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Troubledman:
So this night. I did a horrible thing. I stuck my wife thrice on her back. Yes, I know it's horrible and I should be burnt at the stake. And I am truly sorry for it but... There's always s back story.

I went through university without ever getting into a fight. I swore of physical violence since 2005. I havent raised my hands at anyone ever. Not to defend myself. Not to fight. In those years. I don't even let people fight aroujd me. I am known everywhere as the peace keeper. Which is why I feel very horrible about my action tonight.

Since we got married. I have noticed this trait of aggression in the person I married. Always quick to anger and insults everytime. In the last couple of days. We've had course to stay with my mum.

Earlier in the day. We were arguing about something (not so important to be honest) and my mum remarked that we should do better that were a new couple and we shouldn't be arguing like this all the time. She even joked that she was going to buy a cane for both of us.

Barely 2 mins later another discussion came up and this lady started raising her voice again. This time in full view of my mum. I just kept telling her please take it easy, take it easy. I even mentioned to her that this was what mummy was just telling us about. She would not bulge. Eventually my mum chipped in and said to me to keep quiet. So I did. When she finished shouting she stood up and left for the room.

After a while , my mother went into the room to talk to her. Even asked her not to be annoyed. Invited her to eat. She brought the food to me but I was too annoyed to eat. How is my wife shouting at me in front of my mum ? So I walked away, went out for a stroll. When I came back. She was in the room, she I stayed back in the living room. She came to me, started telling me that I should not let her be angry at me, changing the story that I was shouting at her earlier and she didn't say a word, I was livid but this didn't tip me. I just told her off and went back to do my work. She came back again started off another tirade in the middle of the night btw and ended it with saying "your mother is responsible for this"

Now, that's what made me mad. From the start I have warned my family not to interfere in mine. Not my dad or my mum have ever told me or directed me on how to do in my marriage to her. I imagine that because her display was in public today that's why my mum commented. Even on Wednesday she was talking to me harshly in the car and my mum was there and she never talked.

So anyway I stood up from where I was went to meet her and struck her about 3 times in the back warning her never to involve My mother in our talk again.

Then she shouted screaming at 2 am. Cursing me. Mt mum came out to even try to calm her down. She turned to my mum as well. Saying she knows what she'll say. That she supports me etc. Even when the poor woman didnt say anything. She's gone off now. Milking it. Saying I beat her. Should I add that she came back slapped me square on the face, hit my chest. Even dragged my mother to the floor

But everyone is on me. I'm the woman beater. Domestic violence.

Honestly, I'm just tired of this marriage. I married for peace this woman gives me trouble everyday. I chose to stay in the living room for peace tonight. She brought her madness to meet me.

I agree I messed up. I perhaps shouldn't have hit her. I regret it. It's going to go with me. But I was too pushed. She continues to do this knowing I wouldn't talk and st the time I believed that's the only thing she'd respond too. I know this could probably get me a lot of hate but I'm also hoping someone could see reason in what's happening

Im sorry it's so long. I didn't think about it. I just created this account and started writing. Apologies for likely typos too

TroubledMan

Divorce her bro.

Any woman that can't give you peace needs to leave. Don't tolerate nonsense cause
Of love or society. They're many many good women out there.

Kobojunkiee:
No he is not. He spoke honestly given that he is aware those songs are meaningless when all is said and done. They are not commanded by God and as such are not of God. They also serve as a way of deluding you, the followers of these men, into believing that the emotional highs you get from time to time singing those songs have something to do with God.

You again? You are simply an Antichrist.
I guess God also didn't command David to sing and dance or he never appreciated the children of isreal singing and dancing on no their way out of Egypt?.
I shall wonder for you. Talking nonsense.

Even the Christ said the Angels of God are constantly Praising him. That is singing too.

Kobojunkiee:
No he is not. He spoke honestly given that he is aware those songs are meaningless when all is said and done. They are not commanded by God and as such are not of God. They also serve as a way of deluding you, the followers of these men, into believing that the emotional highs you get from time to time singing those songs have something to do with God.

You again? You are simply an Antichrist.
I guess God also didn't command David to sing and dance or he never appreciated the children of isreal singing and dancing on no their way out of Egypt

Throwback:
I bear Tinubu witness.

It is Tinubu that you need in your life.

Do you want to fly like Lagos or you want to tiptoe like Anambra?

Economic prosperity driven by infrastructure knows no religion.

Person wey no get Job or good salary no dey drop offering for church.

Secure your economy 1st, with a 1st class brain.

No go lose guard with empty promises of a desperate political prostitute hunting for easy ticket.

E get why.

Just like you and apc told us in 2015 ba?

Frigga13:
Honestly I don’t understand why all this insults on Tinubu’z age and health..

