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Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Iice Can I Meet You? by Nella(f): 11:45pm On Sep 04, 2008
AHAHAHAHAHA grin grin After u don whisper for my ear sayy make we sabotage her abi?? (oops grin grin)


mukina2:
ok bring your ear make i whisper . ." psssssssssssssssssssssst psssssssssssssssssst"

you don get am? grin

haaaaaaaaaaaaaa na your aunty ika you dey talk to like that . .chei!! iice wetin u don dey give my pikin o sad grin
grin grin grin grin grin ok, no talkin bad about her, Just tell her to return all my property wein she thief!! grin grin grin
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Iice Can I Meet You? by Nella(f): 11:29pm On Sep 04, 2008
I dey listen! grin!

Look, I dey suspect that Ika sef, for all my properties wein dey miss!! angry grin grin
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Iice Can I Meet You? by Nella(f): 11:14pm On Sep 04, 2008
Cheii ooo, Ika wan make me go thief with taht ride??
RomanceRe: 35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? by Nella(f): 8:41pm On Sep 04, 2008
It is nuthin, u can marry at any 30-somethin age, please!

Relax and forget the pressures, they will always be there. No mind Nigerian mentality. Tyra Banks ( 34 goin to 35) and many other celebrities are in there 30's were marriage?

even people that got into marriage some of them are commin out because it was a mess. - -  Chill, . . . .


idupaul:
did u buy the 29yr old chap from a shop.
How ignorant can u be!?
RomanceRe: Heart Breaker by Nella(f): 8:12pm On Sep 04, 2008
lol, U are the second Emeka I know that is complaining about Heart break today, lol
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls Are So Demanding And Do Too Much Shakara? by Nella(f): 5:33pm On Sep 04, 2008
bettes:
@Post: Where do you meet these girls that demand for lunch,y[b]ou have obviously been hanging out with hungry girls(agege bread sellers[/b]) you can't just generalise and say every nigerian girl i want to assume you are nigerian and you have female relatives. angry angry angry
Thank u jor! -- No mind all this boys! --- When dey go do their neighbor house gurl finish dem go come here come dey complain! *hiss*
RomanceRe: Nigerian Girls Cannot Kiss by Nella(f): 5:18pm On Sep 04, 2008
See all this boys oo,

soo because una go South Africa go kiss albino wein call  ger self White nahim make person no go hear word again abi??


Nigerian girls no sabi kiss, How many Nigerian girls una don kiss?? : " your neighbour house girl - Nº 1
Who be number two? *hiss*

If them dey count people wein don kiss girl, una go count unaself join!
Make una no shut up and stop disgracing urselfs here.
your neighbour suffer herself carry house girl come from village, u run go do her, and now u come nairaland come dey cmolplain sayy "Nigerian girls cannot kiss" -- nonsense --  we cannot kiss, why u no go meet Sudani women make them kiss u?? I heard dey can kiss very well! *hiss*
RomanceRe: Pretending Or Being Yourself In Relationship by Nella(f): 5:06pm On Sep 04, 2008
Be urself

Don't live a lie. So that if the guy manages to fall in luv with you, u would know he is in luv with YOU and not some person u are pretending to be.

But unless u are looking for something else and not a real relationship.
FashionRe: What Stuff Are You Into At The Moment? by Nella(f): 4:54pm On Sep 04, 2008
IIIICCCEEEE grin grin grin na only u go like somethin like that grin grin lol, dey freak me out oo, . . they are used for sleeping right? undecided undecided lol!
RomanceRe: How Come Women Are So Difficult? by Nella(f): 4:44pm On Sep 04, 2008
@Coolruler

Quotes:


"How many things will a man give up for the sake of "taking on the responsibilities of a man" as you put it?"


He gave up his lady friends (not lovers)
-- "And so did she, with her male friends"

He gave up his male friends( she scared them off) ----
"Oh please! yea right, there is no way a lady can scare off your male friends. Highest thing is that u won't have as much time to hang out with them. Which is justifiable because, unlike most of them, u are now a married man! And the same thing applys for the ladies as well!"

