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Tinubu is a Disaster in waiting.
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For Tinubu to become the president he has to dance to the tune of the North and make compromise for the north. And as such such compromise will entail that he gives the bandits and Boko-haram Lords certain allowance of operation or certain financial allowance, otherwise, They will continue their killing spree.
Everything is disaster in waiting

Closed thread ke....wetin happen? Sisterfire, how far you na

SweetBuns:
No wonder the sea is salty

People like you keep polluting the water

This one don do Bj, suck preeq so Tay, she don swallow load of cum to know the taste....o ga o salty cumshot specialist

You better wise up with that girl, she's trying to be smart. If u like do pity pity, he go shock you

99thEnemy:
Una no know wetin my mama car don do for me

Gyehs! Gyehs!! Gyehs!!!

Yes...u stress less before getting their attention

That's what happens when someone is close to his time of departure from earth....Na wetin go kill am go dey come hin mind

Casalindal:
How does posting his picture your business?? Please remind me the template that says not posting pictures is an act of maturity. Like how on earth will you want to detect to an adult on what he should post. Who hand you that right? Who gave you that right.

No vex ma....

We all were expecting this..cos u once said u wanted to explore after ur hubby had given you good life and platform to achieve..good luck in ur newfound life to fame.
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I don't see one significant reason to blame him, his going abroad was not a big deal, every man wants money. You knew all this before marriage, but u enjoyed the Money, only to come out wanting more than the man can give....
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.Good luck in your new life. That's all. Abi You are having guilty conscience

LadyRosa:
This can only happen to women who don't truly come from strong willed families. Try that with some wives and have her people beat you up blue black and yellow before stuffing the 500 naira bride price you paid for her in your bloodied mouth

You must think the discipline I refer to here is "beating" her. No that's not why I implied. The discipline is putting her in her place making her know she fuuccks and apologise for it....Unless u feel a man don't have to set boundaries and discipline his woman when she errs

Thereddevil:
Well, I wasn't expecting any sensible words from you.. Like I said, Kanu isn't fit to lead and he did it the wrong way.. But trust me, one day, the plague brought upon this country wouldn't come knocking at your door, cos it'd force itself in.. You're blessed right? You have money right? You eat nutritional meals everyday right? You blame the poor for being poor right? Well, enjoy it while it lasts..

You are still living in a bubble thinking u are making sense.....Anyone who will mock Kanu and side with this evil government is already a fool and part of the problem...just like u are doing in a faux intelligent posturing...na same thing...u are not better than the people u are slamming

Thereddevil:
There's a thing I see about the way Nigeria is going, it's just the way to destruction.. Like the yoruba elders would say "bamu bamu ni mo you, n o mo b'ebi n pa omo enikankan".. This is the drum everyone in this country beats, the drum of selfishness... I have no support for Nnamdi Kanu, but when I see people's views online, I wonder if there's any way we can be free or safe from the destruction that lies ahead.. I don't even know w what to say, but you all have to know this.. Prayers won't save us, angels won't fight for us, all they can do is fight with us..

You have no support for Kanu.. everything u said carries no weight..utter bullshit..cos u are not different from the people u are slamming.

In case you decide to eat it, Sha don't eat the head... anything can still happen

Obakashdee:
It’s easy to just relocate na, just wake up early morning and relocate
And what’s the meaning of you are part of them? Na wa o

It's not always easy to relocate.. sometimes u might have to plan for about six months before you get enough money and the right house u want. That's why in eviction notice, 3 to 6 months grace is always given for the inconvenience.
In that case even if it's 3 months. She still has to live in the area, and has the right to be safe

purples25:
I'll look into that. Thanks.

Making friends with one of them will be a big mistake that can be used to get more info about you....they all have same impression abt her...
Asking why they hate her won't change anything.. she shouldbt be bother abt their stinking opinion. They are simply goats

You can't be blamed for their hatred. They are only tribal religious bigots who think like cow and primitive fools.
Even if you are a runs gal who different guys drop everyday..it's still not their problem to the extent of harassing you...You can call the police on anyone that tries to harass u. It's battery and assault.
And be vigilant. Don't go out in night alone..And if there's going to be something funny, stylishly record it with ur phone for evidence....
Henceforth, don't greet or return their greetings, don't look their way..Dem dey crase...even if Aboki go schl their cow behavior can not be cured.
Funny enough they are the most sexually depraved tribe in Nigeria, fuccking under aged gals...engaging in homosexuality....
Please at this point...You need to make a statement/report at the police station that you are being harassed and ur life is being threatened in your neighborhood to the point that u are scared for ur life...
With 1000k u can do that... Any subsequent issue, police can quickly believe ur case..But be careful

AfricanGiant91:
his not matured to marry?
so nah maturity to marry a coded run girl abi? issokay
anoda olosho spotted

Those gals are unrepentant cold-hearted cheat...u take them serious at ur peril

HRHQueenPhil:
U are the person, he is not matured enof to marry. To have a sweet marriage, u must learn how to forgive. If u can't forgive, den don't bother getting married..
He shld go abroad and join the monastery

Same floppy advice as usual. You forgive a hoe, she will only postpone the time to disgrace you.
Forget about her. She's not ready to marry you. Infact u engaged the wrong person....
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JovialJune:
So many damaged kids on rampage here lately.

How does this relate to the topic

Maybe her crush just bange.d someone else instead of giving her attention....and she's now expressing her painment....cos she doesn't look saint to me

Living in Nigeria is the worst mistake you can make towards success

Confirm daylight yahooyahoo

Bowman45:
Thanks for sharing.I found a lot of interesting information here. A really good post, very thankful and hopeful that you will write many more posts like this one.

