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yep, u freaked the poor(?) dude out, cant say i fully understand d dynamics but the way its supposed to work is that knowing that the pretty, smart sexy lady (in some cases, not all)that u fell in love(?) with is outside your cave waiting for u will ensure u dont stay in der unnecessarily, but if she bugs u, u automatically withdraw, and that could mess things up, and as u shld well kno(u seem like the smart type) once u freak someone out more than once it usually distorts the rhythm so the person might jst always carry vestiges of the spooked someting even when the person has cooled off, and when u now withdraw wot runs thru a guys mind is 'ok this gel is not alrite first she was bugging me now she has gone cold turkey she should make up her mind' and d next thing is 'y are gels so unstable' den wot do we have, -yep u're right a crazy unstable gel

thing is as guys we're into strong and silent so thats wot we expect, now y'all gels are all up in each others space we dont like that when we hv issues if we tell u we're sorta used to hving our boys bear the thing out with us in silence(well maybe not silence but can u imagine a guy hugging his friend if the friend says he's depressed)

so i'd say u spooked the fella

one more thing y dont u get the book?, men are from mars women are from venus, its a really cool read

haryorlah:
Love! Ke. Am nt so sure about. Though, he culd be nice sometime bt he told me he can't wait 2 hav me in his bed! He emphasis alot on how hes gonn f"*k me and so on

from your last post, its obvious u hv feelings for this guy because i don't know y any gel would put up with a guy she's not interested in that talks to her like that,

@topup, nice font colour!
a guy withdrawing doesnt mean he's going to break up soon,
with guys there's always a withdrawal that follows a period of closeness(or lovey-dovey)the guy that wrote men are from mars women are from venus wrote about it, he called it going into the cave(abi retreating) wot cld cos the break up is if the gel now starts bugging him(cos she's wondering y d sudden withdrawal), its due to the fact that we're different, it even happens btw guys sometimes u start to feel somehow abt a person then u withdraw for a bit and then after things get back to normal, u get?


_{noticed there aren;t so many boys here and besides one of my friends checked my profile and remarked that i spend all my time in d romance section so am trying to spread out, so i'm on the low,}

tosinadeda:
guess ure part of the so called ignorant ones!!!!

sadly (albeit proudly), yes!

@naja haje
well said,

@poster
do u think she likes u?, it could be that u're in love with the idea of being in a relationship wiv her(as in a relationship where u dont hv to think too much before u talk or act i.e. no unnecessary forming),

she shld sue away jo, nothing do her after all its her body,

one small thing tho, one would think that a 24-year old need not be told that such an idea reeks to the high heavens of stupidity, she cant think of reasons to be grateful to her mother for abi?, i wonder wot happened to the respectfulness(<---is dat correct?)that africans are known for(i'm sure if i say she's not african some ppl'll attack me)? but for crying out loud u want to sue your mom, anyway sha thats how we know the world is coming to an end, i wonder wot the next thing'll be,

i'm really liking fashola more and more everyday, this guy's over-earning my respect

wot do u expect?, boy u bin watching one too many movies, she's leaving, deal with it!

i think i'm in the sony camp on this,
recently had a HP pavillion dv6700SE built and not up too 4 months after my wireless has developed issues, i checked online and found a lot of people with similar problems and more than half of them were complaining about HP support(fear has not even let me contact dem yet), dells are good nice battery life IBMs too but ultimately sony is the best,

ok ok, am off to bed, i even need to sleep b4 church sef!

^{sniff sniff} y'all go off and hv ur private conversation and leave lil 'ol me all by myself ^{sniff sniff}

toasting toasting, jelling jelling

am up o, soaking the gist, if he puts it up imma copy it and paste it all abt for er'one to see(jst feel like constituting a nuisance, lol)

weebay arent u sposed to be looking for schools, u're doing gelfrend sturvs, lol
@poster lohol wen u were playing with fire u didnt know abi?, see ehn jst go and join MFM and pray, (from some of the replies its like u've been busy)

fstranger:
It is funny how Nigerians expect things to be given to them "just like that." 1800, so fucking what? Many students with 2000 and above are still planning on retaking the exam, here comes an 1800 hoping to be awarded a scholarship. If I may ask, why should you be given a scholarship?

na wa o, see as u attack d guy, wot he needs is information not insults

@poster pends on the school, y dont u do some research and see wot u find out if u dont get any sensible info u can come bak here

well, if u must change ur mind let me recommend someone for u,

He didnt know der was something like KARMA when he was abusing his elders abi?

e easy, dat man dey promise fire, abeg make we hear word jare!

