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Romance › Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen by NihilceM: 11:32am On Dec 10, 2007

Signor

I see you from Edo, assume you be babe you for done go Italy go do Ashewo since.

See ya life! You still get mouth take talk upon say you de do bad thing.

My gosh! How rotten can people get, God Abeg help us o!. AMEN.

Here we go. Although I was expecting this comment,

Mister "holier than thou", why don't you just insult him and leave the tribe alone?

And on what basis do you claim that if he were a girl he would be a prostitute?

Is there any gene that defines this type of behaviour?

I don't think so, so let's stop showing our cultural deficiency on line.

These prejudices and stereotypes don't fit someone like you who is trying to potray a good way of living.

Peace! wink

Celebrities › Re: Nicole Richie Or Paris Hilton ? by NihilceM: 10:35am On Dec 10, 2007

Nicole could put on more flesh.

Paris, uhmmm.

I need to know how Nicole is to be able to judge!

Celebrities › Ini Is Back: Slim And Better by NihilceM(op): 10:32am On Dec 10, 2007

Lovely isn't she?

Family › Re: Divorce On The Rise In Nigeria: Why? by NihilceM: 10:14am On Dec 10, 2007

ALL OF YOU SCREAMING WESTERN INFLUENCE.

Oyinbo man come your house come tell you make you assimilate their culture?
if they did, them point gun for your head?
Because me I nor understand wetin be this west right west left.

If na for abroad the thing happen, I fit understand una but then I go still argue because they nor force anything on us.

But back to you.

What the hell is your problem? I wonder!
Can't Africans for once take responsibility for their actions?
Why are they always blaming external factors?
Goodness, the victim farce has to stop.
It's not doing us any good.

Don't you think generation can change?
You don't expect people to live the way their fore fathers did, do you?
You are screaming for progress in the country but then how can this be when you don't want to eradicate those primitive practices?
Be wise and use that your head for once.
You claim to be smart, you claim it's racist to say the westerns are more intelligent than us, but why are we the ones influenced by them and not the other way round?
Don't you know only superior intellect can influence others?
I am so ashamed of you guys.
You make me sick.

Politics › Re: Is Nigeria An Islamic Or Christian State? by NihilceM: 8:45pm On Dec 05, 2007

The poster shouldn't be attacked but rather helped with his doubts.

It's obvious that Muslims are very religion conscious and by this they are making things difficult in the country.

Even a foreigner might ask as well if Nigeria is an Islamic country.

Why should the we allow Sharia laws to be practiced in some parts of the country?

All the laws should be strictly those dictated by the constitution.

Christianity Etc › Possessed By A Demon by NihilceM(op): 9:36pm On Dec 03, 2007

Today I received a vist from a family friend.
She invited me to her church, I refused.
Her daughter was taken to that same church to be delivered because according to her pastor, her grandmama give am winch chop.
Now that family friend is of the opinion that I am possessed since my mother is always complaining about me.

How credible is that pastor?
Do these demons exist for real?

PS: I am atheist and I refused because I don't believe in such things, but then I want to hear your views about this issue.

Family › Re: A Friend Of Mine Was Beaten To A Pulp By The Wife by NihilceM: 9:11pm On Dec 03, 2007

davidylan:
Real women don't resort to violence. May my path be far from such marital wrecks.

Family › Re: A Friend Of Mine Was Beaten To A Pulp By The Wife by NihilceM: 8:38pm On Dec 03, 2007

davidylan:
women beat their husbands? those men are a disgrace!

I'll send one to you.

Eh eh it'll be nice to see you with a black eye.

Please send me a picture afterwards.

