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Phones › Re: Blackberry Playbook: Anyone? by Niiade(m): 4:29pm On Jul 31, 2012
TCD i wanna ask a question. Must one have 2.0 Beta to be able to use android player.
Technology Market › Re: Do You Need A Brand New Playbook by Niiade(m): 12:19pm On Jul 26, 2012
If the store is a confirm and reliable store as stated by aieromon. i guess that cool info thanks again spoilerx. Hope you enjoying your playbook. your pin lets ping
Politics › Re: Sun Newspaper Editor, Steve Nwosu Shot By Bandits.. by Niiade(m): 11:38am On Jul 26, 2012
I laff for some people RIP ke, well na nairaland folks dey complain when post long, when he short the contact lens dem dey use go spoil LMAO grin cool
I hope he recovers fully and when he does he should go and withdraw large sums from the bank again he go know whatsup. HE DEAF TO CASHLESS POLICY NI abi him no be Information dealer.
Technology Market › Re: @-{DELIVERED Brand New Blackberry Playbook**Pre-0rdered By Niiade Of Nairaland * by Niiade(m): 6:38pm On Jul 25, 2012
Oga Fhemmy me was thinking this thing takes a week o, 13 days after payment to ship. Shey no be another 26 days to collect so hmmm I for kuku wait till december o
Romance › Sorting Yourself Out by Niiade(op): 6:10am On Jul 25, 2012
A friend of mine that I hadn’t
seen in ages called me one day
and invited me to her place for
lunch. I’m really not one to go
out a lot but I hadn’t seen her
in a while so I took up the
offer. When I walked into the
place I was shocked because
what I thought was going to
be a one-on-one lunch turned
out to be what people would
call a ‘get-together’.
I was a bit sceptical about staying too long but I
eventually did and I enjoyed every minute of it, especially
because of the movie we watched.
The story line was about a man who was married to a
beautiful woman; they had lived together for a while,
they had three children and everything seemed perfect
but after a while the guy started cheating on his wife.
The woman found out eventually and she was so
unhappy and distraught, she confronted him and asked
why he would do that to her.
Obviously, the man started apologizing but after a while
he stood up and said: “You know what? Maybe I’m not
sorry. I know that I did something wrong, as a Christian
I shouldn’t have done that because I have offended God,
I’m begging God to forgive me but the truth is, you
pushed me to it! “You stopped being you, the woman that I
married, you became a mother, you lost everything, the
passion and the romance. I’m truly sorry, I work so hard,
I travel all over and I found someone who gave me
excitement.”
He continued: “Yes, in my moment of passion I messed it up
and sinned but the truth is there was just this void that
needed to be filled and I got tempted and I fell, I’m sorry.”
After the long speech, she was still annoyed, she told him
that he couldn’t cheat on her, she had given him her
everything; she had given him her life, her years, she had
lost her identity and the man was shocked and then he
shouted, “who asked you to lose your identity?”
When the movie ended, there was an argument as usual
because some people were for and against the man,
especially the ladies. They were all going on about how
she left her family, married the man, managed the home,
taught and took care of the kids, and she barely had
time for herself. To be a perfect wife and a perfect mother,
you can’t do anything else with your life because those
are two very tasking jobs, so he had no right to cheat
on her.
What made them even angrier was that she shouldn’t
have forgiven him, and then the men started; they
defended themselves by saying: “How can you say that? It
was very clear that she pushed him. If she didn’t lose the
passion and romance, would he have had to go out of his
home to get some?” And the argument went on and on.
Now, we can look at this issue from both ways. As a
woman, I know you would expect me to say he cheated,
he’s the one to blame, he can’t have a relationship with
another woman outside when he has a very beautiful wife
sitting at home, and she has kids to take care of. She’s also
taking care of his needs, making sure everything is right,
so he has nothing to complain about and then he goes
and cheats on her. But the truth is: he’s human. Don’t get
me wrong, I’m not encouraging unfaithfulness but as
women, the first thing that we try to do to please
everybody is try to lose our identity and that’s the first
and biggest mistake that women all over the world
make.
A man meets you, you look good, you are intelligent,
you’re exciting, you have a lot of romance and passion
and then you get married and start to have children
and all of a sudden you forget the whole essence of
marriage because you want to be the perfect mother, wife
and you want everyone to be pleased. But the truth is
you can’t please the whole world.
You must take care of your family but not to the point
where you would lose yourself, your identity, lose the
passion and the romance.
This is directed to women, I won’t lie, truth is: we push the
men. I know that every man should have self control, I
preach that a lot, every man should know that he must
be faithful to his wife; but then again, what are you
giving the man at home?
All of a sudden you become a missionary mother, yes, you
can pray and read your Bible but God also says that the
marriage is his institution. It is more important than any
other thing. It is more important than even your own
family, as painful as it sounds, that’s the truth!
There’s a portion in the Bible that says just do right by
your marriage before you can come and say you want
to serve God. God would have you as a married woman,
make sure that your marriage is fixed before you come to
Him and say I’m coming to serve God.
I have heard a lot of stories in the past of how men come
to church and hate the whole idea of worshipping God
because their wives no longer have time for them at all.
They would rather spend Monday, Tuesday and
Wednesday fellowshipping then Thursday, Friday going
to do evangelism; Saturday is for choir rehearsals and
cleaning the church, and on Sunday going to church
for service.
What time is left for your family? So already you have
made the man feel that he is in competition with your
religion.
Meanwhile serving, worshipping and being a child of God
is not about you going to church everyday of your life.
I’m not saying it’s a bad thing but if your husband needs
your attention, please give him that attention. You are
supposed to be his go-to person. He must be able to know
that when he comes back home, he’s not going to meet a
wife who is wearing bubu or tying wrapper on her chest
all day. No!
He wants to be excited as well, he wants to have passion
and romance, especially as they grow older they require
more attention.
Forgive me for saying this but when people say ‘you have
to start taking care of your husband as if he’s a baby’ a
lot of women misunderstand that statement and start
to treat their husbands like they are their sons.
It simply means that they need more attention, they need
petting, they need you to tell them all those things that
they want to hear, they need you to make them feel
wanted and special, they need you to make them feel like
they are really loved and cared for.
All those things you used to do, all those nice love notes
and messages that you used to send that made him feel
special, all those times that you would surprise him, all
those times that you would be the first one to make the
move, it’s all gone and I wonder why.
You can’t expect him to be the one to always want to
hold your hand or touch you at night. He’s your
husband! Sometimes, they need to feel that they are still
sexy, they need to feel like they still look good and are
hot enough for a woman.
I hate it when I come out and hear men say: my wife is
depriving me, she doesn’t let me touch her, she always has
a headache, she’s always busy, she always tired. She says: Oh
honey, I have taken care of the children, I did school
runs, I cooked, cleaned, did this and that. Oh please, I can’t
do anything with you tonight and your husband looks
at you and says, what about me? I go to work, I provide
for the family, I go out and do a lot of things as well
and I still have time and energy to want to come and be
with my wife and touch my wife, because like it or not,
that is a strong bond between a man and his wife.
Once that physical part of your marriage goes, it affects
a lot of things. Sex is not everything, yes I agree but if
that is absent in your marriage for a long time, it creates
a void and unfortunately sometimes men can’t hold back
as much as women can. It has been proven so many times.
So what I’m saying is if you knew you had issues with that,
why file in for marriage when you know that it’s for
better and for worse.
If he cannot come back and want to have physical
contact with you his wife, then who do you want him to
go to? Those nights that he comes back, looks at you
and in his head he’s thinking, oh my gosh, I have such a
sexy wife, tonight she’s going to hear something. If he
can’t come back, do that and know that you would not
respond then why did you marry him?
Being tired should not be an excuse, especially when your
husband wants that attention from you. Some women
would push the man away, first day, second day, one week,
two weeks; then physical contact is no longer routine
between man and his wife.
I always tell women that you don’t know how painful
rejection can be. You try and make a move on your
husband and let him hit your hand away and tell you
I’m tired.
I know that it happens to some women too, but more
women do it to men than otherwise. If you don’t agree,
please write to me and prove to me that it is men that
reject more because what I discovered in the research I’ve
been doing and the women I have been talking to is that
their husbands come to them and the women reject their
husbands with one excuse or the other.
The latest excuse for most women now is headache and
then the man would prove to you that according to
science, physical contact with a man can cure headaches.
Because I don’t want to write too much I would stop
here for now but I’ll surely complete this article next
week. So before you send in your thoughts and comments
please wait for the second part.

