₦airaland Forum

durasome:
oga if this is the case please just let her go.I can't continue to suffer for a woman and who wants to be a stray dog. I know the likes of Anty Linda and her likes will never believe your ordeals in her hand. you can live without any mercy,God be your strength.

Unless you are not following the story, you would know that the man is lying.
His first response is to deny there was a problem- red flag.
Then he claim the pictures were lies,
then he claim he still loves his wife(the most common line for abusers).

You see no man(at least not of gentry status) will catch his wife cheating and pretend nothing
happens and still be begging the wife, in fact it is the wife that will be suing for peace not the
husband.

This last outburst is just a means of saving face considering 3 other women have also
left him.

lfleak:

My post wasn't about the woman defending herself,
I only corrected the guy who thinks it is okay for
a woman to go naked because Rihana also dress
half-naked.

lfleak:
what standard are you saying? someone in the midst of more than 20 indians trying to save herelf using any viable means, that is when u say by standard... llol no wonder our govt ride most citizens easily... standard indeed!

Never jump into a discussion you know nothing about.

Vicyace:
So when rihanna or beyonce or any of dem celebs steps out half nude, the headline is she dresses to kill ,slay queen, hot.... but this is shameful right?

When you go to the beach or pool and you rock your bikini ....it's not shameful right
? Cos your boobs and ass don't show....

Not directed to you..just a general statement

No need for deflection, the woman's action is shameless
by Nigerian standard, Rihanna may go completely nude,
that is none of our business.

You get a country like Nigeria when a majority of leaders are brandishing fake certificates.
It is unfortunate that the ones with genuine certificate lack the guts and tact to contest for
power positions.

Touch not our anointed
As they say god works in mysterious ways.


It is now common for pastor to scam their
followers of their money and body by hiding
under the "spiritual" banner.


I hope the sexual predator rots in jail.

Facebook will never engage individuals because of the stress involve,
they prefer to work with agencies.

Buhari is obviously sick but the hawks in aso rock will not
let him resign for their selfish purposes.
I am seeing a Yaradua scenario once again.

HungerBAD:
Cool.

The rate Nigeria girls are losing their men to foreign women,i am afraid a lot of them might not get a soul mate.

What is causing this trend?somebody said it is the bad manners of our women.

So who wan come marry Nigeria girls?Ghana Men?

He neither stays in Nigeria nor is he a Nigerian!
Our girls are not to blame.

Mayaa04:
your comment blew me off, and will be more interesting if u are a guy. let guyz just think right so they don't look envious of success nd scare it away from themselves. domestic violence really doesn't have to do with status, poor men also beat their wives too, as a matter of fact for every 3 out of 10 rich men that beats their wives, 7 out of 10 poor men will do same too. its only a rich man with out character that hits a woman, but for a poor man, his character, life frustration, his insecurity etc can make him hit his woman

I am a guy, I had to respond because there are too many
myopic thinkers masquerading as women advisers these days.

Mad people everywhere,
I hope he is locked up for life.

babooshka:
isn't it obvious?! Let me make it clearer 4 u: d objection u raised 2 his write up is uncalled 4 because he specified by adding 'and batters u in d process'. He didnt generalise 2 every successful man, he meant d ones dat beat u while buying nice things 4 u.

He did, by singling out rich men in his examples,
he gave away his targets.

By the way, are you and the guy saying that poor
men don't batter their girlfriends' while dating ?
And the same battered girlfriend eventually marries
the abuser.

Maybe it is not the same Nigeria we both live.

Acidosis:
Religion has nothing to do with underdevelopment either.

It is highly correlated with underdevelopment(both physical and mental).

babooshka:
dat's y he added and batters u in d process, he obviously wasn't referring 2 successful men who treat their women ryt.

What's your point ?

Acidosis:
Check out majority of the longstanding Christian televisions, all cited in South Africa. From Loveworld tv (Oyakhilome) to Emmanuel tv (T.B Joshua).


