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Family / Re: This Is Why Women Tie Their Husbands With Juju - Chinenye Azubuike by ngwaba(m): 11:07am On May 05, 2022
Na divorcee sef. Don't take her serious
NaijaRoyalty:
I pity any man that will marry this bitch
Romance / Re: I Traveled To My Village To Get A Wife, & I Got A Queen by ngwaba(m): 9:25am On Mar 07, 2022
Cried because she be virgin? Are you also a virgin? Where your village dey sef? grin grin grin grin grin
TkhGuy:
I will advice you to go back to your village if you are looking for a girl to marry, look for the one that doesn't have social network handle,

Look for the one that doesn't have flashy expensive phone,

Look for the one that will listen to your advice & ready to implement it,

I traveled home to get a girl to get laid to, I got two, one have social media handles, she can't cook, she can't take of her environment, & worst she is rude and arrogant, she is beautiful but no character

The other one have phone, not smartphone, she doesn't have social network handle, she is so respectful, cooks and she is beautiful, lastly I broke il into tears when she told me she is still a virgin, the night were kissing for hours, I thought her how to kiss, & this time there is a lot we are learning together.

I guess you already know my choice,

Our wedding will be coming up by October 2022,

Don't force yourself on any girl, don't knee to propose to any girl in public, follow my instructions & get the best that will stick with you,
Education / Re: Our Boys Woo All With Benz On Campus by ngwaba(m): 8:33am On Dec 03, 2021
The original owner of this post is Maazi Ogbonnaya Okoro on Facebook. Kindly acknowledge him.

author=Cheapgadget post=108152042]Prof. Oludare Ogunlana wrote:

Our boys whom we sent to the Universities to study are now living in hotels doing Yahoo, defrauding people.

They are not studying. They are sorting. Bribing lecturers for pass.

They only come into the campus with convoy once in a while to show off. Guess what?

Some lecturers are even worshipping them.

Our teenage sons are now driving Benz in the university. They are now the latest boys in campus.

The houses our sons are living in the university are now flats and duplexes as against the self-contained we used to know.

Well furnished and more beautiful compare to room of some state governors.

Our sons are all married in the university but single at home.

Girls crawl around them... living with them, cooking for them, doing all sort of things with them...

These girls are our daughters whom we sent to the university to study.

They are in every clubs and hotels....they are in every front cars, fastening seatbelt, snapping and moving their lips like DOGS.

My recent research in Nigerian universities opened my eyes to the recent ugly reality. I wept for the future.

These are teenagers, not even adults.
Guess what?

We still see them as children who know nothing.

I don't want to mention names of hotels in IBADAN, LAGOS, IJEBU ODE, ABEOKUTA, AKURE, EKITI STATE etc you will see your sons and daughters. They have been living there for months.

Nobody is going to school. Who school help? Don't you get it?

Those teenagers— boys and girls are abusing drugs. Not just igbo but cocaine and tramadols.

I have boarded a vehicle with a young girl in AGO IWOYE who had some crack (cocaine) in her purse.

Because she's too beautiful, police that stopped us to search didn't search her but searched us all.

On the way, she brought it out, gently fix some into her nose and threw the little remaining substance through the window.

I remained deaf and dumb until I got to my destination and paused, she paused; both of us paused.

Who will save this generation who painfully are our tomorrow.....

*AND WE SADLY KEEP QUITE!*

*EKUN OLA!*[/quote]

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Career / Re: "The Girl I Dumped Years Ago Became My Boss At Work" by ngwaba(m): 8:29pm On Sep 18, 2021
Upcoming liar. You still dey learn work jare.
Sixsigmahub:
A male graduate who recently got a job in a company shares a story of how the boss of his new company turns out to be the girl he dumped ten years ago because she was uneducated.

On this article, he reveals that the boss in the company was the same girl he dumped many years ago when he gained admission into the university because she was not properly educated at the time he gained admission into the university.

He felled guilty and didn’t know how to ask her how she became so rich that she owned a company.

Read his story:

This world is just a small world, i can’t believe myself, it seems like I’m dreaming.

I just discovered that a lady that i broke up with about 10 years ago, because she was not properly educated is the owner of the company I’m currently working as one of the marketers.