Let your votes do the talking.

When we say obi and his IPOB bingos are fools .. Na so e be..

Abuse their sick parents.. bingos will look for head to cut..

And the believe curses abuses and insults is right because “ oyibo” Dey do am

Power to the people
North 2023

E too sure

No be noise and media

apc did more than this to Gej so shutup.
There is a trending video where Tinubu even insulted a Gej appointee that was an old man

GoodLife4live:
Keepshot anambra state that he governed it is all ready a retard state...
He couldn't revived anambra economy naa nigeria economy him want revive ? Abeg 5alk another thing...

The truth be say , obi is a complete failure..
A scammer...

and yet Anambra has the least poverty apart from Lagos.

jrusky:
Oh so you want us to shake the table is that what you want? Because I was thinking I was responding to normal human not knwn you are one of those defiants that lack mental status to read between 2 lines.

You can shake a thousand tables...na ur business. As a Christian, Obi has the right to attend any church he deems fit at whatever time he wants and place he wants.

When Tinubu met Adebayo did we go crying wolf? Nooo.
When he met Oyedepo did we cry wolf? No.
It is his right just like it is Obi's right as a Christian to go to whatever church he wants to worship.

Why didn't you talk about Udom and okowas wife that was there? Why Obi?
Shey una talk say he is structureless? Why bother about a structureless obi? Is he the only Presidential candidate running? What of the rest?

jrusky:
But can attend Enenche church here Abuja week ago but can not attend Redeem as Catholic baa? Ok nah have hard you.

Same way Tinubu didn't do prayer in a mosque in Abuja, sokoto etc before but now he is doing it almost everywhere. The failure go still attend church soon. Lol

jrusky:
Did you read all I said before commenting. Pls read it slowly and by the way I didn't remember if ever quoted you or insulted you in the first place?

where d insult where I insult you? I simply said you're not a Christian simple.

If you were you will.know Obi is a Catholic and there's no way as a Catholic he will be attending redeem

wales4real:
At least we knew Tinubu for that from time. This sudden hypocrisy is too late.

lol Tinubu go to kano , sokoto etc to pray? Hahahahahahaha u this Yoruba Muslim ehn.

So as you re you expect obi who.is a Catholic to attend winners redeem etc?

Show me where your Vice president has ever attended Catholic church before 2014.

wales4real:
I can't believe someone that Obidients make so much noise about still run from one religious gathering to the other to seek sympathy votes. Hypocrisy!
Com'on Mr Obi, this is 2022! How many western world leaders that you desperately try preach their style do such a thing? Simplest economic question you struggle to answer and you are believing in miracles or what?

Obi is a Christian and has a right to go to any church he likes.

Maybe we should say same for Tinubu who you will see today in Abuja mosque, tomorrow in kano mosque etc.

highchief1:
an abnormal person is better than a dreamer and a delusional being.why do I think I’ll waste my votes on somebody that may lose his state.anybody not voting for tinubu in this election is mad.

a vote for Tinubu is a vote for Boko Haram Shettima.
Boko Haram wants to play a Yaradua hahahahaa

jrusky:
Let him go TB Joshua after the Redeem camp sorry presidency you won't get.

If you like go Guru shrine sorry presidency you won't get it.

Now suddenly turn Christain oh so where were you all these while it's now you know Redeem exist, Winners exist but were not relevant 3 or 4 years ago.

I'm a christain flesh and blood but you obi will never smell Aso Rock go back and tell your supporters they can bully or threat anyone to market you.

Bring soludo, nnamani, onu, okorocha, maduka, umahi, anyim even E-money I swear I will support them but obi never I repeat never.

Christian cor Christian ni.
So you expect to see Obi who is Catholic in redeem and winners? You get sense so?

Why we no see them your pastors for Catholic church on occasion?.
How come you Vice President has never been to a Catholic church.?.....big failure.

Throwback:
Tinubu, your past good jobdeeds and focused leadership will justify you.

It was you who as state Governor continued from where you left as a democracy activist, and continued to support other Democracy activists with their programmes.

You were there for journalists.

You were there for athletes/Sportsmen.

You were there for the performing arts.

You were there for other state governors that wanted to learn how you were growing Lagos State economy and delivering services to the masses. Even Ngige visited you in Lagos as his 1st official visit after becoming Governor of Anambra in 2003. We saw what he achieved in 3yrs that the desperate ticket hunter could not achieve in 8yrs.

Irrespective of tribe and religion, you grew men and women and put them in position where they can continue the positive agenda.

That is why many are willing to repay your kindness and eager to reap rewards of your administrative excellence and innovative brilliance.

Tinubu, I bear you witness.

You have worked patiently without greed for power or desperation.

