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Finally I did it in 3hours n 40 mins on the balcony of a second floor of a building.
Na wa o. Omo he no easy at all at all o. Alstacs i wish you luck o

Alstacs, We dey the same shoes o, and na thru Oga fhemmy I buy mine.
I for say make he do am for me too o. Kai this wahala ehn.
Well I would try it again early this morning.
I just wonder why it doesn't just start from where it stops rather than the reset screen showing.

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Do u ve white torch now. N price

Do u have a white torch. Thanks n price

spoilerx: Do it very early in the morning , I did mine around 2 AM was thru by 2:45 , & e was MTN

Aiite thanks, using one's Bb has hotspot would that work for updates Spoilerx.
Thanks

Ve to start all over again. Kilode

This updating is big rubbish from blackberry o, Kai spent five hours updating the oS, just leaving the office at 10pm only for the stuff to stop n ask for restart at 412mb out of 509mb. I have consumed about 2.5gb in downloading n still its not complete. If it doesn't work this wEekend Lord know selling it is the next greatest idea.
I don tire

TCD thanks for the response om I have been using swift to update it both night n day still no headway.
Regarding the method I am using the PB itself, didn't know I could update using desktop manager, first time update.
Funny thing it neva continues from where it stop earlier.
It always say download stopped and the only option is to reset after reseting it shows try again or turn off PB.
TCD can I have ur pin. This is mine 27F4E94A.thanks

Na so o, Oga Fhemmy i asked in my mail ooooo. ;DNa so o, Oga Fhemmy i asked in my mail ooooo.

This updating thing na wa o, Been on it for the second day o, no stable internet it just stops halfways and I have to restart and start all over again.
Any update secrets to updating o.I don die

Thanks again Mr Niran and Oga Fhemmy. Well Business just started my Ogas. Cheers
No extras for me ni Oga Fhemmmy

Thanks Oga Fhemmy, I have gotten mine from Mr. Niran
Ese o.

Oga Fhemmy o, you have done it again again o, But before u finish my mind, seems abi he don clear oooooo.

Thanks Wal guess thats all you do

I have heard a lot of pros n con for both phone, but clearly heard more cons for the Bold 9900.
Please want users of both phones to comment. Thanks
I wanna get one of either two soon.

fx who you talking to first??

AjanleKoko:

You don't want to pay abi. Typical Nigerian, doesn't want to pay for anything.

i dont get u at all, re u charged COT on withdrawing from a savings account?

Guess my Token is useless now. Thank you GTbank

just called a dude in GTB, the instant transfer thing is to be stopped due to the high level of transfers deemed as fraudulent by the Bank and only NEFT will be available. Secondly the transfer thing on saving is going to be stopped to ensure they can get COT off it, means using current as the only option.
Well i think its time to look out for other banks to use

hmmmm wonder what they are doing, i cant transfer right now, telling me some bla bla bla sha. but i hope they aint planning to stop this truly. if they do i would simply stop the big account i was already transferring to them to handle n stick to zenith then SHIKENA.

Finally .........................

TCD, how does one get the android player on a 2.0 please. thank you

TCD i wanna ask a question. Must one have 2.0 Beta to be able to use android player.

If the store is a confirm and reliable store as stated by aieromon. i guess that cool info thanks again spoilerx. Hope you enjoying your playbook. your pin lets ping

I laff for some people RIP ke, well na nairaland folks dey complain when post long, when he short the contact lens dem dey use go spoil LMAO
I hope he recovers fully and when he does he should go and withdraw large sums from the bank again he go know whatsup. HE DEAF TO CASHLESS POLICY NI abi him no be Information dealer.

Oga Fhemmy me was thinking this thing takes a week o, 13 days after payment to ship. Shey no be another 26 days to collect so hmmm I for kuku wait till december o

