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Uniquetani1:
Many use it to blackmail their partner when the relationship end

That may not be why they ask for it, but it is still a common occurrence. The question is subjective, so the answers you get will be different.

Some ladies do like sending nudes; it makes them feel desired by their partners, turning the ladies on.

Some guys demand nudes as proof of trust or for masturbation. Sometimes it can make the guy feel special, too.

Trying to hurt an ex after a break up is not a just a Nigerian thing. The USA has laws prohibiting 'revenge porn'.

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If this were to happen in Nigeria, the MD will not only retain his job, he'll be celebrated.

After all, according to the lifeless terrorist who we have for a president: "Forgery is not corruption."

Kai Terrorist!

Kai Lifeless jihadist!

Kai Yoruba Moslem!

Our incompetent leader, who is also lifeless, has managed to destroy Nigeria's economy, his health, ine nation's unity, his wife's dignity, his son's head, Nigeria's respect... but, he can't destroy boko haram & fulani herdsmen - his people.

Kai terrorist

Kai lifeless tout

Kai Yoruba Moslem

As soon as he said 'Quran', I stopped reading.

After all, we know where these ones worship, and what who they can do for their belief.

Arewa girls wearing wig and makeup should better stay away from public gatherings, from now on.

sinaj:
I dont think you understand what inferiority complex is.
@ bolded, is referred to as social anxiety and not inferiority complex.

It is Inferiority Complex.

Source: https://www.learning-mind.com/inferiority-complex/

harsysky:
Sinaj made the most reasonable comment here. your friend isn't confident enough and has inferiority complex. even if i knw the relationship cud be over, i will go there and let her introduce both myself and the guy. from her introduction, ur friend gets to know his stand. does it mean ut friend doesn't interact with other female friends?

Do you even know what the term 'Inferiority Complex' means? Those with Inferiority Complex tend to withdraw from society. If the op's friend suffered from this, he wouldn't even be going out for drinks.

The Op's friend did the best thing anyone could do in that situation; he walked away. There's nothing better prowess than knowing when to walk away. There was no need to approach the girl and draw unnecessary attention to himself, diminishing his self-worth.

The unknown guy trying to pull the girl back clearly shows his ill-intentions. The girl chasing after the OP's friend—and even running into his home, pleading for forgiveness—clearly shows her guilt.

If the OP's friend severes all ties with the girl, afterward, he would have made a decision that will save his future from stories that touch.

Preshy561:
guys and entitlement. so cos of that,he has the key to her soul.

See them.

OP: Tell your friend to run for his life; time is too precious to waste with cheats.

Apply now

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Some ladies have confessed to having these urges before their periods. It's not surprising, neither is it something to judge them with.

mrblessed:
Bros, please attach inverted commas to that wife.

Hahaha! Indeed.

Let's start by sending these social media feminists to do some menial jobs: construction work, mechanic, dustbin parkers, toilet cleaners, miners, etc. You'll see how quickly they change their social media handles.

Dedelizo:
I greet d house...I was after this girl when I had issues with my GF, I later realised she is not my kind of girl after my anger subsided. I told myself I can't go below where I was because I was angry so I stopped asking her out. Now, she is seriously angry with me because I stopped asking her out and she claimed I have created alot in her life and suddenely withdrew myself from her life. She is in pains and will never forgive me. So, I just don't understand her because to me we have not started, we haven't see in person, just chatting and phone calls...she is cursing me daily so I had to block her. What was my offence?

You can't go lower than where you were? What a lucky girl. Keep her blocked; you're doing her a favor.

You sound self-centered, and you don't even seem to view this girl as a human. Pray that no one does the same to you, with something even more important to you, because Karma always brings the aggrieved justice.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Let her be, will you?
You're not her father or husband who decides who gives her or whom she collect gifts from.

I wonder why some of these Indomie generation boyfriends behave like glorified messiahs. Mehn WTF?
She's explained herself and has even tendered an apology, what else do you seek?
As long as she didn't request for the money but the guy did it single-handedly, then you need to cut her some slack. Accept her. It could've been you. Give her another benefit of doubt. You talk like you don't err too. Just a deep research will make us find out that you've been cheating mercilessly on her.

Stop acting like a messiah, okay?

I pity anyone that decides to settle for you.

OP: Do not take advice from this person. They sound like one of ones that use anything to justify their own cheating ways, but cry "men are scum" if their bfs send #100 card to another girl.

