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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Posted 'Somebody's Son Go Find Me One Day' On Her WhatsApp Status by neyobills: 11:22am On Oct 27, 2021 |
As in Jesus Christ the son of Mary will find her one day naw abi somebody cannot play with u ni lol |
Education / Re: Army day secondary school , Benin: I Almost Cried When I Visited My Old School by neyobills: 12:12am On Oct 21, 2021 |
Agness7: But you first said it’s command now so it’s actually Army day right? 35 Likes |
Education / Re: Army day secondary school , Benin: I Almost Cried When I Visited My Old School by neyobills: 12:06am On Oct 21, 2021 |
Agness7: Are you sure this is a command school because Command schools are administered by NAECS Nigerian Army Educational corps and there is no way any command in Nigeria would be in this state,Commands are party FG and NA funded too so I’m sure it can’t be this bad,is this solely a public school or a NA command school? 74 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by neyobills: 6:24pm On Oct 19, 2021 |
Spherical77: As for the embassy thing I can assure you that a school cert holder going with a good verifiable buisness here in Nigeria has a higher chance of getting a visa than a bachelors degree holder going for Masters,don’t take my word for it ask a reputable travel agent you know because the embassy believes someone with a successful buisness here in Nigeria has a higher tendency of coming back home after the program than a bachelors degree holder who has nothing at stake back in his home country than his certification,you have a degree yet no buisness or verifiable work experience dude your chances are slimmer even with both of them having the same amount of funds,it’s common sense. We have a misconception about education in Nigeria I guess partly due to the economy,after I left the shores of Nigeria to my base,I started looking for jobs but there weren’t forthcoming until I was advised to downgrade my qualification because perhaps even the HR manager that would take a look at my CV didn’t have as much certifications as i did and I would be over employed for most of the jobs available,it was first unheard of for me but trust me that’s what helped me. We place too much emphasis on university education in Nigeria however it doesn’t work that way in saner climes,like why would anyone have a Masters or PhD and be looking for jobs this caliber of people are supposed to be in the research field as far as they are concerned,you don’t even need a university degree to get a decent job,there are tons of certifications out there,I have seen too many dull graduates in Nigeria what impact has those graduates made in their field,we are still using the same crude equipments been used decades ago to build houses,same ol brick making machines decades ago,same grinding machines used decades ago,how many new varieties of cassava have we developed,how many new indigenous poultry housing systems have we developed,how many startup hubs do we have,how many industrial clusters do we have. Most just want to be garbage in garbage out certificate holders to earning fat salaries and eureka,that’s all they desire,how many Nigerian universities are even globally recognized anyway. Unfortunately we are in the AI age,having an IT certification is even looking more lucrative than having a university degree.soon most things would be automated and this degrees would have little or no impact since robots are taking over soon,the corovirus lockdown was just a test phase of getting on what robots taking over would look like,all the degree holders were either layed off or had to work from work home,knowledge is power the certification is just its universal accepted unit so I’m not saying it’s totally useless however the exposure and experience you get in the university is even worth more than the certification in reality. As for the family of the op fiancée saying they won’t allow their daughter to marry him because he is an ssce holder speaks more of the relationship of the lady with her parents kinda infantile,however the young man should count his losses and move on because if the guy is doing well for himself and with the little he wrote sounds literate enough then he should be good to go for any reasonable family,they have this Stone Age mentality or perhaps the lady is her familys retirement plan. 1 Like |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Inside 'Area 52', A U.S Secret Base Where Bombs, Nukes & Poison Are Tested (Pix) by neyobills: 7:21pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
sangresan: You mean the same Hezbollah that suffered heavy casualties from Israel fee months ago,Syria is already in disarray they would never think of an attack on Israel that would be the beginning of the end,as for Iran I’m sure u remember their fate before some sanctions was lifted off them by the US,US won’t even lift a finger,cripple the economy and have their battle hardened Afghan militia ally bury them. |
Health / Re: Should I Euthanize My Dad? by neyobills: 2:58am On Oct 06, 2021 |
