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jashar:
Brokeassnigga
Dumblady
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Which one is broke ass nigga?

Because he can't pay 44k now he is broke.

It is alarming the way ladies of our generation reason.

Because you have more money than him or some people, you want to look down on others.

You don't know the hardships people are suffering in this country. Even if I was earning 300k a month I wouldn't waste 44k on something so so mundane as taking out a girl and two of her fat friends whom I don't know and who I didn't budget on.

Ladies nowadays think money grows on trees. They think everyone they meet is cashing out on scam or National Assembly.

The honest truth is that real women are few and hard to find nowadays.

proffemi:
The mistake some of you guys are making is to put words in my mouth. I never said ALPHA-MALE. I said "alpha in the relationship". That is, the dominant partner. Such a partner demands respect, and generally needs to earn it. Some of us believe being a gentlemen at the appropriate time is an excellent way for your woman to respect you. If being juvenile works for you (or others), great.

Hope you are clear about my usage now?

Which usage? Data usage or electricity usage...

Troll. Pay her no mind.

LifeofAirforce:
Loool

Taxi driver kwa ?

Well I won't mock men who drive taxi to feed their family .

Stay blessed bro .

Respect for this comment.

But ya babe suppose get more ass. As per airforce 1 like you.

Still not as bad as 2015 when he appointed Abba Kyari on the board of NNPC.

That man has looted NNPC dry!!!

solasoulmusic:
he watched her order right that’s where your real man comes out “Babe?How far”

Fair enough I agree. The story itself has a lot of plot holes to sink the titanic. So we cannot exactly say what he did or did not say during the course of the date.

solasoulmusic:
Wow I touched a nerve

I’m just being honest and being truthful you can insult me call me broke I’m not here to compare. Being honest about your budget is good because some people really are high maintenance that’s why I love my guy he no dey form she’s not your daughter lol you can’t control another adults actions if you didn’t set your boundary on budget.

Madame, you fail to forget there is always a budget, whether high or low. If the budgets is low men would tell you. But if the budget is reasonable and he believes he can cover it, then there is no need to say.

Daeylar:
Thank you jare.


The men really don't know when to hide their face in shame. Same as the people supporting him.

Amazing comment.

I don't understand all the people blaming the woman or complaining about how much food she ordered, and so what if she ordered N11k worth of food ?? ?? ??

It so irritating to do that "left my ATM card at home so can you pay for both pathetic joke" when you take someone out.

That part in bold is the truth.
Last paragraph is the whole truth.

Don't take someone out and start policing how much they can order. Na wa. If he doesn't have it he should chill, it's not by force to take someone on a date.

childish men and ladies everywhere. Defending the useless behavior of the man


The only part where the girl messed up is not having the exact amount of what she wanted to eat with her. So she could pay and walk off.
She really messed up there.

Haba babe it's called a budget. If I have 10k to spend I can categorically take you somewhere I feel 10k should be enough.

Look at it this way, I can take you to domino's and my mindset is okay max two medium pizzas about 8k and two drinks. However, the babe can see a large pizza, extra sides and a drink, bringing them bill way above the budget.

You statement 'if you don't have you should chill' does not make sense, because what I believe should be enough as long as I am paying should be enough. With your statement I can take a babe to chicken Republic and just to be on the safe side I should carry 20k. When I know 6k in chicken Republic is more than a stretch.

And besides a lot of babes on NL are hunger starved. The first thing they hear of date they hear food. I repeat if you are a babe and the first thing you hear when someone says let's go on a date is food, then you need to change the way you view dates and relationships. A date is for people to get connected with each other. It is meant for two people to know more about each other, wherever the plot is, as long as there is great ambiance and a good vibe, then it is a date. It not necessary for it to be a date when I take you to eat.

nahzyla:
No need for your plenty analysis abeg, the story is a lie. Twitter peep will fabricate anything to gain followers and trend.

What kind of restaurant serves dishes of 3,800 and eleven thousand? The price range is not even close. If it was a high end restaurant the guy's bill will not be so low. If it was a cheap eatary it wouldn't make sense for one dish to cost up to eleven thousand. What was she ordering? Three dishes at the same time abu wetin?

I sorry for girls coming to support guys on this thread. Its better you ignore threads like this because if their fellow man did stupid shi..t like this to a woman they will still gang up to praise him and bash the woman.

Haba Guy, meals range from different prices. He could have ordered a meal of 3k and a drink, the babe could have ordered some kind of fish platter, which is usually around 7 or 8k, a cocktail, extra 1.5k to 2.5k and a desert for another 2k, bringing the meal to around the price.

