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PS: BTW, the last news I read had it that FFK isn't Yoruba. So, stop the hate, pls. [/quote]fani, u see ur life? Yorubas don dey 'dis-son' you, soon Nigeria go even 'dis-citizen' you. Na me be dis?

Fani is a woman's name and i suppose its really affecting this boy. GeJ, HELP KAYODE WITH A JOB, TWITTER NO BE OFFICE NA

Pre-marriage conselln are based on 1. Church doctrines, 2. Bibilical injunctions and societal/family values.

Some churches playdown on pre-marital sex while others do not. Other times, even churches that wed couple who hv had pre-marital sex insist on the lady not puttn on veil yet others ask cos its strictly unacceptable. Which means, the marriage wd be postponed and the couple-to-be penalised.

Counselln maing teaches u abt being married, and re-orient u on not just being a woman but a wife, mother and role model. Brb

zaimeg: Many yeye men do it. My neighbour then asked his wife to open her hand while kneeling down. He would then go on to flog her some strokes of the cane like a primary school teacher. I nicknamed him "Headmaster" thereafter.
What women endure in marriage!

its disheartening hearing what some women endure to be addressed as 'Mrs'. I wd need tripple grace to pull through such.

Pls, is there any particular reason why u must contact ur biological parents?

My brother, for now put every marriage tot on hold. U put all ur fingers in ur mouth at a time, u wd either be uncomfortable or u vomit. One step at a time.
Ur priority now shd be to finish ur schooln. Inbetween, u can build a relationship.

There is no fomular for wedding, its ur thing, u fix it how it wd suit u. Wedding is for a day, marriage is for life. Ur concern shd be having a fulfiled marital life.

No two families are the same, work out what wd make a home and not a house.

Money is gud but it is not the bases for successful marriage. If u hv a gud woman, wit same vision, u'll see dat its easier.

Dont marry a liabilty if u hv no gud job above all believe in God and be wise.

Oga, life no be rubber stamp. Its not where u are but where u are going. Thank God for some women who do not allow money define their emotions.

Before u condemn ur sister, pls find out who the man really is.

I wish i can tell u my story. A beautiful story of stones turned into cakes. It is well.

Infact, there are no songs anymore, what we have today is 'kwangolo' no inspirations, no rytheme, no rhymes, only parade of nudity and vulgar word. They all piss me off and above all that boy 'flavor' his music is on ban in my home. Either as a song or as a ringing tone. Rubbish.

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"For the past 33 yrs, I hv looked in the mirror every morning. And asked myself: ' if today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today! And whenever the answer has been ' No' for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something. Akezo"

Tell me Thank You

honestly for me, this has nothing to do with his job but his spiritual and moral personality. 'if i keeping doing this wrong, how wd i be remember incase of any eventuality philosophy' he must hv been someone with deep reflection abt life. If he did not die that day, he sure wd continue looking into the mirrow to caution himself.

Me i am found of sayin' oh no what wd Christ do in this situation' it sure keeps me in check. so?

Coco dear, it depends on the type of man. She knows her husband. If hot pepper go work, let her use it, if na i beg, gud and if na u go see craze, nne send dat demon out fast. What i respect a man for is his ability to know what is unhealthy to his marriage.8-)

She is just showing dominance trait. How can u stop her, stand firm and not just her even her twin. Insist she gives it back to her twin herself. Pls start now to teach them to hold hands, dance together, sing song of apprecition together, it helps enhance their bonds and reduce her dominace as well increase the others esteem.

Dont fail to add force where necessary but be cautious. Welcome to the world of mama ejimas

I disagree with ur calln this a bad habit. Habits are unatural tentencies. Most pple u find openinf their mouth hv health conditions. And it is unfair to make jest of them. Go close and ask them, when u sleep, u are insensitive of ur being and whatever happens then is beyond ur control.

I actally dont fancy it but i feel their pains too.

Ngokafor, are u for real? Nawah oo.