This is really dicey,i can’t help but shower u with prayers for been there for him for 12 years,even seeing your dad u have known in his hey days in such condition is depressing,however I think u need to talk to your mom not to lose hope too,taking care of a sick patient grudgingly looking dejected kills faster than the sickness itself,you guys have to look happy whenever u are around him and keep assuring him things will be fine,and keep taking care of him dutifully. I understand you might have been through a lot financially and with the decaying healthcare system in Nigeria and nonchalant medics I can only pray for grace for u. Physiotherapy is the best solution for now and u can speed up the healing with hyperbaric oxygen therapy (HBOT) as someone suggested,all this could be expensive so why not give traditional therapy a try too and see it if works,even if u have to take him to a herbalist do it because in the end all that matters is staying alive,I’m not into organized religion but don’t forget to pray for him to whomever u believe in too. If he could have his way I’m sure he could as well have suggested euthanasia himself with his condition however ethically the decision has to come from him alone and not you tho I’m not opposed to it to put him out of his misery. However the question is can u yourself survive the consequences of having to euthanize him yourself,this could as well cause psychological problems for u in the future,it could make u suicidal,or psychopathic,you would never trust anyone again,or perhaps a panic freak, think about your mental health,can u handle it?take care of him the best way you can,never say never and let God do his thing whether for the better or worse. This is just my opinion tho May God fortify your strength and wishing him quick recovery. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Is My Friend Father An Heartless Man by neyobills: 12:24am On Oct 06, 2021 |
How funny that this same old folks will tell u how Nigeria was so good in their times and they are the same ones that spoiled Nigeria to this level,having an hotel and making his son go through all that isn’t discipline,it’s pure madness or for occult reasons,will his staff love him more than his son,God forbid bad thing he becomes incapacitated you will be surprised how fast his workers will conspire to sell his properties off,who loses,his wealth suddenly becomes another mans own,with the situation of Nigeria you aren’t rich if u don’t give your kids a good head start,Dangote is the richest man in Nigeria today because he got support from his family,now his family name has been written in the sands on time,a wealthy mans son with HND and he thinks he is wealthy,he should even be ashamed of himself,to the people saying kids abroad leave home by 18 bla bla bla,any college kid abroad has access to student loans to make a head start,let’s stop this baseless comparisons pls. What if the was born disabled or with Down’s syndrome I’m sure such father wouldn’t mind to poison the son,there is a difference between disciple and been insensitive. This is just my own humble opinion tho. 1 Like |
Food / Re: Snake Foodie by neyobills: 8:14pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
OkukoIgbo: I guess u are right on that thanks for the correction,I will write my primary school to refund my school fees 1 Like |
Food / Re: Snake Foodie by neyobills: 7:49pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Looks more like a puff adder to me ooo,very poisonous,hope u cooked it well tho,it is well! 1 Like |
Phones / Re: How Did You React When You Noticed That You Can't Access Facebook, Whatsapp? by neyobills: 9:02pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Lol like I saw many people recharging their phones on the recharge ATM,s at my location I just dey laugh them cos I had noticed earlier,well this would be a blessing in disguise for network providers to say the least |
Family / Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by neyobills: 8:42pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
chrisj2: Why do I need google when experience and common sense can make u know better,blacks leave inheritances to their offsprings better than whites perhaps management could be the issue,a random white could decide to give his inheritance to charity and no fuss cos the system is working,any middle class person could get mortgage,it’s not the same way in Nigeria. You have a family house good for u,however saying u don’t need to build yours isn’t backing your prior opinions,what suddenly happened to investment u were shouting all about for the op,having a house as an investment isn’t a waste or ego anywhere in the world. You don’t want to build a house because you have a family house,sounds like the rant of someone without an ambition ,however I won’t berate you for it,your life your choice,same way I won’t berate a parent making their kids their retirement plan,it’s their choice,what happened to respecting people’s choices like u were shouting earlier,your entitlement mentality over people’s choices sounds more like the mentality of a narcissist. |
Travel / Re: My Experience Traveling By Air For The First Time (update) by neyobills: 8:20pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
snapdragon00: More flights to you bro,however to avoid stories that touch due to the accent in case of next time or international flights there is also flight information display screen at the airport which will indicate check in time just check the flight number on your ticket on the screen that should give you enough info on the boarding gate and check in time,more wins bro. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: My Experience Traveling By Air For The First Time (update) by neyobills: 8:12pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Moye04: Its everywhere ooo I believe Zuckerberg is doing upgrade and not only WhatsApp but Instagram and Facebook too at least here for my side I hope everything will come through soon enough 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by neyobills: 12:43pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