There are restaurants that have meals from 3k to 10k depending on the source of protein. Eg (you can't compare the price of chicken to that of shrimp or lobster)

FannySwindler1:
My dates pay for our meals except I decline and I insist on paying. No lies..fortunately they are not hungry Nigerians. Sometimes it's like a competition, when we both insist on paying for each other. Unlike a similar experience where I invited a Nigerian lady for day out first time meeting me, while she was in UK on visiting, she claimed she was out for her clothing shopping before going back to Nigeria. After buying her food, I accompanied her to shopping malls, she picked clothes for herself, friend and siblings. When we got to the payment section, she was standing with no intention to pay, not even reaching for her bag. No prior arrangement of me paying. I gladly paid the £236 bill. Not still satisfied, she went into other stores but couldn't find what she wanted. While seeing her off she still had the guts to ask me for money. That pissed me off and not the initial payment. What kind of lady does that? Now she claims she is into me and wants a relationship. I had to write her off. Poverty mentality.

You paid over 200 pounds for a dead, poverty stricken broad.

Guy you either have too much money or you have no sense... but I'll go with the former

See, these people don't deserve this treatment.

I was once like you, paying, forming Mr nice guy, Mr gentleman all that stuff is a lie.

I know you know there are a million people out there who deserve that cash, but for you to take 236 pounds and give the first homeless man you meet go hard you.

See your money is yours, if you don't give them all they would do is shout this guy is stingy, he can't spend on his woman etc. At least you are 200 pounds richer, and you can give that money to someone who actually cares.

Bluezy13:
What's the usefulness of seeing my comment on the other thread to you

You obviously owe maturity an apology

Guy, that is too harsh... lmaooo

Owe maturity an apology... I'm dead

ybalogs:
Election is coming, we'd be seeing lots of good things coming from our politicians just to deceive us again. Why not create the job before now ? Why always it's when election time comes knocking we see these kind of developments? We have a very big problem in this country. I really don't know who will help us.

Hey, the one in Abuja opened mid last year...

By my little understanding, this should not be allowed in FIFA. the fifa code or rules strongly advises against the sport being used as a means to further certain people or parties political agenda.

Ken4Christ:
These lawyers self. Should they be jubilating when the job is not done. They should press charges against the police for unlawful detention. If they can't do this, then, they are all cowards.

See your mouth. Keyboard warrior.

Someone just spent six days in kuje prison for no justifiable reason. You now don't want them to savour their release. Mind you, their release from prison is akin to a victory in this part of the world.

AnonyNymous:
So? When I was little used to dream I was taking a piss and then I'd wale up with pee all over my bed. She better go to a hospital to figure out whatever medical issue she's facing. Her body is facing pain in real life so her brain makes up something for her to dream, its really that simple.

Gbam!!!

Easily the most rational comment on this thread.

Martinez19:
Hi, bro. Any thing can be addictive if and only if it causes a surge of dopamine in the reward system. I won't go into details but popular substances and behaviour that fulfills this condition are alcohol, cocaine, methamphetamine, heroin, tramadol, codeine, marijuana, pornography and masturbation, morphine etc.

It's true that we are bound to have emotional problems in life but that doesn't mean that marijuana can cause emotional problems. Just like addictive substances and behavioural addiction, marijuana causes depression, anxiety and panic attacks and lack of motivation because, it downregulates brain receptors and neurotransmitter levels example of which is dopamine. This downregulation and reduced neurotransmitter level is also a cause of cognitive problems. You right that alcohol also cause cognitive problems, so those other addictive substances. It's all due to downregulation and hypofrontality - - - which are part of an addiction process.

Brain fog from cannabis is real. The withdrawal symptoms of weed is similar to that of Alcohol but science has it that 9% of cannabis user develop dependence.

OP do you know, that receiving a WhatsApp message from the babe you want to knack also causes a surge of dopamine. Anything in which can be classified as a reward is connected to the neuron that secretes the dopamine chemical. That's why social media is so addictive.

OP I know you know what you are talking about, so I wouldn't try and argue because I will lose.

My strong point is, all the harm you listed that Marijuana causes, cannot be compared to the harm caused by drinking a litre of coke everyday because that is physical harm, that is amputation, that is failure of one of your organs and that in most cases is death.

Fidelismaria:
Abi na

Last sentence is IT

don't eat suya it kills

Don't eat nkwobi it kills

Don't eat smoked fish it causes cancer

Haba

Wetin na

Abegi make dem leave us be

Guy no mind them.

