It might just be the devil playing scrabble with your brain.
Next time, if you notice any moment or suspect anything, go inside without knocking(they will not the upset if they are not up to something) and pretend as if you are looking for something.

This kind of things are very complicated and don't end well if you wrongly accuse your wife and her brother.

You seem to have a happy home so be careful how you handle it.

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He should not worry. dead person also is on the list.

If you accept to wed in their church, then do so. whoever will decorate the hall can decorate the wooden church or better still you can build a new church for them if you are boyant enough. Not every inlaw likes to show off on their childen's wedding day.
He may even be trying to reduce your expenses for you sef.

And when the boy is old and the real dad shows up with tears in his eyes and explain to the boy how his mum and her people kept him away from him(the dad) since he was small, all your efforts vanish in seconds. You can help the boy but don't adopt him.
Don't accept that nonsense.

Besides when the family was deciding that you and your hubby should adopt the boy, they should have invited you. Not taking decisions in something that affects you directly and expects you to accept is wholeheartedly.

OP, follow the advise you receive here and you will be the one to write update here in few months time on how your marriage crashed and the advisers will still read and laugh while taking bigger poo from their man and still staying married.

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You will feel comfortable bringing someone you don't know to come and babysit your child in the name of house help or nanny but won't be comfortable bringing your husbands niece??
You also sound like you won't like the girl so safe her the stress by not taking.
Before we begin hear stories of madam and her househelp again

Madam, from what you said, you provide majority of the finances used in running the house and you still sound this cool.
I must commend you on that. But with this his temper, I can say you are living on a time bomb if he is to start earning more than you or if he should start providing everything in the house.
But I guess you are a very easy going and carefree woman that hardly take issues to heart(reason why you have been able to stay with him)

joeruano:


Did he claim to be right about his wrongs?

I need you to take a screen shot of the post for me to analyse. I'm serious.

Meanwhile, don't forget that how one is raised plays a huge role in what they believe is right. If he claims to be right when he is wrong, what should be done is explain why he is wrong to him and do not expect him to believe he is wrong immediately cos certain beliefs are hard to expunge. Be generous enough to give some time. I believe you have some of that sort too. Show some understanding instead of making derogatory statements to someone seeking advice.

Some persons are scared of this typical Nairaland attitude so they hardly seek advice and end up committing suicide due to bottled up emotions.

Let's not make the world worse for the emotionally vulnerable.

I have realized that if you want to properly advise someone, you have to put emotions aside and tell the person the hard truth.
The man said his wife's puna is now loose after child birth. And the only thing the man is thinking I how to make it tight as if its the wife's fault. During marriage lots of challenges comes with marriage and this is one of them. So both of them should deal with the issue. While the woman is taking the medication to make the puna tighter, the man should also be taking the medication to make his rod bigger.
The problem now is that the marriage is about to crash because of loose puna(which was not like that before marriage). So while the woman works on herself, the man should also work on himself.

If na woman leave marriage because of sex, bad sex, weak man or small rod, we all will call her or sorts of names and will even brand her a prostitute.

But here is a man singlehandedly killed his marriage because of sex and loose punana and still thinks that nothing is wrong with it and still shamelessly argues that he is doing the right thing.

Please what do we call this man??

lade007:


Volkswagen Golf, Passat, Opel Vectra, Peugeot 206, Volkswagen Vento e.t.c

Good morning
Can 800k get honda civic(euro version)1999-2000 model?? Or 2002-03 volvo s40??
Auto gear?

Rindo69:

No be only lamp; na torch light.

lolzzzz

Lawal Daura the sacrificial lamb

Boss, your take on this car?(nissan sunny)

Why is it that no one saw where the man said that the money was split because of the health of his father?? So if I should spend money on my parent inlaw from a business I own with my wife, I should count it that what I spent is part of her own

Some nairaland ladies are really home breakers and it seems they are happy doing it.
The world is now so materialistic.

The evil was planted the moment the woman used only her name in the property.

What started the argument was the man being wrongly accused of cheating and when he confronted her, his family, parents and background was all insulted and all everyone(most ladies) here saw was "get of my house"

If a girl can insult my parents, myself, my background because I told me to stop accusing me wrongly of cheating, get of my house is a small thing ooo.