chrisj2: Oh so u have no problems staying in a family house so why chastise an aged couple who decides to stay in their sons house that can also be rightly called a family house No one is assuming anything but you,let’s just say the house isn’t his for real even though he stated otherwise how does it hurt the investor that his parents decide to stay in a not to completed house,he didn’t say it was a finished and tastefully furnished apartment,how will his parents investing their rent money on the property affect the returns on his investment maybe you should give us your economical blueprint how this will affect the investor. Lastly you are making plans for retirement and I hope the come true for you and mine as well but until that happens it’s still wishful thinking,I’m sure those parents had their retirement plans too,bringing it to fruition is another kettle of fish and we need Gods grace as well to make it happen,perhaps their retirement plan was sending their kid to school,their kid their choice,u have no right to chastise their choice of investment if u haven’t fed them before. All this black people self hating crew self,where did u conduct your statistics that black people leave very inheritance behind,in saner climes no one cares much about an older folks inheritance when there is social security and safety net,abundance of jobs and opportunities,I’m sure you must have heard white people given up estate inheritances to their pets and no one raises the roof over there,how many black people have given their inheritance to cats? You had better jolt yourself back into reality with this story so we won’t be using u as an example too someday,hustle harder and pray for Gods as well,remember the ice says it’s solid too until u put some heat on it. |
Family / Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by neyobills: 10:30am On Oct 04, 2021 |
chrisj2: I’m glad u have children and u are providing for them like a good parent should Your parents could have decided not to send you to school but organize annual end of the year parties for motherless children for charity,it’s not on their head,it’s their choice as well. Remember you will grow old and aged one day too and if it happens your kids are abroad while your aged wife has gone to her eternal rest and they have a house in Nigeria that no one stays there except a watchman and a maid and u decide to go there to be taken care of for the meantime but they refuse because they would rather use it for vacation apartments for their friends abroad or Airbnb and u would intrude the privacy of their guests,we can all hope you would respect their investment choices as well If he is abroad and he has a house in Nigeria while his aged parents stay in a rented apartment,I guess the house will be gathering snow till he decides to relocate,do not let your lifestyle choices make you insensitive to your family. |
Family / Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by neyobills: 9:47am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Like I wrote earlier there is absolutely no fuss in this situation,it’s not like they have changed the house documents to their,they are just been economically smart if u think u might be shortchanged involve your lawyer and make them write an agreement that the house belongs to you and they will vacate upon your arrival and rent them a place again however I think this is going way overboard,they are your parents ffs. Let’s put it this way another pandemic starts now and it’s going to last for another 5 years and no one is working everyone has to rely on savings and u are planning to come back on the 5th year,I understand it might be you and your wife’s contribution. Let’s say u evict them now and the rent is say 200k per annum,which means u will have to pay 200k as rent for them every year while your house remains uncompleted,wouldn’t u rather they live in the uncompleted house while u use the 200k meant for their annual rent to develop the property which means u will have used 800k more to develop on your property while your come back on the 5th to a move developed property then move them out and pay annual rent for them for 200k or pay 200k every year for the next 4 years then come back to rent a place for yourself or perhaps live in the uncompleted building and also rent a place for them on the 5th year. This is just my own opinion,the choice is yours in the long run. |
Family / Re: My Parents Move In To My Ongoing New House Without My Consent by neyobills: 8:12am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Emarvel: He should rather be thanking them for such an initiative,IMO that’s been economically wise at least he isn’t around yet so why the fuss,your so called yankee people live with their parents too,if he comes back and needs his privacy he should rent another place for them perhaps build a small place for them of there is available funds,if I have been to yankee then u would know it’s not a big deal over there,after all he would have kids someday and might need need their support too when he is aged. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Is Marriage For Me? by neyobills: 2:11pm On Sep 25, 2021 |