A former president of this country unilaterally banned all religious televisions. South Africa embraced and welcomed them over 20 years ago. Today, we are still far from attaining the level of development SA has attained.


We keep blaming our collective idioc.y on religion, whilst living in phantom 'foolery'.

Please don't conflate issues, religious televisions has nothing to do with SA development,
that is a relic of the white men.
Besides, unemployment has continued to rise in SA year after year.

Christane:
this woman might be 100 percent certain of what she is saying bt many may tink dat she z mentally unstable to knw al dz ...she might get d fact 4rm a babalawo,a pastor,bishop,prophet or prophetess ...d fact remain dat she might be right nd she z trying to save her son ..nd d country ...i support ur movement ma ...#STOP THE OCCULTIC WEDDING

Really, I never knew seers and prophets are synonymous with facts.
You had better change your thinking or you end up
becoming their slave and maga as this woman has become.

NnamdiiKanu:

You see how women are naturally dumb

Buying a ring is a clear goal and focus ??

Getting married is also an achievement ??

Hope he picks someone who knows what they want and how to get it like him ??

I had a little hope in women of this generation but I'm completely disappointed

I think you are the dumb one here,
you failed to prove that buying a ring doesn't depict having a clear and focus goal.
and you are also ignorant of the fact that getting married is an
achievement for some women.
Instead, you resort to insults, the classic modus operandi of
bitter and clueless people.

blazetitov:
Well, you better don't because its only a rigged election that can get you into any office. SMH for Ekiti people.

In one sentence you claim the election was rigged, in another you
blame Ekiti people for electing Fayose.
What can I say, get well soon!

It is better the two maintain silent.

This is what happens when a pastorpreneur/seer/alfa is in charge of your life.
Unfortunately, there are a lot of gullible folks in Nigeria.
All people need to hear is "prophecy" and they lose all their senses.

Bizibi:
they are right now,it wasn't like that before.....

Only one thing has changed, social media!

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He was referring to women in d entertainment industry.

So women in the entertainment industry should not contemplate marrying rich men
because they are inferior or carry strange genes ?
Please read the guys post from the beginning to gain the full contextual meaning.

Bizibi:
how can show references when many of them are not popular......

This is exactly what I am driving at, people make conclusions based on what they read,
who knows the level of domestic violence going on in ghettos, villages ?
but it is assumed that "rich men" are the most violent one.

Bizibi:
I found out that most of them are these rich guys,cunny beings.
Not all tho

References please.

PaulKillerman:
I was like you before... I felt enraged seeing men touch women, until I saw myself acting irately without controls when a woman brought out the devil in me...

U never can tell bro, after that day, anytime I see domestic issues like this, I am not quick to judge; NY first question will be. "What did she do"
Women could be something else my brother... , like devil in human skin . If u see something's u would understand.

The bold must be very hilarious coming from nairaland-acclaimed chauvinist.

dingbang:
I must marry rich man mentality

Very shallow!
All violent men beat their wives, poor or rich.
I am sure you know this but want to blame
the victims for choosing a "rich man".
Stop demonising rich men.

His piece could have been an excellent one had he not include this and show
how shallow he is:

THE HAND WRITING HAS BEEN ON THE WALL FOR YOU TO SEE GIRL… but no!! U must marry that man that has plenty money, or that footballer that can splash u with ur greedy needs.. or that politician that takes u on trips around the world.. and Batters you in the process.

Domestic violence has nothing to do with money or class it happens all
across board poor, middle class and rich men.

A short trip to a divorce court or human rights office would have cleared
his doubt but no, he had to make a baseless generalisation like all simpletons do.

A violent man will always exhibit violent tendencies regardless of class.
Stop demonising successful men!

mikolo80:
no be una gii dem mouth to talk

How ?

SMH.
NBF belittling Joshua's achievements just to paint themselves as saints.

@cloudyskygrind and @DickDastardly,
your comments are needed here as it doesn't seem
to fit your narratives.

Says the indolent and directionless governor who used all his time and energy in fighting Sanusi and
Kwankwaso.