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@ Worriedgirl

Continue with him the way you are.
No disrespecting him and no forcefully resisting.
You can be a friend to a man if you decline his advances in a very respectful way yet being friendly and loving about it. If you get what I mean.

It will pass... He will let go... He is just trying his luck with you. That opportunity to be inside a warmer and wetter, firmer hole.

Do your job, be his friend, resist the sexual advance as you have been doing.

More importantly, reduce your being with him alone moderately. If you will, stealthily.

kachimor:
I undoubtedly will be the most productive asset to our establishment".

I personally think what you said is good but doesn't really spell out why exactly you should be hired.

They should just tether Davido please.

exotiqueify:
Would apply asap. but some things beg the question
1) Why is it a month's job?
2)would we be credited for the article? I.e would our names be attached to them?
3)should the short piece be on any topic of our choosing?
P.s: I own a laptop

Thanks

Hmmm. I don't mean to be rude to anyone but let us be careful and thorough when applying for jobs or showing interest in a vacancy.

Benedict44:
contact me ....odinakachiboniface@gmail.com...thanks

For a writer position?. Anyway, it is "Contact me via odinakachiboniface@gmail.com. Thank you".

adeleye2012:
am interested 07036670479. Thanks.

For a writer position?. Anyway, it is "I'm" not "am".

Great update guys.

AdaAda1331:
I've been in a relationship for 5 years with a great man; we met very young and we're still in school but almost about to graduate. We love each other and things would be easier if family wasn't involved.

His parents are currently divorced and his father, step mother and brother are very difficult people. They are uncompromising and closed minded. His brother has called me selfish and controlling even before the introduction has taken place.

I'm currently in my early twenties and I will be graduating as a doctor next year and I'm from a very peaceful home. I have not been wayward during school and I'm a christian. Seeing that his family doesn't see my value is very disappointing to say the least. I expected much more because I know I'm worth much more.

When you marry in the Nigerian community, you don't just marry the person, the whole family is involved. I have strong feelings for this man. He has refused to adopt his families negative characteristics. His values and character is more than any mother, future wife or friend can ask for. I'm lucky to have even known him.

Now, I'm at crossroads. I've prayed to God and I do have peace, but my parents are telling me to disregard that relationship and move on because of his family. Is it worth it? Is family a rate limiting step to choosing a spouse? How involved are family members in during marriage? Should I move on?

Let me try and help you in a little way.
However, do not take this as a almighty formula.

You do not have any serious problem with them. These are just petty stuff that happens in some families.
I am disappointed that a male can also be as petty as to be saying that to you. He should trust his brothers judgment or at least take his opinion to his brother.

What is important is that your bf is independent in thought and in character. Not easily moved as the waves direct.
So finally, in marriage, it is not usually as we think. Like there would be so much influence from family and all that. Far from it. Those things usually happens only in movies. People have their own life and problems than to put yours on their heads.
If your husband is ready to protect you at all times and if you just continue to be a great woman of character but strong minded too I am sure this will pass. It will pass. The love you both have for each-other is stronger than any limitation.

Those parents enjoyed their life and are probably through with their own marriage, they should let you build and enjoy yours.

Except of course, there is a serious antagonism against both of you getting married by the families.

# If you leave your house and get back home safely, you should thank the God you serve.
# If you go to work daily, ply the famous third mainland bridge and get back home safely, you should do same.
# If you travel or use the Lagos-Ibadan express way and you get to your destination safely, then be grateful.
# More importantly, if you leave your kids at home or they went to school or went to visit a family member and they come back home smiling, happy, healthy and complete then thank the God you serve.

How can people die like this?. One would wonder (At least I do wonder) but who should we question.
We are not better than these folks in any way. We are just privileged.
The same way we leave our work places or finished eating our meals is the same thing they do daily.

God bless the dead.

You can look at some of my past threads for other threads that could help.

Hi folks,

Trust your day is going fine.
Like some of you are already aware of how I am passionate about knowledge sharing and self improvement, I am compelled to bring up this discussion because of something that happened at my workplace.

So, one of the historical HR questions that have stood the test of time during interviews is "Why Should We Hire You?".
It is an age old inquiry skill that illuminates how you view yourself and how smartly you can convey that message across.

For example, you are at an interview with Guranty Trust Bank and you were asked this question, the foregoing answer should help you in forming your own answer.

Interviewer: Why Should We Hire You?

Interviewee: I believe one of the greatest gift any employer can get is to have employees who are reliable and can be counted on to do their jobs when you turn your back. I am a positive, self motivated individual who is passionate about whatever i put my mind into. If I do not believe in a thing I do not get involved in it. I believe in Guaranty Trust Bank, I have always wanted to be a part of the family and you can count on me to do a good job.

Kindly share how you answer this question and let us learn. Most especially let new graduates and those who are searching for same question learn.

You can read some more interesting stuff on www.nairamode..com

This is a question that might probably not interest people.
Where is the job and where is the career?
Everyone is just doing what they can see.