From
Column by Stella Damascus
Technology Market › Re: @-{DELIVERED Brand New Blackberry Playbook**Pre-0rdered By Niiade Of Nairaland * by Niiade(m): 3:41am On Jul 22, 2012
Item still outside Nigeria Oga Fhemmy?
Technology Market › Re: @-{DELIVERED Brand New Blackberry Playbook**Pre-0rdered By Niiade Of Nairaland * by Niiade(m): 2:42pm On Jul 18, 2012
YIPPE, I HEAR BACKLOGS ARE ALMOST CLEARED OUT. NAHCO NO MESS ME AND OGA FHEMMY UP O
Phones › Re: Blackberry Playbook: Anyone? by Niiade(m): 5:21pm On Jul 15, 2012
TCD wanna ask, can one download the OS2 on a laptop and sideload it on a PB. Thanks
Technology Market › Re: @-{DELIVERED Brand New Blackberry Playbook**Pre-0rdered By Niiade Of Nairaland * by Niiade(m): 10:20pm On Jul 13, 2012
Abi oga fhemmy, kai my eye don dey enter 64gb sef she ;DAbi oga fhemmy, kai my eye don dey enter 64gb sef she
Phones › Re: Blackberry Playbook: Anyone? by Niiade(m): 9:57am On Jul 13, 2012
plans to remove sideloading from the 2.1 version on the way o. na wa o
Fashion › Re: Are T.M.Lewin Shirts Really Made In Aba?? by Niiade(m): 10:31pm On Jul 12, 2012
Well I guess quality is very important, Respect those striving to make better shirts in Nigeria, Not those who make sub-standard ones n wanna sell em at the same price of a real Tm shirt.
I bring in shirts on the regular, don't trust sultan or suntan anymore.
I bring my shirts in from the UK and sew some of my shirts N wears here in Nigeria too, we really growing n improving.
If you wanna buy from the uk, shirts, shoes even Solid trouser materials. Beep me up would get em for you at very good prices n the quality is 100% CERTAIN.
23B9F9DB or call 08025140064.
Technology Market › Re: @-{-BNIB 64G Blackberry Playbook**Pre-0rdered By Alstacs Of Nairaland*DELIVERED* by Niiade(m): 6:42pm On Jul 11, 2012
see my Ogas o, abi make you first sign this deal to me, make i approve am with some notes in envelope or else hehehehhehe.
Technology Market › Re: BOLD 9780 For Sale by Niiade(op): 7:37am On Jul 11, 2012
Thanks Achodave I have phones to sell don't need extra
Technology Market › Re: BOLD 9780 For Sale by Niiade(op): 10:55pm On Jul 10, 2012
Don't know the meaning o Achodave.
Phones › Re: Blackberry Playbook: Anyone? by Niiade(m): 9:40pm On Jul 10, 2012
TCD please what is the average size of a good app on playbook. Wanna know which option would be best for me thanks.
Technology Market › Re: BOLD 9780 For Sale by Niiade(op): 9:25pm On Jul 10, 2012
One sold one more to go
Price 35k
Technology Market › Re: Pre-order your Technologies From USA and Canada Few days deliv by Niiade(m): 6:53pm On Jul 10, 2012
Fhemmmy: Thanks for your time on our thread.
We take pride in what we sell and we yet remain humble.
Please note that we will be able to deliver to P.H a clean used BB 9320 at a cost of only 26K Naira, while a Brand New will be 46K Naira
Looking forward to your business
For real fhemmy, well me need playbook sha grin
Technology Market › Re: @-{-BNIB 64G Blackberry Playbook**Pre-0rdered By Alstacs Of Nairaland*DELIVERED* by Niiade(m): 4:33pm On Jul 10, 2012
My bad, so sowe for crashing in, My apologies to Mr ALstacs and you Oga Fhemmy. Thanks
Phones › Re: Blackberry Playbook: Anyone? by Niiade(m): 4:32pm On Jul 10, 2012
Mr Fhemmy oya prices o< sowe for crashing on the other thread my bad sir. thanks
Technology Market › Re: @-{-BNIB 64G Blackberry Playbook**Pre-0rdered By Alstacs Of Nairaland*DELIVERED* by Niiade(m): 2:51pm On Jul 10, 2012
Oga Fhemmmy, Oya price of Brand New playbook all memory sizes o. thank you
Technology Market › Re: BOLD 9780 For Sale by Niiade(op): 12:35pm On Jul 10, 2012
pics