A friend of mine that I hadn’t
seen in ages called me one day
and invited me to her place for
lunch. I’m really not one to go
out a lot but I hadn’t seen her
in a while so I took up the
offer. When I walked into the
place I was shocked because
what I thought was going to
be a one-on-one lunch turned
out to be what people would
call a ‘get-together’.
I was a bit sceptical about staying too long but I
eventually did and I enjoyed every minute of it, especially
because of the movie we watched.
The story line was about a man who was married to a
beautiful woman; they had lived together for a while,
they had three children and everything seemed perfect
but after a while the guy started cheating on his wife.
The woman found out eventually and she was so
unhappy and distraught, she confronted him and asked
why he would do that to her.
Obviously, the man started apologizing but after a while
he stood up and said: “You know what? Maybe I’m not
sorry. I know that I did something wrong, as a Christian
I shouldn’t have done that because I have offended God,
I’m begging God to forgive me but the truth is, you
pushed me to it! “You stopped being you, the woman that I
married, you became a mother, you lost everything, the
passion and the romance. I’m truly sorry, I work so hard,
I travel all over and I found someone who gave me
excitement.”
He continued: “Yes, in my moment of passion I messed it up
and sinned but the truth is there was just this void that
needed to be filled and I got tempted and I fell, I’m sorry.”
After the long speech, she was still annoyed, she told him
that he couldn’t cheat on her, she had given him her
everything; she had given him her life, her years, she had
lost her identity and the man was shocked and then he
shouted, “who asked you to lose your identity?”
When the movie ended, there was an argument as usual
because some people were for and against the man,
especially the ladies. They were all going on about how
she left her family, married the man, managed the home,
taught and took care of the kids, and she barely had
time for herself. To be a perfect wife and a perfect mother,
you can’t do anything else with your life because those
are two very tasking jobs, so he had no right to cheat
on her.
What made them even angrier was that she shouldn’t
have forgiven him, and then the men started; they
defended themselves by saying: “How can you say that? It
was very clear that she pushed him. If she didn’t lose the
passion and romance, would he have had to go out of his
home to get some?” And the argument went on and on.
Now, we can look at this issue from both ways. As a
woman, I know you would expect me to say he cheated,
he’s the one to blame, he can’t have a relationship with
another woman outside when he has a very beautiful wife
sitting at home, and she has kids to take care of. She’s also
taking care of his needs, making sure everything is right,
so he has nothing to complain about and then he goes
and cheats on her. But the truth is: he’s human. Don’t get
me wrong, I’m not encouraging unfaithfulness but as
women, the first thing that we try to do to please
everybody is try to lose our identity and that’s the first
and biggest mistake that women all over the world
make.
A man meets you, you look good, you are intelligent,
you’re exciting, you have a lot of romance and passion
and then you get married and start to have children
and all of a sudden you forget the whole essence of
marriage because you want to be the perfect mother, wife
and you want everyone to be pleased. But the truth is
you can’t please the whole world.
You must take care of your family but not to the point
where you would lose yourself, your identity, lose the
passion and the romance.
This is directed to women, I won’t lie, truth is: we push the
men. I know that every man should have self control, I
preach that a lot, every man should know that he must
be faithful to his wife; but then again, what are you
giving the man at home?
All of a sudden you become a missionary mother, yes, you
can pray and read your Bible but God also says that the
marriage is his institution. It is more important than any
other thing. It is more important than even your own
family, as painful as it sounds, that’s the truth!
There’s a portion in the Bible that says just do right by
your marriage before you can come and say you want
to serve God. God would have you as a married woman,
make sure that your marriage is fixed before you come to
Him and say I’m coming to serve God.
I have heard a lot of stories in the past of how men come
to church and hate the whole idea of worshipping God
because their wives no longer have time for them at all.
They would rather spend Monday, Tuesday and
Wednesday fellowshipping then Thursday, Friday going
to do evangelism; Saturday is for choir rehearsals and
cleaning the church, and on Sunday going to church
for service.
What time is left for your family? So already you have
made the man feel that he is in competition with your
religion.
Meanwhile serving, worshipping and being a child of God
is not about you going to church everyday of your life.
I’m not saying it’s a bad thing but if your husband needs
your attention, please give him that attention. You are
supposed to be his go-to person. He must be able to know
that when he comes back home, he’s not going to meet a
wife who is wearing bubu or tying wrapper on her chest
all day. No!
He wants to be excited as well, he wants to have passion
and romance, especially as they grow older they require
more attention.
Forgive me for saying this but when people say ‘you have
to start taking care of your husband as if he’s a baby’ a
lot of women misunderstand that statement and start
to treat their husbands like they are their sons.
It simply means that they need more attention, they need
petting, they need you to tell them all those things that
they want to hear, they need you to make them feel
wanted and special, they need you to make them feel like
they are really loved and cared for.
All those things you used to do, all those nice love notes
and messages that you used to send that made him feel
special, all those times that you would surprise him, all
those times that you would be the first one to make the
move, it’s all gone and I wonder why.
You can’t expect him to be the one to always want to
hold your hand or touch you at night. He’s your
husband! Sometimes, they need to feel that they are still
sexy, they need to feel like they still look good and are
hot enough for a woman.
I hate it when I come out and hear men say: my wife is
depriving me, she doesn’t let me touch her, she always has
a headache, she’s always busy, she always tired. She says: Oh
honey, I have taken care of the children, I did school
runs, I cooked, cleaned, did this and that. Oh please, I can’t
do anything with you tonight and your husband looks
at you and says, what about me? I go to work, I provide
for the family, I go out and do a lot of things as well
and I still have time and energy to want to come and be
with my wife and touch my wife, because like it or not,
that is a strong bond between a man and his wife.
Once that physical part of your marriage goes, it affects
a lot of things. Sex is not everything, yes I agree but if
that is absent in your marriage for a long time, it creates
a void and unfortunately sometimes men can’t hold back
as much as women can. It has been proven so many times.
So what I’m saying is if you knew you had issues with that,
why file in for marriage when you know that it’s for
better and for worse.
If he cannot come back and want to have physical
contact with you his wife, then who do you want him to
go to? Those nights that he comes back, looks at you
and in his head he’s thinking, oh my gosh, I have such a
sexy wife, tonight she’s going to hear something. If he
can’t come back, do that and know that you would not
respond then why did you marry him?
Being tired should not be an excuse, especially when your
husband wants that attention from you. Some women
would push the man away, first day, second day, one week,
two weeks; then physical contact is no longer routine
between man and his wife.
I always tell women that you don’t know how painful
rejection can be. You try and make a move on your
husband and let him hit your hand away and tell you
I’m tired.
I know that it happens to some women too, but more
women do it to men than otherwise. If you don’t agree,
please write to me and prove to me that it is men that
reject more because what I discovered in the research I’ve
been doing and the women I have been talking to is that
their husbands come to them and the women reject their
husbands with one excuse or the other.
The latest excuse for most women now is headache and
then the man would prove to you that according to
science, physical contact with a man can cure headaches.
Because I don’t want to write too much I would stop
here for now but I’ll surely complete this article next
week. So before you send in your thoughts and comments
please wait for the second part.

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Column by Stella Damascus