressful is it to sweep, wash plates and probably hang clothes out to dry and bring them in? The clothes are washed with the washing machine. They have almost 10 hours of unsupervised work a day. We their bosses don't have that kind of luxury. Their evening work is to help prepare dinner and wash up after. They retire 9pm on the average daily.
My opinion is that my house gives them room to be very lazy as there's almost no work. My wife and I stand on our feet working almost throughout the day so we need some help in the evenings. Is that too much to ask for? We bathe, feed and dress up our kids ourselves. I can go on and on. They start begging when we ask them to leave but Rukky appreciated her work and the environment.

Klass99:
Everything looks easy when you are not the one doing it. But if it were actually that easy, you and wifey wouldn't need the house-helps in the first place would you?

Are you saying every maid who passed through your house was like this? How many kids do you have? My neighbour has 4 kids, all boys, her maids come and go like a revolving door. I don't blame them because the workload in that house is too much.

I once did two weeks baby sitting for a toddler, an energetic 2 year old who sapped my energy like crazy. I was going to bed tired and waking up tired, my work-outs were suspended because I didn't have any energy to work out after dealing with her each day. Thankfully, I hate a messy environment so no matter how drained I was I made certain the house was always clean. There was no way I was going to allow a two year old over-flog and over-swamp me to that point.

It is not about how much you pay them or other perks they enjoy. If the work load surpasses the money, perks and their energy (like my neighbour's case) they will either bounce or start to let things slip through the cracks.

Klass99:
This sounds like a crap load of bullshit! But let me indulge you by saying, you, your wife and Rukky are not alright at all. Your opening sentence and paragraph about a string of useless and lazy househelps, and them being a necessary evil, rubbed me the wrong way.

Were they truly useless and lazy or did you and wifey want to pass the bulk of your parental responsibilities on to them? And when they couldn't cope or were unwilling to work so much for little pay, you saw them as useless and lazy.

Necessary evil, kwa? Dem no send you message to start a family o.

Foodqueen:
Is she blaming you for real or just joking around with it.

Godoverevery:
Na them.

Billionaire wives.

People who don't care if people all over die just for them to make illegal money.

They go to church on Sunday kneeling down before there holy Mary statue and rev father for prayers like saints but continue selling fake products and hard drugs the next day.

Basicend:
For me, he would have been a better president than the current one. Although, he will face a lot of collective sabotage.

So his efforts my not yield much in the end.

Jewessgratitud3:
This is like the fifth time this thing is happening to me. Anytime I eat semo, I begin to feel dizzy. I'm not really a semo person like that but each time I crave it with a particular soup and eat it, this happens.

I made bitter leaf soup and ate eba with it twice, nothing happened. Today because I didn't want the soup to cross over to the new year I decided to eat it with semo this morning and by evening I started feeling dizzy; this is not the first time I'm experiencing this. So I had to go and buy coke now and take. Feeling a bit better.now.

What could be the cause? Anyone experienced it before?

phorget:
Dem say person short;shey make OP add wood for the girl leg make she for tall?🤷‍♂️

Toban855:
what was the cause of the broken marriage?

guobe:
Most guys that their marriages crashed just few months after getting married are psychologically down and feeling the effect of the crashed marriage.
They nolonger act normal again and feeling the effect of what went wrong.
Imagine after spending millions of naira of your life savings to get married and it just crashes in less than 3 months after getting married, it's quite heartbreaking.
There is a particular guy I know whose marriage crashed in 2 months currently the guy is so down that he hardly talks or associate with his peers as before.
Most times you see him walking very fast and I have had to meet him and tell him to take it easy because there is always hope once there is life.
He confided in me that he spent millions getting married and now this has happened.
All in all ,life goes on.

Collinsemegreat:
Hi everyone.

I am 26, had sex for the first time with a prostitute (with condom which I am not sure I wore properly).

I am a no sex before marriage before now has I am not dating ATM.

I need advice from your Christian followers how to reconcile with God as I not trying it again till marriage.