In my opinion I think u are suffering from low self esteem,married woman are at the bottom of the ladder as far as I'm concerned,im married and i can't see myself getting bouncy with a married woman because the thrill is just not there,some of my ex,s are also married and I don't see myself getting intimate with them again,its would be easy roast if I wanted to but I just have to respect their union.

There are too many single sexy and willing girls out there,so there is actually no biggie in getting laid,going for married ones is for lowlifes,i think u seriously need to up your game.

ImaIma1:


You have no idea but you can keep running your mouth since it gives you pleasure to do so.

I'm giving you advice free of charge so u won't take your gluttonous instincts along on your next date and scare potential partners away hopefully you might get lucky,he that has ears let them hear

Raalsalghul:

I've been reading your comments since and notice you always bring up food. Haba!

Oh that's the national anthem of ineverchop gals now, are u surprised?

ImaIma1:


I don't even eat shawarma.

Allow me spend my hubby's money. Is it your money? And hope you will spend when you find a good woman.

Spend your hubby money on sharwama,do u ever want to be responsible for anything in your life,and your motto is All man for himself,when will u man up and do something for yourself,everything nah my husband go buy am,is that your relationship goals,thank God I'm already married,your likes go make life tire person.

ImaIma1:


Ok then. As i said, you can go on your 1,400 date since that is what you can afford.

Enjoy the rest of your day

I could have decided to take u to dinner at a 5 star hotel tonight however folks like u ain't worth my time, I could have decided to send u the equivalent so u can eat sharwama tonight and not have nightmares of sharwama but I got nothing to prove and nothing to lose to your likes.

I decided to check your profile to see the face of Olomoge but got nothing,however i saw your motto was All man for himself bla bla, bla

So you know how to do all man for himself when its your turn yet u want to use another man money eat sharwama,isnt God just wonderful

ImaIma1:


Next thing now you will start singing"olodo rabata" . And you are supposed to be a man o.

Calm down. Life is not that hard. I don't eat what i cannot pay for. If i order chicken and chips and it tears your pocket so much that you run away, i will happily pay for my food.

Your mindset is the issue here. You think 1k food is a feast and you are already singing insults like a market woman. Breathe!

Olomoge onisharwama life is not that hard,if u order for chicken and chips then u should be ready to pay, that's the norm for any sane person, are u a baby or do u expect us to clap for u been responsible for your meals,which one is happily pay again,kukuma dont sadly pay na,nah body go tell u,however I can decide to be benevolent and decide to pay based on my discretion but it's not an entitlement only that your like take advantage of the benevolence of your dates to satisfy your cravings and stuff your tummy.

Jayneek:


Stop chatting carelessly. Its just one simple example among millions of other situations that could occur. You saying going to the ATM to get low budget slippers doesn't make sense.
The point has always been the fact that it was wrong to just carry only 2k which was his budget to spend without thinking of any other situation that could probably shake the budget a little. Are you trying to say the embarrassment he got is better because he kept to the budget he had in mind?


Who does a budget without adding miscellaneous to it? What do you think that word means when you see a well prepared budget from a sensible person.

When you plan to do something on a budget always plan in case of any unexpected. That is the most sensible thing to do so there is not justification for budgeting 2k on a date because that's a lifestyle of the person and still ended up being embarrassed only to start blaming the lady because of 2k date budget.

I don't need to have a budget for something as, petty as going for a date,I only have an expenses threshold,its just about the same as going out to drink with a beer buddy which 2k should also be enough in an average bar or hotel,i only add miscellaneous expenses on projects, family expenses and investments not dates.

You dont go to dates with a sweet tooth expecting some form of gratification,its a date, it's it what it is.

It's about the same as going for a meeting and expecting to be welcome with fried rice and chicken,a date is to discuss and get to know each other if the chemistry is right.

If I ask to take u out for lunch or dinner then that's a different ball game, a date is a date.

ImaIma1:


Why expose yourself this way now? So i have been talking to a kid? You can't even disagree objectively and with maturity. You are already ranting like a distressed child.

How is shawarma giving you high blood pressure like this? On top 1k. Well done

Olomoge onisharwama the 1k isn't the problem but the mindset,if I ever go for a date with your likes that like to turn dates to food stamps,i will form a call and excuse myself for an emergency and let u enjoy your feast because that's all that matters to u anyway,and that would be that last date ever because I would rather waster my money than sit with you because time lost can never be regained and time wasters like to waste their time with others.