Op, well this is marriage and na deep sense person dey take drive safe. I wd advise her to discretly differ her education and join him. Atleast a year dat woul give her ample opportunity to give birth and be around to understand the man motives. If he is sincere with his motives and u are able to secure another admission, gudluck if not come back and complete ur studies here. Best of luck.

NB, u are not in bondage, it is a union bound in love!

gidjah: though u seem to have a point, but u more seem to be a hot blooded woman, pls don't spoil d good thing u n ur hussy had on, pls don't, I am a married too, once u put ds fore front all d time it may not go down well et oga be nice, calm n firm about it, but if u n ur hussy have built ip trist enough pls let it be.if u have some signs he is hiding certain things or truth about their moves, pls show d Woman some signs she ain't welcome in ur home.gd luck

my sister, we are all married and most hv their exs somewhere. First mariiage reuires absolute respect for each other an the vows. A responsible husband wd not even wait for the wife to complain before condemning the ex's attitude and wd do everything to stop her from visitn. If he is gud with the ladie's attitude, i am afraid.

If i am involved, na jeje jeje i go follow the matter but believe me, na that ex go take her hand advice herself.

If she ever visits again, jejelly lock the kitchen, all access doors and stay in ur bedroom. Dont even show concern she came around, after dat visit she go mind herself.

Since he says, she is a family friend, relax and plan urself. Prepare for a family visit to her home and find a way to introduce ur hubby to her hubby as her ex! After the visit everybody go respect himself. Nonsense.

Na wah

ariseandshine: Not all men my Sister. But which is more important Job vs Marriage and Family.

Everywoman is free to work. But no woman should be a banker. Not in Nigeria.

u are being myopic, believe me. There is no profession dat u dont see these things. Its about the person u are, some women hv been able to hv a successful career in the banking sector with their motherly dignity intact. Who are the saints? Teachers, nurses, laywer, doctors? Or who? I hate what some management of banks do yet i am at liberty to give in or boothout.

Jerry24kay: m telling u ... this guy Bleep up .... u didn't see first bank, zenith , nnpc to hack .. well thumps up for doing all that ....and why didn't he hack into a university n give himself admission... I wish am the guy ..

like once he graduates from the Uni, he would become pesident GEJ? Is college of education a nusery school?

I specially remember today Mrs. Leticia Anyanwu(mama nde primary 1) u were a teacher and a mother! U took us more than just ur pupils, u made coming to school a fun, though no school buses then yet u wd come so early to pick us and we wd gladly sing thru the streets. Then u wd share akara and make us hold our hands together to dance our morning jingles.

U taught us in a special way that enabled some of us enjoye double class promotions. No wonder u earned that famous name, mama nde primary 1.

U are late yes but u live in my heart always. Adieu mama anyi!

And to u:

Mr. onyeneke- english teacher
Mr. Op- economics
Mr. Iheanacho- dean of studies
Mr. Akams - Accounts teacher.

You all are remembered and appreciated.

Dear poster, sorry for the ordeal.
I advice u visit another branch, ask of ur statement of account for the period in view, that wd help u understand the channel of the said transaction. Then contact ur lawyer to write the branch and coping the managing director and the internal audit dept. If nothing is down, invite the police to pock the branch manager and ur accounts officer and also either the fund tranfer officer or cash officer. Then allow the police investigate the matter, and be sure u hv a media covergae of the case, they wd not want u to drag their intergrity into mods.

Warning sir:
Be sure u hv a case, banks wont fall for clumsy allegations!

Whenever I remember I would give account of every VAIN word i speak, i try harder to speak when necessary and what is necessary.

