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We're very different in so many ways except in the bedroom. One day after I had finished talking to my mom, she said jokingly,"your mom call you 100times a day", a dangerous area to enter.

One thing no one's mentioning is how long you've known this girl and when did all these ex-problems started. Why has she not told you about these threats since you've been dating her? Did you just met and already decided to marry her? Did the threat started after you announced your wedding ? My friend, it might be a smart thing to take one step backward before moving forward again. I have a feeling you don't know very much about your fiancee. Dating's the time you got to know each other and I believe you're beginning to know more about her. Postponing this wedding for now is not a bad idea, not necessarily because of the threats, but because you don't know her very well to marry her. Seek some wisdom, more importantly, listen and take action and I wish you well.

I once had a someworth similar situation, a young man calling, I mean beeping me all the time even at an odd hours telling me he knew what his ex was doing with me, and how he intend to handle her. The lady was so scared and worry that I decided to spend extra 3wks in Nigeria to take care of it. I played along never in a confrontational way until I got the monster where I wanted and dealt with him my way because I felt my life and his so called ex were in danger when I was there. No one died but he will never threaten anyone in his remaining life. You obviously cannot handle it on your own and this guy knows that. Pls, your next help is your corrupt police.Involve them and do that immediately. This man had already commited a crime by illegally stoping your Fiancee and stealing her property. You have a case my friend. Talk to your friends in Nigeria and abroad,someone will take him up. You'll still have to spend some money but it will be far better than doing nothing. Good Luck

Madam Wona Marry my Yoruba Lover, you can listen to Andre's and host of other advices or keep on looking for one that will support your sick ideas of ignoring both parents. Experimenting with your sexuality with your lover boy is no love." A fly  that does not listen must surely be berried with the dead" Take whatever that is left of you and run, and tell the lover boy that such marriage will never work. When one marries, he/she marries the whole family and that's a fact. You can keep on believing that you're loved, whatever turns you on. Unless you're a "Osu", an outcast, you can still fall in love and marry an Igbo man of your choice even if you've been completely used or just felt used.Good luck

Just what you'll expect to happen in that lawless place. Drug was clearly seen in the X-Ray marchine, the POINBLANKNEWS reported and now like a bad magic, no drug seen. The man is one of those public figures that can never be trusted. The sudden death of his wife is still as cloudy and magical as his drug arest. He was never cleared of that woman's death to date.

http://www.pointblanknews.com/News/os5697.html.

You call that small number of experiences high milage in Nigeria, Oga, I don't think so. As for low milage, forget it if she's in her 20s, just look for well tuned up ones.

Madam BootyOnMe, you would have been interestingly funny, a good comedian except that your rains of insults on other Nairalanders has become a continuous thing without any intelligent contribution to this or any topic. People usually write the way they speak and so, you have surely shown symptoms of depression. I'm not saying that the most important measure of a person is his/her appearance of intelligence, not at all, at least you're intelligent enough to remain single, I don't believe you're married, knowing how difficult you're. But, must you continue to act like an ignorant hillbilly? Raining insults on others is not a good way of showing intelligence. I'm not saying that you're completely an idio t, but you have to be able to differentiate between what's worthy of writing for the world to read and what isn't, you can't seems to regulate your thoughts. You don't really pay attention to what you write and so all your contributions in every topic is you and that very sad. I don't think it relates to intelligence though, you just don't care what others think about your thoughts, you don't care if you anger someone. How else can one define evil? I don't think you're less intelligent than an average person here, but you're so much in pains and I believe you're also very very depressed. This is in no way meant to be an insult, just a reminder that manners is spelt with double (n), and I wish you well.