He gave up his sports(no watching supersport when she's on AfricanMagic) -----
"why do u have to make everything sound like such a big deal? It's vice-versa for her too,  no watching AfricaMagic when he is glued on his sport chanel"

His Mum needs permission to visit ----
"EVERYONE needs permission to visit your marriage home! -- It's called respect"

Now he cannot step out of his own house for one night? ------

"who says he can't step out of his house for one night? Like u said\and like the guy would say, :" he is goin to have a night out with the boys" -- now, if u know that a "night out with the "boys" is what u want, why head to a club? -- is a club used for playing poker? Is a club used for talking\watching sports? no, the main aim\use of a club is : TO MEET BABES and TO LOOK AT WOMEN! -- dispute me -- u are a guy, when u prepare to go clubbing wht is goin through your head? is it to go and dance with a guy? sit and stare at some guys? NO, u go there because it is a fun place to be in because THERE ARE WOMEN AND FINE BABES ALL OVER! Full stop!"


Now, no one is sayin he shouldn't have a "boys night out" Besides, let's face it. Calling it a boys night out is just a way of disguising wht it really is, You are not going to a "boys night out" u are going CLUBBING! Call it wht it is.  . . . boys night out my a$$, will u stay five minute in that "boys night out" if there weren't botty women walking around and shaking there asses all over?? --  Why not just go to a gay bar, if u really want to have a "boys" night out?
sometimes u men think u are talking to small children, *hiss* . . . at least a little respect for ur marriage home?
LiteratureRe: When Is Eze Goin To Finish School? by Nella(f): 11:54am On Sep 04, 2008
loool, I remember reading that book grin
RomanceRe: How Come Women Are So Difficult? by Nella(f): 11:34am On Sep 04, 2008
wht a foolish example.

Like u said : " She knows you always go to the Club at least once a month to hang out with your guys, and she never had any problem with that when you were dating."


There, "when u were dating" ,  But now u are married and no more a boy but a man, So 4 Christ sake put your whole boyish behaviors to the side and take on the responsibilities of being a man! u are no more 24.

Besides, using your example, how about this : "look, your wife also used to club and go partying with friends every Thursday night when u were dating, how about she continues that now in your marriage hu? After all u never had any problem with it when u were dating.

If u are married, then be married. If u want to go out and club and chat up babes with the boys, then y in the world get married??

coolruler:
How come when you're dating, everything's fun, you flow beautifully with your babe, conversation's no problem, the two of you can sit for hours just chatting and laughing. You think" life cannot be better than this. At last, I found my soul mate"

But immediately the two of you are married, everything changes. Gone is the fun, the laughter, the attraction. Conversation becomes a contest where every statement you make can and will be used against you. For example:

You say: Honey, I will be going to the club tonight with my gees. Its our Boys night out.

She hears: Honey, I am fed up staying in the house with you. I'm going to the club where I will drink tons of beer, tell my friends all about you, and likely chat up a babe or two.

She knows you always go to the Club at least once a month to hang out with your guys, and she never had any problem with that when you were dating.
And tell me the guy doesn't do any of those listed there!??
RomanceRe: Refusal by Nella(f): 11:17am On Sep 04, 2008
ATTENTION SEEKER, Apparently he got it.

I don't waste my time with such people . . ,
FamilyRe: Im Getting Engaged And Im Scared About It: What Shoudl I Do? :-\ by Nella(f): 11:34am On Sep 03, 2008
I wonder how\why someone would have second thoughts about something like this! angry Soo u need nairalanders before u know what's safe and what's not!??

*hiss* It's just soo annoying. Can u not reason and make a right decision about something soo clear?? How old are u!?? 

marshana:
''i don't know if my boyfriend really cares"
"sometims he says 'I LOVE You' as if he's being forced to say it"
"he ex called him d other day and he went out to pick up d call. . . he started making signs with his hand 4 me to go away"
"i cnt stand what he does sometimes"
"i don't fhink he appreciates anyfhing
I will advice you to MARRY HIM!

u still need more advice??
I wonder why people are wasting their time . . .
FashionRe: The Ups And The Downs Of A Skinny Girl. by Nella(f): 10:27pm On Sep 02, 2008
lol lol grin ok,