Jim Iyke u are in my prayers, i know u need us at this time and for your critics,, let their criticism spur u to remain saved! Look unto CHRIST the author and finisher of your faith.

cosmatika: Ppl can lie o. 1000 wrappers of dat will amount to #100,000,000. U urself check am na. Anyway it can be 1 of d signs end time

i tot he said, a packet of 1000 naira. Thats hundred thousand. N1000 x 100 pcs. Lol

giftnwala: what is wrong if he politic with the employement of 13000 teachers, have ur GEJ employed 13000 people and he wont use it as campaign slogan 4 2015 election? Ameachi is workin nd haters r dieing. You people should tell your GEJ 2 seat up. For me, i am from rivers state, i wont vote jonathan cum 2015 coz jonathan have not done anything to justify anyone's vote cum 2015 from any right reasoning nigerian. Jonathan shuld plz leave ameachi alone.

a man who talks too much shd be ready to kiss flies. Amaechi has plans to castigate someone thru this stagemanaged employment and believe me like Ohakim did, those teachers wd soon be shown the way out. Ask anambra teachers that were recuited by Ngige, ask imo pple, ask why peter obi is recruiting in October when he will be out by Novemeber.

They know our major problem is unemployment and now they are playn politics with the masses' situation. Shame on all of them.

I vote Barr. falana and Prof. Pat Utomi. I hv this feeling they woul represent well. For women, Oby ezekwesili. Its important we work with pple who hv like mind.

misterh: Talk of making a mountain outta a molehill. Why are security agents monitoring him? This is just insane. Gosh!

Lets also try to reason two-side-ways. This youn boy is also a potential security risk is not well managed, hv u reasoned that if not properly guarded that terrorist may use the boy? Govt's decision is not abt encouraging other children but to curb any further deviation which may influence him negatively.

The news of ur death Michael brought so much pain to the hearts of those that read ur story. U already prepared urself for the worst and here it came! With pains so deep in my heart, i want to say 'indeed u have defined love your neighbour in a more spectacular manner' Rest in peace Michael, the hero of our time!

ogugua88: How is that sane? So nonvirgins or those who've engaged in premarital sex should never be married?

pls dont crucify the pastor. He is only doing the will of God. Marriage is honourable, bed undefiled. But thank God for His mercies, no Godly pastor wd close eyes to premarital sex, he sure wd wed them after counselln and allowing them understand the grace of God on them. Besides, the couple-to-be must hv known the standard of the church,why go against it? God help us all.

damibravo: Simple Philosophy...

Premise 1- Nigerians Encourage Corruption
Premise 2- GEJ is the number one Nigerian...

Conclusion.............

can someone help me with that

I thought it is called Logics, philo na wetin inspire us na abi thru belief. Lol

ehixking: Let's think possitve!!!
Let's work on our mind set
Let believe that this is the only project that would work in Nigeria and it will

. I believe it would work, i believe its a great idea, i believe mostly its a classic platform for the government to use in ascertaining their industrilization growth. Only we shd be ready to articulate our needs right, not just being employed but having enabling environemnt to explore and become employers. We need the govt and they need us too. Keep the vision alive!

JMOI: A man who has the status of an Archbishop and Dean of the Anglican Church in Nigeria should move around with enough security detail. I wonder how he was kidnapped so easily.

If God does not watch over a city, in vain...........

Thank God for his grace and we are here today as graduates. Like i said before, this name is too direct and close edged. It will give room for calculated pressure and subsequent compromise. Secondly National association of nigerian graduates also is too broad, here we are sure talking abt both our corrupt leaders and even those selling our supposed jobs. This struggle is about eradicating unemployment and under-employment, it is an association of choice and dats the only way to keep the spirit of the fighters alive. When there is a cause, there is a might. Lets not give room to pple who will kill the dream. Even if those who are employed join, they wd be like senior friends and cd also help with opportunities in their organisations. Even though some of us are employed, we still feel the pains of our friends and relatives. The struggle shall not be in vain!

Ehis, i salute ur courage and wish the struggle a fruitful life. Here are my suggestion:
NAUG gives the association a closed edge. If one gets enployed, dat makes him a no-more memebr so, i suggest a name along,Nigerian youth struggle against unemployment and under-employment wd give more room and specific mission cause.

Put in ur plan, to schedule the next meeting outsude lagos, this wd help to bring national status to the stuggle.