I was reading some new study about alcohol and they said over consumption of beer shaves about 2 years of your life (or something like that).

The thing weak me, and I no dey drink.

If you now calculate all these things they say, my guy person go dey die as them dey born you.

EmmyDJourno:
Wait ooo, so you confirm he is a looter, you confirm he is a thief.........Oya go and form a Company and give a known looter and thief the helm of affairs

If you can defend a Thief, I have no words for you, cause that buttresses your moral sanctity

First of all, if Nigeria were a company it would already be filled with looters.

Secondly, you are innocent until proven guilty so all you say is mere speculation.

Thirdly, I never confirmed he is a thief I said might which is alleged and not confirmed.

Fourth, you are an idealist, and it is a good thing but you cannot be an idealist and expect things to work out for you in Nigeria.

Fifthly, Donald j trump, you wouldn't know the amount of embezzlement he has done in his real estate agency, through offshore account movement. But if trump was to be CEO in your company Im sure you wouldn't mind.

Sixth, populist ideas would not bare any fruit in this country. Track record is what we should be looking at.

Finally, you might come out and call me names for supporting an alleged thief (as you say), but do some more research about atiku and forget all this stories you hear about him. Be objective in your research, check out his companies, his investments in Nigeria, and his networking abilities worldwide. If after that you still see him the same way, then I wouldn't disturb you.

This is by the side, abacha was a great looter and that is confirmed but northerners would still tell you he was a better head of state than buhari.

Martinez19:
1) Marijuana is addictive. Many potheads are fond of saying that marijuana is not addictive, well it's clear to us, as in this case, that popular consensus doesn't reflect reality. I repeat, marijuana is addictive.

2) marijuana leads to certain emotional problems like:
a) depression
b) anxiety and panic attacks
c) lack of motivation
d) paranoia
e) detachment from reality.

3) marijuana leads to cognitive problems like :
a) working and short term memory problems. Here one has difficulty recalling information and difficulty reading and understanding (you find yourself reading the same line/words over and over again to retain this but it's futile)
b) trouble paying attention and concentrating.
c) forgetfulness.
d) confusion

4) Brain fog. This occurs and is different from the cognitive problems even though they do co-occur.

5) Withdrawal symptoms and post acute withdrawal syndrome in weed exists.

6) cannabis use disorder otherwise known as marijuana addiction is now an official diagnosis.

So these are the facts about weed and side effects on mental health. If you are having problems quitting weed, see a doctor or if you have not taken weed, don't try it. Though weed doesn't necessarily stops one from being "successful" in life, it stops one from fully living up to their potential.

On addiction, everything is addictive. Sex is addictive. Alcohol is addictive. Playing video games is addictive.

On emotional problems, we have emotions we are bound to have emotional problems in life, marijuana is not the source of emotional problems.

On the cognitive aspect of the brain, I can agree to that it causes short term memory loss. But it is the same thing with alcohol. (Check the new studies that have come out)

Brain fog, I don't know what you mean by that.

Withdrawal symptoms is the same thing with addiction, no matter whatever you do and you get addicted, when you try and stop it is hard. However, marijauana does not give you the alcohol or cocaine kind of symptoms were you lose weight, fall sick and shit.

All in all, I'm not advising anyone to smoke or not to smoke. My advice is live the life you want because if you listen to half of the things people say about what is harmful to your health, you should be dead already.

Captaynbee:
Oga Dem no dey import codeine
No come dey form deep for here

Chiaman dem dey import codeine, if you no know check it.


Funny enough I know what you mean when you say they don't import it, you mean the cough syrup. I am talking about the codeine chemical itself. It is imported. Codeine, promethazine they are all imported.

Roger3D:
We also want the national assembly to as a matter of urgency pass a law mandating the death penalty for anyone caught smuggling the drug into the country else this ban will not work

Haba death penalty for codeine smuggling, then we might as well give you the post as the executioner.

Since you want to see them dead, you might as well be the person sending them to the afterlife.

It's sad, but the truth is it will cost Nigeria way more to police and regulate the importation and distribution of codeine than to outright ban it.

Our system is bad

EmmyDJourno:
This man should just go and rest abegg

By your precedent we know what you can and will do(Looted public funds and opened a University: We are still coming to collect it back)

People like Atiku have built their wealth by looting, so find it very hard to maintain it without looting, cause they can not inspire investors confidence

A man that can not travel to America wants to be President.......Do we even have a National Conscience

Is it by travelling to America. I'm tired of all this travel to America nonsense... PMB that can go to Erica freely before he became President what did he do with it.