If your ex didn't tall you about the money she was receiving and lied about it when you confronted her, then you did the right thing by running. I agree with your assessment; no guy will send over 150k without getting anything in return.

MisterFresh:
...and that she told the guy she has a boyfriend and the guy won't listen.

But, she didn't return the money, neither did she leave it untouched, abi? Don't ever go back to her. Take my advice, the advice of the poster below me and keep your distance.

mrblessed:
I cannot but agree with your brilliant analysis which obeys all the rules of grammar. What amazes me, though, is your motive of leaping towards her defence.

Lol. No reason. I just wanted to point that out, that's all. Cheers.

mrblessed:
My clique and I= We. Me and my clique=Us. Madam, stop making wrong use of pronoun.

Her punctuation was off, but her choice of words wasn't entirely wrong. If she just used "we", you'd wonder which group of people she was referring too.

Clique: a group of individuals who interact with one another and share similar interests.

My clique = My friends.

"My clique and I" = My friends and I.

Therefore, I think this can fly: We, my clique and I, call it 'needles'. It's polite and funny.

jidxin:
scuse me bro...you can't get a boner unintentionally...it's a state of mind, you have to tell ur mind something wch will later relate it downward....so wit d surrounding circumstances

What will a 7-year-old kid be telling himself? Haba! Anyway, you are totally wrong. Unintentional/Random erections do occur. You can read more about it here: https://www.healthline.com/health/mens-health/random-erections

My point is: The kid may have been aroused, but he is certainly too young to know what arousal is, or means, but still, his body will react and gift him an erection.

Like I told the op, the only plausible way this will be intentional is if the kid has been molested or exposed to sexual material. Either way, it's not the boy's fault. Don't judge him the same way you'd judge an adult male.

Whenever one's capable of taking care of themselves and their partners, and kids, to the best of their abilities.

Mizk:
Educate him? Ain't he a little too young for the sex talk? talking to him about it will even give him more knowledge about it.

No, it doesn't have to start with the peepee & vejay lessons. You can start by finding out what he already knows. Then correct any misconceptions he may have about what he knows, and use every opportunity to convey your values to him - for example: "These things can cause a girl to get pregnant, and it'll be a huge responsibility for the girl and the boy." etc.

It's better he learns early. Today, due to lack of education, you see junior secondary girls even younger than 14 engaging in consensual sex. Why? Because they don't understand the repercussions. They were never taught.

LuvU2:
Op u re a very self respecting woman. And i see u calling out some of us that re so confused about male attention to do better! bravo girl ❤ I have just this to say...I must marry a feminist! feminist or no marriage.

Just start saving for the double-head Love Machine that you and your wife will be using.

Mizk:
Now that you've mentioned it, he sometimes share his parent's bed, i don't know though, the fact that his sister is surprised shows that this is new, your explanation make sense, do you think he innocently watched it somewhere?

That is plausible as well. Either way, the best thing is not to make a big deal out of it and make life hell for the kid. It's better to educate him on it. So, someone will have to come out and teach him the right thing, gradually.

Mizk:
I couldn't think of any reason why he'd do that, its not like they're even allowed to watch channels for grownups, they don't have a maid and I'm sure his siblings didn't abuse him, the only plausible explanation i could think of is that of the parents kissing in front of him.

Kids mimic to satiate their curiosity. If kissing was what triggered him, then he may have tried to kiss you. If his parents have had sex in front of him, then it may be understandable.

If everything else is ruled out, then he's probably unconscious of it and didn't do it intentionally.

Mizk:
...this little kid had a boner, i couldn't believe my eyes, my niece saw it too and she was as surprised as i am,

He might be innocent, or not...

Just as you've said, he's just a little kid. It doesn't mean he won't feel aroused, but he just may not know what the feeling is; all he'll know is that he just wants to feel the pleasure.

That's why pedophiles abuse little kids a lot; these kids don't know what's right and wrong, and some may even enjoy it. They only get to realize the implication when they're older.

He may have been abused. It's not out of the question. A woman kissing in front of kids is definitely not enough to trigger a 7-year-old boy to start rubbing himself on adults for pleasure.

Summary: He's a little kid, too little. He may have been abused or got a boner unintentionally. Even if you strip and place him between your legs, I doubt the poor kid will know what to do. Don't be hard on him.