We started dating when i was in SS1 and she was in JSS3, but she was dull, sometimes i used to teach her to some extent but unfortunately after that, she will forget all that i taught her.

Though we were normal until when i got admission into the university, after my first year, i began to hang out with other girls in the school, it was this time i started comparing her with them.

Then she doesn’t know how to speak good English although she genuinely loved and never asked for anything from me but since i have met with other girls, who were outspoken and beautiful too, i thought it was the best time to leave her.

During my ND2, i made up my mind to breakup with her and move on since there are many beautiful and educated girls in campus. So one day i picked my phone and called her and told her about the new development, i was like i can’t be dating someone who is not educated enough, while I’m about to become a graduate.

She cried and cried, pleading with me to stay with her that she will definitely improve soon. but i had made up my mind to leave, i stopped calling her, even when she called or texted, i didn’t take her calls or replied her messages.

Boom i started dating a lady called Amaka, i felt like i had finally met my match, because she was educated and beautiful too, but unfortunately before my graduation we broke up over an unresolved misunderstanding.

After my service, i decided to change location in order to start a new life, i started applying for job, luckily after some months, i got a job but the salary was not much because i had lots of responsibilities to take care of.

I worked for the company for 7 years before i decided to quit and look for another job because the former job was not encouraging, i was only managing all these years.

I searched for a job for almost one year, then one Monday morning, i got a call from one of the companies, i submitted my CV and was told to come for interview immediately, i had to rush there, the interview was successful, that’s how i started working but i noticed a strange movement after two months of working in the company.

I was promoted, while other workers who have been there before i was employed never received any. I was transferred to the headquarter, unknowingly to me that it was all planned by the same lady i dumped many years ago.

The next morning when i got to the office, she sent for me and i was like “what’s happening, at first i got promoted, now director wants to see me”. I walked to her office but couldn’t remember her because it has been years and i never expected her to be in such position.

The moment i got to her office, she mentioned my native name which i knew i have never used since i travelled out of my state.

I received the shock of my life when she revealed that she’s the same girl i dumped many years ago when i gained admission into the university. I was short of words because i have worked for the company for three months, definitely i have received salary three times from the same girl, i dumped simply because she’s not properly educated.

I was guilty and didn’t know how to ask her how she became so rich that she owned a company.

I only pleaded with her not to sack me because i had no other job to rely on, but even as that I’m not comfortable with the work because I’m ashamed of myself.

Sometimes it pays to be patience with one another whether educated or not educated. Don’t look down on anyone because no one knows tomorrow.”


https:///the-girl-i-dumped-years-ago-became-my-boss-at-work/
Travel / Re: Fully Loaded Bus Plunged Into Ebonyi River (Photos) by ngwaba(m): 9:50am On Aug 15, 2021
You don't need to waste your time responding to the utterances of idiots on this space. If news like this is what gives him and them orgasm, financial breakthrough and mental stability then good for them. I don't make them feel important.
Ikwerelastborn:

Seriously I didnt know some yoruba people are this stupid and foolish, what a cursed tribe

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Education / Re: Meet Engr Dr. Francisca Nwafulugo, Anambra Woman Of The Year, 2020 by ngwaba(m): 3:38pm On Jul 28, 2021
grin grin
Authoreety:
What's the topic of this journal again?
Celebrities / Re: Who Is Obi Cubana? Biography, Businesses, Age, Wife, Net Worth, Sons by ngwaba(m): 8:31pm On Jul 18, 2021
No mind the hypocrite and idiot. No be only IT and banking. Na free air and space Una control, bastardo like you. grin grin grin grin grin


cashkid18:

Lol.. una country space technology, missile nuclear program even the word bank grin grin

Anything to chestbeat and make yourself feel better is allowed cheesy
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong For A Married Lady To Cook For Her Ex In His House by ngwaba(m): 8:03pm On Jul 04, 2021
I don't know why this stupid story was even allowed to get to front page. As for the slowpoke who sees nothing wrong with inviting a sluttish ex to cook for him, don't worry. Your own wife will do the same to you and then we will not be there to see your reaction. Nonsense and ex and cooking
BonPatrick:
Good morning guys I leave alone and I don't know how to cook soup but can cook stew and others so I called my ex girlfriend yesterday and she is married last year so she came we went to market and buy food stuffs and she cooked for me. I want to know if is wrong for a married lady to do that?

