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I don't think being intimidated by someone more "powerful" than you is a Nigerian man's perogative but of all humans as a whole.

I myself dream of becoming successful enough to take care of my needs because depending on someone is not a thing to be proud of wether you are a woman or not.
I can't understand why women allow men to boss them around in the name of "natural order" so I would be more confused if a man should accept the situation out of his own will.

But yet i still believe that the role of the leader shouldn't be determined by virtue of sex or the social status.

there are things that make a leader and NOT ALL MEN ARE FIT FOR IT.

Let's be realistic and leave this "natural order" aside, because there is nothing like that.

sex doesn't determine the abilities and capacities of someone. Rather is more connected to physiological and biological aspects of an individual.

So, let's cut the crap and face the truth.

No one likes the idea of having someone more successful than him because we as human are very competitive and are always looking forward to being better than our neighbours!

@ Siena

I like you so much.

Can we get in touch?

I think you are one of the most intelligent among the bunch of male idiots we have here.

*smack* smack*

Don't mind me oooo. I am just super happy today and feel like "externing" my feelings.

If you are willing to have a chat with me, just let me know!

Purist:
@tkb417 & chuckdee4

Give the guy a break! He was only asking a question. If you have been following events on the Religion board of this forum closely, then you'll know why such question is pertinent.

See related topics:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-3885.0.html
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-28824.0.html

Cheers.

Purist

Uhmmmmmmmm!

How far?

FactorChic:
see as u dey talk like person wey no go school! them tell u say na only person wey dey sleep around dey get AIDS? HISS!

Village she-goat i didn't ask for your opnion.

And besides in what way can't she have got the virus?

i won't give her any benefit of doubts because the answer is so obvious and even the poster hasn't even come out to deny since it was said.

So madam "I can't mind my business" Bleep off!

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

THIS IS A JOKE RIGHT?

WHEN HAVE XTIANS BECOME HOLY TALKLESS OF THE ONLY HOLY PEOPLE?

AS FOR ME THEY ARE NOT DIFFERENT FROM ANY HUMAN BEING.

IN SOME CASES THEY ARE THE WORST HIDING UNDER THE SO-CALLED RELIGION!

vigasimple:
Nnee,

I am not Igbo but i at think you sum it up nicely. the woman need shrink to examine her medula oblaganta.

You have had your fun, and if you are desperate look elsewhere because you are looking in the wrong places.

What has desperation got to do with this?

I have never read anywhwere that she was a desperate woman looking for a husband for marriage.

Why can't you just for once think he might have done it just for the fun?

Afterall the man did the same.

Useless african men!

Don't think you can come here to spit poison on my fellow woman when u know that ur fellow man is the one wrong.

The poster owes nobody an apology. GET THAT INTO YOUR THICK SKULLS!

mekoyo:
You can get married and still have babies. I attended a program in August where a Doctor gave us hints on HIV/AIDS. The tilte of the lecture was :HIV/AIDS: THE RAVAGING MONSTER.
He gave us the history of the dreaded disease. Well what i'm driving home is that you can have babies, all you need to do is see a certified doctor. Certified doctor i said not the quack ones.

Please be prayerful and pray always for her, there is nothing impossible for God. If you truly love her then walk her down the Isle and be prayerful about it. God will heal her in Jesus name.

Take good care of her and always be there for her, advice her always and never let her be alone.

Stop filling this poster's head with such craps.

What makes her more special than other millions of people who have the disease?

Why should god be merciful with a woman who has probably lived a wayward life and neglect innocents souls like children who were victims of misfortune?

YOU HAD BETTER CRACK YOUR BRAIN BEFORE You WRITE THESE SHITS!

It's South African.

The music video has a man playing a trumpet, three women singing the chorus and children playing musical intruments.

The scenery is a country field.

the rythm of the chorus is more or less

na nu nu ne ta to ni
na nu nu ne ta to ni
na nu nu ne ta to ni
na nu nu ne ta to ni

They tend to repeat the same rythm but change words.

the woman are dressed in blue!

Contact me at:

Iamreadytobecomeone@yahoo.com
or call me at:

00**IIIIVIXIVIIIIIXIIIIV

On a more serious note, if you want to play with me,

drop a note!

ugonna0071:
@Nihil-ce-m

nice one

back to you

aremuk:
@Nihil-ce-M
You just dey blast that like like say tomorrow no dey. u for leave small for people to talk too.

I nor fit resist. How kettle go dey call broken plates black? E craze before? Abi he think say smoke don damage our brains like him own!