Trouble maker! tongue

Family › Re: Twice Unfaithful And Lazy Husband: Should I End This Marriage? by NihilceM: 12:28pm On Dec 02, 2007

Outstrip:
Kem there is some truth in what you are saying but you are in my opinion very irresponsible to completely absolve her husband of any blame but turn around and blame it on the devil and the ignorance of the person being abused. Your response is very typical. Who really needs someone right now, the man who is clearly here on earth to do the work of the devil or the wife who is at the risk of either being infected with HIV or being beaten to death by her husband or having her children grow up with the idea that if their husbands beat them up then it is just the work of the devil and the poor man should be sympathized with because that bad devil made him do it. Abeg be careful with the advice. She needs to leave that situation. She does not have to be there for God to answer her prayers.
You have obviously been brainwashed to believe that it is the womans responsibility alone to work to save a marriage. It's from both sides. What benefit is it to the kids to be around this man?

I was really shocked to read her post. I am happy there are people like Outstrip and Dorcasde who are still capable of viewing things in a very objective and human way.

Christianity Etc › Re: God Said Nigeria Will Be The Greatest Nation In The World - Adeboye by NihilceM: 8:36pm On Dec 01, 2007

Jen33:
Jakumo the spirit world is not hallucinatory. It is real.

We call it the 'spirit' world, with all its quasi religious connotations, but in reality what it means is the inhabited world within the 99.9995% of the universe invisible to our five human senses.

Humans only 'see' matter that reflects light. This is what scientists call the electromgnetic spectrum. This constitutes 0.005% of all matter in the universe. In reality we're virtyally BLIND as humans.

When we 'die', our consciousness, or soul, which is not dependent on our electromagnetic reflection we call a 'body', to exist, continues to exist and be visible in the REAL WORLD ie the 99.995% of the universe.

This is the region we call ''the spirit world'' but in reality the entities there are no more 'spirit' than we are. They're just more exposed and powerful.

What the hell??

Family › Re: Twice Unfaithful And Lazy Husband: Should I End This Marriage? by NihilceM: 2:51pm On Dec 01, 2007

@ Olanajim
When someone mentions my name in his post and addresses his comments at me, i think there is nothing wrong if I quote him and analyze what he has written.

Then it is easy to track someone else's post down by saying "it's too stupid". This is your opinion and if i can express mine I'd say, for what I have read so far, common sense hasn't transpired in your posts; as a matter of fact you are the one resolving riddles. In a situation where there has to be complicity, it's senseless to ask just a single person to try to sort things out her/himself. You can't say that this is also stupid because then I'll have to ask you to check yourself.

I have had discussions with other members several times concerning this issue and there was always place for a rational arguementation and for what I have seen so far, you aren't all that in terms of RESOLVING PROBLEMS. Yours are purely theories which can't be put into practice because circumstances aren't favorable. However you don't seem to see this and keep on calling us, those who are practical, RIDDLE RESOLVERS: that seems conceitedness of the highest level to me.

PS: the affirmation about women's stupidity was made by a man and I absolutely agree. Leave sentiments aside and face the truth. The world we are in today is a tangible evidence. And being stupid has nothing or little to do with being rational. Usually people who are highly rational are the ones to fall easily into stupidity.

Romance › Re: I'am 27, She Is 16: I Did It And She Is Not A Virgin. by NihilceM: 9:23pm On Nov 30, 2007

Here we go again with this virgin issue. I am not going to even talk about the fact that there is an 11 year difference between you because that would just be wasting my time. But then I won't fail to advise you to stop this insane search for virgins because I am sure that was what attracted you to her in the first place. Since you have seen it's not worth it as you are just degrading yourself to the insults of these people., you had better change your requirements from a future companion.

Learn to value a woman for other things than her temporary physical state. If you do that I am sure you won't have problems dating women of your age group, who are certainly not virgins anymore but still have a lot and more to offer.

As to that young girl, she should learn that virginity won't keep a man. If he wants to leave, he shall still leave after he has got he wants.

I hope both of you have learnt from your mistakes and wil make a good use of the experience. I wish you good luck.