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Politics / Re: Aisha Buhari Visits Late COAS Wife With All Her Children by ngwaba(m): 9:00pm On May 23, 2021
Hypocrite. Get away with your stupidity
sarrki:
I am surprised to see people rejoicing on the death of late attahiru

The truth is everyone is going to taste it one day

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How To Be A Nurse In UAE by ngwaba(m): 6:19pm On Apr 17, 2021
Dubaiguy:
After opening my last thread on how Nigerians are getting teaching jobs in UAE. I got several requests from intending nurses and practicing nurses in Nigeria about how to get a nursing job in UAE.

Why not? I embarked on research and conversed with several Nigerian nurses in Dubai after which I made a video about how you can easily be a nurse in Nigeria.

We all know nursing overseas has always been a lucrative job but the pandemic even made nurses more popular and demanded all over the world..and UAE is not an exception. So how do you become a nurse in UAE? Let's get to it.

1) Know the four bodies that handle nursing recruitments in UAE. They include DHA, DHCC, MOH and HAAD.

2) You need to posses a Bsc. Note a diploma can not get you a nursing job in UAE, maybe assistant nurse though I'll update you on that soon, even if you are not into health care field, you can become Assistant Nurse.. You also need an experience certificate (at least 2 years of experience) and practicing license from council governing nursing in Nigeria( NMCN) or any country you are based in.

3) You can apply for/get jobs through 3 months Visa process, agency or directly from hospital. Since the first option is the most popular. Lemme talk about it.

It's better to start the process in Nigeria so you don't waste time doing that when you get to Dubai.

Firstly scan your certificate. One by one. Convert them to PDF files, your passport photo and international passport too.

Go to DHA website (remember there are 4 nurse governing councils in Dubai; I prefer to use DHA)
Create a profile.
You will have to pay the sum of 210 dirhams to open application.
After submitting, in a couple of days you will receive a confirmation mail from DHa acknowledging the receipt of your documents

Next stage - verification
This is the stage where DHA will verify your documents. You will pay the sum of 925 dirhams to start this process.

After they verified your documents, they will contact your refereee

Verification takes 4-6 weeks. After a successful verification, you will be asked to come and sit for the nursing exam. Like we have it in Nigeria. This is stage where you apply for 3 months visa. The examination comes with a fee of $170. Don't fret, the exam is not difficult and it's only 70 questions.

To pass, you need 60%. At least get 42 questions right. If you can do NMCN exam well, this should come easy too.

You will receive the result of the exam in 72 hours or 3-5 working days. If you pass, you will receive a congratulatory mail and an eligibility letter valid for 1 year.

What do you do next? Start applying for all the UAE nursing jobs you see (trust me, they are much!) without hassle.

When you receive your first salary, you will know the process is more than worth it. Please check the source for more information and UAE sites for Dubai jobs.

Thank you.
Source

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-N-ZP1etqI
Keep it up and keep updating us with information like this.

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Travel / Re: Why Is There A Passport Booklet Scarcity? by ngwaba(m): 9:39am On Apr 17, 2021
ruhu:
What's happening with the Nigerian Immigration Service?. I applied since December 2020, up till now in April 2021, they are saying no booklet. What kind of a country is this. I can't afford to lose the opportunity I want to use the passport for. Anyone with the same issue?
You're not yet ready to get the passport. I applied for one in Feb, was captured immediately and picked up my international passport within a week right here in Port Harcourt. Spent 40k to do all this

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Romance / Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by ngwaba(m): 3:29pm On Dec 18, 2020
shagasha:
Sis no one can answer this question for you o

You know what to do but u just want to tell ur self that others helped u make the decision
You dey mind am

