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Hi everyone , please need your ideas on this . Last year I went to Pittsburg for a brief conference where I met a very pretty Christian lady originally from Cameroon . It was a physical attraction so we exchanged contacts however she did something that gave me an instant red flag two days after we met.When I returned back from my trip she kept in touch and I also respond to her SMS and calls till the calls became too frequently and I started avoiding some of them.I also find it disturbing that she always tells me she is a virgin and has not been in any relationship before though she's very attractive and sexy. She tells me all this things without asking her, that is also a red flag.I do not have the inner conviction to pursue any serious thing with her , just want to be her friend that's all. But now she doesn't understand and calls too often , I ask if we could just date , she said no dating but courtship. Right now am feeling bad because am no longer returning her calls, but I think the calls are getting her attached not in a friendly way. Should I return or pick her call when I see them?

Sounds good.

[quote author=I.Joan] [/quote]your friend is not complaining o, so we are fine
Joan what city are you in?

2 girls and 8 boys = 10 total

Mamacita007: Amen ooo my last one is 2moro & im done. We thank God for granting us a smooth and stressfree semester. howz life treating u. hope u enjoyed ur weekend. U said u would like to drive cab abii? oya go & quit ur job right now

congrat in advance.I didn't say I want to drive cab o, I was only correcting Joan's perspective about Taxi driving as a job,she's new here so she still have this Nigerian mentality of taxi drivers. I have taken taxi a number of times and I know what am talking about cos I interact with the drivers.Many were professionals who quitted their job to drive cab.Is it not all about the money? Are you going to reject a man's proposal for marriage cos he drives a cab

[quote author=I.Joan]mamacita & nice4life sitting in a tree
K-I-S-S-I-N-G
First comes love,
Then comes marriage,
then comes mamacita WITH A BABY CARRIAGE


[/quote]lol , how are you na? Now that you are seeing vision I'm pretty sure you're done with exams, how did it go?

[quote author=I.Joan]eeya!!!

Which current Nigerian footballer would end like this? [/quote]What's wrong in being a taxi driver miss Joan This is USA not Nigeria, do you know how much an average taxi driver makes here? There is dignity in labour better than doing nothing and wasting away.

Mamacita007: im sorry if i was rude or said something u didnt like.

This your post is so touching like the one that got me stuck on you. 10000000likes

Mamacita007: Is it not u wat said im up studying wen i called? llooooll ill try to finish one chapter b4 sleeping tonite. Ill sleep around 5 or 5:30.

You girls are really studying hard, its really painful now I know but its temporal and may God reward all your efforts with good success. Student life is not easy at all especially if you care about your grades. All d best!

Yvete: Naaa.. That's not why I was speechless. Basically, your comment is a repetition of what you said over the phone. I didn't know its this lengthy.

I can't be mad at you. Though for you to write all that, you must be really mad. Chill, I un-followed the thread a while back. I'm not moved by what anyone's got to say. Don't take anything online personal, okay? Its mere internet jabs with no effect on my emotion. Don't get emotional about it. What happened today is that I clicked following at the top and your comment caught my attention. #Curiosity ~ I COULDN'T HELP BUT LAUGH MY BEHIND OFF! LMAO ... In the name of D***y, please forgive.

Don't be mad at her jor, her love for you is sharking her head , if I do not retrain her she can kill someone for you.

Mamacita007: Im very angry with you right now. I won't be happy to see u post on dat usa thread again pls in the name of God, Jesus & D----y pls ooh cut off from those people. See kpolli, webstradamus and nice4life that are busy with their lives dont even bother anymore. Anybody dats addicted to usa thread dats their buisness. There is a season for everything in life. its nt everybody u knew yesterday dat u talk to right now. Our friends when we were young are now grown with deir own new friends. Its somebody dat started the thread & the person has moved on wit his life. Its becos of me u joined & thank God now im here. How many times will i beg u to leave dere for u to agree? U dont know how angry i am. U & dis pple dont have anything in common so i wonder what brings u to even associate with some of them like dat. All these things are not on ur level & dats wats making me angry. wetin una wan discuss on wat level? when they insulted that woman biofem she turn her back sam sam becos shes bigger than all this nonsense.