In my own humble opinion marriage is definitely not for you,to be honest you sound more like a narcissist,you would make a great career in the military unfortunately Nigeria has no plans for senior citizens wait till u get older then u will understand that u definitely can’t do everything on your own I can only hope it won’t be too late by then,then u would understand all the space and material things u cherished and never wanted to share with anyone were actually vain I remember a Yoruba parlance which says Eniyan l’aso Eniyan be guided. 1 Like |
Family / Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by neyobills: 11:26pm On Sep 21, 2021 |
I want to give u a candid advice in my own opinion and with my own little experience Whatever she must have said in the heat of anger in inconsequential,I don’t think there is any reason to lose sleep over that however your case might be different What I find strange is your wife nagging about a 1k unaccounted for by you and the fact that none of your female cousins or family friends can visit you and she controls who comes in and out,my dear brother u are the baby of the house and not only that u are already caged. NEVER let your wife know every single details of your finances,this is a golden rule every man should know to avoid this kain wahala,like how do u even want to surprise your wife with gifts and I didn’t see it coming scenarios,let’s even forgive u that u broke the golden rule it’s now as low as having to account for every kobo you spend,let’s say u win a jackpot tomorrow,will u also have to account for anything you do for your parents,siblings,friends,so even bros gimme urgent 2k from ur siblings or friends she must know,my brother you are not yet married. I’m not saying this as a spoilsport or to condemn u but to jolt u back into reality,but it doesn’t look like a healthy marriage in my opinion,for the fact that this is the first time u are hearing that trash in your 10 years in marriage already paints a picture of you been the perfect gentle man who has high family values,however u need your personal time and space too,no be everything be “my wife my wife”don’t u have hobbies,if not enrol in a gym,get a dog, do something different,your wife has already caged you and she sees no thrills in the union anymore in my opinion. Ladies with this kind of attitude are the ones who will be secretly building a house somewhere and one fateful day she elopes with the kids,you could just come home one day with gifts in hand only to meet an empty house and your echo she go change her sim self sotay u no go for reach am,she already knows your world revolves around her hence her attitude and this attitude pisses women off in the subconscious minds. You need to take your mental health seriously and take control of your life back,be a man,talk less,observe more,if she nags,be silent,be pressing phone but make your opinions and your words law,(something tells me she fit smash your phone self lol)if possible get a side chick that can shower u with love and respect u deserve,then u will spot the difference,I’m not trying to spoil your lovely home oo but she needs competition for your attention to bring out the maturity in her,it is what it is because all that matters at the end of the everything is staying alive. For example I take my wife out to bars or lounges to relax, sometimes and we could even joke about the size of a random lady’s butt,that’s maturity love and self respect,it doesn’t mean I’m lusting over the lady body,what’s the meaning of u are staring at other ladies lustfully,will she be policing your eye movements for the rest of your lives,however I don’t know your character too so maybe just maybe she has a reason for he action,will give her 1% of doubt too cos we never hear her own side of the divide. Lastly hate me or like me this is just my humble opinion,I might be right or wrong. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Burna Boy: “You Know What, No Album Till Further Notice” by neyobills: 8:06am On Sep 19, 2021 |
The earlier he realizes he was given the Grammy due to P.Diddys influence as the producer the better for him but whatever rocks his boat anyways. 1 Like |
Business / Re: How Patronage By Internet Fraudsters Ruin Businesses by neyobills: 2:44pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Kajaard: I do understand your house your rules bla bla bla but u can’t know from mere seeing someone for the first time if he would be able to pay the next annual rent,even your Indians could go bankrupt and have a hard time paying as well so nothing written in stone,however if u ever get an opportunity to go to Indian an average Indian would never give you any preference ahead of a confirmed Indian serial fraudster,it’s laughable when u don’t want to have fetish Yahoo boys in your property when in reality the Indians are actually more fetish than your fellow brethren yahoo boys. The average Nigerian oppression mentality gave birth to this thread such old cargoes like the op cringe when they see younger people live their lives the way the want,they only want to be the ones at the top oppressing others once they see other people especially younger who can rival their income and spending they are quick to label them yahoo boys,why should anyone have a problem with a change of music at a public place,such small minded people. I live abroad and it’s very evident here,a Nigerian works for a good firm and he keeps telling his brothers the firm is not recruiting,an Indian man who works in the same firm is busy pulling is brethren out of the mud and giving them positions in the same firm and u wonder why the Indian community in flourishing in many parts of the world,guess the excuse of the Nigerian worker in the firm,oh he doesn’t want other Nigerians to spoil his reputation the firm then when he gets sacked someday he goes back to square one without having made any impact on anyone but himself. The driving force for success of most Nigerians is oppression,the only want to be successful enough to oppress other not so successful people,their success drive isn’t to impact the world and make it a better place but only impress their brethren,same goes for the so called yahoo boys. 2 Likes |
