Faceless101:
It finally happened with a mixture of excitement and embarrassments. The embarrassment made the longing activities cumulated into an awful and horrible experience. It ended without penetration! The reason why I titled this thread with sex stems from the fact that sexual activities go beyond mere penetration of dick into the virginal. I had sex with other organs, but my dick was not fully activated. She played with it though.
It is not that I’m shy and unconfident that could prevent one from having sex at an early age in life.



The complexity of nature prevented sex in combination with the structure of my upbringing. Don’t think about religion. Religion wasn’t a dominant contributory factor. I’m not a nerd. I’m an introvert-extrovert. I have countless opportunity to have sex, but the possibility was missed either deliberately or intentionally.


To cut the story short, I finally had sex yesterday. Immediately had my sight on her already wet virginal, my dick went downward. I did every possible thing to restore the hardness. It did not bulge or rise for penetration. I sucked her boobs; she massaged my penis, I fingered her, did pre-intimacy and work toward perfection base on the tips I have read and videos I have watched (how to Bleep like a pro as virgin). The experience ended miserably and horribly. I did not tell her that I’m a virgin, and she is not a virgin. She is 25 years. She is mature and experience. I believe that she must have suspected the tendency of my virginity, but she did not say anything embarrassingly to me. Her countenance did.
The reason for this write-up is hinged on the expectations to receive advice from the gurus in the house. I have read that nervousness can cause erection problem. I was not nervous, and the level of my confidence was high. Till now, I haven’t experienced a full erection. I don’t masturbate. Did it once in runner-up to the first sexual experience, but did not work.
Please, I advise me!


cc. Lalasticlala

Guy, it is just sex, stop analysing this thing like you are solving Einstein's law of relativity.

I believe your problem is because you tried to be too serious, Baba relax.

You even said you had sex with other organs, where you fingering her kidney... or you were stroking her diaphragm.

Like I've said before, all you need to do is relax and knack.
End of story.

highpriestess:
and nl boys that have not been to togo will open their shameless mouth to condemn Nigerian ladies of asking for too much and being over dependent,not knowing that the white ladies they worship to stupor are worst.
ndi ara,otondo.

They can't be classified half as bad as the NL babes wey never even enter cotonou, how many times you dey hear this kind gist for white man mouth, isn't it once in a while. For Naija just go joro .... On a daily sumtin.

Jones4190:
President Buhari is just too blunt....

Now let's look at these established findings;

1) Do you know that over 65 million youths are illiterates in Nigeria – UNESCO, 2017

2) Nigeria also leads in the world's uneducated children - Newsweek, 2017

Nigeria has 'largest number of children out-of-school' in the world - BBC, 2017

Fact check;
You can hate Buhari, but the truth is that he stated the obvious and again, what is already known around the world. You should understand by now that PMB is not like any typical politician and because of that, he says things the way they are. He is just honest to a fault. It may not be diplomatically okay considering the environment of such communication

Soooooooooooooo because I did not go to school, or I did not have the opportunity to go to school means I am not industrious or I cannot be industrious.

Your education does not determine whether you are lazy.

Kingsley10000:
Yes 80% of Nigerians youth are Lazy....
The point here is, are most Nigerian youths actually lazy
And my answer is YES.
*How many of our youths today creates enough time to pay
attention in schools, study, read their books in higher
institutions?
What they care about mostly is how to manoeuvre their
ways to pass their exams.
*How many are actually in schools where you kept them,
not minding how you labour to pay their fees?
*How many of Nigerian youths are into Yahoo, yahoo plus,
human rituals, prostitutions at tender age?
But to be realistic, 80% of our Nigeria Youths are Lazy.....
*If not why would they prefer been used as thugs, than
contesting.
*Why would an Engineer, Pharmacist, Lawyer, etc graduate
and start searching for jobs that is no where to be found
when they can actually establish something on their own
and employ others.
*If they are not lazy, they are not creative.
*How many Nigerian youths owns mansions, big cars, very
expensive handsets while still searching for white collar
jobs, jobs in oil companies etc?
"How many of our youths can defend their discipline in
university certificate when employed?
*In a situation where your parents couldn't send you to
school due to poor background, how many youths today still
engaged themselves, serve as apprentices to artisans like
mechanic, bricklayers, carpenters, even to business shop
owners?
Okada ridding is presently their preference for quick cash,
with no plans for future.
A typical Nigerian youth today roams the streets with
girlfriends, browsing phones, visits drinking bars and night
clubs, spending money with no single legitimate source or
sources of income.
In Nigeria today, over 85% of suspects arrested for robbery
and other criminal activities are within the age brackets of
15 to 35, purely youths.
*Must Nigerian youths wait for everything from
government?
*Must they all be waiting for white collar jobs? American
said "Always think of what you can do for America and not
what America can do for you", how many Nigerian youths
believe in that?
*Is it a crime for Nigerian youths to have creative skills like
their counterparts in other nations and create jobs to assist
the government?
ARE NIGERIAN YOUTHS NOT LAZY.
JUST TELL SOME NIGERIAN YOUTHS ABOUT "Bet9Ja",
THEN YOU ARE TALKING.
I am of the opinion that our youth of today needs serious
orientation, if not, I wonder the kind of future we are
creating for this beloved country Nigeria .