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Politics / Re: PDP: None Of Our Governors Will Join APC by ngwaba(m): 9:09am On Jun 27, 2020
Jakemedg:
Prince Diran stop deceiving people .
What Governor Yahaya Bello said tallies with the information i got this morning that in the coming 2 weeks Gov. Nyesom Wike is leading nine other PDP governors to the APC. The names of these governors are as follows :
Gov. Aminu Tambuwal
Gov. Okezie Ikpeazu
Gov. Ifeanyi Okowa
Gov. Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi
Gov. Udom Emmanuel
Gov. Dave Umahi
Gov. Samuel Ortom
Gov .Bala Muhammad
Gov. Douye Diri .
Drops Pen
Hahahaha. And Jesus Wept
Foreign Affairs / Re: Fact-checking Trump’s Address On The Iran Missile Attacks by ngwaba(m): 4:45pm On Jan 09, 2020
Blindersoff:


https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/factcheck/fact-checking-trumps-address-on-the-iran-missile-attacks/ar-BBYKEcW
So an idiot took time to write this down? No wonder we have Buhari as President

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Family / Re: My Genotype Is AS And My Fiancee Is AS; What Do I Do? by ngwaba(m): 3:25am On Oct 09, 2019
BroAchival:
Greetings to this great house,

As I type this message, my heart is heavy.

Up till today, I have never known my genotype till I went to do medical fitness test for my job/employment process.

I've being dating by girlfriend for about two years and seven months now, and I've always seen her as a perfect match to me, not because she's perfect, but because she's very loyal, reserved and calm, respectful, teachable, willing to learn, beautiful and very supportive to say a few.

Kai, the thought of losing her is killing and unexplainable. cry She had been a BLESSING to me all these while.
We've really worked on ourselves and helped each other to overcome our weaknesses.

With the challenges of my new and better job, will I really have that time to woo women and start the process of working on a woman to blend and suit me?

And this is a girl I'm planning to settle down with by the middle of next year, after I must have gotten used to my new job.

I have always believed that my genotype would be AA, but I was wrong!

Somebody told me that there's nothing God can not do, that he has seen people giving testimonies about change of genotypes. I didn't doubt him, it's just that i'm not the "churchious" type who easily believe all those stories.

Now, my questions are:

1.) Is it possible to have just two children without an SS child?

2.) How do I relate this sad news to her (after she has turned down several serious marriage proposals because of me)?

3.) Please, what do I do?

Please, help me and send this to front page for greater views and advice.

Matured and very serious advice needed.

Thanks.
Don't do anything. Since you both do not have any sense then go ahead and marry. Then when you have children both of you should begin to disturb God with your prayers.

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Celebrities / Re: Pretty Mike Arrives A Wedding With 5 Ladies In Wedding Gown by ngwaba(m): 12:16am On Sep 23, 2019
itspzpics:
As we all the popular socialite with styles of arriving an event, Pretty Mike was spotted with 5 prettu ladies in wedding gown as he arrives a wedding. His grand entrance made alot of people at the wedding to applaud him. He was also spotted spraying money for the ladies.
See more and watch the video below

https://www.instagram.com/p/B2ruSQRnmzG/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Gist From Praizenews ; http://www.praizenews.com/pretty-mike-arrived-a-wedding-with-5-ladies-in-wedding-gown/
This guy is sick
Romance / Re: How Do I Know He Loves Me? by ngwaba(m): 8:03pm On Sep 17, 2019
Purfee:
Good day Nairalanders,

So I had to create another account to share my story.
Please I need sincere counsels from you all.
Now to my story.

I'm in a relationship with a guy for almost a year now. We actually both left previous relationships to be together. In the start of our relationship we were together for few months before it became a distant one.

While we were together I know he loves me but maybe not as much as I would have loved it. We've had issues he has strived to settle and all. When it became distant, he got a job and the relationship got strained cause we weren't communicating as much as we used to. Initially he got a really low paying job but that was in the midst of guys. I still had all the attention. But when he got a job in the midst of plenty females.. Young guys and ladies I felt the relationship strained. I had reasons to accuse him of not loving me. And he says what do I know about guys in love. He loves me and all. Now I feel that I tend to love him a lot. I worry about him being close to other girls at his place of work.

He recently just got a browsing phone and I saw his close conversation with girls at his place of work and he says they are just his friends.

Of a truth all these happening has given me different causes to worry a lot. This is a guy I love so much. We don't even chat much and he doesn't flaunt me on Whatsapp at least. Since he came online he's only uploaded a picture of me once and a picture of us on the day he was traveling abroad.

Now that's another crux of the matter. He travelled after months of we being distant. He says he will come back after a year. He says he's leaving so our lives can get better and we'll achieve our goals.

His friends were telling me he will come back for me. I saw him off to the airport though.