Technology Market › BOLD 9780 For Sale by Niiade(op): 12:22pm On Jul 10, 2012
I have two bold 4 for sale. they are great working condition and no issues whatsoever.
call 08025140064, niiadenii@gmail.com or 23B9F9DB
Phones › Re: Unlocking Trial Version Of Repligo Reader 2.1.0.1 On Bb by Niiade(m): 12:52am On Jul 09, 2012
Please help with the keys. Thanks a lot lovely having wonderful people here on NL. Pin is 23b9f9db.
Technology Market › Re: @-{-BNIB 64G Blackberry Playbook**Pre-0rdered By Alstacs Of Nairaland*DELIVERED* by Niiade(m): 10:12am On Jul 07, 2012
Lovely Job Oga Femmy, I wanna know, how long would it take to get a playbook to me in nigeria once payment has been made?
Phone/Internet Market › Re: Clean BOLD 4 And TORCH 1 For Sale by Niiade(op): 7:24pm On Jul 01, 2012
S.A
Phone/Internet Market › Clean BOLD 4 And TORCH 1 For Sale by Niiade(op): 11:17pm On Jun 29, 2012
Neatly used Uk Phones for sale
BOLD 4 --- 36k. (Black and white)
TORCH --- 38k. (White)
Naija Used
Torch---- 40k (white and RED)
Holla 08025140064
Niiadenii@gmail.com
Phone/Internet Market › Re: Do U Have Bold4 And Torch1 To Sell? by Niiade(m): 11:10pm On Jun 29, 2012
Clean torch 37k, Bold 4 35k holla 08025140064
Technology Market › Re: Clean Bb Curve2,c6,n96,n73 And Nokia Dstv Receiver 4sale by Niiade(m): 9:33pm On Jun 28, 2012
I need the curve two. Details n pics pls send to niiadenii@gmail.com. Thanks
Phone/Internet Market › Re: Blackberry 8530 Curve 2 - 13K , Blackberry 9300 Curve 3 -17K , 9700- 20K by Niiade(m): 8:14am On Jun 28, 2012
Curve 2 needed
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Why Do Fans Of Other Clubs Hate Arsenal So Much? by Niiade(m): 6:11pm On Jun 27, 2012
nolongtin: Are u for real...i have had a season ticket 4 10years bruv.u dont know wat ur taking about.
what that suppose to mean uhnnnn Mr Ticket
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Why Do Fans Of Other Clubs Hate Arsenal So Much? by Niiade(m): 6:06pm On Jun 27, 2012
FUNDING OF THE STADIUM.
after applying for public subsidy and REJECTED.The club therefore sought other ways to generate income, namely by adopting a policy of buying football players for a low transfer fee and selling high as well as agreeing sponsorship deals. Arsenal recouped over £50 million from transfers involving Nicolas Anelka to Real Madrid (economics Wenger na him work be that)
In September 2000, Granada Media Group purchased a five-percent stake in Arsenal at a price of £47 million.[35] As part of the acquisition, Granada became the premier media agent for the football club, handling advertising, sponsorship, merchandising, publishing and licensing agreements.[35]