Family › Re: Twice Unfaithful And Lazy Husband: Should I End This Marriage? by NihilceM: 9:03pm On Nov 30, 2007

Nihil ce-M,
you got it all mixed up. You are dead wrong. Advices are given based on the nature of the problem and not gender. I hope you have a post by a man who was beaten to stupor by his wife. You see, men can be a victim of domestic violence too. But their pride won't let them come into open to say it. .

You can't compare violence against women to violence against men. Men who beat women are aware of their position of physical superiority and use it to intimidate their wives. A woman on the other hand, when she lifts a finger against a man, she is aware there might be a reaction by him. These are two different cases. Of course violence in general shouldn't be condoned in anyway, but then this is not about gender. I am saying this because an individual is being hurt everyday. Wether man or woman everyone deserves to be happy. But it seems the tendency on this forum is to make every woman-man matter a gender issue. There are so many threads where men have written about their wives' infidelity but in rare cases I have read a fellow man telling him to reconsider himself and see where he has gone wrong. it's always entirely the woman's fault in any type of situation. since most of the people who have come to reply here are the same on the other threads I have to address them and make sure they know that if they have any intention of making this a gender issue; I am fully prepared to contrast them.

For your information, it is wrong to quit a marriage just because you encounter difficulty. While, I am always in support of divorce to separate couples that can't mend their fence. I strongly believe divorce should be the last option when common sense fail.

A partner can't think of resolving difficulties in a union when the other party has proved that he isn't interested in sorting things out. Before the man went out to cheat the first time he should have consider the idea of speaking to his wife about his uncomfort at home, but then he went for the easiest way out. I am sorry but one of my policies is that "I won't take the responsibilities of an entire relationship on my shoulder". This idea that the woman is the home keeper is just a way to justify the absolute disinterest that men have shown over the years towards their homes. I am not going to take that to be true, because hence we decided to marry together, we shall make it work together. however if on the other hand there should be someone working harder to make things better, that should be the man as he was the one who asked me to marry him.

Moreover, the most idiotic thing any woman can do is to walk out on her marriage without knowing what went wrong and without learning one or two lessons from the failed marriage. I tell you in truth, I have seen such a lady. She went into another marriage and the same thing happened. It took her the third marriage before she know that she was the problem. Sadly, she had children for all the men!

As I have said earlier, the man didn't even bother to solve his problems at home before he went seeking for a girlfriend, so why should she bother? this is a matter of common sense: the same you love so much to talk about. I am not affirming that women on their part haven't got faults when there are problems in a marriage, but as the head of the family the man claims to be he should at least try to find an effective way to communicate. What should I expect of a man who cheats on me and beat me because I have disclosed his disgraceful act? Do you think that such man is capable of communicating in a reasonable manner? I am of the opinion he isn't. Violence and cheating are the only ways he knows of outletting his frustration. Maybe he also reputes his wife as someone you can't talk to but then that is entirely his problem. Why would he marry someone with whom he knows he can never have a sensible dialogue? Use your common sense.

You claim that the man is the head of the home but then he is not ready to take responsibilities when things go bad, but rather run away and leave everything for the woman because that's when he realizes that she is the home keeper.

Come on, we are not so stupid. Stop ranting as if we were little kids who don't know how things really are. Sometimes we ignore certain things and try to adjust when we can, but when common sense starts to give us signals of stupidity on our part we can't always ignore it.

I have a friend of mine tell me women are stupid and the reasons he gave for his affirmation were exactly these. I challenge any man or woman to stand up and proudly say woman aren't victims of their own stupidity.

Family › Re: Twice Unfaithful And Lazy Husband: Should I End This Marriage? by NihilceM: 6:35pm On Nov 28, 2007

kbankz2000:
Hi,
No one can understand what you are going through, so you shouldn't have posted this here in the first place. But i can assure you that what you will get here will only make you confuse the more because every dumb ass will say whatever they can say. but i will want you to sit down and take a journey back to memory lane how you guys started. the love you once shared. it is true love turns cold but if it has you wont be contemplating leaving him or not. whatever you do should come from your heart. OK.
If you can remember this " Do you (Your Name) take this man to be your lawfully wedded Husband for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, till death do you apart"
I can only but imagine your answer.
CHEERS

You are not different from the dumb asses that have been coming here to give advice.