Folks are thinking of how to eat today. How to subscribe, how to stay happy etc.

For me anyway, it's personal track.

Lol. @ the poster above.
I really don't know how to answer this.
Why is a cc important?.

It's important because it states hour profile in a say that people/ employers are able to know about you without being physically present there. You cannot be everywhere all of the time. So this piece of document represents your skills, capabilities, education and personal information.

Very important stuff.

UIA04:
I use sarcasm a lot to pass across my message whether it be a serious point or to make one laugh



If you where offended well.....
I can't apologize for being me. You earlier message reaked silent insults but I didn't carry my town crying gong to announce to who cared to listen

*Smiles* Cheers.

UIA04:
Show me where

You will agree with me that this was a very sacarstic statement:

I presume when you where in the University you went about looking for evidence of those campus cults

There are cultured ways to communicate without patronising someone.

UIA04:
Evidence you say?


I presume when you where in the University you went about looking for evidence of those campus cults you even saw their banner where they invited eligible people to join as members and fill forms

It's a SECRET SOCIETY.


all their activities are kept secret except:

Through those who where part of it and left
The ones they want you to know about or
Through divine revelation

Now the ones they want you to know about are all over their music videos, currency, even children's cartoons , and everything they own but if you don't open your eyes you'lld see

You can get to YouTube to search for videos of people exposing them

Do you have to pass a message across by being insolent?

We appreciate all of your updates and efforts.
Thank you so so much.

A little request though, when we are updating this thread, can we please specify the source. Very important.

We will not die of hypertension in Christ name.

adionin:
If the culprit does not have a valid driving license, then it's murder. If she has a valid license, then as sad as it is, it's merely an accident.

Someone said Involuntary manslaughter. A case for the court definitely.
How correct?.

dominique:
Involuntary manslaughter, comes with 2-5 year jail term

Ah!!! Even as a learner? With all papers complete?.
Okay, in the event the family of the deceased say they are not interested in justice, is the govt obliged to still proceed with the case nonetheless.

Lawyers please what's the implication for Okocha. Enlighten us.

bewla:
and dad are always dullad abi

Was dad ever in this equation?. IS there anywhere the owner of the thread mentioned dad.
Please are we talking about dad.

Juliet11111:
Ignore it. Thats one of your over 1million choices.

Some other choices:
1) Don't open the thread.
2) Open it but don't comment.
3) Smile at the thread.
4) Ask yourself "what should we do with this info" in your mind only.
Lots more.

Anyway @ Op, wish you all the best in your singleness.

MissHatey:
[size=16pt]Yes! Being single rocks but not easy . I miss relationship dramas.[/size]

Hmmm. No comment.

Mum's are usually right.
Get wisdom from them.

It is believed and agreed that the race or any sports at all is not won on the field or in the track, you already won or lost it in your mind.

See, this is very demotivating for the athletes.
Even if they eventually go represent a country who do not appreciate them but for a country who is not also certain would pay them when they come back, then they will only be going there to lounge.

This is not a good set up for anyone who is in a race.

Isn't it wise and smart to keep shut when we know nothing about certain things.

Where is the evidence for this illuminati stuff. Yes very possible but no solid evidence to back it up.

We are all just screaming wanting to implode our wind pipes because of entertainers. That's what they are; entertainers and it's their craft to create entertainment and controversies out of nothing.

Ageing... One of the things I detest most.
Reality is that every single night we sleep and wake up, we move closer to getting old.
Before one knows it... In a twinkle of an eye, one is 40.

When there is money, your husband will be meant for you now.
Three things will make a woman say this about you.

1) The engine room. Is it Kia or Benz G Wagon. I mean that engine. Check it bros.
2) Your economy of scale.
3) Your actual understanding and love for her (This is the most cherished for all women).

So guys, Don't be offended if your gf or wives don't love you that much. It is an effect of environmental factors. This they say is a situational and flexible phenomenon.

LMAO.
Religion and the things of God is one of the most difficult things to meddle in. Fear of God and blasphemy. My opinion.

But in this case... Ahn ahn. Why?. Funny thing is that aunty can divorce her husband if he asks her not to buy the recharge card again.

Sometimes these pastors may just want to be creative like: "Okay if these sheep's want me to call them everyday or they keep calling and texting and want me to pray for them, why don't I just use technology".

Sometimes the intention may not be business but what about my people. My gullible people how are yous? Kilode? E ti go ju.
Ahn ahn.

Pray to God in your small room, attend church and follow his instructions. Ask the elders to pray for you and join hands with your friends or gf or wives or husbands as the case maybe. Pay your tithes and challenge God.

Stop being gullible and sheepishly following supposedly men of god with your duck necks.

Vikky014:
A good man will always find a good woman...bt in most cases good men take the good woman in their life for granted thereby losing them to anoda man which leads them to this type of story

Noted!