The Emirates Stadium sign
After announcing pre-tax loss of £22.3m for the financial year 2001–02, the club formulated plans to reduce their wage bills in order to continue with the stadium work (REASON U DO SLAVE TRADE N PAY LOWER INCOME).
Arsenal secured a £260 million LOAN from a group of banks led by the Royal Bank of Scotland in April 2003, the club suspended work on Ashburton Grove citing in a statement, "We have experienced a number of delays in arrangements for our new stadium project in recent months across a range of issues. The impact of these delays is that we will now be unable to deliver a stadium opening for the start of the 2005–06 season."Due to lack of money arsenal urged interest in a relaunched bond scheme via the club website.club planned to issue 3,000 bonds for between £3,500 and £5,000 each for a season ticket at Highbury, then at Ashburton Grove.[38] Arsenal supporters reacted with surprise to the reintroduction of the bond scheme with AISA chairman Steven Powell adding: "We are disappointed that the club has not consulted supporters before announcing a new bond scheme."

Sportswear provider Nike signed a contract extension with Arsenal in August 2003 to remain as the club's official kit supplier.[46] This was presented as a solution to the stadium financing; in addition to paying £55 million over seven years, Nike paid a minimum of £1 million each year as a royalty fee, dependant on sales.[47] Wenger said of the announcement: "It has been a big target of mine to participate in pushing the club forward and relocating to a new stadium is a necessity as it will enable us to become of one the biggest clubs in the world (I NEVER SEE ANY CUP SINCE THEN O) Interest on the £260 million debt was set at a commercial fixed rate over a 14-year period.It was the first publicly marketed, asset-backed bond issue by a European football club and due to be paid back over a 25-year period;

On 5 October 2004, Emirates Airline signed a 15-year contract with Arsenal estimated at £100 million. Under the deal, the group secured naming rights to the stadium and shirt sponsorship when the club's deal with O2 expired at the end of the 2005–06 season. The stadium name is often colloquially shortened from "Emirates Stadium" to "The Emirates",


See the fact of how the stadium came to light dont make it sound like it was caused by the fact you didnt buy players, you sold everything sell and borrowed everthing borrowable to build a stadium. still Old trafford is bigger and better. still The Chelsea club onwer has spent over 1 billion pounds on his club. meaning he can buy and build two EMIRATES and still SMILE. Abegi you are just making the usual Arsenal noise ehn.................................. You na dey try but una no be am at all

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