I guess u r just exploring d different areas of being skinny abi?? part of getting to know urself more grin
Jokes EtcRe: Going Going : Pls Rush While The Offer Lasts. by Nella(f): 9:46pm On Sep 02, 2008
erm . ,  wht! huh
Jokes EtcRe: I Am Tying The Knot by Nella(f): 9:39pm On Sep 02, 2008
Cayon, I could spank u for this, but I knew u were up to something  tongue tongue
Jokes EtcRe: Roflmao! by Nella(f): 9:35pm On Sep 02, 2008
IBK, oya follow me! I'm taking u to mummy, d thin inside ur head has finally gone off abi?? lol


Lmao at the sig above me grin grin
FashionRe: The Ups And The Downs Of A Skinny Girl. by Nella(f): 9:15pm On Sep 02, 2008
Ok, sis I wonder where u got some of this infos from.


They tend to watch t.vs more.Admiring the celebrities and be like   lipsrsealed


Every one ( wether fat or slim) watches TV and admires celeb. Not just skinny people. -- soo wht did u mean by  that one?

When they see the word ''skinny'',their heart races.

Erm . . . Ok, let me make it clear for u.

I'm a skinny person, And since being skinny is wht is in "fashion", I have never had the whole pressure or felt like I was out of shape or weight bla bla bla or even voluntarily visited a gym because I'm always very ok and confident with my body and my thoughts never wander to things like "my weight" etc, soo the whole gain weight\wanting to be skinny never rings a bell to me.
Soo, If I am already this confident, why would seeing the word skinny or hear the word skinny make my heart race when I don't have a problem?? undecided


They always try to search out for a skinny person or celebrity and regain their hope back.

Where did u get all this your information from sef?? www.yourhead.com??

Ok, We don't search, look or do anything to find a skinny celebrity to regain our hope back. God, do u even watch TV at allhuh lol, no offense. But Skinny celebs are all over, celebs are drying demselfs up every day all in the name of being skinner. soo, u don't even have to turn an eye to see a skinner celebrity, they are everywhere. Like I said, we ( at least me) never ever have weight thoughts etc. If a celebrity gains weight, good for her, if not, how's that my cup of tea?  . . . . . It's actually d other way round, heavy people worry about such stuffs more . . . .

They hate being referred to as''skinny'' They prefer being called slim.


Like I said, if u are skinny (at least for most skinny people) u don't\are not conscious of all the weight bla bla bla. Soo if someone tells me I am skinny, which they do a lot, i just shrug and say "yea" because I don't really . . . . care . . . ( except if u were growing up in a place like naija, lol)



They always hear things like; ''are you okay'' ''do u want more food'' '' eat more,eat more''


Yea, now that's true, at least when I was in naija as a kid, I know wht I went through grin


jaylinaa:
Bottom line:Love yourself the way you are and others would follow suit.
We can't all excel in every area.No one is perfect.If u arent good in one area,other areas would make up for it.

And who says skinny oops!!! slim is not sexy??
smiley wink wink kissGet checked!!!
erm . . . did u just come out of depression??  undecided
Forum GamesRe: The Game Starts With The Last Word by Nella(f): 12:12pm On Sep 02, 2008
good and bad
Forum GamesRe: Can You Answer A Question With A Question? by Nella(f): 12:11pm On Sep 02, 2008
where was I?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nairaland Admin Questions and Answers by Nella(f): 11:09am On Sep 02, 2008
Shaz:
[color=olive][center]HOW TO HIDE YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS FROM YOUR PROFILE[/center]

1. Click on the Profile tab on the top of the page.

2. You'll see a column which says: Account Related Settings.

3. Then, read the page, you get to the Hide your address from Public Column.

4. Click on the box in front of it. A tick will be indicated in the box after this action.

5. Remember to click on the Change Profile TAB on the bottom of that page. Then, your change will be accepted. Check your profile summary to view the change.

Hope you find this useful. smiley[/color]
oh yea, thanx kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nairaland Admin Questions and Answers by Nella(f): 9:21pm On Sep 01, 2008
Shaz:
[color=olive]Okay, I'll be replying the questions I can while the Admin will do the 'personal ones'.

