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Shalomdee:
You are in serious need of Sestraline, if what is bothering you in this present age is a text regarding an age long culture you are in serious need of help.

End time church and end time pastors, people are really blind.

What do you mean by that ?
Are you saying the bible is not the word of god ?

malvisguy212:
we are to learn from the old testament. Bad muslim.

What are you to learn from a book that reward rapists with virgins ?
Are you to learn by imitation or emulation ?

plappville:
You dont understand English. .. God show ed his justice here. If you violate her. You must marry her. You cant leave her like that. Justice speaks here.

How is that a justice ?
so if a lady refuses a mans advances,
all he need to do is rape her and she is all his.

Hmmn, what a justice from the mighty yahweh.

malvisguy212:
na the wahala be this.

I have no issue with muslims, I wanted to stop arguing with muslims, but when I see a muslims quote verse out of ignorance from the bible, then I will reply him and add my question.

The verse is in the bible , yes or no ?
Was it practised by the "chosen people of god" ?

stop being ashamed of your god, you are supposed
to love him and his laws unconditionally, not cherry pick.

NOBODYY:
Old testament man... jesus Paul came to re-write those laws

"Rilwon" sounds like you're from the religion of "Peace" *coughs loudly*

Do you mean that god suddenly found out that he was wrong all along,
then he decided to change his mind on his "everlasting" laws ?

opribo:
That girl should be arrested and all those supporting her for blackmail. she willingly consented to all the things that happened to her and now she thinks she can mislead the masses to sympathies with her, to say the least she must be an international olosho

She can't give consent because she was underage.
Audu and his gangs committed statutory rape.

TonyeBarcanista:
This is what I don't get to understand from pro-sugabelly fans.


Which abuse are you talking? Did the abuse happen before or after they had affair? Did you read that she was foerced to have their first sex or second? Did you read her continuous stalking of the said abuser? It s irrelevant whether she's been relating her frustration of not getting him back for four or forty years. The fact is that she was never abused at any time. Beside, I have never seen a situation when relationship gone bad equates abuse.

Her only accusation while she was with him was that he sleeps with other girls to get back at her. Is that abuse? Abeg shift

You are not the girl and you can't determine whether she was abused or not,
except you were part of the story from the beginning and if that is the case
you can ignore the rest of my comment.

You based your writeup on some of the "facts" and prematurely concluded that
the girl is trying to blackmail audu. Who does that ?

if inconsistency is the basis for guilt/innocence, then no one will ever be guilty of any
offense because a consistent full-proof story has never been told.

She was underage when the "relationship" started and their is nothing new
about victims getting attached to their abusers.


Now that she has regained her consciousness it is rather unfortunate that some
people are trying to shut her up.

Cases like these depends more on context than "facts".

If the girl was 17 at the time,
all the "facts" in this article are meaningless
because an underage cannot give consent.

For all other offense the accused is innocent until proven guilty
but it is the opposite for rape allegations.

And for all those threatening that the Audu's will open sugabelly "can of
worms", that will be counterproductive because
1. sugabelly is the first attacker and any story audu churn out will be
seen as cooked up.
2. The one who is down have no fear of falling.

oglalasioux:
Boko Haram is in possession of mind control drugs. There's no other way to explain why a human being will want to blow himself and others up. Jeeeezz

There is nothing like mind control drugs,
Suicide bombing can be explained using simple
human psychology.

This evil people want to resurrect the 1400 years old war between shia and
sunni muslims.

It is this kind of attacks and its reprisal that brought Iraq to its knees.

why kill people because they have a different ideology
than yourself ?
Live and let live.

Neemcie:
And yes, solutions won't just appear overnight. The last administration was annihilated, very badly. I think this new administration is trying to go back and restrengthen international relationships.

Thus, be part of this solution. firstly, by being positive, and look at the bright side.

The joke is on you,
you are still castigating the last administration that is no longer in power.
Suffering and Smiling mode activated.

Mindfulness:
Love? Is it love when you force yourself on someone even though the person is busy studying? Is it love when you don't respect that someone needs time on their own?

Well, I agree it is not love but people should stop
getting married to partners who doesn't fit their
lifestyle.

I believe the man has always been that way and
it is selfishness on the lady's part to want him to
change just because she can't cope with it.

Why marry someone who over-pampers you ?