There're criminal everywhere, that's my point here but, with this kind of racist foo lishness, how can anyone fight these crimes?

http://odili.net/nhttp://www.pointblanknews.com/pbnsearch.html?

cx=013214159131999383428:iyuui_etpt8&cof=forid:11&ie=utf-8&q=rape&sa=searchews/source/2011/oct/9/803.html

What an ignorants set of people, its everywhere dummies

http://odili.net/news/source/2011/oct/9/616.html

http://odili.net/news/source/2011/oct/10/508.html

Alleged rape: Magistrate court dismisses case against Kadpoly Head of the Kaduna Polytechnic medical department
From ABDULGAFAR ALABELEWE, Kaduna

Friday, October 7, 2011

A Magistrate court in Kaduna has dismissed a case filed by one Mrs. Habibat A. Abubakar accusing her superior officer and Head of the Kaduna Polytechnic medical department, Mallam Abubakar Ya’u of raping her.

Mrs. Abubakar had dragged Ya’u to the magistrate court accusing him of forcing her into sexual relationship on 17th June 2011 in the accuse’s office at about 12am that day.

Delivering the judgment yesterday, Magistrate, Joyce Kaka said, based on advice by the Kaduna State Ministry of Justice, the plaintiff failed to established her case due to the lack of evidence from her own side.


She further averred that the case was filed 10 days after the alleged incident. “even the medical report shows that it was done ten days after though based on the medical test the woman sustained some bruises but these were not enough to establish the case and therefore the court has to dismiss the case due to the lack of merit.

Daily Sun recalled that on the 21st June 2011 Mrs. Abubakar resident at Anguwar Sunusi Kaduna reported that her boss Abubakar Ya’u allegedly raped her when she reported for duty at the Polytechnic Medical Centre.


According to her in her first report, Ya’u deceived her into his office under the pretence of giving her working materials but forcefully raped her without her consent, an offence contrary to section 283 of the panel code.

Senseless!!! How old are you poster?

I have a good reason to believe that on average, Nigerian are jealous of Igbos and Yorubas especially the Igbos. I'm not from either culture

5yrs is really a long time but, I would have prefered it the other way. I hope he goes on with the YES answer and the marriage last forever . Is  very unAfrican however, 21st century or not. I hope it doesn't happen to me cause, it squeezes out everything juicy about the whole thing. Just my humble openion but, what do I know. I wish them well

Bankole's in Abuja, well and healthy in his Ashokoro residence as of Sept. 24Th when he attended a wedding of his friends son. His case is still termed open which really doesn't mean much in Nigerian judicial system standard. I'm sorry. He's not hidding at all, his international passport which was seized was returned to him in line with the courts order. What does it all really mean? Well, your gauze is as good as mine. You can count your teeth with your tongue.

IGBO,YORUBA,IGBO,YORUBA,IGBO,YORUBA,IGBO,YORUBA,IGBO,YORUBA some people just can't contribute much except to enjoy fights here. Enough's enough, cut it

You said a man is ASKING her out, well if she's not interested, he would have stopped long ago. No man CONTINUES to ask a married woman out without a GREEN LIGHT and without any unseen signals and without thinking that he will eventually succeed. By the way, how long have you been married to this wife?

I have a se x partner or girl friend and that's just what it is, it doesn't mean you qualify for marriage. She gets it when she wants and I get it when I want. Even with that, I still consider myself as single, I hope she does too

Born and raised in that part of Nigeria,Yorubas are very predictable,its just a tribal thing

Born and raised in that part of Nigeria,Yorubas are very predictable,its just a tribal thing

You might be able to sell your fake story to one of those movie producers, people love se x stories. I have problems believing your story sir, I'm sorry. Good luck

How long have you been married? You probably have bigger problems than you think. It sound like what one will do if there's no trust, which is really a very important glue that holds any relationship together

You said the dialogue with this lover boy graduated from PG to x,doesn't sound like a woman who's not interested, and as a pretender, I mean a reserved personality that he might have misread your intentions. What a joke

Imperiouxx, I think you allow your brain to continue its magic on you. It might be better for everyone if you'll just move on.

Maybe you should read it again, this time very slowly.

I will be visiting Abuja on business and will be needing a female friend just to talk to beside family. Just a friend for my Two months stay in Abuja and Lagos. Let me know if you're interested and we'll find a way of exchanging contacts.

I will need a female friend in Abuja when I arrive next month, October. I just need a friend I can talk to besides family. I'll be in Abuja and Lagos for two months. If you're interested, let me know pls. No insults or negative comments