1. Author - Eldee[/color]
Q: Why is there no action when I click on the 'report this user' link in the whole forum?
[color=olive]A: There is a 'report to moderator' link at the bottom right corner of each post of every poster. please, you this wisely.

2. Author - Eldee[/color]
Q: Why do you get punished for sumn when you're in the romance section and you go scot free when you do the same thing in sum other section?
[color=olive]A: All sorted now.

3. Author - Eldee[/color]
Q: Why can't some specialist section like the'Computers' and 'Rap Battle' section have a special moderator, nominated by fellow members there, cus it's obvious only sumone in the business can handle offences that don't apply everywhere. They don't have to necessarily possess the right to ban but they could report to you with their own opinions accepted.
[color=olive]A: All sorted.

4. Author - Ztyle[/color]
Q: No Support Section in Nairaland? Where all members can chat with you.
[color=olive]A: This section, Nairaland - www. nairaland.com/nigeria/board-18.0.html, is meant for these issues; issues that concern Nairaland and Nairaland alone.

5. Author - Aladunni[/color]
Q: Please why this discrepancy in the orginal number of posts and what appears beside one's ID.
[color=olive]A: Certain forum posts do not count in Nairaland - Rap Battles, Forum Games etc.

6.- Nella
Q: How come I'm unable to remove my e-mail 4rom my profile? -- Help?
]A: It is required by the forum. You can only HIDE it from your profile

I hope your questions have been answered. cheesy[/color]
Yea, that's wht I was asking about, can u guys do that for me?\how do I do it? . . .
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is 'lol'? by Nella(f): 9:12pm On Sep 01, 2008
Lmao, smone actually asked that. . . Lol!
CelebritiesRe: Osufia And Obama Do They Look Alike? by Nella(f): 6:03pm On Sep 01, 2008
loool

They Kinda do,
Poems For ReviewRe: Read this, Somebody by Nella(f): 5:59pm On Sep 01, 2008
nanaboi:
@ mactao
You finally read it. Thanx just 4 doing that.

@ Nella
You think it's unsafe posting here? R u published yet?
Looks to me like I'm not the only one who doesn't love to see boring stuff, or cliched topics or approaches to same. May I ask something(s) u mustn't answer - though I hope u will answer, is it just the topic that bores u, or does the concept bore u too? I mean, are u in love? Can u really stay in it (love) the way majority of those works that u loathe portray it? Or have u developed your own meaning of it?

@Lovelace
your comment is generous; I am grateful.
I don't think it's unsafe posting here, I just don't see the point of doing so. . . .
And no, I'm not published yet.

To answer ur questions . . .

My not liking these sort of poems has nothing to do with the concept of love itself, Cuz yes, I am in luv and I can stay in it.
I just don't see how someone would pick up a pen and start writing something soo . . . annoying?. . . . . I don't know . . . I just find them boring and annoying.
I mean, haven't you got something more useful or sophisticated to do or write with ur time?
I simply don't have the patience.
It's just d same way some girls don't like the colour Pink.

And like I said b4, everyone is writing\can write them, so where is the point?
Forum GamesRe: Match 2 Personalities 2 Make A Couple by Nella(f): 5:08pm On Aug 31, 2008
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CelebritiesRe: Top 5 Naija Rappers by Nella(f): 1:22pm On Aug 31, 2008
Nigeria has rappers?? undecided
Forum GamesRe: ╚►Kiss! Bleep! Hug! Or Pass!◄╝ by Nella(f): 10:36pm On Aug 30, 2008
eheheheh *laugh* . , Hugggg
Nairaland GeneralRe: ╚►Describe Ladies In One Word: :-\ :-\◄╝ by Nella(f): 9:08pm On Aug 30, 2008
Smart
Jokes EtcRe: BEHOLD! DO YOU REALLY APPRECIATE YOUR WIFE: LET'S SEE!!! by Nella(f): 5:58pm On Aug 30, 2008
lool, lol
CelebritiesRe: Kim Kardashian Without Makeup! by Nella(f): 12:48am On Aug 30, 2008
erm . ,   I don't see wht is yuck there undecided
like u said : " without" makeup.

She is ok abeg, . . . even more than ok!

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