I hope more people rejoicing over the death of this man will grow some empathy

Techguy96:
Most of u see women as properties, that's why we have so many failed marriage today, because women are wising up.

You failed to realize women are humans too, people like u can only marry timid church village girls with no say, pretty much a dummy. Is that's what u want for a wife.

By the time u grow up to be a man . Ur brain will have a reset.....Shebi u are just 24 ...ride on in ur juvenile ignorance. Dem no dey teach person to geh sense with woman....e go soon reach u

Maybe at 40 you will stop your Nairaland attention whoring.
PS......it's better you stop posting your pics every month. It's childish.

PacAmaru:
society or not I don't joke with my personal space,there are times I hate everything and everyone and I just want to stay alone and cool my mind

I will let every one that comes into my life to know that

This is the point

donbachi:
if a man should give ur sister such ill treatment.will u take It from him?
If ur wife is raped or killed cos u locked her outside.wat will u tell ur kids?

My sister's marriage is her cup of tea....It will be in her best interest if she respects her husband..cos she stays with him and he's responsible for her.

....I won't encourage her to be disrespectful to her husband to the point the man may be angry enough to lock her out...
.. There are instances where a woman can be so violent or daring that the man might have to lock her out just to defend himself or to have peace for that moment.

That's one of the contexts I'm talking abt..
.If my wife is raped for being locked out? That's an hypothetical fantastical situation...how many people got raped for being locked out...
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.I'm not saying men Should go out locking their wife out as a norm....at certain point even a gentle man would have to take drastic measures against certain behavior..or else... he will lose the marriage...A man shd act when necessary and the success of the marriage is in the man's hand not the woman's

donbachi:
Not to lock her outside all night.

Well, It depends on the context of her bad behavior, if locking her outside fits the context of her bad behavior then it may be necessary to prevent a worse future misbehavior..

Women are experts at employing this tactics but many men who are supposed to understand the import of this tactics to their relationship usually fail to discipline their woman when necessary.
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If a woman is offended or in a situation where she wants to manipulate you to do her bidding, she withdraws her attention, give u silence treatment, she refuses to smile or look at you, she fails to cook and denies u sex....All of this is her attempt to discipline you and make you fall in place
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The response of most men to this is to increase their effort to please this woman just to get back her attention. That's your woman disciplining you.
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Many men who don't understand this will eventually start apologizing, buying gifts, doing extra work at home, acting like a gentleman, and in the event she finally allows sex, the man will go extra mile to give her good sex just to please her and get back her goodwill..
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In same way, if ur woman fuckz up, you must discipline her to the extent that she's ready to please u and obtain ur favor. If u can't pull this off, then u are a weak man. Worse is if after her bad behavior she still manipulates you to apologise..lol.
Here are the benefit of disciplining your woman when she goes wrong.

1. A woman respects a man who disciplines her. You can not change this fact...It's same reason a pretty gal fears and respect her boyfriend who is a bad boy cos he doesn't take nonsense.
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2. A woman will deliberately test ur gut by misbehaving just to see ur reaction...If u fail at putting her in her place, she will dare to do worse next time, and cause more trouble
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3. Women easily open their legs to men they respect, or men who will easily put them in their place. This is so cos women want men who are assertive who exudes authority. It's a primal response their pvssy can't control. Ever wondered why a woman easily fantasize fvcking an army or soldiers? U get...it's the stamp of authority...
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4 Lastly: When u discipline a woman, it registers in her psyche that u are the head, she will be ready to do things to please u. But when u don't, it registers in her psyche that u guys are equal or partners..over time she will never listen to what you say, and will easily fall for men out there who show strong manly qualities because the man at home has lost that masculine aura women get wet for.

Sometimes when ur woman is not giving u sex, it's because, ur aura dont exude that masculine sexiness. You lost it from being too agreeable to her whims and bad behavior over time.
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So it's true u get better sex from your woman when you discipline her bad behavior than when u leave her to dictate and get away with bad behavior, over time she will start taking your needs for granted, including ur sexual needs. Before u know it, another man is sleeping with her.

Magnoliaa:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2021/03/05/leemon-ikpea-how-a-husband-made-peace-with-an-acrimonious-wife/amp/

https://www.google.com/amp/s/theinfong.com/2021/03/nigerian-billionaire-sends-wife-of-39-years-packing-after-mistress-tells-him-to-do-so-photos/amp/

Yes. I finally found this story. And I think it'll interest some particular users here.

cc: Twoclans - look at the side chick angle.
Mr. NiRFreak - you say you wanna marry an uneducated woman? Well that's one for you. Good luck in the compatibility.
And my dear Omolola100 - that's a woman that started from the bottom with a man, only to end up being thrown out of her matrimonial home after 39 years of marriage. With nothing to show for it. Stories like that abound.

After reading this, do whatever you feel is good for you.

Just seeing this.
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Well I read every link you provided.
And obviously, it's clear the woman was the genesis of her own problem, which I feel has to do with her: wanton greed, laziness to work when opportunity were presented on a platter, quarelsome attitude, nagging, and all manners of vices particular to many bad wives which of course can be seen in both educated or non educated women....
There are many not well educated ladies who are reasonable, hardworking and peaceful.
...And that a woman starts from the scratch with a man does not give her leeway to frustrate her man's life. Everyone deserves happiness...
The onus is on the person being frustrated and robbed of peace, either husband or wife, to do away with the source of his/her stress and unhappiness or otherwise endure it. It's a choice to make which the man shouldnt be blamed for...He has a right to peace....
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Now to the lady adviced by her mom, I think she's lacks understanding and good mindset...May God open her mind...
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Meanwhile, what's ur stand