ImaIma1:


I see that shawarma and juice is luxury to you as you liken it to one of the wonders of the world. And spending is an issue. You can go on your date with 1,400 as long as that is what you can afford.

You were the one that kept ranting about sharwama and juice as if your life depended on it and not the other way round,wobia olojukokoro!!!

ImaIma1:


So shawarma and juice is a banquet? I think it has to be the upcoming men thinking this way. That water is enough and she can buy whatever she feels like eating .

Why not just leave her to drink her water at home? Or must you go out on a date?

Your response of having your atm handy just proved my point and nolified all the claims of you and the op. You might end up spending 2k or less but that is not all you leave the house with. Case closed!

Why must you eat sharwama and juice on the date, why not buy it on your way home after the date if u are craving for it,cant u afford it, oh I guess it's one of the seven wonders of the world to you so anything just to have a bite goes right and any fool that buys u a, sharwama has already won your heart I guess,it's like going for a meeting and expecting to be welcomed by the smell of jollof rice and chicken,you could be served with just bottled water or nachos with cheese enchiladas but u are entitled to nothing at all,get it?

ImaIma1:


What if she says she wants juice and shwarma and she is the classy type that can buy it herself? Or are you saying you only take out babes that are worth doughnuts and water?

The point is not if you would spend 2k or less. Would you leave your house with only 2k and not plan for eventualities?

Of course if she has any cravings then she had better be able to afford it and not turn a date into a banquet after all no be only tissue paper they una bag,if the lady thinks she is worth more than, that then she should be ready to spend her worth,my dear bottle water is good enough for a date until your gluttonous instincts kick in I guess.

Of course I can leave home with 2k and my ATM handy and with money transfer on my phone I'm sure I can never go wrong,is there a dating rule that u must eat something on a date,if u are classy an ant to do some grandstanding do it with your funds not mine,a date isn't an avenue to massage your vain ego.

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ImaIma1:


Whatever makes you sleep at night.

I never went out on a date where a guy picked what i would drink or eat. What i am used to is a guy asking "what would you have?" And not him deciding for me. And i would usually ask his budget and how much he is willing to spend.

I guess these younger guys have a different orientation. And i guess it is ok especially with the standard of girls they usually take out.

Jayneek:


Okay after this your estimate baba, let assume before you guys leave rains starts falling so you guys had to chill for rain to subside, then the place is a little flooded now she can use her leather slippers in the flooded water. Is it a crime to at least buy her a bathroom slippers if they sell one around? Now all the money in your pocket has finished so you won't be bothered abi because you have reached your budget for the date.

The main point I have been trying to make from the start is not about going to spend heaven on earth or your life savings on a date. It has always been that its wrong to carry just 2k because anything can happen.

You can have 5k or 10k and still not spend more than 2k yes. But not to just carry only 2k for pocket on a date haba. If actually he had like 5k in his pocket he would not have had such embarrassment and still not spend more than the 2k.

Your analysis holds no logic the probability of that happening is 50/50 worst case scenario,besides I won't be taking a a girl with tear tear slippers on a date anyway,however if it ever happens he would take her to a, supermarket to buy a low budget slippers and pay with my ATM,he never said the 2k was his last penny anyway,by your analogy the slippers could also have cut soon as you guys departed on her journey home,you would just tell her to stay at the bus stop then u disembark on your journey home to go buy her your bathroom slippers then take it to her isn't it.

ImaIma1:


A date, especially a first one is a time to know a person and if you will see the person again depending on how it plays out.

Secondly, 2k cannot even buy something basic to eat for two people. And the 2k included 500naira for her transport and 100naira for his.

Forget spending recklessly or being prudent, would YOU invite a girl you like on a date and go with just 1,400 to spend? Please answer sincerely

Of course #1400 would still buy 2 doughnuts and two bottles of water in any average eatery in Nigeria so that should do, it's about bonding and getting to know each other and not a banquet at the ballroom of a Chateau,i can however decide to spend way more depending on the connection,if the, connection is right then we can then proceed to go for a banquet if I'm willing and able.

Nigeria, Ghana, Mauritania,Angola.

careytommy37:
Nigeria - Cote d'ivoire - South Africa - Angola

A taught group will help a team develop an all-out mindset from the get-go.