na wa o i hv seen all types on this nairaland o!, babe if u want to get rid of the guy just tell him dat u're a mammy water, he will free u one time!

thank God for small mercies, i actually thot somebody had put her on a committee where she could work her magic on PHCN(God forbid bad thing!)

i respect pastor Adeboye to a T but wont vote him o, nuff sed!

i think its proper he got sacked, i mean he wouldnt be going to work and still expect to be retained, NA FISH, while i may not agree with his demotion and all its totally fair that he should be sacked, abi was there any LEGAL reason that he should not?

this is a vicious cycle, el-rufai forgot an important law, be kid to the pple u pass on ur way up u jst might meet them on ur way down, he and ribadu had too much action during OBJ's regime, they were jst talking anyhow up and down the place((they both did a lot of good i agree)and now they're reaping the rewards of all the misyarns and misdeeds, this brings to mind something i heard cecilia ibru say recent, she sed twas from her mother and i quote
", if u have a point to make and u dont package it well then u've missed it, " he missed the point and now he's paying,
this brings the words of one song to mind, one day bushmeat go catch the hunter, lol


this is not to say i condone wot the efcc under farida waziri is doing o! to me she is the worst of the kind, a toothless bullpuppy not even bulldog!

hmmm babe dont mind all the haters ho, na u biko but somehow i amagine u having this kind of conversation wiv r kids, a lot

child:mommy mommy my friends say i'm an ugly freak!

sima:i tried my best its your daddy's fault

it was prolly when one of my family friends let me play 'dangerous dave' on his computer, i was in heaven!

there's no smoke without fire now, like the elders hv sed, if mulika tries to seduce u she will carry last,
but is tracy or vanessa tries, o boy its time to run for cover o!


^{the above statement is based on the premise that the girls beaty is directly proportional to the 'tushness' of the name!}

i'm an rngineering graduate even i know that the prostitute has no locus standi cos prostitution is illegal talk about a waste of govt time and money

u pple shld see wot d nigerian police is getting involved in,

Residents of Apapa recently witnessed a mild drama between a man and a well known prostitute in the area. It was early morning and the man was on his way to work when the prostitute emerged from nowhere, held the man by his shirt and started shouting, “Thief! Thief! as she rained blows on him.


Sesan Olufowobi
Ifeanyi Orji
The confused and obviously embarrassed man struggled in vain to free himslef from the prostitute. And his discomfiture worsened as more and more people gathered to witness the drama. He whispered something into the woman’s ears, apparently in a bid to calm her down, but that seemed to infuriate the woman further as she dealt more blows on him and cursed him endlessly.

As the crowd wondered what could prompt a prostitute to so violently attack a man, she began to tell her story.

According to her, the man named Ifeanyi Orji, had come to her in her brothel a few days before the incident, but he turned out to be more than an ordinary customer. The prostitute alleged that Orji gave her , snacks, which she ate and became very weak. He then had sex with her before making away with her jewelry and other valuables he could lay his hands on in her room.

Orji, however, denied the allegation of stealing. Speaking to our correspondent at the Lagos State Command headquarters of the Nigeria Police, Ikeja, where he was later detained, he said, “My brother, that prostitute only hates me. Although I would not deny having sex with her, it is not true that I stole her things.”

The police, however, said the prostitute might be telling the truth. The commissioner of police in Lagos State, Marvel Akpoyibo, told Saturday Punch that Orji was rescued from the mob who were ready to deal with him for descending so low as to steal from a prostitute.

According to Akpoyibo, based on police investigation, the prostitute that recognised and embarrassed Orji was not his first or only victim. He said there were other prostitutes who would want to lay their hands on Orji for the pain he had caused them.

Saturday Punch gathered that Orji specialised in drugging prostitutes and making away with their jewelry and other valuables.

Orji, however, denied the allegations. He said, “I am not a thief. It was condition that brought me into this.”

He told our correspondent that he was a comfortable family man until he lost his business to bad investment. “In fact, things got so bad that I had to send my wife and the rest of the family to the village.”

He said he stayed back in Lagos in order to hustle to make ends meet. “But things were not as easy as I expected. And you know that my wife is not here. So, whenever I feel the urge, I go to prostitutes. I do go to them, which is not a crime. I only drug them because I cannot afford their fees. I did not steal from them. That is demeaning,” he said.

He said that the prostitute that recognised him at Apapa cooked up the story of stealing in order to get the police involved in the matter. “And the policemen that met with the other prostitute that I slept with asked them leading questions,” he said.

Akpoyibo said that the investigation into the case would continue. “The suspect will be arraigned in a court of competent jurisdiction as soon as investigation is completed,” he said.

http://www.punchng.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art200812201255417

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