Ariza:
Lol... What's the outburst all about Bukatyne? We all know how guys here love edging ladies against one another. It's evident on this thread which started as a logical debate only for some mentally unstable beings with 'm' to perch on it and rain insults. That's my concern and that's what I advised her to guide against.I don't know you, I know her so pardon me if I chose her to caution.

Bukatyne, I see no reason for you to be paranoid here. Perhaps reactions like these are reasons most ladies see anything from you as opposition. Please deal with your issues and leave me out of your feud. Jeeeeezzzz!

..."most ladies". Please where do you conduct this statistical poll?

I don't like people that hide under the influence of innuendos to subtly abused their fellow human.

Stop it!!

Bukatyne is an excellent woman. A highly intellectual resource person.

Romanoff:


I still maintain there's nothing wrong with it and my partner trusts me very plenty.

... O ga emeghi vum na anya one day.

Ariza:
Lol... I hope you are aware that not all Modern men are rich and not all Traditional men are poor . When I used "modern" and "Traditional" I meant those who changed their way of life and perspectives to fit into the civilization and those who still retain their ideologies after civilization respectively. It has nothing to do with their net worth.

...ok. it's fine.

But I'm of the strongest opinion that poor girls should marry poor men while rich women should only go for rich men.

If one it's talking about compatibility, I think this is the highest form of it.

From what I have seen in Nigeria, the word compatibility doesn't exist in the minds of women especially when a man is very RICH, WEALTHY AND MATERIALLY AFFLUENT.

Ariza:
Even though I can't grasp how your submission is related to mine I will still answer this:

It will be very fair if the rich decide to go for rich and the poor go for the poor.

Again, how does this relate with my post?

...you made an analogy of how a modern man should go for his like, how a traditional man should go for a traditional woman .

Following same pattern, hence I asked the question you just answered. Yes, they are totally related.

Ariza:
In as much as I acknowledge the importance Compromise in relationships i.e giving/letting go of some things to make the relationship more enjoyable for your partner, I would never subscribe to changing your being ( who you are) to please anyone (Man or Woman) . If you are a traditional Man, find a traditional Woman (vise versa) If you are a Modern Man go for a Modern Woman (vice versa). Picking a partner who has contrary views of life with the hope of changing him or her is not only foolishness but selfishness as well.
The truth is, there comes a time/stage in a relationship or marriage where the will to impress, endure and satisfy the other partner is strained, and the only thing that keeps the relationship is Compatibility. There comes a time when that spontaneous partner becomes predictable and all you can fall back on to keep the relationship going are the things you share and enjoy doing together until that phase is passed. Never make the mistake of getting involved with someone whose ethical leanings isn't aligned with yours.Thats a disaster waiting to happen.


On Male bestie, lol It's a No for me. Your partner should be your bestie. If you find someone else apart from your partner occupying the space of someone who you share your important moments with, talk to about everything, listen to you and give you shoulders to cry on, protect you , advise you and makes you laugh then you should question the essence of your relationship with that partner. Besties take important places in our lives, they are the ones we share our joy, sorrow, happy times, downs and ups with. Now who is more worthy of this position than our Partners whom we claim to love? If a guy has a female as his bestie, he needs no girlfriend. If a lady has a guy as her bestie she needs no boyfriend because they have their partners in their besties already.


That said, I believe the point op is trying to make is Patience. Don't be too haste to judge a person Since humans are dynamic in nature, it is important to try to understand a person's perspective however it isn't compulsory to always act accordingly to that perspective.

...and if you are a poor woman you go for a poor man. Then a rich man can also go for a rich woman.

Hope this is what you also meant right?

Ellipsoid:
This is not true. If I have no romantic feelings for someone (and the reason may not have anything to do with his looks), I can't force it no matter how much I try. I've had guys like me but I did not like them back in that way and simply preferred being friends because the romantic feelings just weren't there.

... But the feelings will automatically show or manifest immediately once money and material things are involve.

Make una the deceive unaself.

...let him be arrested immediately. He can't escape banishment.

...Ndigbo should avoid this bait. It's a bait laced with poison.

...this write up is a blessing to humanity. Ubunja did very well in breakdown the secret of the feminine world.

...I thought they said that Ndigbo only have 2 by 2 shops in the North.

Jealousy, envy and bad belle isn't good.