Lemme quickly round up my story here.

I love my boyfriend so much. He says he does too but I'm not feeling it as much. I saw his close conversations and pictures of girls on his phone and he says they are his friends just barely three months of working.

How do I know he loves me as much and how do I put my mind at rest. I know his mum and family members. He knows some of my siblings too. I'm 24 and I hope to get married soon.

He says I crave for attention a lot and I take relationship too personal.
He says he loves me but it doesn't sound weighty too me. And how do I know he'll fulfil all he's promised to fulfil. He's 2yrs older.

I hope y'all can put the tiny bits of my story together and advise me.

Thank you.

Ask questions too I'll be ready to answer.
Mugu
Politics / Re: Oby Ezekwesili: Bashir Ahmad Should Be Sent Back To School For Proper Education by ngwaba(m): 12:13pm On Sep 05, 2019
pressmanng:
Many Nigerians Lashed out at Oby Ezekwesili for attending World Ecominic Forum bieng held in South Africa.

Among those that Criticised her was New Media Aide to President Buhari,Bashir Ahmad who said " Nigerian government has boycotted the World Economic Forum holding in Cape Town, South Africa, but some individuals from Nigeria including a former Minister are attending on their own" Via his Twitter Handle.

The Cable published the news as " Ezekwesili attending WEF on her own says Buhari'a aide, Bashir Ahmad"

Ezekwesili respond by saying The aide should be sent back to school for proper Education "Please send that aide to school to get proper education. Who told him that a private citizen like me needs their @NigeriaGov to decide my participation @wef ? Imagine.

I am doing more for our at-risk citizens.
Who has time for their nonsense politicking with citizens’ lives?"

Bashir Also responded her "Aunty @obyezeks you’re properly very educated but unfortunately you failed to understand that those who are being attacked in SA, where you’re at the moment, are also private citizens, we all thought you’d sympathize with them and boycott the @wef to properly protest the attacks"

She responded back by saying " Let your Boss know that I am actually leading an effort here in South Africa that will help safeguard our citizens not the childish silly politics his government, aides and praise-singers constantly play with the lives of our Citizens"


https://www.pressmanng.com/2019/09/bashir-ahmad-should-be-sent-back-to.html?m=1

Useless woman

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Celebrities / Re: Seun Egbegbe Has Now Spent Over 30 Months In Jail by ngwaba(m): 1:12pm On Sep 03, 2019
Nollyzonenews:
Nollywood film-maker and producer, Olajide Kareem, aka Seun Egbegbe, has spent over 30 months (two years and six months) in prison after he failed to meet the N5m bail granted him by the Federal High Court in Lagos. He was incarcerated on February 10, 2017.

The 43-year-old had been arrested for allegedly obtaining money by false pretences from no fewer than 40 bureau de change operators in different parts of Lagos from 2015 to 2017.

Egbegbe allegedly swindled the BDC operators out of the money by claiming that he had naira to change into foreign currencies and vice versa.

The erstwhile Lagos socialite had been arraigned by the police for a series of fraud involving N39,098,100, $90,000 and £12,550.

Egbegbe and one Oyekan Ayomide were first arraigned on February 10, 2017, before Justice Oluremi Oguntoyinbo, on 36 counts bordering on advance fee fraud.

The charge sheet was subsequently amended twice, with the counts eventually increased to 40 and three other defendants – Lawal Kareem, Olalekan Yusuf and Muyideen Shoyombo – added.

The prosecuting counsel for the police, Innocent Anyigor, said Egbegbe and the other defendants acted contrary to Section 8 of the Advance Fee Fraud and Other Related Offences Act 2006 and were liable to be punished under Section 1(3) of the same Act.

They pleaded not guilty.

On February 24, 2017 Justice Oguntoyinbo granted each of them N5m bail with two sureties in like sum.

The judge said one of the sureties must be a civil servant on at least Level 16 and must own a landed property in Lagos State.
The surety, the court said, must deposit the Certificate of Occupancy of the landed property in the custody of the court.

Both sureties were to swear to affidavit of means, while their addresses were to be verified by the court registrar.

Oguntoyinbo ordered them to be remanded in prison until they meet the bail conditions.

Over 30 months after, Egbegbe has remained in the Ikoyi Prison, as he has been unable to perfect his bail conditions.