Some pple dat even got their visa with me dont even come back to there at all. Even if they mention ur name from now till tomorrow, dont answer. how u manage 2 find time for nl even amazed me. pls dont even reply that f00l or ill be angrier than eva b4. Dont go there, dont read and dont reply. Im so glad the new person taught him a lesson & dats enough. ive bn waiting for his cup to full for months. if he wants to hear from me, ill handle it MYSELF.

How are you and how is d weekend? Please leave yvette alone and forget about this USA visa thread abeg.Right now I don't have Internet at home just using my phone, this week has been hectic for me. Hope everything is fine at ur end?

Mamacita007: That's correct. nice4life im taking u to MFM

I am stuck on you please do not take me to MFM

justwise: Please can you explain that?

mr justwise aka mr hide post it means there shall be no hidden post on this thread because we are gonna behave ourselves well.

yvete hmmn,well I think it depends on what each couple considers as first fruit, if the couple apply abstinence during courtship they might also consider the intimacy on the wedding night a first fruit holy and acceptable unto God. Abi no be first fruit be that

Mamacita007: yes sanctified with holy water & any spirit of confusion & hidden post shalt DIE! DIE! DIE! DIE! DIE! DIE! DIE!

you didn't tell me that you are member of MFM

Yvete: awww .. My Yellow paw-paw, very thoughtful of you.
Lolz. Are you sending Uncle Nice back to Grad School?

Best wishes everyone! Study HARD for finals!

Aunty Yvette how are you na? mamacita has opened a new thread for us , she has sanctified and separated it so it can be free from e-fighting and cursing.Lol

I trust you guys will represent us well in your various schools, success my friends with your exams!!!

Mamacita007: llooooolll for ur sake i'll carry slippers in my bag if I fall u'll pick me so i thank God!!!!

I am gonna pick you up baby but am gonna punish the high heels by keeping it far from you.

Mamacita007: I still rock my high heels always oo its all about balancing urself while walking. Even my boots have heels . Its sexxier than flat shoes & ive never fallen. llooll

you had better learn how to balance well well because the day you fall while walking with me that will be the end of high heels, I hope you learn how to be sexy with flat shoes too because that will be your only option then.

Mikespartan: I have just completed my medicals with Diamond Bank.....and my uncle and his wife who are both doctors in the USA offered to sponsor my studies and all when they heard I didn't have a job yet(this was b4 I got interview invites with Diamond). I have taken the GMAT n TOEFL already and passed. BUt before I proceed further I want to decide which of the 2 options to take as I wld nt want to encourage them to spend more money and turn around to say I'm not interested. To aid ur judgement, I'm 28years old now.

@ have you been offered admission? If you have an offer of admission and sponsorship I think going for an MSc in finance will open more opportunity if you believe in yourself.If you think you are smart and can compete in the global market then go for the MSc.A lot of Nigerians and Nlanders have a negative mindset , how can you allow fear of not getting a good job stops you from pursuing your dream? Do you have a dream to study in the USA? Do you have a passion to pursue postgraduate studies? Forget about job and money for now, pursue your dream and all this things will be yours.