Op you have a point, but your point is highly flawed.

If a Nigerian youth goes to school and comes out with a degree why would he want to become a carpenter, it does not make sense.

Secondly, people on bet9ja, yahoo yahoo are not lazy they are just channelling their time and strength into the wrong thing. Being lazy outright means you are not doing anything and in Nigeria if you don't hustle you will die and that's a fact.

Thirdly, go abroad and see the youths in well to do countries they are in a sense worse than us, when you have benefits for free and free health care, these youths only work because the work is available.

Look at it this way, if Nigerians were lazy, we would have already had our own Arab spring because we wouldn't be able to go on... screaming no job and all that. How many protests do we have in this country. Abroad, any small thing they protest. Here in Nigeria when you say protest, there's no time fkr that because most youths wouldn't participate because they have something else to do.

As long as you are striving no matter what you do then I don't believe you can be called lazy, be it, the right thing or otherwise, the wrong thing.

You made a point about Nigerian youths should become entrepreneurs, for a matter of fact we have enough of them already, why do you think we have so many fashion designers, bloggers et al.

Lastly, I believe being lazy and not having the right opportunities are two very distinct things, look at Nigerians in the diaspora, aren't they flourishing, with the same opportunities. Was it not last year buhari congratulated the surgeon who performed a heart transplant or was it a brain transplant abroad.

Or was it last year or two years ago that story came out about a lay Mechanic in Nigeria who fashioned a vehicle that could move both on land and in water.

If you have time op and anyone else who would read this comment, type on Google '50 Nigerian fin-tech start ups'. I am sure a lot of you wouldn't have heard about 45 of them.

My two cents

If it was a PDP senator, Lai Mohammed and the FG for Don kill am with insult.

Just saying

Safiaa:
Yes she is doing you a favour. You chased her not the other way round, you went out of your way to patronise her and she accepted you out of many so she’s doing YOU a favour.
She’s taking herself off the dating market in her prime.
She’s giving you her body (most times)
She’s trusting you with her time and biological clock
She’s risking her emotional state being with you.

The least you can do is reciprocate the favour by being financially supportive. The problem with you guys is, you just want to take take take and not give anything in return. It’s bad.

Wow, you see love in grey!

Until they see corpers, being slaughtered by herdsmen before they realise it was a bad idea.

I will try (and seriously try) and believe that they have already taken this idea into account, and are putting / have measures in place to safeguard the corpers posted to the farms. If not, then.......... It's just a matter of time. #BANG.#HEADLINE #LAMENT #BLAME # RINSEANDREPEAT.

cycle of Nigeria.

So this na the guy wey dey cause all this shi'ite protest for town.

Traffic everywhere since this week begun.

Plus if they want to protest they should enter kd because enough is enough.

Surely, the grudges you don't hear are [b][/b]AGAINST her not [b][/b]FOR her.

MissRaine69:


“I believe that leads to either being bipolar or a sociopath!” Come now, surely preserving self and not being a sheep makes you an individual not a sociopath?
Medicine.

Hmmmm, you have a point, but even sociopaths preserve self in order to survive, it's all human instinct.

When you try and fit in, you have to agree you lose some of your individualistic qualities.

MissRaine69:

Where I went to University it was encouraged to do extra modules that differed from what you were studying. I read those two
You can fit in and still be an individual

No wonder.

Mind if i ask what you majored in?


About fitting in and still being an individual, I will disagree with that... I believe that leads to either being bipolar or a sociopath!

MissRaine69:

Look at this from a psychological point of view
And a cultural perspective
Usually there is a tendency to frown upon women who are somewhat none conformist, vie away from tradition or women who are independent. They are the ones who are accused of being morally corrupt. The thing it’s never men who view these women as such it’s other women. In most cases these women are not doing anything extraordinary being sexually liberated does not make you morally corrupt.

On the other hand the unassuming ones tend to come from quite repressed backgrounds ( travel to Abuja to get my meaning wealthy aunites looking for single women and men)

See if you ensure those around you only get to see one side of you , the near perfect side no one gets to look closer. Think about the women who are married to men who seem so incompatible with them, the one who is always gracious and meek. Those that seem to fit the brief of perfection or seem ideal are far from ideal

.

Damn... I asked for a salad and you gave me a three course meal with a free coupon. Lol

Besides I think I understand what you are saying... all in all people usually aren't who they think they are, and some ladies like to pretend in order for them to fit in.

Buy seriously, who doesn't want to fit in. Most people can't handle being the odd one out.

Anyways are you sure you didn't study psychology or some kind of social anthropology... because your theories need to be put in thesis.

MissRaine69:

These women are everywhere the unassuming ones ....

Just like sleeper cells... it only takes a moment for them to be activated.

this is purely for the purpose of research... how does one identify such 'unassuming ones'

MissRaine69:


I went to Uni with some women who would make some men look juvenile especially the ones that cover themselves head to toe including the whole face ( not mentioning any names)
There are profesional women out there ...who will sleep with all the guys friends and the husband knows nothing about it.