I thought transgenders na the ones wey go look like woman but still get prick??
So if this beautiful lady get prick(naturally) and wants people to believe he is a woman with all the paints, makeups and surgeries yet no womb and still get prick, there is nothing for me to accept, he/she needs to accept who he is(the way God created him). I cannot accept someone who cannot him/herself.

Mr Gazzuzz, Pls between 2003 Honda civic(5door hatchback) and Mitsubishi space wagon 2001-2003, which will you advice sir? Either tokumbo or Naija used

A very bitter somebody

It's quite painful, but life is too short for all these. You are a young man with lots of energy, instead of using the energy against your dad, just leave him alone and focus on your mum. Channel your energy in making money. As a Christian, Christ mostly preached forgiveness, it may be hard for you but that's the only solution. Forgive him, move your mum far away from him and live your life..forget everything about him. Am sure when the chips are down, it will even be your mum that will come and beg you on his behalf and am sure you won't bear to see your mum beg you... so what happens then??

Forgive him and learn from all he is doing and move on happily.
You are feeling this way because of your inability to let go of all the things he has done.
Use your energy positively on you, your sis and your mum. You will feel better for it.

Creating how man account??
To run a family where majority of parents earn less than 100k in a month?
The thing is most couple don't have enough for all these sharing as ordinary eating 3 meals in a day is a problem. And those who can afford it don't really have financial issues but other marital issues.

When the marriage is very young, no in law should be allowed to interfere even father and mother in law from both sides. Your husband can always rent a one room apartment for his bros.

I don't even understand why a man will go and stay with married couple. So so awkward. May be na family send am to come observe you. Reason why he is interfering continuously. Because no man in his right senses will do such thing.

jakandeola:
I feel sad wen I see DAT husband kill wife or wife kill husband in marrage domestic voilent is bad and make marrage brake up but sometimes is neccessary to beat ur woman cos it dosnt mean u dont love her it mean u do but is only to train her. Women act like babies and dey need strong hand and force so dey do wat will let ur relationship grow I Neva said to beat to injured her but just a diciplines for her to become a true woman
1. Is a love beat. Did u knows most women hate a weak man but liek a strong man who can attack her and teach her wats right. Dey first get mad at u but dey later forgive u before DAT u as a guy must play ur part buy her gift to say sorry and enjoy her in rooms

2. It make relationship stronger did u know u become a stronger person wen u face pains u understanding each other beta. My nebo both old married for 42yrs I rember wen am growing up dey fight a lot did u know if u see dem now dey act as 16years in love even when then he beat her a lot they have learn a lot and now love each other. D storm is over. D woman said her husband has not beat her for 20yrs cos d bad things she stop doing and d man stop being voilent
3 I was dating a girl ibo girl for 2years sweet and beautiful but I hate 2tins about her her dressing and DAT when am around she speak her language. I warn her twice she Neva listen d last time I dicipline her. Did u know she got mad at me we Neva talk for 2 weeks until I beg her took her to eatry and shopping. After she promise neva to do DAT for 2year I Neva beat her
In love dere will always be fight but I feel sad wen Apple divorce cos they are coward DAT refuse to use their brain and fight for their love. If I dont give u money it dont mean I dont love u if I dont sex u it dont mean I dont love u u can dicipline Jr woman so she act right and u enjoyed her

You actually beat your girlfriend because she speaks her language in your presence

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GAZZUZZ:


I have personal hatred for the car, don't ask me why

Haba. At least educate me small about the car.

Mr Gazzuzz,
Pls what's your advice on 2001-02 ford focus hatchback? What to get one

FKMagazine:


yes! why ask?

OK good
Pls what mentality were you referring to as "disease"??

They are looking for who to use for rituals.
How sure are you that they are hubby and wife??

If as a woman your unmarried brother puts his girlfriend first over you, what then will you describe as efulefu

ImaIma1:


The hair was not growing evenly. The scalp was strong enough. I am not cutting it at one year...no more cutting

As far as the scalp is strong, the hair can be cut.

ImaIma1:


I did. I skinned her hair when she was 5months

What difference does it make?
If the scalp is still soft, why removing the hair??
Though some babies are born without hair but the only reason they allow the hair is the believe that it helps to protect the scalp......nothing superstition about it.

FKMagazine:


pls emancipate yourself from this mentality...It's a disease, that needs an immediately assistance

Are you married?