Dogzimalon:
I have read advice here and I must say that what you brought up is why am single .I have brought two ladies to my mother but she rejected them .later she introduced me to her friends daughter that one rejected me after I had made up my mind to make my mother happy by going against my way and that made me angry and I openly told her I won't get married again .I stayed away from women and today God said u can't run .he brought a girl from another tribe to me .this girl is everything I want in a woman I know my mother will object but my way now is that I will protect this girl till death and I will go on and make my move but I will diplomatic while moving forward I have made up my mind on her .will press on while talking to them so just be diplomatic and if your guy loves you he will protect you but never talk back or go on offensive against his mum but maintain diplomacy

...the greatest disappointment and sorrow a man will have is that after his mum noticed a bad character from a lady and rightly object against the marriage. Then the man out of LOVE &SYMPATHY went ahead and marry the girl.

After like 3 months, boom! The girl character manifest. Man, you will be living under the hell on earth.

KingAzubuike:
If I was fatoyinbo, I'd sue that idiot for defamation and blackmail. These women can be very devilish. They wait for you to be successful and popular before telling the whole world of a rape case that happened in 1945. There's no single evidence yet but see how people are already against an innocent fatoyinbo. God will fight for him.

..."innocent Fatoyinbo" and "There's no single evidence" . How much confused are you?

KenModi:


Trump believes in honesty and respect??

Are you sure we are talking about the same person here?

Are you talking about the man who has refused to make his taxes public, who has been blocking subpeonas from Congress, who refused to talk to the investigator under oath, who is willing to accept and use dirt from foreign countries like Russia and China on his electoral opponents, who was found to obstruct justice in the aftermath of the U.S 2016 elections, who seperated migrant children from their parents and kept them in cages, who said if Ivanka wasn’t his daughter he would definitely be banging her??

You say this same man has got honesty and respect??

Now I see your stupidity know no bounds!

Get da fvck outta here with you dumbness??

...too much addiction to CNN syndrome.

agarawu23:
you people should stop embarrassing yourselves online. Stop typing rubbish and use your Google to educate yourself.

Iran isn't African (black) where we panic and run under our bed if small thing happen. They are ARABS who don't fear death or any kinds of threats that Comes from US, they have nuclear weapons and have ISIS Ediots that can put their life on the line just to kill.

..."They are Arabs" . So Iran is an Arab country?This is too much to take. Wonderful!! People keep talking bullshit.

AmazonTopaz:

You guys overestimate the US.
Some countries are as good but do not go around showing off.
If them born Trump well make he fir Iran if America would not also feel the impact.
Upon all the sanctions on Iran dem still dey kampe.

...children analysis activated.

FemiMaduka:


Why did you insult me when I never even referenced you in my post? [b]You have to know the difference between a strike and an occupation war. [/b]America lost soldiers (though highly disproportionately compared to the hundreds of thousands of Iraqi soldiers and fighters that died) in Iraq because it waged an occupation war; it fought not to completely cripple the country, but to topple the government of Saddam Hussein, run the country till its stable enough to elect an American stooge. The scenario in Iran would be the strike option which is far easier.

Asssymetric war would always be life-intensive. Even in Niger Republic, the USM has lost soldiers against ISIS-affiliated groups. So don't get it twisted. If an all-out war erupted today, Iran does not even have missiles with enough reach and accuracy to target the American homeland. Don't forget the U.S. owns the GPS (Russia owns Glonass) and they can simply switch it off.

P.S.: Iraq under Hussein was not 'ordinary', it had the fourth largest armoured-force then. It was slightly superior compared to Iran. They fought for years, and Iran was the underdog.

...most of them doesn't know the difference. Hence always making reference to Afghanistan and Iraq.

Amujale:


Not at all, never said anything of such. Syria maybe powerful but they have nothing on the most powerful country in that region known as Iran.

The truth is that Iran and Syria are worlds apart.

Iran is a major world power, Syria is more or less a rogue state.

Be in no doubt, anyone attacking Iran without the joint consent of Russia & China would be staring down the barrel of a massive global conflict.

Its even argued correctly that Iran doesnt need assistace from either Russia or China, they are capable of taking care of themselves, they just happen to be close allies.

Nobody really wants to mess around with our relative peaceful world of today.

..."Iran is a major world power "? Did you really understand the difference between regional and world power?

anyicash:
Trump too dey make mouth...the same way he once said South Korea will be met with Fire and Fury.

...South Korea? I give up. Current affairs wept.

