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Included in what? After what?

Your answers are getting really weird, you are being careful not to say anything tough but you want to look tough.

TOYOSI20:
I dont want much, . . .God has been very KIND to me, . . . .

Your answer doesn't look like my question. I didn't ask if you wanted much.

TOYOSI20:
*sighs*

what do u really want tho??

cos u are born just once. . .

u have just one life to live

and u essentially die just once . . .no??

You know I'm just pulling your legs but life is in the thread title. What three things do you love to do when you sit in a car? look at the mirror, clean the car, sit in the car.

I want you to stop pretending. At least if you weren't light-skinned, then your blush wouldn't be obvious. But alas, you're light skined and you're red in the cheeks. What do you want?

TOYOSI20:
Birth, life , and death, . . . . .

3 parts of life and then you still add life? You should add a good man to that list.

[quote author=tpia. link=topic=298440.msg4212053#msg4212053 date=1247969845]you observed right.

I'm very hurt. [/quote]Why? I promise I'll listen.

Mohawk, sorry for distracting your thread.

I will contribute with a related story. I listen to reggae, mostly from the 70's, and it seems there are two common stories for reggae stars of those times. Some of them are broke, piss broke, now. The others are dead, as you know Jamaica is said to be the homicide capital of the world. This is a website that talks about dead reggae stars.

http://www.geocities.com/studiowon/memorium.htm

But for everyone who made a lovely song, there is a reward waiting. No moaning for those in better places.

[quote author=tpia. link=topic=298440.msg4212038#msg4212038 date=1247969425]if the freakiness could even keep them from looking outside, most women would be happy to do it anytime anyday.


But no, it doesnt. They still get tired of the same ol' same ol and want other variety.

Its ingrained and depending on the guy's values, either he plays the field or he doesnt.[/quote]I have an observation, you sound hurt. It may be wrong, if it is please forgive me but it's just an observation. No harm meant.

okay. how many more months? Are you keeping count?

TOYOSI20:
are u on line??. . .didnt notice

Toyosi, you're blushing, I see it from here. You're also waiting for my replies. Stop pretending.

TOYOSI20:
I miss nivea, Hopefully she makes a huge come back album. . . . .

And monica, . . .OMG!!!, her voice was always on point I think she was even more consistent than brandy at some point, . . .miss her plenny!!

Did you sign on because I'm on?

So oyinda, what category do you fall into. Closet slut, out and out slut, or just plain conservative?

FL Gators:
LOL. I trust you then

Okay, I think you want to be in between. You want to be modest and still fashionable. If those pictures you posted reflect you kind of clothes, I think they look good on you.

double

Do you poop in public? I assume you don't, which means you turn off your poop in public. Because you think pooping is something to do after you close the door to a bathroom, It is a private thing. Sex is the same way with the "closet freak."

Harsh? No. I will never harm a fly.

FL gator, I just checked your pictures. I think you want me to make comments about your taste in fashion, right?

I think many men want women who are wise enough to understand that sex should be a private thing.

I would explain somethings here but my irits tell me to hold my tongue.

I don't know why I hit the reply button but since I did, I'll talk my own. I know no one is bad, I know people do "bad" things because they find themselves in situations they can't handle. And even when people do bad things, they regret doing it. Ask anyone in this thread, they all feel a bit of guilt. Coolfaced feels guilty for not paying up on time. Uspry feels guilty for bringing it up in a public forum and Siena feels guilty for participating in the mudslinging. So what we have at the end of the day is a lot of guilty people who don't feel good for doing the things they did.

My point is that war is ugly and love is, well, lovely. But how can we love when we are slaves? Slaves to material things that will always rot. Thank you for your time. It may look like I made no point but look deep there's a point.

If you think it's cancer, you should ask her to see a professional. Nairaland can't help with this.

FL Gators:
Exactly, so you telling me you won't notcied the way she's dressed if you see her looking like that.

Most men do notice. They stare,esp with the horn, they flirt etc.

No, those girls are not overdoing it. Don't act like you don't know what I mean. The girls you posted are very modest.

Toyin, both of those pictures are modest.

Ha Shaz, your picture doesn't have the smallest drop of tomboy in it.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]I'm a bona fide tomboy.  I didn't decide to be one, i just am.
As to finding it cheaper, maybe it is.  .  .but i don't care about that aspect.
I don't like girly girls.  I find them irritating
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What sort of tomboy are you? Occasional sweatpants or full blown dyke.

davidylan:
take your time to notice . . . most girls (the really neat ones) always have a distinct scent. Any chic i meet who has an "ordinary smell" na no go area be that.   God knows what she's hiding in her closet at home.

Maybe the distinct scent is her perfume or the air freshner in her closet. I don't think those have a bearing on how hygienic someone is.

FL Gators:
What if she wears something to emphasise her hips and waist?

Then I was likely to look at her like someone "trying too hard." I guess modesty is really the key here.

davidylan:
maybe its just you bro. Most guys i know are hypersensitive . . . ordinary stuff like her scent, nails, feet, hands . . . go a long way in telling whether she's the neat type or not. I dont know about matching underwear sha  

Oh yes, the scent too. But most girls smell ordinary. I only noticed the scent when the woman smells bad or  too perfumed up. The nails, just clean nails, short or long. I could care less what color or how much you paid the underpaid girl at the Chinese saloon.

I work in the spirit so I only notice the "inner man", or should I say "inner woman." But even when I was a captive of the flesh, I only noticed the hips and waist and the face.

Well, thrice, I've been corrected. So maybe it's just me. I don't notice the matching underwear, the nails . . . but then again, I don't notice the breasts too.

Okay I'm sorry for speaking for others, but I don't notice any of those.

FL Gators:
To answer the topic, it is easier to be a tomboy.

My hair was usually in pony tail, I wasn't crazy about purses and shoes then. Was not crazy about dresses and drressing cute

Back then, it was just, what you see is what you see.

Now a girly girl, even if you don't dress for anyone, looking good makes you feel good

Now you're spending like $200+ a month to do your hair. Shopping for shoes and heels are adds to the expense.

To fix your eyebrow, facial treatment, undies that match, fixingnails etc is another thing.

Being a woman is expensive, I tell you

I'll let you in on a secret. I don't' think a lot of guys notice any of those things, except maybe the hair.