You are the President of Nigeria, effective 29th May 2023.

deceiving yourself

NuclearWinter:
Go and start with Chunua Achebe's There was a country where he dismissed Kaduna not being Igbo but from Delta.

You can't deny Okowa is igboness... He speaks Igbo, follow Igbo culture lol

NuclearWinter:
If I hear.

Tomorrow you will deny that Kaduna Nzeagwu is Delta and not Igbo

Even Okowa has said numerous times and proudly that he is Igbo.

No one deny Kaduna not being Igbo.

NuclearWinter:
The main agenda is to get rid of the APC from our national space

Only PDP can do this .

Tinubu's campaign is already flattering in the north where he hoped he will get at least 60% votes but as things stand now he will be lucky to see 5% votes from there.

Obi is getting zilch from the north . His only base is the SE.

The SS will continue voting for PDP as that's the main party there so no chance for obi and tinubu there.

SW will be dicey with Tinubu having a very marginal win over Atiku . Atiku will get at least 35-40% votes from places like Oyo, Osun and Ondo. Obi will try if he smells 5% from the SW


This is a repeat of the 1979 elections and it is split even between SE, SW and North

Every other noise is from the exorcised demons of IPOB driven to posses Obi's campaign. Ignore it.

if Atiku wins 2023 igbos still win. Why? Cause their own will be vice president. Lol

seunlayi:
It just a fact going by the way people are abusing the use of the word 'obedient'. No Nigeria politician is obedient. Obi is Obi

Obi himself knew how far he can go with this election unless it's not in this same Nigeria. Abiola was winning Tofa due to some factors, Obasanjo won because the North selected him and also Jonathan. Atiku is going to win 2023, the system has been in motion since 1914, adjusted in the 1960's, boosted in late 70's and 1999.
Who remembered what happened to Awo and Zik in 1979 & 1983?

The North hold the ace. See what happened when Atiku went for wedding last week, see the crowd, obi is not marketable in the North, forget media hype. PDP knew this and decided to jeopardise Wike's presidential ambition because they are experienced and knew they can't sell Wike in the SW not to talk of the North

Yes BVAS will help in the South and it will still help in the North......

But what we need is restructuring the nation, we can't continue this way.

And lastly, what had changed over the last 3years? Was Obi not Atiku's boy that decided to run away from pdp when he knew Wike will be contesting? I like Obi but he still need to learn the game. Was he not the one that specifically promised not to leave apga .... Why will you swear staying your family ?

better Atiku takes it instead of Tinubu.
Lol don't forget Atiku vice is Igbo lol

FreeStuffsNG:
Lobatan.
Please vote for Asiwaju Tinubu.

He is the best, the most brilliant, visionary, competent and the most capable of all the candidates.

He is very hardworking and patriotic to our national ideals. Asiwaju Tinubu will take Nigeria to greater heights.
No
God bless Nigeria for ever!
check my signature for free stuffs!

not to forget he also has a Boko Haram member as his Vice

Iziquiel:
Yes na, the same idiots that voted Ikpeazu, Ugwuanyi, Theodore Orji, Peter Obi, Martin Elechi twice.

Yeye dey smell!

Lol if Obi is a failure than Tinubu is the definition of Failurism.

MrBrownJay1:
the above is a failed state of mind....the only woman you will attract with money is a golddigger who A) is only interested in your money
and B) will leave you when a man with more money than you comes along.

BTW a marriage being sweet is irrelevant to how much money you have, and instead its all to do with the type of wife you marry.

Hmm noted

festacman:
It is wrong for Simon Lalong to have brought the Pope into Nigerian politics but it is neither a venial sin nor a mortal sin for for him as a Catholic to be the DG of Tinubu campaign. He is just an APC member appointed by his party to lead its national campaign.

If you don't like muslim-muslim ticket, vote against it but don't demonize a faithful for expressing his political rights.

the idiot dragged the pope into it. He should be stripped off his title

festacman:
It is wrong for Simon Lalong to have brought the Pope into Nigerian politics but it is neither a venial sin nor a mortal sin for for him as a Catholic to be the DG of Tinubu campaign. He is just an APC member appointed by his party to lead its national campaign.

If you don't like muslim-muslim ticket, vote against it but don't demonize a faithful for expressing his political rights.

the idiot dragged the pope into it

This has been on my mind for days now.
Last week I was talking to my friend who is planning notto get marry but just be a baby daddy due to the failure of marriage this days.
So I told him he shouldn't worry. He should just hustle hard, make money and be rich and his wife will worship the ground he steps on. He will get any woman of his choice.

Being on nairaland for long have also created that idea in my head. Make money n every woman will come . Because with Money you can provide for a woman and she won't complain.
So married men and women here....is it true that if you're Wealthy your marriage will be sweet?