MobilityExpress:


Who told you that? Iran just bombed 2 oil tankers, as if that was not enough, they blew up a $120m American drone, did you hear that One Hundred and Twenty Million Dollars. They were deliberately goading Trump to start another Middle-East war before the upcoming 2020 elections, so that Trump can lose the elections because of it, because that would mean Trump has gone against one of his fundamental election promises, and starting a war with Iran could have cost him many of his support base and new convert supporters. The Democrats are in connivance with Iran and Trump eventually saw through their plot and stopped the retaliation attack. Trump doesn't bluff like that. He's the real deal, and he's obviously smarter than his political enemies. They must have sunk into partial heart attacks when Trump cancelled the planned strike 10minutes to go

...You are such a great mind that understands international politics and US local politics.

sulasa07:

If the war truly happens,Saudi will have to support Iran coz Iran is the only Muslim Nation that can Stand Isreal n USA,so if no more Iran,Isreal will then easily invade Saudi Arabia.

...chai Nigerian yoots.

Ayoefa:


The man is a serial LIAR, he lies just for the sake of it. In fact he lies more than a typical 2 yr old.

...Trump is the 45th US president. Please who are you?

Sufisunni:
which planet do you live in? In Germany that killed over 16 millions people during the second war world wasn't wiped out. There are certain things won't do in middleeast. You think if crisis start brewing in Iran, you think Saudi will be saved?
Ain't you aware islamist are looking for opportunity to takeover Saudi government and American interest is finished in the middle east

...comprehension is a big problem to you.

morikee:
What is Trump trying to tell when they are striking Syria do they care about how many civilians will die.

...read and understand. Trump didn't go ahead on Iran because killing of about 150 innocent souls isn't proportional to Iran shooting down an unmanned drone.

Syrian military used chemical weapons on innocent civilians. Got the difference?

olatilldend:
Trump getting ready to trigger WW3 or this could be one of his lies and cheap attempt at gaining popularity. I recall that one of the speakers on CNN who's been in such a briefing severally said the 1st thing they tell the president is the no. of potential casualties. . . . Trump claims he had to call and ask and it took several minutes before they gave him the figure!

... too much of induced CNN syndrome.

sulasa07:
Trump should have at least fired one shot into Iran and then declare no more fighting,but he couldn't try that.To all those saying US will wipe out Iran in 15min,keep on dreaming or do you think this is Thanos vs Avengers.Even small Nigeria with No missile ,he can't finish in 15min.
Even if the war begins now,Trump only believes he will get to Iran through help from Saudi Arabia,UAE n others but in reality the Saudi people won't allow the Saudi Royal to give such help to USA,in the end Saudi would actually support Iran.

..." in the end Saudi would actually support Iran " I hang my pen the very moment I read this. Ignorance of international politics and alliances heavily displayed here.

Amujale:
In a war between U.S.A and Iran, the U.S.A will come up Trumps', yet it would never be as easy as most pundicts assume.

If it was an easy proposition, then Trump would have gone for it i think. Given that he thought twice, then that tells us its a risky venture.

...please tell us a war that's an easy venture. You guys are talking bullshit simply because of Trump benevolence. Iran would have been reduced to smithereens and nothing would have happened.

You guys once said that it's impossible for Trump to attach Syria when Russia is deeply involved. But US attached Syria twice and nothing happened.I don't know if you guys understand the country (US) we are talking about here.

Tallesty1:
Wipe out Iran in 15 minutes? Like seriously? Dude, if US goes to war with Iran, both nations will bleed badly and US won't wipe Iran off in the end.

...maybe you are the one that's watching too much CNN news.

Under which basis will Iran stand a chance?
Iran is surrounded by US bases, Iran national budget isn't up to a 1/10 of US defense budget , Iran's economy can't support a long time war with say Iraq late alone US.

You have an opportunity to say the above thanks to Trump clemency. We could have seen how Iran would have responded after a heavy US military bombardment of identified targets. Further escalations by Iran could have been the end of Iran.

gesundheit:


He's pulling out of those deals just for the hatred for Obama. The TPP was agreed on to checkmate the Chinese that POS of shit withdrawal from it. The person you are replying to, is ignorant about the Iran deal. You would have known from the money gifting false narratives.

...TPP was a burning topic before the election. A candidate campaigned that he won't sign it if elected. He gave his reasons and why he's gonna renogotiate for a new one. Voters agreed with him and even some of the GOP and DEM contenders equally show their displeasure on the Obama TPP. So where's the hate?

So Buhari hate GEJ just because he didn't carry on with GEJ Soveign National Conference where Restructuring were all agreed? Please can we think before writing bullshit for public consumption.

Efewestern:


Iran isn't interested in building Nuclear weapons, they were never interested, Do you even know the origin of the Iran-Us feud? or you just one comment.

Pulling out of the deal was a stupid and foolish decision. I know you hate Obama, but Obama had maximum pressure on Iran during his early days as the president, got to a stage the Iranians were severely affected and they both agreed on a deal, the deal was to limit Iran Uranium enrichment, but when trump came in he pulled out saying Iran wasn't keeping to the end of their bargain, the UN, EU, Russia, China etc all said Iran was/is keeping to the deal and had never gone beyond the recommended limits.