Scratch SA remember we played qualifiers together though not impossible.

morpheus24:


Afonja goes back to the emirates that were established in Kwara state. He was a Yoruba individual who colluded with the Hausa-Fulani to establish a Caliphate/Emirate in what is Kwara state today

Scratch that,the Caliphate or whatever is in Ilorin and not Kwara state as a whole.

tartar9:

YES it is TRUE,under the Shariah apostates should be EXECUTED
You should also go quarel with your Yahweh about his worse apostacy laws...
Deuteronomy 13:6 “If your brother, the son of your mother, your son or your daughter, the wife [c]of your bosom, or your friend who is as your own soul, secretly entices you, saying, ‘Let us go and serve other gods,’ which you have not known, neither you nor your fathers, 7 of the gods of the people which are all around you, near to you or far off from you, from one end of the earth to the other end of the earth, 8 you shall not [d]consent to him or listen to him, nor shall your eye pity him, nor shall you spare him or conceal him; 9 but you shall surely kill him; your hand shall be first against him to put him to death, and afterward the hand of all the people. 10 And you shall stone him with stones until he dies, because he sought to entice you away from the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, from the house of bondage. 11 So all Israel shall hear and fear, and not again do such wickedness as this among your midst"

How interesting,and is there anywhere u know where Yahweh's law is practiced or is any militant group you are aware of that is pushing for the implementation of Yahweh's law in Nigeria or anywhere in the world?

Gaspardd:
From my last thread about how i took a girl out on a date with just 2k.
Let me background this with some facts in view.

When i said i dont spend money on mundane things, it means that...sometimes i dont get pple with the way they spend money on frivolities.
1. For instance birthday celebration is a complete garbage to me, i mean if u re beyond 18, and thats cus you can excuse kids for being stupid. Life is tough and we have to acknowlegde that fact.
2. Having more than 2 kids is bullshìt cuz i feel with 2kids u can give them the best life they should exp with d limited resources "you" have. Imagine if this country had like 30m instead 200m population.
3. Expensive Wedding.. Oh my gosh, complete arrant nonsense, why not divert it to biz or sth.

Those things i highlighted up there to me are complete mundane things i do not or wish to spend money on. But then if you have extra large cash then no biggie but they re still bullshìt.
Then what re things i spend money on... i love to spend money on things that will gives me a new level of experience, for instance, one time i wanted to travel, i could have boarded a bus but then i decided that i would take a flight instead. So that means i would have to cut back on some mundane things i spend money on. Like clothes, foods, alms giving and all that so save twice or thrice the intended amount.
Ok right now i need a new laptop, i could have gotten a good HP with nice RAM and processor speed but i want to get a Macbook instead almost 2x the price so that means i have to be more sagacious with my spendings...Grab?

Now on the issue of that date, seriously its not really about saving money or sth, but its about common sense, its a date for crying out loud. Its to share moments, talk about unserious things, after having a very busy week. Its not a job/business interview where you proof a point and get a mark or a nod of approval, its to unwind and being in the moment. Two adults who understand this would make things simple for eachother.
But then if u re on a date to proof a point, or seeking for something which your future/life depends on, then maybe you can go all serious trying to catch all the fallen cups just to appear like a perfect guy.

So with this few reasons of mine, I still maintain my stand, 2k date is the cool date. Anything beyond that is pure garbage. Either you have the money or not.
I am not averse to the fact that you can treat yourself to some nice and expensive things onces in a while, but then i understand the greedy nature of humans, someone asks you out on a date and you want to use that opportunity to the fullest. But i feel if u can afford those things, then you wouldnt feel the need to want to use the opportunity to fill up your glut stomach or whatever it is. Thank you.

@Jayneek i made this thread in response to your thread trying to school me on how to go on a date. I dont need your noob dating skills. Been going on a date since 2011, so i am well experienced in that field and ive got it covered.

I'm glad we still have people like u around however I may not agree with u on all issues but I think u are spot on regarding the date issue.

I actually dont care about what a lady wears, it's your lifestyle and your choice,funny enough waist beads are a turn on for me and I have no problem with Anklets too same with wigs as long as u keep it tidy

However I can't wrap my head around

Excessive make up, don't go around looking like u just got gang banged by crayons all in the name of fashion.

Another one is the hair net ladies wear to bed,some ladies can wear it till noon all in the name of keeping their weave on,i wouldn't have had a problem but it mostly stinks and given them lines on their heads,pls endeavor to put it off after morning prayers biko.