Hahaha, those ladies should be working with the Israeli Mossad or better yet the Russian KGB... cuz their level of secretive professionalism no be here.

izaray:

MissRaine69:

This is what amuses me women do it worse than men but few are caught. There are shreds of hypocrisy there considering women are always harping on about the indiscretions of men yet still waters run deep

Yessss women are the biggest cheats, but know how to be mellow about it. To me, I see the main difference (and correct me if I'm wrong) being, a woman can cheat a hundred times with two or three guys, but a Guy can cheat a hundred times with 30 babes.

izaray:
You say waitin

My friend face ya front... loool

But seriously it's a fact.

MissRaine69:

It will apply if you always run with average chicks

Lool.. Even prince Phillip of England was cheating on the Queen back then, and was she an 'Average babe' he'll to the f'in NO.

cheating for men is about lust 80% of the time

I don't know about babes, but for guys, like Bunk Moreland said in the wire; [/b]'there ain't no P*ssy like new P*ssy'[b]. That explains everything about why a Guy cheats.

I don't know about babes, but for guys the reason why men cheat is because there no P*ssy like new P*ssy; and that's a fact.

All these Nairaland feminists, una no go let person hear word...

Feminist this, Feminist that while most of you don't even know anything. Ask them simple current affairs question, they don't know, ask them simple history questions they don't know.

Please you people should go and make money, sponsor your own wedding and buy you and your husband's engagement ring... THEN come back and If you want to shout Feminist or femi otedola I wouldn't mind; but till then pls keep kwayet.

Tinubu will still lose when the next election holds, you don't have to be clairvoyant to know that.

The comments under killed me

The first lady: you just wasted your energy

The guys reply: [/b]ENERGY CAN NEVER BE DESTROYED[b].

Follygunners:


I work hard but, don't need to be famous. I'm NOT greedy, corrupt or selfish. I'm grateful and content with whatever I have.

Water melon fall on ur head!

Sorry to say, but a grateful person would be grateful for others. In this case you are not.

jashar:
yum yum...

is that from the samvita advert? lol...

Cromcruach91:


Sorry, but you don't get it.

1.Under the current regulation....marketers are being forced to sell at a loss

2.If govt keeps on regulating...marketers won't make a profit...and would start sacking workers, or paying their workers very low salaries.

3.Deregulation means prices go up...we buy from the seller selling at the lowest price...forcing prices to go down. Meanwhile money flows in, and is used for new facilties, even new refineries. And more foreign investors come in'

4.We did the same thing for our GSM. IN 2003, my dad bought his first GSM line for N10000. (It hit his pocket heavily then, by the way...and he was not that rich). Now, the same line goes for N500. If govt had regulated...GSM business would have collapsed.

I understand your point with deregulation. It is a very valid point, but you fail to take into account that independent marketers have their own association.

For you to import fuel you need a license. And having that license allows you to be part of the ipman. If deregulation is allowed these people would connive togeher and sell at their own price, trust me there is no competition. When it comes to fuel in nigeria.

Secondly when I meant deregulation is a myth, I meant there is nothing like deregulation. The government cannot completely deregulate the fuel sector, that would lead to anarchy, no checks and balances on how fuel is imported, how much they are buying and also if a situation like what we are experiencing should happen again that would be even worse because the government would not have any powers to interfere.

All in all the sector is regulated and you can see the funny business that is going down, when it is not regulated just watch what would happen.

The part of GSM is different, GSM does not need to be refined, it does not need to be refilled anytime it finishes, if GSM business collapses in Nigeria it will not cause a world crisis unlike oil.

You have read about the first and second energy crisis, especially the one between Syria and iran.

If our oil should collapse we would have a west African energy crisis. Because we provide most countries bothering us either pms or gas.


The best solution is to strengthen our forex. All others are false solutions.

I will keep on saying it... deregulation is a myth and cannot and must not be implemented, because deregulation on its own is a form of regulation, due to how vital and crucial the petroleum sector is to our government it needs to be highly regulated. I'll say it again deregulation would lead to economic sabotage and vertical consolidation.
Thank you. I hope you have all heard.

The lower denominations are scarce because this useless government yaff packed everything to start sharing for campaign... they think we don't know.

Davehasmadeit:
i stay at abuja @ galadimawa and i have also been looking for a gym partner, but do u hv a gym around u?

It depends on your budget... there are a couple gyms in Maitama/wuse but the price is a bit steep. I can check around town and I'll get back to you.

OceanmorganTrix:



I stay at Kubwa

Which gym do you go to? If not do you have any preferences... and how committed are you

doctokwus:
This story sounds too sensational and more like typical SR of mixing few facts,hearsays and half-truths to form a story,unlike PremiumTimes who are now the no 1 online medium for credible news.
How can a whole DG of NIA give a lady in a car park $50k,when a gun wasn't held to his head.

This is not my first time hearing something of this sort. In the presidency there are two factions, the chief of staff's and the NSA's all struggling for control of power. Even if the story is not a hundred percent true, as long as there is minute evidence of misappropriation then I would believe it because with this administration nothing is true anymore.