Business / Re: How Patronage By Internet Fraudsters Ruin Businesses by neyobills: 2:05pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
[quote author=Kajaard post=105867942 I can attest to the house rent point you raised. I wanted to give out my house at Ilupeju for rent. You need to see the way these very young dudes with questionable dressing and fancy cars were ready to dole out over 6 million for a 4 bedroom house even beating some Indians that wanted to get the house. My spirit just wasn't okay with them. Something about them just gave me the creeps. I ended up giving it to the Indians that work around Ilupeju.[/quote] You didn’t give your Nigerian brethren your house in Ilupeju even tho they were willing to pay cash just because of their mode of dressing which is none of your buisness because it’s their private life yet ended up giving Indians instead,this is the same type of luxury you would never enjoy in India if tables were turned,then u travel abroad tomorrow and scream racism,why wouldn’t they treat u like a doormat when they can easily notice the inferiority complex written all over you over some not so white skin. 2 Likes |
Business / Re: How Patronage By Internet Fraudsters Ruin Businesses by neyobills: 2:04pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
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Car Talk / Re: Reno Omokri: I Never Realised What Car Horns Were Meant For Until I Went To Uni by neyobills: 1:15pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
In my own opinion I felt exactly the same way until I travelled out of Nigeria,it was not until then I noticed the indiscriminate use of horns by Nigerians because u hardly hear horns blaring all about in any sane country out there,however their roads are so planned that with everything from streetlights and pedestrian crossing that u might not need to horn for any reason except in an emergency for real,plus less cars on the streets where metros are available,plus Nigerians are generally almost always in a rush for everything I didn’t realize that as well until I travelled. |
Religion / Re: Pastor Bakare Mocks Bishop Oyedepo For ‘Making Noise About His Private Jet’ by neyobills: 3:59pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
dreamwords: If u are still arguing after seeing it’s a Boeing 737 in black and white then sorry you actually need more help than u can find here on this forum |
Religion / Re: Pastor Bakare Mocks Bishop Oyedepo For ‘Making Noise About His Private Jet’ by neyobills: 3:19pm On Aug 29, 2021 |
FarahAideed: Lol I can’t just stop laughing here,no need to trade banters with such ignorant yet stubborn people,you have shown him in white and black that it’s a Boeing 737 yet he refuses to learn,why not just let them wallow in their ignorance,these days I have learnt to stop arguing with such ignorant Nigerians,even if they say 1+1 is 32 I agree just to have my peace and sanity |
Politics / Re: Mohammed Fawehinmi Is Dead by neyobills: 12:18am On Aug 12, 2021 |
Eeeya Mo Fawehinmi one of the very bright ones,will surely be missed,rest on bro. |
Travel / Re: UAE Lifts ban on Transit flights From Nigeria, India, Others On August 5 by neyobills: 8:14am On Aug 06, 2021 |
ChybuzzDD: Stop misleading people only PCR test is required for those on transit visa so been vaccinated is not a prerequisite. |
TV/Movies / Re: Kunle Afolayan Blasts Man Who Asked Why 'Citation' Doesn't Have Subtitles by neyobills: 4:03pm On Nov 20, 2020 |
techmo: Kunle goofed on this,the young man only asked a question,which he could have replied diplomatically without having to throw tantrums because the question itself wasn’t rude in any way. A saner actor could have corrected him cos it’s obvious the guy was ignorant perhaps with some humor too and move on. The ignorant dude isn’t the reason for piracy,it is what it is,so why go all out calling someone who needs answers to a movie of yours a bastard,it’s a classic example of vain pride. If I were to rate both of them on the concepts of human psychology,then Mr Kunle surely need some help real fast if he has such a mindset with his level of exposure. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: "Dont Spoil My Make Up Oo"–Bride Tells Groom On Wedding Day (video) by neyobills: 8:19pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
Twelfthman: Hell no he actually meant the ladies themselves with their full chest but he is in a realm that that is probably to hard for your physical eyes to decipher. |
Family / Re: See The Guava Tree My Uncle Warned Me Not To Pluck From by neyobills: 5:00pm On Oct 08, 2020 |
TissuePaper: You are just so on point on putting too much importance to vain things,flesh and blood didn’t reveal this to you isn’t it? |
Car Talk / Re: Leaving Bottled Water Inside your Car Can Start A Fire by neyobills: 7:26am On Sep 03, 2020 |
Although very rare it’s very much possible |
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