Aminu does not need to go to America, he has people from America come to him.

Looting this Looting that... every third world country who were independent in the late 20th century suffered the same thing we suffer now, China that is all high and mighty 50 years ago were more or as corrupt as us.

The problem with Nigeria is not the person but the system. However. We need the right person to change/upgrade the system.

Do you think if trump or Obama were Nigerian presidents they wouldn't have looted... or bush; bush would have cleaned our accounts to zero.

I look at skills, atiku might be a thief in the past but compare it with his present track record and you wouldn't be able to hate.

Highest employer of labour in about 3 states in Nigeria, talk less if the work he does in the south-south.

I don't care about thief's, because the better the system the harder to steal.

The most important thing a President should have in ruling Nigeria is man management/ human resource management, and I can't fault Atiku for that.

BedLam:
The same downstream sector they are exiting in Ghana. Lol

You have a point. Maybe ghana's profit is not holding up. Who knows.

I'll just say this, upstream oil exploration is a very dangerous game one mistake and thats the end. I'd advise they enter midstream first. Even dangote is not in upstream but in midstream, hence the refinery in lagos.

ncoolsome:
The company, majority owned by billionaire, Femi Otedola, has also been in talks with a major refinery to form a strategic partnership for local refining of petroleum products.



Ur statement shows y the rich would always be rich...this guy knows importing fuel would soon go extinct with dangote refinery n co...so he has decided to partner n build than keep importing..

Morning, I just wanted to say that fuel importation is not going anywhere at the moment. What dangote's refinery is capable of producing is not going to dent the business because dangote refinery would produce about 65 mil litres of pms in a year and that amount is what we consume in two days. According to statistic Nigeria consumes about 35 million litres of pms a day.

So don't worry femi's downstream business is still secured. I believe the move he is making is the best. Less risk and more reward.

BedLam:
That is what happens when you are not innovative just like most other Nigerian businesses like Dangote and Globalcom. These guys just rake in analogue money with no innovation on their side. After many years, these people can't drill oil. We still use Foreign companies to drill our own oil. Meanwhile China the world's largest importer of oil has one of the biggest Oil companies in the world.

You hear of Gazprom of Russia, Saudi Aramco and you wonder what we are doing in this part of the world.

The future will tell. I'm sure one day, cement won't be tasting this sweet.

Haha, drilling oil is not beans... after licensing you would still need a whole lot of funds in order to initiate. Please go and find out about the other indigenous oil exploration companies and how they are fairing because Walter Smith and seplat are not having it as good as you would think.

Also, research the work you need to put in in order to be an upstream player, that's why most people would rather sell their OML's than explore it. Or better yet enter a partnership with one of the big boys.

Forte oil is not part of the big boys, it's bettered they continue on their downstream than risk it on upstream, because it is very easy to lose it all in crude exploration. Ask Boris becker how he is fairing, I'm sure it isn't great.

OfficialDad:
Marriage is the best gift. Shikena

True talk. Spend the 45 mil on a lavish wedding.

aristocrazzy:
you say this because you aren't wealthy like him.
When the money dey I fit give my bea much more than that.. Sef.
So it all depends on the financial status of the giver as well as the worthiness of the receiver.

Ogbeni you have a point. However, if you were David and you had that 45m, what would you do

I don't understand how two people can be fighting and calling each other names for no good reason. The argument you guys are having is very toxic. You guys stooped so low to insult your families, why?

Please stop it... itstutsi and queensexky please you guys are old and should be wise enough to know when something doesn't add value to you.

Even north Korean's and south korean's wouldn't insult themselves like this.

Yes! I made this thread concerning David and CHIOMA 's saga. I have read quite a lot of posts concerning the 45 million assurance (Porsche) davido gifted his woman. I want to find out from the MEN here on Nairaland, what they deem to be appropriate to Gift their woman if they were in David's shoes.

Also, you have to take account of the circumstances between David and CHIOMA, before making your answer.

Ladies yall are not opposed from making your suggestions and your input would be welcomed.


As for me, a car isn't a bad gift but 45 million on an outdated Porsche is just too much. I'd rather buy her a 10 million 2015 whip, pay her house rent and give her the balance as a cash gift.

Hahaha, my guy cc'd the whole of romanceland. If your name is not on the list (mine included) you need to step up you're romanceland game.

Seriously it's funny.

This thread smells fishy .....get it, 'fishy'.... Lool.


Besides my obscure joke, are you looking for runz girls, because that is the only sensible conclusion I arrived at after viewing the thread.