Rubbermaid:
@Nihil-ce-M, Playette, Davidylan, Ralvy, dasarge, seun, ugonna0071 - you guys seem to be the reasonable voices here.

Someone needs to tell them. Me i nor understand this "love conquers all" of a things!

Sorry I lost my cool, but I couldn't stand all those craps people were writing on this thread., as if the woman was the only one to lose.

It's obvious than whenever an affair is being discussed, the woman is always the one at fault.

I can't stand those double standards. Everyone is bound to make mistakes, wether man or woman.

And if a married person cheats, the fault is almost entirely his or hers because the master or mistress has no obligation towards the spouse.

I wish we could get this thing once and for all.

If we are able to understand this point then we could easily concentrate on the real issue of this thread, which has to do with the emotional dilemma of the "mistress".

As I have said earlier if she really wants the woman to know the type of man she is married to, she should bring evidence.

If she has truly wronged her fellow woman by dating her man, then she can amend by enlightening her still yet dark mind.

SHE HAS TO HELP HER DESTROY THE CASTLE OF LIES THE MAN HAS BUILT.

That would be helping a fellow woman!

@ pukonu

You probably taught people would encourage u, thinking Nigerians would is the greatest mistake u have ever made.
From what i see hear everyone who has sent a post discouraging you is a fool.

Let me precise that if there is a fool here that is you and I'll prove it by analyzing your post.

I tell you non of them has gone for a check up recently.
Guy, do your thing. It only takes love and commitment. You would not get the virus if u don't want to.

Only a fool infact thinks that love and commitment are enough to make a happy marriage. It's obvious that your IQ is severely undeveloped and needs proper check up. He won't get HIV if he wants? Are you nut? He is thinking of having babies through sexual means, how do you think he is not going to get infected? Do you realize the stupidities you have just written?

Stigmatization is the greatest killer. Assuming u had already married when this happen, or she dies or the millions of health *complicacies (if there is any word like that) attacked u or her.
Do u know she might die of if u leave her, do u know that the God u serve wont forgive u for that. Or why is it said for better and for worse.

He is not married so that's not a point and even if he was he would still be justified if he decides to divorce in case he hasn't been infected yet. You can't keep playing with luck.
She will still die if he doesn't leave her so your point makes no sense and please leave god out of this. God is not a heartless person and he wouldn't definitely want some people out of foolishness to cause themselves and their future children so much agony.
It's not for better and for worse because he is not yet married to her and he still have a choice. HR SHALL ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE!

Mr Robert, I would say it again people are really stupid, u might want to stop this thread or put your mind in disarray.
Get married, is the only advice i have for u.

This is the funniest thing I have ever seen. A FOOL CALLING OTHER PEOPLE FOOLS. If you were intelligent enough to read through your post, you'd see the thousands of craps that it contains, but i guess u are too stupid for that.
I can also bet all the money I have that it's either you are HIV positive your self and this would explain why you want him to marry her at all cost or that you are just plain stupid.

A medical Dr. posted some stupid psycho resigns i bet u he probably studied in one of this schools that had their dept unaccredited. I mean how would a doctor say things like that. If he stands his right, he can come openly to the Nigeria Medical Institute and let's see if he's license wouldn't be withdrawn. Issues like this is more than just common sense it is more of practicing working modules from that have been experimented in the past.
Go to the NACA and see what u would get.

Check your brains. IT IS SERIOUSLY DAMAGED!

You are in your early 20s and u aren't a bad looking guy!

I wouldn't advice HIV positive people to have children.

That's just pure selfishness.

Don't think of how happy you'll be to have children but how these kids will feel, once they are born.

You as a parent knows the agony of a HIV patient, why would you want your child to suffer the same fate?

Even though now there are medical ways to avoid the transmission, it's not a 100% guarantee.

When it's not 100% safe, no one should dare play with a human life!

@ poster

Teling the wife wasn't the best thing to do. I myself is not someone to believe in gossips without visible evidence.

I read thorough your post and for what i have understood, BOTH OF YOU THINK THAT'S THE ONLY WAY TO STOP HIM FROM CHEATING.

Well, if that be the case, let him do it himself.

You don't owe the woman any type of explanation.

He is the one to pay for his lies!

HEY Y'ALL INSULTING THE POOR GIRL, WHERE HAVE YOU LEFT THE HUSBAND?

STUPID PEOPLE! HOW CAN You PUT THE ENTIRE BLAME OF A RELATIONSHIP ON HER ALONE?