Polarbite:
I admire dem but dis guys were born wit silver spoons nw.D only thing dey did was 2 build on deir solid foundations.I swear nobdy in ds thread can tel me dat if u wre to b a rich man kid u wudnt av achieved mre dan ur parent(we get brain now) but because we b hustlers we jst av 2 work hard for our future kids.#ajepakonimi

You are overlooking a vital point,
People born into a rich family have a high
chance of being less motivated to excell
especially in the financial realm than those
from average background since they are not lacking.

In fact from a psychological point of view , children from
an average home have the "drive for success" edge.

Motivation is the number one key to success,
if you are born to a trillionaire family without
motivation one will become just another "rich man pikin"
with no personal achievement.

So, I wouldn't say they are billionaires because their parent were rich
but because they wanted to and pursued their dreams.

More of an igredients of marital "rights" not love.
If spouses only "love" themselves because Allah says so,
then it is not love but "rights" bound by the constitution(quran).
Just because a Traffic warden is doing his job doesn't mean he
loves drivers.

missKiffy:
Our society is not really interested in the knowledge you acquired through education, they are mostly interested in the certificate

It is not about the certificate , it is about what the certificate can
make one achieve.

Akpobaro:
read the it. It is also on nairaland.www.nairaland.com/2691720/donald-trump-africans-lazy-fools#39376034 and also watch it YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMDcTqZuJhU

You just wasted my mb on that useless text-to-speech translation,
How come someone is speaking in place of Trump.
Is Trump deaf and dumb that he requires some jobless trolls to
speak for him.

Are you sure you watched the clip ?

Akpobaro:
he uttered those words. The news was known worldwide.

Get me a link from CNN,FOX,BBC, Yahoo or Aljazeera
or better still get me a video link where he said such.
It was mischievous bloggers that propagated that "news".

Akpobaro:
click and read the website i pasted. Donald trump insulted us. African Americans are disgrace to us.

Actually , that source is not new to me , Trump never
uttered those words.

BTW, are you an African-American or a US citizen ?

Akpobaro:
i know why i tag them to be black Americans , because they are bringing disgrace to us. So they are just black in skin colour. They are not real Africans.that picture is a big insult to us- the Africans.

Donald Trump never made the comment you ascribed to him.
And BTW they are African-Americans!
Steer clear of their affairs.

menesheh:
This is kinda rigmarole

As you said previously that there are pretty much things we never understand or may not understand but[b] that doesn't mean that each of us have to invent personal ideology[/b] whether abstract or real as personal deity without any good reasons and justifications.

I follow your replies to comments here, i find no valid reasons you gave to justify your personal believe. After-all you intentionally decided to share with us how you are not an atheist. That's why it seemed as if we are pretty concern about your position in connection with Christianity, religion, agnosticism, deism, solipsism, atheism etc.

who has the right to do the bolded ?

Tallesty1:
You're an atheist Mizz.

And what is wrong with being one

daretodiffer:
Ode!

How are they even related?

Typical response of those who have nothing to write.

It is not my fault if you can't connect simple dots,
not everything needs to be spelt out for you to
understand.

Elslim:
Tru talk.. does marketers r Devils in disguise.. I think I High time NNPC starts doing its Job and avoid dis marketers completely.

Inshort what r they paying NNPC staff for??

What will you say to a police man who blames Armed robbers for robbing people ?

jusRadical:
Abeg stop wailing!

Which chanjiiii were you promised? Changes in which areas were did apc promise?

Please enumerate them. Are you the only one suffering in this regime? Why don't suffer it at N180 per lit and keep quiet as the apc goons are doing?

Are you the only one buying fuel at N180/lit?

Are you only one that knows that naira is falling recklessly?

Are you the only that knows that things are worse now than before?

Are you?

Please respect yourself. I don't want to insult you ooooo.

Suffering and Smiling things
coupled with zombism.
Hmm I hail you.

Ghandi12:
This is an important discuss I would have loved to be actively involved but for other important things.

While we can analyze the preponderance of the backers of this hostility I am more worried about how this will affect Nigeria.

Russia, China, North-Korea, Iran and other aligns have put nobody in doubt they are not America fans - these nations have been envisaging possible big friction with the west for about a decade now. In my opinion they would not be more surprised than the west if a war eventually breaks out.

I also agree NATO will be fronting for the western powers again. While the US is unarguably ready to enforce their dominance on the globe anytime I still see them applying caution when it comes to direct face-off with Russia. In addition, the western Europe have not really been excited by wars post Gulf war. They are also, currently, facing internal immigration crisis that is not abating soon.

American ships have sailed close to the China new Island, China has sailed closed to a disputed island with Japan, Russia has more than once crossed into other sovereignties and many more showboating.