Sometimes in life, diplomacy is the key, not everyone bow to external forces, the Persians are one of those people. Just Monday Iran announced they will no longer honor the deal since other partners couldn't do anything to help, guess what?, trump ran to twitter saying Iran is about violating the Nuclear deal. What deal if we may ask?, the same deal he pulled US out?, or the deal he said Iran wasn't honoring at first? now expect Iran to increase their Uranium enrichment, capable of Creating nuclear war heads, this is exactly what the world is avoiding, and I bet no country will join US in invading Iran. Last month Spain pulled their war ship from US fleet, saying they don't want to get involved in any crisis with Iran, Trump is entirely alone.



Don't even what to talk about the trade war as China herself isn't innocent.

... "Iran isn't interested in building Nuclear weapons". This is the most dumbest statement I have heard in my life time.

Iran is vowing to destroy Israel ( a nuclear armed country), always in a feud with US (world's super power), always trying to change the geo politics and dynamism of the Middle East. Maybe they will need only COOKING KNIFE as a leverage and deterrence measures.

derahhh:



Trump did not defeat Obama!!!!He defeated Hilary....Obama had spent two terms and couldnt go for the third...
Ps....if there was a third term?He would have defeated Trump brutally...Americans love Obama, Non Americans love Obama....Everybody loves Obama

...understanding is your problem. Obama worked tirelessly fronting Hillary so that she can CONTINUE AND CONSOLIDATE on the existing policies of DEMS and the ones he had already initiated like Iran nuclear deal, DACA pathway to citizenship, Obama Care, etc.

Yes, when Trump won he defeated those Obama's signature policies. Even most have been cancelled, withdrawn and about to be placed on a chopping knife board. Yes Trump defeated Obama and Hillary Clinton. Do you learn something today?

tiwiex:


His policies are anti immigration. He is pandering to racists sentiments and seems to play racists cards as a distraction. Most of the policies he screams about never gets implemented but his racist fans enjoy the hype and entertainment.

An example is the Mexico tariff increase to curb immigration. Counter intuitive. Mexicans would have lost jobs and increased the immigration flow. The tariff increase would have been paid by consumers. The farmers have lost huge to China's tariff response. He has had to pay $16b to US farmers to bail them out. In other words the US government made bad decisions which would have led to job losses but bailed them out to avoid the backlash. In other words, imaginary progress. https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2019-06-17/eu-china-push-back-against-trump-s-16-billion-farm-bailout

The irony is that the US economy was built on a friendly immigration policy. All his wives are immigrants. He is the son of an immigrant. Mark Zuckerberg clearly has immigration root. Steve Jobs biological father is a Syrian by the name Abdulfattah Jandalie. I didn't even know this until recently. Under a Trump policy, Jobs wouldn't exist and definitely not Apple. He revolutionised modern computing as we know it. Trump has not achieved the thoughts in Jobs head and never will even though he calls himself a tycoon.

The bright spot in Trump's policy is accidental and I like it. In his short sightedness, he forgets what really made America great. I see many countries losing talent to America daily and losing productivity. Our doctors and professionals are constantly on the run. We get a free path to have our babies in a developed country that gives them citizenship at birth. These things make us not fight for our rights at home. Even our leaders easily tap into the blessing. To maintain the lifestyle, they steal and keep stealling. With that tap closed, we would be forced to start looking inwards and asking the right questions about healthcare, education etc. I think African leaders would be on their toes because the pressure is mounting to fix us.

Will America get better with the scaremongering? I don't think so but thankfully, they seem to have reached escape velocity however, global economics and politics makes thing turn fast.

They won't have a Brexit challenge thankfully but I see a global trade realignment. The Huawei fight as we see is about technology. Unfortunately, it signals a threat to other OEMs like Samsung and LG. There will be a lot of underground dealing to reduce this risk in future. Google days as a dominant OS are numbered. It already affected Apple. From number two phone sales in the world, they are now number three. Losing the spot to dear Huawei. That happened due to the victimisation of their CEO and the Chinese Market responded accordingly. I guess that didn't help the 5g war so Mr Trump went for the jugular. I think every policy move to make America great again has nothing to do with America. It's all in his head and ego.

Putin and China are currently realigning on the 5g end. As usual, Trump will put his tail between his legs and start forming reconsideration of policy soon. Too late.

...too much addiction to CNN syndrome.

mmb:
Useless president that hates Africans

...did you like your fellow Nigerian?