Your own nor better pass the one we have been giving since.

Conceited dumb ass!

Romance › Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen by NihilceM: 6:33pm On Nov 28, 2007

eiete:
My God, what is nigeria turning into?

You have the gusts to come online and say you, a 30 yr old ;had SEX with a MINOR.

She's not yet of the legal age (18) to give concent you slowpoke.

This is sexual abuse simple. I'm suprised the the admin of this web site has not yet reported you to the police.

For God's sake she is old enough to be your daughter.

Where were the parents of the girl all this whille? They should be jailed.

The age of consent in Nigeria is 13 years.

This law was made so that men like this could go free for their supposed pedophilia! wink

Romance › Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen by NihilceM: 5:55pm On Nov 28, 2007

@ poster

Na una know.

Whatever you do nor concern us.

People who dey shout child-abuse: NA NAIJA WE DEY.

The law doesn't give a hoot about a full fledged woman, ma small pikin e go dey worry about?

Find something else to say. Since the girl family don agree, make she carry go.

Further education nor go help the girl sef, because as I dey see am so, na real olodo she be.

Family › Re: Twice Unfaithful And Lazy Husband: Should I End This Marriage? by NihilceM: 5:24pm On Nov 28, 2007

iceblue:
my foot!someone who would respond that way would never beat his wife in the first place. what exactly is the definition of submissive? someone who licks your feet and has no will or opinion of theirs? your dog?

That is what it means in an African mentality.

The weaker vessel is always wrong, no matter the situation.

Have you noticed that in case of infidelity by the man, the woman is always asked to CHECK HERSELF?

These people are sick in the head. I wonder the idea of women that has been taught them!

Family › Re: Twice Unfaithful And Lazy Husband: Should I End This Marriage? by NihilceM: 5:08pm On Nov 28, 2007

stefykarl:
SEE MADAM, WHY ARE YOU ASKING WHEN YOU HAVE MADE UP YOUR MIND, COS FROM WHAT I CAN DEDUCE FROM WHAT YOU SENT IS THE GUY PICKED YOU WHEN YOU ARE NOTHING AND MADE YOU SOME BODY, NOW YOU KNOW YOU ARE MORE EDUCATED THAN HE IS, AFTER SACRIFICING TO MAKE You SOMEONE ALL YOU DO IS SAY ALL THESE NONSENSE. DIDNT YOU SEE THAT HE IS LAZY BEFORE YOU MARRIED HIM, NOW THE ONLY IMPORTANT THINGS ARE YOUR CHILDREN.
YOU KNOW WHAT, YOU HAVE SOMEONE ELSE YOU WANT TO RUN TO, SO, DONT BOTHER US.
YOU ARE NOT ASHAMED OF YOURSELF, AFTER 11 YRS OF MARRIAGE THIS IS THE THANK YOU, YOU WILL GIVE HIM.
YOU SAID HE CHEATED TWICE, HOW MANY TIMES HAVE YOU CHEATED ON HIM? YOU DIDNT TELL US,GO AND SIT DOWN AND FOLLOW YOUR NEW FRIEND.
YOU ARE A DISGRACE

Whatever your name is, I suggest you carry that dirty ass of yours out of this thread right now.

You dey mad? You dey craze? or you mad craze before?

Just because some mumu give you computer, you think you can spread your foolishness all over the place.

Thunder go fire the fingers you use take post this absurd and useless comment of yours.

Family › Re: Twice Unfaithful And Lazy Husband: Should I End This Marriage? by NihilceM: 2:29pm On Nov 28, 2007

I wonder why when wife abuse is discussed, majority of men are always adivising the lady to stay, while the women on the other hand advise the contrary.