Lastly artificial eye lashes, I had to kukuma call a lady and ask her why she likes wearing it and she told me she had eye problems and those lashes makes her see better and I was like oh oh, well whatever rocks your boat,i see ladies that wear them as immature.

However its just my humble opinion though.

Jessyjack:



you have already said an amen... case closed!

Oh so u can't say Amen for your son,whichever way mark my words today,whether u say Amen or not what u wish for other will befall you in hundreds fold,its not a curse but a prophetic declaration into your life.

OAUTemitayo:

Can you please save your energy?
Most Nigerian feminists are bloody hypocrites.
You are just wasting your energy.

Let's hear her say Amen first so we, can, be, sure she is true to her cause and not a, double faced hypocrite.

Jessyjack:




LoL...... you are scared of dying but you want to beat another woman's child to death........ try it and die like a chicken...... my son is not an animal like you... he will never lay his hands on any woman... never!!! it's you who think beating a defenseless woman means authority that will die shamefully...

I already said an amen but can u save yourself all this epistles and reply an amen

Your son will die a miserable death in a, very gruesome manner in the prime of his days if it ever happens that he lays his hands on his wife for any reason,can I hear an amen??

Jessyjack:



I don't see any prayer you made that is asking for an amen but a curse on yourself because if you don't stop that dirty habit of beating women, you will end up in your prime in a worst manner.....

Amen and your son will die in a more gruesome manner in the prime of his days leaving u childless if they ever lay their hands on their wife or any woman at that,can I hear your amen.

Jessyjack:



don't change your wicked ways... keep beating another man's daughter.... you will wake up one day and not feel your body.... beast!

Madam I only asked for an amen and not a shred more of your typical jargons.

Jessyjack:


only potential wife beaters will be angry with the woman's family for what they did..... come and jail her naaaa..... if you beat your wife, you will go down and she will spit on your grave!

The same way your son if u will ever have one will go down in the prime of his years in a much more gruesome manner if he ever abuses his wife,can I hear your amen

Did Simi see the gandugate video flying around the internet which is alleged to be classic money laundering gone viral?

Ans:Most likely

What was her reaction

Ans :Absolutely Nothing

Now she suddenly found her Tasmanian devil voice against faceless yahoo boys

Fela became a hero for calling out names of the high and mighty without mincing words no matter whose ox is gored.

She needs PR management,as a public figure you choose your battles wisely.

Her rants are both immature and counter productive.

sapele914:
I hear you J.D.Rockefeller,if you want to help humanity,please go and donate to IDP camps,we have enough in the North East of Nigeria.

I dont owe u or humanity nothing,who u epp?

sapele914:
Shut up is it your money?,if it is your money,you can do what you want to do,it is your prerogative,let the poor not involve themselves in the affairs of the rich

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.pulse.ng/entertainment/celebrities/dj-cuppy-buys-rolls-royce-phantom-worth-n162m-photo/b1csnj2.amp

If it ever happened we had to order pizza from the UK to save our lives,my pizza would have arrived long before buzzards feed on your carcass.

sapele914:
Senseless post,let the poor not involve themselves in the affairs of the rich,do not speak on subjects you are ignorant of,there are exclusive restaurants in the UK that make pizzas that even if you go to the restaurant with a 100 pounds they will not attend to you,mind you there are labs in Romania that grow hydro weed in controlled environment,then export it to Amsterdam for consumption,stop speaking from your myopic opinion the world is beyond your imagination.

I can also decide to import akara from the haiti if i can afford it but does it make any economic sense?

And u are not making any sense as well my dear

The joke is on Ogbeh actually the Brits are renowned to really suck at making pizzas so its kind of ridiculous besides Italy the pros of pizzas is actually closer to Nigeria and their pizzas are way cheaper so the joke here according to trevor is that its as ridiculous as a brit flying weed in from far away Romania when he can get it a dime a dozen in nearby Amsterdam,in other words it makes no economic sense.

9jaRealist:


First, I said "most" but yes - because pistols are easier for "gangsters" to tuck into the waistband and/or carry around...
When going to rob a liquor store or carrying "protection" around the hood, most gangsters would not be logging assault rifles!

Exactly my point that when cops are on the tails of gangstars after a robbery they wouldnt be logging assault rifles either,isnt that an everyone goes home smiling for all?