ShaqFu:
Of course, man must wack. But you are not wacking are you? This is the reason you're ranting and complaining because your stomach is as empty as your head. Low budget losers like yourself should go and get a life and stop plaguing the internet with your disobedient nature and your uselessness. Fool.

I'm not wackinh corrupt money.i rather choose to be OBidient and patriotic to my Nation for a better Nigeria.

How much Tinubu go pay me self? A better Nigeria will pay me more.

U are supporting Tinubu for 3 reasons

1. Tribalism
2. Religion.
3. The money you're gaining from him

ShaqFu:
Of course, man must wack. But you are not wacking are you? This is the reason you're ranting and complaining because your stomach is as empty as your head. Low budget losers like yourself should go and get a life and stop plaguing the internet with your disobedient nature and your uselessness. Fool.

I'm not wackinh corrupt money.i rather choose to be OBidient and patriotic to my Nation for a better Nigeria.

How much Tinubu go pay me self? A better Nigeria will pay me more

ShaqFu:
Didn't I say you're a poverty beaten bastard. This statement of yours show just how much hunger have rendered you an Internet twerp.

You want to eat whose money? Even the people in Obi's campaign won't even look to you once because you have nothing to offer. You failed at everything both online and offline.

Imagine you saying you're patriotic when it's hunger and poverty that made you the Patriotic, empty, hollow creature you are. Demented loser. Na hunger go kee u.

oga like I said keep it on. Chop tinubus money jor. Man must wack ... hahahahaa

LegalWolf:
Jonathan was disaster so is PMB. Anyone trying to sugarcoat it is either an slowpoke or does not have a functioning brain (and can be both though). So don't talk like we had better option. Having said that, the true Idi0ts are the ones who believe that their candidate, who is a solid member of the establishment, would do things differently.

no, I'm not angry with those that voted him in 2015. I'm angry with the fools and failures that voted him in 2019 and I bet buhari, you voted the dullard.

Jonathan's was a failure u voted out his party for failing. Apc has failed but tribalism , corruption and what you're gaining from this failed apc is making u consider voting them.back into power.

U guys are the problems of Nigeria no offense. U're reenforcing failures. Even if you don't want to vote Obi, then vote sowere votes others instead of voting back apc into power with a tap on the back that they have done well

ShaqFu:
The fool here is you, who is so bitter someone better than his entire generation of glorified losers is contesting for the office of President of Nigeria.

It is now obvious why you're so pained to the point the vein in your temple will pop any minute. Permit me to tell you I'll help assist in it because the world can do without the likes of bitter souls like you.

You impoverished whelp, You should first smack yourself wotowoto or whatever useless vocabulary online miscreants like you use to justify your more than foolish existence. Wasted piece of human trash.

You're an empty head. Enemy of Nigeria. Corrupt fool. I no blame you shall .. na hunger dey do you, if no be say I dey patriotic to my Nation I for join you chop Tinubu money.�����.

So bro, continue jor. Continue oooo after all you're hustling for your daily bread. Hahahahahah

ShaqFu:
Attacked Jonathan because he was the President of Nigeria. Now is Tinubu the President? You empty headed nincompoop.

empty headed fool like you ...you give what you can't take. Tinubu, buhari all of you apc insulted and attacked him. Attacked his wife. Was his wife the president of Nigeria? No. Yet you came for her. Called her "Shippotamus" etc.

Now you can't take what you give out. Lol. We go give una woto woto. What's comes around goes around.

ShaqFu:
I love this. Well done Chimaroke Nnamami. I like the violence you unleash on this so called Obidient losers.

I wonder why they always attack Tinubu. Why can't they just continue promoting their Obidient movement and stop the attacks on Tinubu. If Tinubu is unsellable to them, they should continue selling Peter Obi, I wonder why Tinubu being unsellable is giving them nightmares.

It's good what Chimaroke did. I love how he exposed that useless fellow. Kudos sir.

Same way Tinubu and failures like you attacked Jonathan. So e dey pain like this.

Iziquiel:
See, there is something most of you supporting Obi should know and that's respecting people's right to choose. You shouldn't all go about insulting people because they've contrary views to yours, because they prefer another candidate to yours. This is a democracy for Christ's sake.
Support and promote your candidate and allow others do the same even if you think their own candidate is the Devil.
Even the Creator gave us the free-will to make our choices.

Tell your fellow comrades say no be everybody fit accept insults. All of us are humans and have got blood running through our veins,because Nnamani is a Senator doesn't mean people should go insulting him and at the same time expect him to be cool with the insults.

it is that same right idiots have that's why they helped to elect buhari into power and today we are all suffering for it.

I fear noting but idiots in large numbers. They have the power to elect failures like themselves.