Source: https://gidifeed.com/seun-egbegbe-has-now-spent-over-30-months-in-jail/
Nollywood Producer Indeed. Nonsense
Family / Re: My Wife Changed 2 Weeks After Wedding!! by ngwaba(m): 10:55pm On Aug 03, 2019
Anonymus010:
I Need The Advice Of Experienced Married Men

NB: This is not my real account, I created this account for the purpose of this issue.

Please, I need the advice of married people (especially married men). I will make the story as simple as possible and I promise not to compromise the truth to favour me in this issue.

Brief Introduction: I am a man in my late 20's. Got married last year and currently have a 3month baby.

Brief history of my relationship prior to marriage: I dated my wife for 4years before we finally tied the knot last year. I met her in the university, we were classmate in school.

Before I started dating my wife, I was dating a girl in the same class but we both agreed to separate after 1year because we were age mate and she was keen on getting married immediately after graduation which I knew I will not be ready for marriage by then (Note: No sex in the relationship, She was a virgin and because I couldn't assure her of marriage, I didn't sex her).

After the break up with my ex, I became close to my wife and we started dating. She was self sufficient as she had a source of income while in school, she supports me, gives me money, cooks and buy me food etc. She was the best woman any man can think of. I fell in love along the line and decided this is the right lady to marry.

Note: There were several backlashes from other classmates insinuating she snatched me from my ex but we scaled through all that. We dated for 2more years in school and we graduated. We dated for another 2more years post school till last year.

Brief history immediately before marriage: Everything was fine till my wife's birthday last year. I did tripple shifts at work(48hrs work non-stop) and came back a night before her birthday and slept off. I woke up 2:30am to wish her happy birthday. She got angry and told me I didnt put her in mind and that I was not the first person to wish her happy birthday (She later told me her ex wished her first at exactly 12am). I apologised to her and told her the reason I missed the time. I had just 10k, gave her 5k to do a birthday photoshoot, used about 3k to buy her goodies as salary has not been paid.

Fast forward to after 1week of the birthday, she came up with serious issue, saying she wanted a break but not total break-up for some months to put herself together. She lamented she was not getting anything from the relationship, I don't usually take her out, I didnt celebrate her birthday well for her, I didnt buy cake, I didnt buy gift etc. I apologised and pleaded with her to be patient as we had big projects before us (wedding, masters degree and family apartment) which she knew I was saving for. We settled it and had sex. After 7days, I saw a call log on her phone where she had a conversation with her ex for almost an hour between 11pm and 12am. After 1month, she missed her menses and was pregnant. I asked her if she ever saw her ex, she cried and swore that she didn't (Note: I trusted her because she is modest and she is not the sex type). So, I agreed, accepted the preg, quickly arranged an impromptu wedding, I quickly sourced for money, spent over N2million on the wedding......

THE PROBLEM:

2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking.

After 9months, she gave birth, I asked her who she wanted to come do omugo with the baby between her mum and my mum. She opted for my mum (claimed her mum will be giving her problem). Not up to 1week that my mum came over, she has started complaining about everything she does. Despite the fact that this woman will wake up 5am, wash everybody's clothes, bath the baby but she doesnt cook. My wife started complaining about her being obligated to cook every morning because of my mum's presence(Note: she doesnt cook in the morning, if I am going to work by 8am, I will either warm a left over previous night's food or source for food outside). When the complain was becoming overwhelming to the point of her almost insulting my mum in my presence, I told her I will tell my mum to go back to her house( my mum lives in a mini flat too with my dad, so they are very comfortable). She said I shouldn't. After 1 month, my mum left. The abuse, insults and complain continued. She will nag about how my mum did when she was with us, abuse and insults my family. I will appeal to her and defend my family. My wife became complete opposite of who she was when we were dating.

The real issue at hand: We would be migrating to the US soon. Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense repeatedly just because she said we should go and greet her mum's pastor which I told her not now but we can go later. If I tell her to do something, she will do otherwise and give me thousand of reasons she can't do it. 2months ago, I reported all her attitudes to her mum, her mum talked to her but no change, she is getting worse. Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed). She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too).