I see this war in Black or White (no grey zone) - If it happened there will not be a celebrating victor ; as the damages will be too much to savor any victory.

Russia reaction to Turkey's salvo will make the picture become clearer in the coming days...

Your analysis would be apt if wars are all about egos.

I'm sure Putin is wise enough not to engage in any direct
confrontation because china as we know it will simply abstain from
such and will wait for the two sides to be tired and worn out before entering as a
a strong "saviour" force.

China will be the beneficiary of any major war between Russia and the west.

Also, Turkey can make Syria another hell-hole afghanistan for the Russians
because they control the flow of Jihadis into Syria, if they decide to fully
open their borders, Putin will be enmeshed in a very long war.

@coolar, hope you guys are not planning
to murder that blogger ?
Leave her alone please.

Wynnah:
na wa oo.. last time I checked, prostitution wasn't illegal o.

Which country are you typing from ?

NgeneUkwenu:
Best and Incorruptible President!!!

Welldone Sir!!!

Keneking:
Sai Buhari

Our leader...Nigeria's finest....Number One Citizen

Where is lalasticlala sef

olapluto:
Nigeria's very honest leader. Sai baba impressing Nigerians everyday.

See them zombies!
How does this picture reduce the price of fuel ?

personal59:
My brother I wonder o is he happy about it or what he make a mistake he would av learn well from Lai muhameed this one he his doing doesn't mk sense to me

Rest in peace to d dead and may God give there family the fortitude to bear d loss

It is not about being happy,
it is a crime to deny the existence of
men who are fighting to keep the country as one.

Heroes are to be celebrated not obliterated from history.

sayemma:
That is why it is better to allow a criminal to walk freely than to put an innocent man in jail

The justice system like any other system is not perfect.
That is why suspects are presumed innocent until proven
otherwise.
It will be wrong to set a man free if there are enough credible
evidence against such person.
If we do that , then the law will become useless , since there is
always a chance a convict might be innocent.

johnydon22:
[b] There are two factors that contributed to the kind of pitiable state of Africans or Africa in terms of Science..

Cultural factor: A kind of mindset that Science is a foreign culture, Cultural restrictions and an undying effects of such dangerous mindset to the curiosity of a young mind in scientific enquiry.

Idiotic superstition have bolted Africans into such a state of chronic idiocy that most times it is sad to watch.

A bird fell from the sky---> Scientifically for one to ascertain what really went wrong with the creature, enquiry and deep study of the details and available datas can reveal such.

To an African -----> It's witchcraft.

Someone gets a headache, witches and enemies did it..

Religious Factor:: I have often watched in total sadness and dismay as many young minds on nairaland tag Science the work of devil..

How can Science in african ever improve when religious beliefs have murdered the minds of the youths, when their curiosity to know what is has been killed, when the youths see results of consistent deductions and approximations (science) to be an enemy because most of their dearly held ridiculous religious beliefs falls to mere idiocy in the face of scientific explanation.

therefore science is seen as an enemy..

We can never improve scientifically in this age that is marked by scientific wonders if we keep deluding our youths with such absurd ideas.

I have always affirmed that the only way to murder the intellectual development of our species is to indoctrinate in them as children unsubstantiated beliefs and superstitions of primitive men..

African is a typical case study.. [/b]

I will go for Superstition and fear of the unknown as the first and major cause.
Even those who don't necessarily believe in the god
of thunder, intuitively act otherwise, there is this widespread
unconcious believe that there are some things you must
never question or you face the consequence.

Some lectures/researchers in our higher institution are not left out of this
superstition as they often reinforce local believe that "we are just doing
this and only god has the answer".

How do you expect someone to stretch his intellectual limits under those
circumstances.

While superstition is not peculiar to Africans as history taught us, but many
societies were able to throw off most of its yoke through cultural evolution
and civilization.

Unfortunately for us our evolutionary clock is being set back by our imported
beliefs, it is as if we just started from scratch once again.
I believe it is easier for a society to make advancement based on their
cultural perspectives and local beliefs than a foreign one.
We have Japan and Germany as a case study.

African are known to celebrate and revere "foreign" things so why do we
then reject "foreign science" ?
It is obvious that "foreigness" of science is not the cause.

Finally, the solution lies in massive re-orientation starting from the primary school
level.

It is time we elevate scientific inquiry to where it should be.
If we cast our net wide enough then I'm optimistic we can catch the sharks!

kallmemrB:
i tot u need to die before ur fate will be decided

That was in the olden days,
you can now check your name live and direct
without dying