Mamacita007: so what is the reason for this?have u tried to ask urself dat question?

check your inbox, am expecting your response. Thanks

[quote author=I.Joan]Broz Kpolli dont let nice4life take mamacita away from you.... [/quote]sorry she's taken already only best man position is available

solidbroda: Nope. A date is just to know dat lady better. If a lady turned down a date for no reason, she's indirectly expressing her insecurity and immaturity

so on point! how do i deal with insecure and immature girls, the thing don tire me o? I have met two girls in the past month am interested in, I know they have a thing for me at least that should lead to a date but for some reason I can see the insecurity everywhere.perhaps they think we are not gonna accept them for who they are?? How do I take away the insecury from ladies am interested in

nice write up @op. However I have to add that what works for one woman might not work for another.The most important thing is to study the kind of lady she is and that will determine your approach. Note that a lot of women are time wasters and not worth the effort at all.

psalm127:1-2 "Unless the LORD builds the house, they labor in vain that build it: unless the LORD keeps the city, the watchman wakes, but in vain"

This is one of my favorite scripture, whatever effort I put in my life endeavours I remember that only God's touch can make it fruitful.Its the blessings of God that makes the difference and grace is needed to achieve anything worthwhile in this world, for by strength shall no man prevail.

damosky12: How could God die?

Nice question, God is not a man like you and me, God is awesome, a three in one being;

1)Father: God Himself sitting on the throne

2) Son: Jesus, the word that sent into becoming a flesh, 'John 1:14, that same Word was God himself, that word had God's spirit, holy spirit and life


3)The Hoy Spirit: God could sit on His throne and be at the same time at diffrent parts of the world doing wonders, speaking to His Sons. He is omnipresence, that presence apart from His throne is what is called the Holy Spirit, that Holy Spirit lived in Jesus, that was why He could act like God.



So why call himself Son of David? Evidently, the seed of David wasn't in him.



Just like He was called Son of Joseph too. The fact that He was called the Son of David does not mean He is a seed of David. He only appeared in the family that sprang forth from David's lions. That title was just mere formality, He (Jesus Himself) said "I AM FROM ABOVE:....; I AM NOT OF THIS WORLD (John 8:23) His life was nt from spermatozua but from God above.



So God sent himself to save his creations to pay a debt his creations owed him. I'm not surprised I have to believe this by faith. Faith makes the irrational rational.



Look, not like the creations owe Him. God is not a lier, He doesnt change His word. He already said in the old testament "the soul that sins shall die"-EZEKIEL 18:4. When He says a world, it must follo suit, that was why He had to send Jesus (God in human body) to die in that place. It was legally accepted He took their place since He made them. He became the sin for them. 2COR 5:21. Note: Jesus is God in human body



Again, God sacrificed himself to himself?




Sacrificed Himself for Himself? I did'nt say that. He just had to take their place. He had established the law "the soul that sinneth shal die", He loved them, He had to send His Jesus to die in their place. Note: It was legally acceptable to take thier place by that same law. He was the only one who could because through Him they were made (JOHN 1:3)

Sounds like all the problem of the world today is because Nazareth didn't have an asylum..




It depends on what you mean by asylum.

Whether you believe or not, it doest change the truth still. You'll only be very unsmart not to believe the truth. Its at your detriment since am not asking you to pay me offering or come to my church. THE TRUTH REMAINS "HE DIED FOR YOU ALREADY, REJECT HIM AND BE DAMNED! ACCEPT HIM AND BE SAVED John 3:18, YOU WILL THEN KNOW, HIM (He will show Himself to you, there wouldnt be need to ask these.).-

the sacrifice was a spiritual one and can be difficult for the natural mind to understand so I do not blame the @op.Know that Jesus Christ was sinnless and a blood is neccessary to take away sins based on the spiritual laws establish by God.No other blood can wash away sins( a spiritual disease) than the preciuos and stainless blood of Jesus Crist.He had to die to make that blood available for all sinners , he did no die for himself or to himself , he died to shed his blood for the remission of sins.

Mamacita007:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Nho-FCsZXE

i love this song by duncan mighty

the song is so sweet, naija artist are really trying.Honestly the few times I have been proud of my country here is when I listen to the songs coming from there.Now most african women wants to marry a Nigerian

"They that trust in the lord shall be as mount zion which cannot be moved but abided forever" psalm 125:1