I am currently scared because I know US is women's world because I have included her and the kid as my dependents in my green card petition. I am scared for my life and career because she could go worse in the US and destroy all I have laboured for.

Please kindly advise me on what I can do to change her.

Sorry for the long write up and any grammatical errors.
You be proper MUGU.

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Celebrities / Re: Regina Daniels Enjoying Her Billionaire Husband's Money As She Dances(Photos) by ngwaba(m): 1:23am On May 22, 2019
ELVISHOT:
Popular controversial actress, Regina Daniels has been enjoying her billionaire lawyer and politician's money despite the outrage that trailed her alleged marriage to Ned Nwoko.

Regina Daniels is not allowing what people think to affect her love life and new family.

She has been having fun and enjoying her luxurious lifestyle, cars, private jets, money, etc all courtesy of her 59 year old husband...

The actress recently shared a video of her dancing to celebrate her new found love.

Watch The Video Here..
https://www.thenaijafame.com.ng/2019/05/regina-daniels-enjoying-her-billionaire.html?m=1
Vagina Daniels
Crime / Re: UPS Staff Attacks His Wife In Lagos, Flees (Disturbing Photos) by ngwaba(m): 12:41pm On May 20, 2019
OfficialNB:
See photo of the man who did this to the lady here
Thunder fire you
Crime / Re: Lady Drops Suicidal Thoughts On Facebook Over Her Complicated Relationship. by ngwaba(m): 2:50pm On May 17, 2019
queensera:
A Nigerian lady with the username "Cici olatundun" has dropped suicidal thoughts of drinking sniper over her complicated relationship.

She Wrote:
I wish I drink sniper an die
My relationship is killing me

Source:
http://nairaplus.com/2019/05/lady-drops-suicidal-thoughts-on-facebook-over-her-complicated-relationship-video/

Donate your organs and then kill yourself
Politics / Re: Kelechi Nwogu Mocks Rotimi Amaechi For Losing To Wike by ngwaba(m): 9:09am On Apr 06, 2019
tesppidd:
Remember 2015?

At least Amaechi was able to achieve one thing in 2019.

On election day all the PDP warriors and lions went into hiding.
Amaechi made sure of that.

Kelechi Nwogu and others will not forget in a hurry.
What is this idiot saying? If they were hiding how come they won?

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Politics / Re: Bala Haruna Dies After Swimming In Gutter Water To Celebrate Buhari Reelection? by ngwaba(m): 5:15pm On Mar 05, 2019
CollinsWeGlobe:
Reports sighted by Mandy News that Bala Haruna, the Bauchi man who fulfilled his vow to spend ten minutes inside a gutter and drink the gutter water should Buhari win the presidential election has reportedly died.

According to multiple reports flying around social media, Bala was rushed to the hospital after complaining about severe abdominal pains and severe stooling of blood for two days.

Bala, after series of tests conducted, was diagnosed with Gastrointestinal bleeding including hereditary hemorrhagic telangiectasia which was contacted from the gutter water he drank which was contaminated.

He spent several days in the hospital before he gave up the ghost early Tuesday morning.

Source: https://mandynews.com/man-who-swam-and-drank-gutter/
Good development
Health / Re: Ekiti Slay Queens Turn Flooded Area Into Swimming Pool During Rainfall. Photos by ngwaba(m): 9:23pm On Feb 26, 2019
CastedDude:
A group of young ladies decided to make the most of their flooded space after a heavy rainfall in Ekiti state.

The ladies took advantage of the flood instead of going to pay so much money at a swimming pool 'which was already at their disposal'.

Trending pictures posted online - show the moment the ladies swam and played in the "pool" during the rainfall.

One of the ladies who couldn't contain her excitement, appreciated the rain and claimed that they had waited long for this moment to catch fun.

Here are some pictures.

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/02/ladies-swim-in-flooded-area-after-heavy-rainfall-in-ekiti.html
Ekiti get slay queens?
Celebrities / Re: Linda Ikeji Celebrates Valentine With Her Son, Baby J by ngwaba(m): 9:35am On Feb 14, 2019
Winningway214:
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Foolish idiot
Travel / Re: Lagos New BRT Buses: Analyzing The Facts And Figures - Photos by ngwaba(m): 6:09am On Jun 16, 2018
AutoReportNG:
Whats your take on this?
Chinko buses.

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