I am afraid to say that these men who are talking like this are the ones that are likely to abuse their wives too.

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Family › Re: Making Love Before One's Wedding by NihilceM: 10:02pm On Nov 27, 2007

Kudos to Reverend.

I enjoyed your prayer: I shall recite it every morning. grin

@ topic

Na una know if you agree or you nor agree.

This topic don tire everybody!

Romance › Re: hhh by NihilceM: 5:00pm On Nov 27, 2007

sabmack:
@Nihil

Are u telling me it is wrong for me to have sort advice here. I have already decided to call it quit to save myself seepless nights.

I have also said that i want to discontinue with the thread. What is my crime now. I took d decision base on u people advice.

Since you made your decision based on people's advice, then I also advise you check yourself.

You suffer from a very strong form of low-esteem.

PS: By quitting you haven't done a favor to yourself but to the lady!

Family › Re: My Sister My Enemy by NihilceM: 4:55pm On Nov 27, 2007

@ geegee

I am sorry girl for sounding rude to you. I am not a diplomatic type and I am very blunt with my opinions.

As Olanajim has said, I have just expressed my mind.

Anyways I wish you Good Luck!

TV/Movies › Re: Is Caroline Ekanem Beyonce? by NihilceM: 9:53pm On Nov 26, 2007

koolsasy:
caroline ekanem is not beyounce in that film.d girls name is nadia sometin or d other.
caroline no fyne reach that chick at all.

She nor ask who fine pass.

Can't you be objective?

Romance › Re: Would You Marry A Man That Raped You Two Years Ago? by NihilceM: 8:39pm On Nov 26, 2007

crazykid:
If he says he’s sorry and is ready to take you home to become his wife, then you should forgive him like the saying “to err is human but to forgive is divine”; what has happened has happened and you the woman should be lucky he was man enough to come to you asking for marriage.

Most guys wouldn’t do that.

Utter rubbish. How can you say such idiocies with so much cool?

Family › Re: My Sister My Enemy by NihilceM: 8:16pm On Nov 26, 2007

@ geegee

I can't believe you don't realize that everyone that has read this thread is thinking about you with compassion and condescension.

From what i have read from you post, this is what you were trying to avoid by not wanting your mother to know.

You claim to be strong and full of life but yet you allow your self to be an object of pity by these people.

Wake up and smell the coffee. This is not a place where you can say certain things.

Why would you allow total strangers to develop such feelings towards you especially if the idea of having your family feeling the same way hurts

you so much?

Family › Re: My Sister My Enemy by NihilceM: 10:22pm On Nov 25, 2007

blue band

I am being unsympathetic? Why?

Because i have expressed my opinion?

I still remain of the idea that this thread is useless.

Sweetheart there is a difference between seeking advice and seeking pity.

I don't sympathize with pathetic people.

Family › Re: My Sister My Enemy by NihilceM: 8:21pm On Nov 25, 2007

sweetberry:
smart ass either you have somethin relevant to say or get lost

Sorry but that issue concerning english is relevant to me.

Many people might have got turned off my her poor english skills. I am just saying the truth. tongue

But the fact remains that this thread is pointless in my opinion.

What is she expecting from us? Pity? Because i don't see any advice that can be given.

She hasn't come here to ask for opinions but rather to outlet her frustration about her sister.

All we can say is "sorry, do, pele, things will be better, etc, " All useless things that won't contribute anything to her life.

Since she and her sister were already having problems, i don't see what we can say to repair things.

THIS THREAD IS JUST SELF-PITY.

Family › Re: My Sister My Enemy by NihilceM: 5:24pm On Nov 25, 2007

@ poster

I am sorry for what happened but all the same: DO SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR ENGLISH. GOSH! PUNCTUATION MARKS ARE NOT MYTH. THEY DO EXIST!

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