WHAT ABOUT THE MAN?

IS SHE THE ONE WHO PROMISED FAITHFULNESS TO THE WIFE?

IS SHE THE ONE WHO PROMISED FOR BETTER AND FOR WORSE?

NO!

SO CUT THE CRAP.

IF THERE IS ANYONE TO BLAME, THAT'S THE MAN.

HE IS NO WAY JUSTIFIED FOR HIS DEEDS.

YOU PEOPLE DIDGUST ME. ALWAYS TRYING TO PUSH THE BLAME ON THE WEAKEST PART.

THE GIRL OWES THE WIFE NO REGARDS AS FAR AS SHE IS CONCERNED BECAUSE SHE IS NOT THE ONE MARRIED TO HER.

INSTEAD OF YOU TO BE ADVOCATING AGAINST CHEATING HUSBANDS, YOU PREFER TO ACCUSE THE PERSON THEY CHEAT WITH.

YOU PEOPLE HAVE GOT YOUR BRAINS BLOCKED.

AS IF AFTER HE IS DONE WITH HER, HE'LL STOP CHEATING.

STOP CONCENTRATING ON THE WRONG PERSON AND ADMIT THAT THE MAN IS 90% AT FAULT.

olabowale:
@romeo: Who should believe, as a follower of Jesus? Jesus who never married and never adviced that sex out of wedlock is within the law, whether the law is mosaic or his own, or corinthian verse written by Paul/Saul? You will note that the corinthian verse, now referred to as God's words is not even the words from Prophet Jesus (son of man)! Infact words like that are contrary to the teaching of Jesus and breed immorality.

Sex before marriage is fornication by the individual who has it, if unmarried. However if married it is adultery. Both fornication and adultery, if proven, as committed offenses have their own prescibed punishments. My people lets get far away from both. The consequences of this type of behaviour are increase of immorality in the society to the point of acceptance of this evil behaviour, sexually transmitted deseases of many degrees and others.

As a man, for a man to be sleeping with my woman folk doe snot agree with me and very difficult for me to swallow. I will not do it to any person. Behaviour like that is evil, regardless of the lack of encouragement and warning in present day to stop this evilness that is so common with us.

I fit bet say you nor be virgin.

Hypocrite!

rosquare:
@poster
NO, don't ask her.
wait for me to come and ask her on your behalf
and when its time to tongolo,also wait for me to
ask her on your behalf
ha ha

and maybe do it on his behalf!

unless you are lesbian, her husband won't have any prob with you hugging her!

CHILDREN AREN'T GOOD FOR A DOOMED MARRIAGE

BUT A HEALTHY MARRIAGE IS GOOD FOR CHILDREN


Don't start a marriage with the intention of using kids as a means to save it in case it's drowning.

If you can't do anything as an adult, what do you think a little baby can do.

This idea that kids make a happier home is stupid.

Kids alone can't guarantee the success of a marriage.

When it's doomed, it is doomed.

Those who think having kids is a solution will only have themselves to blame when the child itself is corrupt by the unhealthy surrounding!

Nice joke!

omega25red:
What do people speak english anymore people typing slang

Eh, just carry your useless username comot for my sight.

What is your problem? Who are you to tell me how to express myself?

What a conceited biatch. Just because he speaks some useless grammar he wants to come and start saying nonsense to me.

Listen asshole, I don't owe you anything. I am free to write in what language I want and if you don't like it,

you can jump into the next lagoon.

yinkkol:
omega25red,don't be too hard on the guy now(i mean Nihil-ce-M), he only expressed his mind as a proper igbo guy

And the same applies to you.

Mr. "Oversabis"

@ poster

you have really got some serious issues.

@ poster

Guy you are bleeping boring, gosh!

Give us a damn break!

I just hope the girls advocating pretty faces aren't the pretty face and no shape types.


So pathetic!!!!

I am not for introduction marriage.

You should be the one to look for your spouse yourself.

Don't ever take what other people give to you as the best.

You might never know what is hidden behind everything!

Jesus said "give him the other cheek"

Aren't you a xtian? follow the holy script.

On a more serious note:
This is guy isn't jealous but possessive and obsessive.
He might not really love you but he might not stand the thought of letting other guys approach you.
I don't consider the love of a possessive guy/girl to be real love.

Open your eyes!

omega25red:
whats the point of the picture ? i'm just wondering

To say "if u nor reach this girl level nor even bother to hala me"